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The Advocates - MarryYoungMarryRightMarryGodly.
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18/02/2024

The society can be better if ‘Families’ are doing well. The family is the nucleus of the society.

Fix the family; fix the society.

Happy Sunday. How was service?

10/02/2024

Sing along and aloud.

You are blessed no matter your present.

A Living dog is better than a dead lion.

08/02/2024

I gained 19 followers, created 72 posts and received 1,912 reactions in the past 90 days! Thank you all for your continued support. I could not have done it without you. 🙏🤗🎉

08/02/2024

Lessons from a private chat

31/01/2024

Is Jealousy good in a relationship?

Yes and No.

Yes.
When the jealousy is a healthy one. That is, desiring attention, loyalty, faithfulness, respect, love, kindness and care from your spouse. Protecting your spouse from undue distractions. Guarding your own with all your good intentions and emotions. Supporting and understanding each other’s boundaries and emotions.

No.
When the ‘jealousy’ has crossed the very thin line of goodwill and becomes a venom of negative emotions. When it has turned to suspicion and unprovoked false accusations. When it becomes an obsession that respects no personal boundaries of existence. When the aura becomes like a cancerous growth of tension. When it seeks to uproot tour spouse from a normal positive relationship of human socialisation and barricades the other from healthy human interaction.

God himself postulated this clearly in the scriptures in Exodus, when he warned the Children of Israel against having other gods, hence he presented himself as a jealous God. And we can see how he protected his own from the plots and plans of the their enemies.

So jealousy should make you protect and support your own not to wage war against them by suspicion.

Healthy Jealousy is Good for every Relationship
However, Unhealthy one (Suspicion) is cancerous.

There is a very thin line between the two. Watch it, else you cross to the negative.

Selah.

30/01/2024

It is NORMAL, ‘not to be normal’.

Now read that again, process it and allow it to settle.

27/01/2024

So I cooked rice for Unyime Ekpenyong, and this happened….

Unyime: Thanks Honey.

Me: You are welcome.

Unyime: But babe wait o, why is the rice burnt?

Me: Enjoy it because even God accepts and enjoys ‘burnt offerings’

Unyime: ………(Big silence, looking at me with bombastic side eyes 👀)

Me: …. (Silently praising God for the gift of wisdom….)

Am I wrong?

21/01/2024

Sister, if your husband knows how to iron those your funny-styled’ dresses, and always do, hmmm you don’t know what God has done for you o. Unyime Ekpenyong please give me my flowers 🌺 ooo

12/01/2024

The True Character of a Man is made manifest when he has 💰 MONEY & POWER 💪 , while that of a Woman is revealed when she has MONEY 💰 and FREEDOM💃.

Common denominator: MONEY.

12/01/2024

The True Character of a Man is made manifest when he has 💰 MONEY & POWER 💪 , while that of a Woman is revealed when she has MONEY 💰 and FREEDOM💃.

Common denominator: MONEY.

11/01/2024

My Little Angel is just so grown into a pretty little girl already.

And QueenMother is doing a terrific job with her hair and all round grooming.

Growth: Result speaking for the massive work behind the scenes.

Parenting is demanding yet rewarding. Put in the work and be proud of the progress.

Proud Daddy of a Beautiful and Intelligent Genius.

The African Girl.

04/01/2024

NOT FOR ALL

…Perfect Love casts away fear.

…and they were both naked, and were not ashamed.

Nakedness is more than just physical. It means being open, raw, blunt, proudly free, sincere and transparent.

The fear of being seen as a ‘bad girl’ or ‘bad boy’ when it comes to ‘s*xual expressions’ by your partner has brought secrecy, pretence, and ‘hollier-than-thou disposition’ in so many marriages. And because of these, many marriages have hit the rock and gone sour.

Why on earth are you being ‘modest’ with your spouse when it comes to s*xual dealings. Who are you trying to impress?

You are supposed to be blunt and raw. Say and do the things you like. Explore and practice all you know. Stop the pretence already. You are legally, morally, scripturally, societally, culturally and spiritually licensed to ‘go and explore and do exploit’ without fear.

And if you are the one who is lurking and waiting to profile your spouse as ‘bad girl or bad boy’ or saying ‘s/he is spoilt’, when it comes to matters of ‘za oza room’, then you are the one with a problem that needs urgent deliverance and repairs.

Selah

02/01/2024

Happy new year from us to you and yours.

Mr.JerryEbong & Mrs.UnyimeJerry
With Princess 👸 Michelle and Princess 👸 Vivian
The Advocates
MarryYoungMarryRightMarryGodly

01/01/2024

Be thankful

30/12/2023

Driving or riding ….

30/12/2023

Captain 👩‍✈️ Vee with Senior First Officer 👩‍✈️

25/12/2023

Merry Christmas and happy new year from us to you and yours

25/12/2023

Merry Christmas and a happy new year

24/12/2023

Merry Christmas 🎄 🎅

Go for the Revelation not just the Tradition

23/12/2023

Read those lovely words again

17/12/2023

A Hug is underrated.

If only you know the POTENCY of a warm hug from a truly caring heart. Then you'll know that you truly need more than you think. But first, give more hugs from a sincerely loving heart.

It is therapeutically medicinal. It is Spirituality impartational. It is Physically transformational.

The world needs all the hugs It can get to heal herself from the many hurts.

Dare to give a hug as much as you can. It heals the spirit, mind and body.

17/12/2023

S*x during Fasting in marriage.

1. Fasting is not for God, it is for you. You fast to get your body ‘light’ enough to focus on prayers and studying the word of God ‘for yourself’. God doesn’t need your fasting for him to answer your prayers or bless you. He only needs you to ask him. So you fast so you can concentrate on asking God for more pressing things than getting bothered about food.

2. ‘Food fast’ is not the only fasting. You can do a food fast, phone fast, social media fast, work fast, etc. What you do during the fast is more important than just the starvation.

3. Fasting doesn’t remove your responsibilities as a married person or as a parent. Fasting will not exonerate you from providing for your family as a man. It won’t stop you from paying your rent. Won’t ‘free’ you from paying the kids’ school fees. You can’t say that nobody should disturb you with demands to do your responsibilities just because you are fasting and wanna focus on God. As a mother, even if you are doing a food fast, you can’t say that you won’t cook for your children because you don’t wanna be tempted by food.

4. Now the question is ‘what about s*x during fast’? Just like I stated above, s*x in marriage is a responsibility that you must carry out. The scripture says that the husband should render to the wife due benevolence, likewise the wife. It means you must, as a matter of responsibility never deny your spouse that conjugal right/benefit, not under the cloak of anything, not even ‘fasting’. The only provision for abstinence is ‘… it must be by the consent of your partner’. And even God knew and advised that it should be for a short period of time, ‘… and you must return, lest the devil tempts you’.

5. If your spouse doesn’t consent to your request to deny him/her s*x because you wanna fast, then it is respected and approved in heaven. If you proceed to deny your spouse s*x because you wanna fast, then I am so sure that you are wasting your time and your fast is in vain because you are operating from a place of disobedience to the same God you wanna pray to.

6. And please note this, your spouse is not obligated in whatsoever way to grant your request of abstinence. And oh! Let me mention that if he or she says “no”, it doesn’t make your spouse a carnal or worldly person. It doesn’t mean your spouse is a devil or being used by the devil to obstruct your ‘spiritual exercise’. He/She is still filled with the Holy Ghost, even when you get a disapproval. O yes!

7. So what can you do if you wanna fast, yet you don’t have the consent of your spouse to abstain from s*x? Simple answer is, “please go ahead with your fasting and at the same time, carry out your responsibilities and duties of satisfying your spouse s*xually”. God is not against s*x. God isn’t jealous that you are having s*x during your fasting.
Disclaimer: If it is not safe, don’t do it. Your health is important. I am not advising you to have s*x when you are fasting (no strength). You can break your fast, eat, and satisfy your spouse and then carryon. Or please be sure to take some water or fruits to have the ‘wherewithal’ for the journey ahead, because it is far and the harvest is great. Wisdom is profitable to direct.

Don’t be holier than the one who has called you unto holiness.

In conclusion:
Having s*x during fasting will not stop God from answering your prayers.

If you must abstain from s*x for the purpose of fasting, then it MUST be with consent from your spouse, and it has to be for a short period of time, according to the scripture in 1st Corinthians 7 vs 5 ‘when you agree, for a time, to devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again; otherwise, Satan may tempt you because of your lack of self-control.’

16/12/2023

1.
The true show of gratitude and gratefulness is not measured by the kindness or support you show to that your benefactor, rather it is measured by the kindness and support you show to others who are in dire need of your help as you were before receiving the kindness you got.

2.
You can’t be saying you are grateful and appreciative of such goodness shown to you yet you can’t offer a fraction to others.

3.
You only wanna ‘pay back’ the kindness to the one you received from. If this is the case, then you are not truly grateful.

4.
If you ever wanna reciprocate or ‘payback’ the kindness we offered you, please show such kindness and ‘help’ to others around you. You are indebted to ‘humanity’ and God not necessarily to us.

5.
We can all be human and help one another. Do good to all, as much as it lies within your power.

6.
We give not because WE HAVE, but because WE HAVE TO.

7.
We give not to RECEIVE but because we RECEIVED.

8.
We give not because we expect from you in return, but because we have received and will receive from OTHERS.

9.
More of HUMANITY and less of Humans.

10.
Let our HUMANITY go round and it will come back to us.

08/12/2023

Big shout out to my newest top fans! 💎

Ruth Chinwe Njidda

02/12/2023

THE MAKING of Pinky Princess Michelle’s hair by Mummy and daddy.

Background music: Breezing by Hartley

01/12/2023

What do you think are the hindrances to young people getting married?

Let’s tackle real life issues

01/12/2023

Young Ladies of Marriageable ages are saying they can’t see ‘husbands’….

Young men of marriageable ages are saying they can’t find ‘wives’….

Me: “…No wives”, “…no husbands” , who are you guys then? Why can’t you see/find yourselves and get married?

01/12/2023

The forerunner of ‘The white Guy’ is here. But we love him anyways…. I guess ‘The girls’ are prepared…. I’m not sure about me sha

If you know, you know

01/12/2023

🎉 Facebook recognised me as a top rising creator this week!

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Merry Christmas and happy new year

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THE MAKING of Pinky Princess Michelle’s hair by Mummy and daddy.

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