YhuJay19

03/01/2026

Read this and read it good. I repeat, read this and read it very well for this 2026 o…

READ THEN YOU CAN ASK ME HOW I KNOW OR ON WHAT DO I BASE MY COUNSEL….

Focus on who loves you more than who you love.

Concentrate more on who loves you rather than who you love.

Pour more into who loves you rather than waste time, resources, energy and life on who you ‘think’ you love.

When the chips are down, who you love can disappoint you, but who loves you will stick by.

When the alternative stakes are high somewhere else, who you think you live will ‘port’ to where the grass is greener. But who loves you will always be there through thick and thin.

When uncertainty of realities stare at you like a hungry lion at a prey, who you love will question your existence but who loves you will see an opportunity to prove their love and loyalty to you.

YOU ATE FREE TO QUESTION BY POINTS HERE….

But before you do, read this…

From the account of Jesus and his 12 disciples, we know that Jesus loved John (John the ‘beloved’, the disciple whom Jesus loved, etc) - John 13:23, John 19:26, John 20:2, John 21:7&20, but when the time for His arrest came, John the very beloved vanished like a mirage and rather followed from afar. But Peter loved Jesus, and was ready to engage in ‘mortal combat’ with is ‘carnal weapon of warfare’. He didn’t mind the crowd of well armed soldiers, but was ready to fight his final battle. In split seconds, Peter had severed someone’s ear, fighting for his master who he loved. While John who was loved by Jesus became a ‘stranger’.

This singular experience caused a shift in the ‘love dynamics’ after the resurrection. You know the rest of the story… ‘And I say into thee that thou art Peter, and upon this rock I will build my church, and the gates of hell will not prevail against it. And I will give unto thee the keys of the kingdom of heaven…— Matthew 16:18-19

The leadership and key to ‘The church’ was handed over to the one who loved the owner of the church- Peter, rather than John who was loved. Not just the Churchon earth but also the keys of the kingdom of heaven.

Now ask yourself, why was John not made the head of the Church instead of Peter?

Who loves you is more dependable than who you love.

So this 2026, I pledge to go with who loves me more than who I think I love. If e reach your turn, do otherwise.

Few words are enough for the wise. I choose to be wise.

Selah.

25/12/2025

25/12/2025

We wish you and your family a very merry Christmas 🎄🎁 and a happy new year 🎆🎊

25/12/2025

Merry Christmas from the YhuJay family! 🎄
We are so grateful for everyone who has walked this journey with us throughout the year. Thank you for your love, support, and prayers. As we celebrate today, we’re reminded that Christ is the reason for the season, and we pray that His presence will be evident in your life now and always.In Jesus’ name.

Merry Christmas! 🙏✨

12/12/2025

With Meta – I just got recognised as one of their top fans! 🎉

09/12/2025

God truly has wonderful and merciful to us.

GRATITUDE….

08/12/2025

If you can THINK, then you can THANK.

Grateful hearts 💞

Meta I don’t have right to this background music.

03/12/2025

… afterall, I CAN ALWAYS APOLOGIZE.

Don’t intentionally hurt people simply because you believe you can apologize later. Too many have adopted a careless confidence in the power of “I’m sorry,” forgetting that apologies don’t erase wounds — they only acknowledge them.

When you are loose, carefree, or dismissive with people’s emotions, you gamble with things far more fragile than you imagine. Yes, many will forgive — because forgiveness is noble, mature, and healing. But forgiveness is not restoration. It does not rewind trust. It does not reset the heart. It does not automatically repair what was broken.

The truth is simple:
Some changes are silent. Some distances are invisible. Some damages are permanent — even after the apology.

So be intentional. Be kind. Handle people’s hearts with care. Don’t rely on “I’m sorry” to fix what your actions should have protected in the first place.