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07/01/2026

I’m not really about reinvention and setting goals that are ultimately just based on hating the current version of myself, but I DO love this time of year for noticing patterns that I’ve noticed playing out and thinking about how to gently start shifting them.

And I think we deserve better and more than a set of harsh rules or goals that suggest our current self isn’t good enough - but we DO deserve to make changes when certain things aren’t working for us anymore… just with self-compassion and a softness to it.

I hope 2026 is a year in which we can keep being even truer and more connected ourselves.

What’s In or Out for you this year?

11/11/2025

I wasted probably years of my life feeling guilty ALL the time. You, too?

But guilt isn’t actually supposed to be a constant companion.

So when the guilt pops up, l’ve been asking myself:

What have I actually done ‘wrong’?
Am I doing something objectively bad?
Or is it just that I’m doing something different, something unfamiliar?
Something I’ve been conditioned my whole life not to?

And slowly, I’m teaching my system that it’s okay. And that it’s SO worth it.

What did you last feel guilty for?

And if this feels familiar, come follow along - we’ll keep unlearning together 💛

04/11/2025

It’s wild how easily martyrdom can sneak in, but also not surprising because it’s SO societally normalised.

But every time I choose myself a little, I’m showing my son that joy, rest, and honesty are allowed.

And actually not just allowed and tolerated, but actively welcomed in our home.

I’ve been struck by how much he notices - me wearing different clothes, my energy shifting… he sees it, his nervous system feels it…

So if you needed this reminder, let me be extra clear:

Your well-being isn’t a luxury, it’s the foundation 💛

28/10/2025

You know that moment where you say yes - and instantly regret it? It didn’t feel like you had a choice, but now it’s worse - because you definitely can’t take it back 😩

But the way your stomach just dropped and the frustration you feel? Your body’s trying to tell you something.

It’s not that this is just who you are - someone who’s just bad at boundaries, destined to be a people-pleaser.

You’re just carrying this old story that says it’s safer to be agreeable than honest.

So all we need to do, is start teaching your body a new kind of safety:

Every time you take even just a tiny pause before saying yes, every time you take a breath to check-in with yourself - you’re starting to show your body that you care about what it’s craving.

If you’re ready to start listening to yourself, comment ‘Soft No’ below and I’ll send you the perfect starting point: my free audio guide & workbook 💛

25/10/2025

I used to take it VERY personally if people cancelled or didn’t show up. It felt like proof that I didn’t matter, that they weren’t considerate of me.

These days, I can give more grace but also (or because of this) hold boundaries when I need to… I feel a lot lighter for it 🙌🏻

If this is sounding familiar and you’d love a gentle starting point: my free audio guide is the perfect place! Comment SOFT NO and I’ll send it right over 😘

23/10/2025

Gah, the cringe! 🥴

I used to bend over backwards to be easy and accommodating, but these days I lean more towards what feels good - more peaceful, more joyful - for us.

And that doesn’t mean never compromising or accommodating others - not at all! In fact, I still LOVE looking after others.

I just don’t believe in perpetually sacrificing what we need for the comfort of everyone else anymore.

If that’s the season you’re stepping into, too - Welcome! I think you’re my kind of person 💛

22/10/2025

See how I had no choice? 🙈

Looking back, it’s easy to connect the dots and see how each season was slowly teaching me to choose myself. And how every chapter led me here.

What’s been pushing you to grow lately? I’d LOVE to hear👇🏻

21/10/2025

Perfection isn’t the break, I’m starting to realise that it’s the awareness that is - as long as we also choose to act on it.

Sending so much love to anyone on this journey!

And if there’s someone in your life who’s doing this work and not celebrating themselves enough - share this post to remind them of how powerful they are 💛

19/10/2025

I’m still SO excited to be part of The Village - gathered 28 experts and put together this bundle of incredible gifts.

So here’s a little sneak peak of my gift, and it sits alongside other incredible support for your body, mind, relationships, and success - that’s over $1500 worth of gifts yours for free! ✨

But there are only a few more days (until 21st October) for you to sign up, so do it now while you remember ☺️

I can’t wait to hear what you think!

Comment ‘VILLAGE’ and I’ll send the sign-up link right over 💛

16/10/2025

Let’s break the pattern 👇🏻

You’re not crumbling because you’re weak - you’re crumbling because your nervous system never learned that disagreement, pushback, tension can be safe.

You didn’t learn to trust yourself, to ground yourself - so when the doubt and the guilt kick in, you step back into safety.

Well, what if you could learn that safety slowly, gently, sustainably?

Comment SOFT NO for my free guide to learning to set boundaries without overwhelm and panic spirals 💛

14/10/2025

The hardest part of being a parent for me?

Undoubtedly exactly this.

I know how it feels to wake up with your own anxious pit in the stomach when you’re supposed to be helping your child with theirs.

When we spent a lifetime learning that we’re only safe, loved and accepted when we’re being non-confrontational and easygoing, OF COURSE our body associates speaking up with danger. It actually feels like a threat to our survival.

And I’m so proud of myself for learning to do it anyway, but I won’t lie - in some moments it still feels hard. Exhausting.

But l’m committed to doing it. Every time I do, I’m rewiring those patterns - a little more each time.

If this feels familiar, come follow along - we’ll keep unlearning together 💛

01/09/2025

Well… it’s not been the most productive or fun summer in some ways (if I could have written my ideal summer, there’s definitely some things I’d have skipped or added 😅), but in some ways it‘s also been EXACTLY what I needed.

This summer, I really managed to focus in on ME. Not above anyone else, just consistently putting what I needed and wanted on the table alongside everything and everyone else.

I stayed more present through some of the rough bits - feeling my feelings and listening for the messages in them instead of frantically trying to fix or numb, which has definitely been my pattern in the past.

And I‘ve trusted myself to really go for what matters to me.

That‘s looked like 👇🏻

✨ Major decluttering, organising and creating space at home
✨ Pretty impulsively starting a big gardening project (thanks for all your help, mum!)
✨ Having a well-considered balance of sociability time seeing friends but also time to ourselves to reset
✨ Finding ways to work despite having no childcare, which means I‘m really excited about some upcoming events and projects 🙌🏻

… and so actually, I‘m going into the autumn feeling like I DID choose me this summer, exactly as I intended.

I‘d love to know, what did your summer teach you? What do you want to take into autumn, or what are you ready to leave behind? 🍂

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