Elaine M Hare

24/04/2025

✨ 𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐅𝐮𝐥𝐥-𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐌𝐢𝐝𝐰𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐅𝐮𝐥𝐥-𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐅𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐨𝐦 ✨

Last year in Japan, I had the absolute privilege of meeting this inspiring woman, Lisa Foggon, face-to-face—and her story has stuck with me ever since.

She was a Midwife. Working all hours. Mum to two boys with another on the way. On paper, it looked like she was living her dream supporting other mums … but inside? She was burnt out. Physically exhausted. Constantly torn between being a good mum and being a reliable nurse.😔

And she made a bold decision most people wouldn’t dare make.

She joined the business that I am so proud to be a part of with a newborn in one arm and two toddlers at her feet - and within just over 2 years, she’d retired herself AND her husband. No more shift work. No more missing moments. No more trading time for money.

Today? They’re travelling around Australia as a family of five.
Working online, homeschooling, making memories. Living free.

She said to me:

“I knew if I didn’t change something, nothing was going to change.
I didn’t have the money. I didn’t have the time. But I had a vision.
And I was willing to get uncomfortable to create a life I couldn’t wait to wake up to.”

Honestly, she’s the embodiment of what’s possible when women back themselves.🌟

If this story lit something up inside you - even just a flicker - don’t ignore it.

I’m here to guide you. We’ve got the vehicle.

You just need the vision.

Let’s talk.😊

23/04/2025

𝐋𝐞𝐭 𝐦𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐞 𝐦𝐲𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟...

If you’re new around here—or maybe you’ve been quietly watching for a while—hello, I’m Elaine 👋

I live in the Lincolnshire countryside here in the UK with my husband Richard, our beloved horses, our cheeky dog, and my wonderful mum who I also care for.

For 40 years, I worked in law offices. It paid the bills (just), but it drained my soul. I felt stuck, unfulfilled, and like life was slipping through my fingers.😔

As a mum, I clearly remember trying to juggle my responsible role as Office Manager whilst biting back the disappointment of missing out on school collection time and various other little moments that matter the most.

Our morning routine was frantic; rushing around to get everything and everybody ready, no time to enjoy being together over a leisurely breakfast.

In more recent years, I continued to work long hours feeling burnt out, and I have first-hand experience of what it’s like to lie awake at night worrying ... about the job, about money, retirement and what the future holds etc. etc.

And as women, that feeling of purpose can often disappear as the kids move out, I've found - particularly when you’ve spent your life putting everyone else first.

BUT these days?

✨𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐞 𝐝𝐚𝐲𝐬 - 𝐈’𝐦 𝐛𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐝𝐢𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭.✨

An on.line business that gives me time, purpose, and the ability to help other women create something for themselves too.

It’s helped me rediscover my spark, and I’m here to show others that they can do the same.

So, if you’re a dog-mad, horse-hugging woman – whatever your age … working long hours, juggling all the plates, wearing ALL the hats, and quietly wondering “Is this all there is?”

You’ve arrived at the right place.🙏

I’m not here to “sell” to you. I’m here to lead.

And if you're ready to explore what else is possible, you’re welcome to take a walk with me, to find out more.

So, stick around for the stories, the real, sometimes deep, talk, and a splash of British humour, too.😁

And if you’re curious about what I actually do, just drop a “?” in the comments or message me.

𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠.

Let’s go❗

19/04/2025

17/04/2025

"There has to be more to life than this…”

That was the thought that used to run on repeat in my mind.

I was doing what I was ‘supposed’ to do. Working hard. Being responsible. Showing up for everyone else.

But inside? I was drained. I felt like I was just existing, not really living.
Forty years in an office… I don’t even remember half of it. I just remember feeling stuck. And tired. And like I’d missed the moment for something different.🥺

But it wasn’t too late.

In 2024, I left the 9-5 grind behind for good. I found a business model that actually gave me purpose, better health, more freedom—and community support I didn’t even know I needed.

It’s not just about making money online. It’s about making your life yours again.

And if you’ve ever found yourself thinking “There has to be more to life than this”... there is.

You just have to be brave enough to explore it.🌟

10/04/2025

"There has to be more to life than this…”

That was the thought that used to run on repeat in my mind.
I was doing what I was ‘supposed’ to do. Working hard. Being responsible. Showing up for everyone else.

But inside? I was drained. I felt like I was just existing, not really living.
Forty years in an office… I don’t even remember half of it. I just remember feeling stuck. And tired. And like I’d missed the moment for something different.

But it wasn’t too late.

In 2024, I left the 9-5 grind behind for good. I found a business model that actually gave me purpose, better health, more freedom—and community support I didn’t even know I needed.

It’s not just about making money online. It’s about making your life yours again.
And if you’ve ever found yourself thinking “There has to be more to life than this”... there is.

You just have to be brave enough to explore it.🌟

03/04/2025

𝗦𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗶𝘁 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝗮 𝗺𝗶𝗱𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗰𝗿𝗶𝘀𝗶𝘀....
𝗜𝘁 𝗱𝗲𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗶𝘁𝗲𝗹𝘆 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁!

Let me introduce you to the beautiful Carmen Smith – a majorly successful entrepreneur in the online business, that I am so proud to be a part of.

When Carmen got started with this venture just over 6 years ago, she was loving what she was doing – travelling around Australia and overseas teaching horsemanship. The problem was, her bank account was not enjoying the same benefits and she ended up heavily in debt.😰

She was also missing out on having choices in her life – like choosing to have a duvet day when she felt like it and she even craved creating her own veggie garden. Her heavy schedule meant she had to pack in the hours when she could because the weather was just right – but then she would have periods of 2/3 months when nobody wanted horsemanship lessons because it was too hot, too cold, too wet, too dry – you know what it’s like – and this would mean her income would dry up completely.

Her confidence was at rock bottom; she’d been turned down for a part time job shelf stacking at a local supermarket – not just once … but THREE times. So her attempt to resolve her financial problems that way – long winded as it would have been, failed and left her feeling stuck.

Luckily, she happened to see a Facebook post by a stranger who was earning a 5 figure income online. Not being greedy, Carmen reached out asking for information so she could earn an extra $500 per month to help reduce her debt.

When she watched the information through a webinar, she was sceptical to start with – like most of us are. She thought it must be too good to be true – so she kept watching more, learning more and saw others were creating the success she wanted, to live the life she was searching for.

Within 12 months of getting started, she made her first $100k and within 5 years she had purchased her dream property with 96 acres of land with a stream running through the middle of it – bliss!

Carmen is a shining example of how determination and consistency will lead you to success. She has now reached generational income – which means that she will receive a monthly bonus for the rest of her life, whether she continues to work in her business or not. AND the next generation of her family will also receive that bonus every month for their lives too. So, she has set up two generations of her family, simply by joining this business – how amazing is that!

And Carmen’s unique journey leading her to success in this business with NO previous experience or technical knowhow, is just one of so many success stories. This new way of working, where you can truly grow as a person whilst helping others to do the same, is open to everyone. It’s a simple system … all you need to do is to follow the step-by-step pathway that has been laid out for you.

Keen to know more? DM now or comment PATHWAY below and I’ll get back to you.🌟

26/03/2025

Have you actually done the maths on your retirement?

From next week, the UK state pension will rise to £230.25 per week.
That’s £997.75 per month or £11,973 per year.

Be honest—could you live on that?

Could you afford the rising cost of food, bills, heating? Could you still enjoy your horses, your dogs, your life? Or would you be watching every penny, hoping it stretches far enough?

Retirement is supposed to be freedom. More time to enjoy life, not more time spent worrying about money.

So here’s the big question… What’s your plan?

• How much do you actually need to live the way you want?
• How long have you got left to build it?
• Are you leaving it in the hands of the government—or are you taking control?

Because if you don’t have a plan, the government’s plan for you is £997.75 a month.

If that doesn’t sit right with you, maybe it’s time to rethink your options.

That’s exactly why I started my online business—so my future isn’t dictated by a pension that barely covers the basics. I wanted freedom. Options. Choice.

And the best part? You can build it before you retire.

If you’re even slightly curious about how to set yourself up for a more secure (and enjoyable!) retirement, come and join our community of women who are doing exactly that. The future is what we make it.

Here’s where to start: Just message me NOW!

23/03/2025

𝙏𝙞𝙧𝙚𝙙 𝙤𝙛 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙙𝙚𝙧 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙣𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜? 𝙍𝙚𝙖𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨.

Back in the day, I believed that working harder = making more money.

Today, I know better.

Listen ladies, you don’t need another job to make ends meet—you simply need a smarter way to make an income. Because, lets face it, if you’re not in control of your income, you’re not in control of your time either.🕰

I found that smarter way 3 years ago, and in June 2024, I was able to walk away from my office job - thanks to a fair and honest commission structure. It’s unique, it's patented, and it's unlike anything else out there!

What I found is that with high-ticket affiliate marketing - there is a system that allows ME to generate an income online, without managing any products or recruiting.

❌ No traditional MLM. No cold messaging. No monthly quotas and No de-ranking - ever!
✔ Just a proven strategy that works … if you do!

Want to know more?

Simply comment 𝗕𝗘𝗧𝗧𝗘𝗥 below and let’s chat!

23/02/2025

Retirement Anxiety: Are You Feeling the Pressure?

As we approach those years that are meant to be what we’ve worked for all our lives, many of us can’t help but feel a wee bit anxious about what’s to come. The thought of not having enough to live on can be downright terrifying! 😳

For many women of a certain age group (ahem!), the fear of running out of money in retirement is all too real. You’ve worked hard all your life, but maybe you’re looking at your savings and thinking, “Is this really enough to keep me comfy?” Or worse, maybe you have no savings at all.😱

Just look at what we’re facing:

- Rising Costs: Everything seems to be getting pricier, and it’s tough to keep up!
- Debt Burdens: Whether it’s credit cards or loans, debt can feel like a heavy weight on our shoulders.
- Health Care Costs: yes - despite our amazing NHS that we love, we may still face medical expenses as the Government chip away at the investment required to keep it going.
- Limited Income: Many of us may not have a pension or other income sources lined up for retirement.

As a horse woman too, my biggest fear has been not being able to afford to keep my beautiful boy, Cracker. Maybe you’re worried about how you’ll keep the horsey lifestyle going too!🤷‍♀️

But there is some good news, my friends! ✨

Firstly, you’re not alone in this stage of your journey - there are many of us facing the same challenges as you, and there ARE steps you can take to ease that anxiety.

Start by taking a good look at your finances—create a budget and if you feel it’s necessary, consider speaking with a financial advisor who understands your unique situation.

And remember, it’s never too late to start planning a new future for yourself. Maybe it’s time to consider exploring new income opportunities, investing in yourself, and surrounding yourself with a supportive community (like us!), there’s always hope for a brighter future. 🌟

Let’s chat about your concerns, and your dreams too, for retirement. It’s perfectly possible to create a plan that helps you feel secure and excited for what lies ahead! I should know - I’ve done just that! 🥳

Drop a comment or DM me if you’d like to share your thoughts or if you need some encouragement. You’re not alone - we’re facing this time of our lives together, and I truly believe it can be the best time of our lives too!💫

26/01/2025

𝙀𝙭𝙩𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙩 𝙤𝙧 𝙄𝙣𝙩𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙩?

Which category do you think you fit into?🤷‍♀️

I know which one I am, without any shadow of a doubt – and that’s “Team Introvert”. And do you know, it’s something I’ve always felt ashamed of; in fact, it was my natural horsemanship journey that taught me I had nothing to be ashamed of.

As a child, I was painfully shy. I would 𝗡𝗘𝗩𝗘𝗥 put my hand up in class, for example. I had a small, close group of friends – but found it extremely difficult to mix with others.

The thing is, I’ve discovered something quite important since I started my online business 3 years ago; I’ve found out that you don’t have to be a go-getter to go and get. You just need to be willing to do what is suggested for you, and coachable.✨

You can still create incredible success in life, and you can do it with love, and care, and empathy, and compassion – and 𝙔𝙀𝙎, even introverts can create that success, too. In fact, introverts do particularly well in this business model – and the reason for that is that at some point, it requires a one-to-one conversation.

Now, the one-to-one conversation is like the specialist subject for the introvert; direct us into a room full of people, and we will cower away in the corner; but put us in a situation where we can talk to someone about what is important to us and have that person listen and show interest, that is where we excel.🥳

The extrovert on the other hand, wants that big, lively room to feed off all that high energy. Many an extrovert will find the one-to-one conversation a real challenge; maybe it is just too boring, too quiet and far too low key for them. Who knows?

And being an introvert can make you a great leader too. It’s not necessarily a requisite, but introverts do tend to be more understanding and can often listen with a more attuned ear – perhaps even reading between the lines a little easier than an extrovert. It certainly should not stop you from going all in on this business!

So, if you’re like me – an introvert in her fifties (just!) wanting to spread love and kindness around the world whilst impacting other women and their families, think about this … this stage in our lives can be transformational; it can be a pivotal moment full of opportunities to rediscover our passions and purpose in life.

It can be a time when we can start, at last, to think about ourselves again – and even if we are carers (as I am), this opportunity can still fit into the schedule of “the sandwich generation”, believe me!

𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗔𝗥𝗘 𝗡𝗢𝗧 𝗔𝗟𝗢𝗡𝗘. Come and join a community of like-minded women who are on the same journey. I invite you to join me for a one-to-one conversation over a cup of tea or coffee, virtual or otherwise, to see if this may be a good fit for you right now; no pressure, just the information you need about how we are changing our lives. Private message me and I’ll send you the link to join our warm and welcoming facebook group of women just like you.

There really is nothing lost by looking!☺

26/12/2024

𝒀𝑶𝑼 𝑪𝑨𝑵 𝑫𝑶 𝑰𝑻!

What if your life could look completely different one year from now?

Believe me, if I can do it – so can you.

My name is Elaine M Hare and in June 2024, I left my full-time job – trading in 40 hour weeks of unbearable stress and burnout, to build a life of freedom and financial independence. I’ve founded a UK based team called The Freedom Choice where women over 40 can thrive by working together and helping each other.

It’s been 𝑨𝑴𝑨𝒁𝑰𝑵𝑮!

You see, my life completely shifted when I discovered an incredible community of like-minded men & women all of whom collaborate to create success for one and all. And that’s when I decided it was time to duplicate and bring it home for the UK.

It’s not just about the money, nice as that is; it’s also about having the freedom to choose … and after a lifetime stuck behind a desk working for someone else, I was ready to make my own choices.

I got started before I quit the job, too – so no need for big, scary steps if you don’t want it that way; I can show you how to get started in your spare time - whichever way suits you best. Choices already, see!☺

So, are you looking to change your life in 2025, before the changes are forced upon you maybe? We never know what is around the corner – but at least by starting something for yourself now, you are more in control of some aspect of your life!

If you’re ready to learn how to escape the grind with us, just ping me a message and we can chat to see if this is a fit for you. If not, no worries. 📩

26/12/2024

🌟 Hey there, all you lovely ladies! 🌟

Are you feeling like you’re stuck on a never-ending treadmill of burnout, just running and running but not getting anywhere? Trust me - I’ve been there and, believe me ducky, you are not alone. So, it’s time to hit the brakes!🚦

Life after 40 should be about embracing our freedom and finding joy, not just ticking off endless to-do lists, don’t you think? It’s time to reimagine what freedom looks like for you—whether it’s pursuing that hobby you’ve always dreamed about, exploring new adventures, or simply finding time to relax with a good cuppa. ☕️

Look at me - left my job in June this year after 40 years of total burnout and all I want now is to guide you to do the same! 🔥

Let’s ditch the overwhelm and start creating a life that feels right for us—because you deserve it! 💖

Join me on this journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and a sprinkle of fun. It’s so eye-opening to realise the opportunities that are there in front of our noses!

Together, we can swap stories, share tips, and inspire each other to break free from the burnout cycle.

Are you ready to take that first step towards your version of freedom? Let’s chat in the comments!👇

Much love,
Elaine 💕