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16/08/2024

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK – A Genius’s Approach to Learning
Welcome back! Last week’s Thought was “How Perspective Changes Everything” when we explored the importance of perspective in our interactions, understanding that differing viewpoints can coexist and enrich our conversations. If you missed it, you can catch up here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1gz

What did you notice about perspectives in the conversations going on around you this week? How did your own perspective change?
This week, I want to delve into something equally important: how we learn and how our unique learning styles shape our perceptions and perspectives.

Benjamin Franklin was polymath learner: a leading writer, scientist, inventor, statesman, diplomat, printer, publisher and political philosopher who altered the course of American history.

In our fast-paced world, it’s easy to assume that everyone processes information and learns in the same way we do. However, the truth is that we all have unique learning styles that shape how we perceive the world and communicate with others. Recognising these differences is crucial to building stronger, more empathetic connections.

Some of us are visual learners, relying on images and diagrams to make sense of information. Others might be auditory learners, needing to hear concepts explained to truly understand them.

There are also kinaesthetic learners, who need to engage in hands-on activities to grasp new ideas fully. Some people grasp concepts better through reading, while others need to hear information to absorb it fully. These differences in learning styles aren’t just about preference; they profoundly influence how we see the world.

These differences in learning styles are not just academic - they influence how we interpret and interact with the world. A visual learner might focus on the body language of a speaker, while an auditory learner might be more attuned to the tone of voice. Each learning style offers a different lens through which we perceive our experiences.

This diversity in perception is what makes human interaction so rich and complex. It also means that misunderstandings can occur when we forget that others might see things differently based on their learning preferences.

By embracing the variety of learning styles, we can enhance our communication and deepen our relationships. When we take the time to understand how others learn and perceive the world, we move closer to a place of mutual respect and empathy.

Consider this: if you’re someone who learns best through visual cues, your perception of a situation might be deeply influenced by what you see.

Meanwhile, someone who learns through auditory means might focus on what they hear, leading to a completely different interpretation of the same event.

There are 7 general learning styles in all: Visual, Auditory, Kinaesthetic, Theorist, Pragmatist, Reflector and Activist. Read on here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1he

So, this week, I encourage you to consider the learning styles of those around you. Whether at work, at home, or in your community, pay attention to how others absorb and process information. By doing so, you’ll not only enhance your communication but also deepen your connections.

Let’s look at an example: Take Benjamin Franklin, for example, who was a pragmatic and kinaesthetic learner who thrived on practical, hands-on experience and learning by doing. He also demonstrated strong theorist traits, focusing on the underlying principles of problems and developing systematic approaches to improvement. His wide-ranging achievements suggest that he integrated various learning styles, making him a highly adaptive and versatile learner.

"Tell me and I forget, teach me and I may remember, involve me and I learn." -Benjamin Franklin-

Thank you for being part of this journey of exploration and growth. I look forward to hearing your thoughts on this topic!

With warmest wishes, Korinne
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09/08/2024

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK - How Perspective Changes Everything
Welcome back and I hope this email finds you well and thriving. Last week’s Thought was “Connecting Cultures and Decades” and how, by actively listening, seeking diverse perspectives, and practicing cultural sensitivity, we can build bridges of empathy that transcend cultural and generational divides. If you missed it, catch up here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1fu

This week I’d like to delve deeper into a concept that is essential to both our personal growth and our ability to communicate effectively - perspective.

I shared before how I was a Duty Manager in the lost baggage department at British Airways. In my role there, I had to manage negative customer feedback all the time, some of which could be quite critical. Early in my career, I sometimes took negative feedback personally, assuming the customers were simply being difficult or unreasonable.

However, over time, I found myself empathising more with the traveller who had just lost their bag. I realised that when we show genuine understanding of their situation, clearly explain the steps we’ll take to locate their bag and ensure they have what they most need until it’s found and delivered to their home or hotel, it goes a long way in reassuring them.

By approaching their comments with an open mind and seeking to understand the underlying concerns, I was able to implement changes that not only improved our offerings but also strengthened our customer relationships. This experience taught me that what may seem like criticism is often a valuable perspective that can drive positive change.

In our fast-paced world, it’s easy to fall into the trap of believing that our way of seeing things is the only way. Read on here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1gz

This week, I invite you to consider this and embrace the wonder of perspective in your interactions. Next time you find yourself in a disagreement or facing a differing opinion, pause and consider the possibility that both sides could be right. By doing so, you’ll not only improve your communication but also deepen your understanding of the world around you.

"We can complain because rose bushes have thorns or rejoice because thorns have roses"
-Alphonse Karr-

Thank you for taking the time to read this. I look forward to hearing your thoughts on this topic.
With warmest wishes, Korinne

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26/07/2024

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK - Conversations Across Time
Welcome back and I hope you are well and thriving. Last week’s Thought was “Digital Proximity” about how in an era where distance seems irrelevant and borders become blurred, video calls emerge as our modern-day magic carpets, transporting us instantly to the presence of our loved ones, colleagues, or with friends who are oceans apart. If you missed it, you can catch up here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1de

I thought it might be fun if this week, we take a leap further and imagine if we had a time machine! How would our conversations evolve if we could traverse not just space but also time?

Imagine the power of combining the immediacy of video calls with the boundless possibilities of time travel. What if, with a simple dial, we could connect with figures from the past or glimpse into the future? Who would we choose to meet, and what wisdom would we seek?

Conversing with the Past
If given the chance to visit the past, we might seek out great minds and pivotal moments that shaped our world. Imagine a video call with Leonardo da Vinci, exploring his sketches and inventions, witnessing the birth of the Renaissance. We could learn directly from Socrates, delving into the foundations of philosophy, or sit in on the signing of the Magna Carta, understanding the early principles that laid the groundwork for modern legal systems.

These conversations wouldn't just be about historical curiosity - they would provide us with profound insights into how these thinkers approached problems, their creative processes, and their visions for the future. Such dialogues could inspire us to tackle contemporary challenges with renewed perspective and ingenuity.

Glimpsing the Future
Conversely, what if we could peer into the future? Imagine calling a descendant five generations ahead. What advancements and societal shifts would they describe? What environmental, technological, or social innovations would they consider commonplace that are mere dreams today?

These future conversations could guide our present actions. They could highlight the long-term impact of our current choices, urging us to prioritise sustainability, equity, and innovation. Knowing the possible outcomes of our decisions could motivate us to act more responsibly and ambitiously.

Bridging Time and Space
Combining digital proximity with time travel creates a bridge not only across distances but also through the ages. It underscores a universal truth:

The human desire to connect, learn, and grow transcends time.

Whether we're sharing a moment with a friend across the globe or gaining wisdom from a historical figure, these connections enrich our lives and broaden our horizons.

As we continue to leverage technology to bring us closer together, let's also embrace the imaginative possibilities it offers. While time machines remain a fantasy, our capacity to dream and learn from both the past and the future is boundless. In every call, every connection, and every conversation, we build a tapestry of shared human experience that spans both time and space.

Final Thoughts
This week, as you engage in your video calls, take a moment to reflect on the incredible era we live in. Consider the conversations you would have if you could dial through time. How would these exchanges shape your perspective and actions today? Embrace the magic of our digital age and let it inspire you to connect more deeply, think more broadly, and act more thoughtfully.

"To know the past is to know the present. To know the present is to know yourself" - Ibram X. Kendi – [American author, professor included in Time's 100 Most Influential People of 2020].

Have a great week, and let's continue to build those bridges of empathy and connection!
With warmest wishes, Korinne - Thrive Coaching & Training
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19/07/2024

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK - Digital Proximity

Welcome back and I hope you are well and thriving. Last week’s Thought was “The Unspoken Connection” and how, despite the rise of digital messaging and video calls, the phone remains a vital tool for communication due to its unique ability to convey tone, emotion, and nuance through voice alone. If you missed it, you can catch up here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1cJ

So, how about communicating on video calls and how they redefine our connections in the digital age?

In an era where distance seems irrelevant and borders become blurred, video calls emerge as our modern-day magic carpets, transporting us instantly to the presence of our loved ones, colleagues, or with friends who are oceans apart. The grainy snapshots of yesterday's video chats have given way to crystal-clear, high-definition windows into each other's worlds.

Beyond mere convenience, these virtual encounters allow us to witness emotions unfold in real-time - the joy of a shared joke, the empathy of a comforting glance, or the excitement of a milestone achieved. Through this visual medium, technology not only bridges physical gaps but also enriches our understanding and deepens our bonds.

Yet, amidst the marvel of technological progress, let us not forget the essence of connection itself. It is in the fleeting expressions, the subtle shifts in tone, and the unspoken pauses where true connection often resides. As we embrace the wonders of video calls, let us also cherish the human nuances they bring forth - moments that transcend screens and remind us of our shared humanity.

In this evolving landscape of communication, let's celebrate the magic of video calls not just for their innovation, but for their capacity to bring us closer, across distances both near and far.

So, let’s explore how these virtual windows shape our relationships and redefine what it means to connect in the 21st century. Read on for 5 main tips for do’s and don'ts of connection on video calls here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1de

As Bill Gates himself said: "The Internet is becoming the Town Square for the global village of tomorrow."

Have a great week, and let's continue to build those bridges of empathy and connection across technology!

With warmest wishes,
Korinne - Thrive Coaching & Training

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28/06/2024

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK – The Inbox Tango Between Noise and Silence ...
Welcome back and I hope this message finds you flourishing! Last week’s Thought was “The Strength of Silence” and about how this gives us space to think, process what we've heard, consider our responses, and connect more meaningfully with others. If you missed it, you can catch up here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1aB

Today, let’s turn our attention to another kind of silence that’s becoming more noticeable – the silence of unanswered emails amidst the buzz of our inboxes.

In our fast-paced digital world, it can be disheartening to send out emails and not receive a response. It feels like our messages are disappearing into a void, leaving us wondering if our words were ever read. So, let’s reframe this silence and see it as an opportunity for growth and deeper understanding for both senders and receivers.

RECEIVERS: If you find that you sometimes miss replying to emails, what system do you have in place for managing your responses? A quick acknowledgment like “I’ve received your email and will get back to you shortly” can make a big difference, fostering better communication and respect.

If you plan to reply, be sure to follow through. If the email isn’t relevant to you, forward it to the appropriate person and let the original sender know by copying them on the forwarded email.
SENDERS: For tips and insights, read on here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1bo

As renowned Business Strategist, Speaker and Author David Newman said: "Email has an ability many channels d n't: creating valuable, personal touches – at scale."

Wishing you a week filled with thoughtful reflections and great conversations!

With warmest wishes,
Korinne - Thrive Coaching & Training
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21/06/2024

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK – The Strength of Silence
Welcome back and I hope you are going strong this week! Last week’s Thought was about mastering interruptions with grace and how handling interruptions while staying authentic is a delicate balance. If you missed it, you can catch up here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1a4

How often do we experience silence during the course of our day?

In our noisy world, silence can feel uncomfortable or even awkward. We often rush to fill gaps in conversation, fearing the quiet moments. However, embracing silence can enhance our communication, allowing us to listen more deeply, reflect thoughtfully, and respond authentically.

I remember hearing as a child; “silence is a virtue” and always associated that with “being seen and not heard”! Perhaps that is one reason why so many of us are uncomfortable with silence?

We also heard, “silence is golden”.

As adults, silence is often overlooked and actually serves as a powerful counterbalance to the constant barrage of words and interruptions. It gives us space to process what we've heard, consider our responses, and connect more meaningfully with others. In addition, it can be a profound tool in our interactions, helping us to stay true to ourselves and foster deeper connections.

Personally, I see silence as a gift. A gift we can give to ourselves and others.

In the blog this week, we will explore three key ways to embrace silence in communication in our daily lives. You can read on here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1aB

It’s all about embracing the balance. Integrating silence into our communication requires practice and mindfulness.

It involves recognising the value of quiet moments and trusting that they enrich our interactions. By embracing silence, we can stay true to ourselves, enhance our listening skills, and build more meaningful connections.

Remember that silence is not an absence but a presence. It is a space where we have time to think, understand and when connection can flourish.

“Silence is a source of great strength "-Lao Tzu-

Wishing you a week filled with mindful pauses and deeper connections.
With warmest wishes,
Korinne - Thrive Coaching & Training

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14/06/2024

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK – Mastering Interruptions with Grace
Welcome back and I hope you are thriving! Last week’s Thought was about finding our authentic voice, being true to ourselves and our values so we connect more deeply with others and pave the way for greater success and fulfilment. If you missed it, you can catch up here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-19f

This week let's tackle a common conundrum: handling interruptions while staying true to ourselves and fostering meaningful connections.

In our fast-paced world, interruptions are inevitable. Whether in a meeting, during a conversation with a loved one, or while working on an important project, these disruptions can test our patience and focus. However, managing interruptions gracefully is crucial to maintaining our authenticity and building strong relationships.

Navigating interruptions is challenging. It requires balancing the need to assert ourselves with the desire to be respectful and empathetic.

Interruptions can make us feel unheard or devalued, leading to frustration and a loss of connection. Yet, they also offer opportunities to practice patience, reinforce our boundaries, and deepen our understanding of others.

In this week’s blog, I share three Powerful Tips to Handle Interruptions Authentically. Read on here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1a4

Remember, each interruption is an opportunity to practice patience, empathy, and assertiveness. As you apply these tips, notice how your interactions become more respectful and connected.

As Nelson Mandela once said: “Graceful handling of interruptions is a sign of a composed and confident mind."

Wishing you a week filled with mindful conversations and meaningful connections.

With warmest wishes,
Korinne - Thrive Coaching & Training

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08/06/2024

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK – FINDING OUR AUTHENTIC VOICE
Welcome back and I hope you are feeling refreshed and inspired. I have had an action-packed week as I move things forward in my business which is very exciting! Last week’s Thought was all about the importance of embracing change for personal and professional growth. If you missed it, you can catch up here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-18W

This week, I’d like to dive deeper into a related challenge many of us face: finding and using our authentic voice.

In today's world, we have an array of communication tools at our disposal. From emails and social media to video conferencing and instant messaging, the ways we can connect and share our thoughts are virtually limitless. Yet, despite these tools, many of us struggle to find our authentic voice. We feel held back, unable to express ourselves genuinely and stand out in our personal and professional lives.

Finding your authentic voice isn't just about speaking up; it’s about being true to yourself and your values. It’s about expressing your thoughts, ideas, and emotions in a way that resonates with who you are at your core. When we communicate authentically, we not only connect more deeply with others but also pave the way for greater success and fulfilment.

As I mentioned last week, I have a new programme starting on 01 Oct to help with this. It's called "The Connection Catalyst" and I will share more on this soon.

In the blog this week, I share a few steps to help you find and nurture your authentic voice. Read on here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-19f

In Nelson Mandela’s own words: "As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same."

By finding and using our authentic voices, we can thrive not only in our careers but also in our personal lives. And another thing, it becomes so much easier when we can do that! Book a Discovery Call with me here: https://shorturl.at/TQXER

Let’s embrace this journey of self-discovery and communication. Together, we can create a more genuine and impactful connection with the world around us.
With warmest wishes,
Korinne
Thrive Coaching & Training – Empowering you to Thrive!
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25/05/2024

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK - The Magic of New Beginings!
Welcome back and I hope you are feeling a ‘spring in your step’! Last week’s Thought was “Building Bonds in a Tech-Driven World” about why we have to ensure that our digital interactions are as meaningful and impactful as face-to-face conversations.

If you missed it, you can catch up on the blog here: https://shorturl.at/okA52

Well, this week, I have been catching up on some conversations with people I haven’t spoken to for a while. Because I was working on 3-year contract four days a week until the end of April, I was working on my own business for just one day a week, often on Saturday mornings too for client coaching sessions.

So, you have heard from me via these Thoughts for the Week and my aim is for these to give you added value. I just want to take the opportunity to say a big thank you to those of you who have connected with me to let me know that you are enjoying them, I truly appreciate it.

I enjoy writing (as you have probably gathered)! And you will know that I have been writing my first book as I have shared this in previous emails and my blog.

I am delighted to announce that, after months of dedication and hard work, I am working on the final stages of publishing and will be sharing more details soon, including how you can get your copy of “Beyond Words.” I am incredibly excited about this journey and can’t wait to hear your thoughts and feedback.

Writing “Beyond Words” has been an incredible journey. I have drawn upon personal experiences, extensive research, and the insights of communication experts to create a comprehensive guide that I hope will help you enhance your interactions and relationships.

Thank you for your support and encouragement throughout this process. It means the world to me.

What’s Next?

As I review my strategy, I have been doing a lot of thinking about the direction of Thrive Coaching & Training. As you know, I work with driven professionals and entrepreneurs who want greater impact and success by mastering their leadership and communication skills.

While they are often doing well, they know they are not yet enjoying the results and success they want and deserve. I have been working in this field for 30 years now and am passionate about helping people achieve transformations to realise their vision and dreams.

Companies: I provide consultancy in the first instance because I want to understand the business you are in and then make recommendations. I commit to only recommending what I believe is the best option for you to achieve growth and success and that may or may not be with me!

Individuals: I start by inviting you to book a complimentary session with me for two reasons (1) to help you clarify what it is you want from your life, work etc., and (2) to help me step into your shoes and see how it is through your eyes.

Why? Because your success is my success and I genuinely want the best possible outcome for you.

As Dr Stephen Covey famously said: “Begin with the end in mind”.

And this is a new beginning for me with exciting adventures unravelling ahead!

I will continue with my blog, letting you know each time there is a new post.

As I mentioned last week, I am also launching my new 6-week Group Programme called “Connection Catalyst” and the launch date for that will be Tuesday 1st October. I will of course let you know more details on this

“The magic in new beginnings is truly the most powerful of them all.”

-Josiyah Martin-

Wishing you a wonderful week filled with new beginnings that take you closer to your dreams!

With warmest wishes,
Korinne
Thrive Coaching & Training
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03/05/2024

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK – The Here and Now is Everything!
Welcome back! Last week’s Thought was; “Self-Talk Dynamics” about the profound impact of our internal dialogue and the conversations we have with ourselves. If you missed it, you can catch up on the blog here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-16Z

Following our recent discussions on communication and personal empowerment, I wanted to share some additional insights on reinforcing feelings of self-worth and confidence in your daily routine.

Is Mindfulness something that you practice on a daily basis? This has changed my life in a profound and lasting way and it can for you too.

When I talk about mindfulness, people’s favourite exercise is always the “Chocolate mediation”! (See link in my blog so you can try it out at home –have some chocolate!)

Staying present in the moment and observing your thoughts without judgment gives us greater focus, clarity and intention. In turn, this fosters healthier and more empowering interactions with others.

And, it’s so important to remember to celebrate your achievements, no matter how small! And to seek support when needed. You're not alone on your journey, and reaching out to trusted friends, family members, or professionals can provide invaluable support and encouragement.

In this week’s blog, I share some great Mindfulness tips and, even if you are already aware of it, there may be one more golden nugget in there that really helps! Read the full blog post here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-178

Here's to nurturing a dialogue of self-love, resilience, and growth. If I can help you with a Complimentary Clarity Session, please book a time that suits you here: https://shorturl.at/ajAS4

If you’re familiar with Eckhart Tolle, you may remember that he said: "Realize deeply that the present moment is all you ever have."
Thank you for taking the time to read this and stay tuned for more tips and insights on communication strategies and personal development!
With warmest wishes,
Korinne
Thrive Coaching & Training – Empowering you to Thrive!
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26/04/2024

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK – Self-Talk Dynamics
Welcome back and I hope you have had a great week. Last week’s Thought was; “Elevating Emotional Intelligence” when we delved into the importance of elevating emotional intelligence to navigate life's challenges with grace and integrity. If you missed it, you can catch up on the blog here: https://shorturl.at/dzR35

This week, I'd like to continue our journey of self-discovery by exploring the profound impact of our internal dialogue – the conversations we have with ourselves. And yet many of us ignore these.

In life's moments of turmoil and triumph, our inner voice becomes our most steadfast companion. Yet, how often do we pause to consider the tone and content of this dialogue? Our thoughts shape our reality, influencing our emotions, actions, and ultimately, our destiny.

In my latest blog post, I share seven invaluable tips to ensure that our internal dialogue reflects our best selves. These strategies are designed to empower you to cultivate a more compassionate, constructive, and empowering relationship with yourself.

Join me as we explore the transformative power of self-communication and discover how to harness it for personal growth and fulfilment. Let's embark on this journey together, embracing each challenge as an opportunity to shine brighter and emerge as the best version of ourselves.

Read the full blog post here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-16Z

As Brené Brown wisely said: “Talk to yourself like you would to someone you love” and another quote: “Be kind to yourself. We are often our own worst critic, and it's time to start being our own best friend” (Unknown)

Here's to nurturing a dialogue of self-love, self-belief, resilience, and growth.
With warmest wishes, Korinne
Thrive Coaching & Training – Empowering you to Thrive!
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