Elaine M Hare

26/01/2025

𝙀𝙭𝙩𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙩 𝙤𝙧 𝙄𝙣𝙩𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙩?

Which category do you think you fit into?🤷‍♀️

I know which one I am, without any shadow of a doubt – and that’s “Team Introvert”. And do you know, it’s something I’ve always felt ashamed of; in fact, it was my natural horsemanship journey that taught me I had nothing to be ashamed of.

As a child, I was painfully shy. I would 𝗡𝗘𝗩𝗘𝗥 put my hand up in class, for example. I had a small, close group of friends – but found it extremely difficult to mix with others.

The thing is, I’ve discovered something quite important since I started my online business 3 years ago; I’ve found out that you don’t have to be a go-getter to go and get. You just need to be willing to do what is suggested for you, and coachable.✨

You can still create incredible success in life, and you can do it with love, and care, and empathy, and compassion – and 𝙔𝙀𝙎, even introverts can create that success, too. In fact, introverts do particularly well in this business model – and the reason for that is that at some point, it requires a one-to-one conversation.

Now, the one-to-one conversation is like the specialist subject for the introvert; direct us into a room full of people, and we will cower away in the corner; but put us in a situation where we can talk to someone about what is important to us and have that person listen and show interest, that is where we excel.🥳

The extrovert on the other hand, wants that big, lively room to feed off all that high energy. Many an extrovert will find the one-to-one conversation a real challenge; maybe it is just too boring, too quiet and far too low key for them. Who knows?

And being an introvert can make you a great leader too. It’s not necessarily a requisite, but introverts do tend to be more understanding and can often listen with a more attuned ear – perhaps even reading between the lines a little easier than an extrovert. It certainly should not stop you from going all in on this business!

So, if you’re like me – an introvert in her fifties (just!) wanting to spread love and kindness around the world whilst impacting other women and their families, think about this … this stage in our lives can be transformational; it can be a pivotal moment full of opportunities to rediscover our passions and purpose in life.

It can be a time when we can start, at last, to think about ourselves again – and even if we are carers (as I am), this opportunity can still fit into the schedule of “the sandwich generation”, believe me!

𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗔𝗥𝗘 𝗡𝗢𝗧 𝗔𝗟𝗢𝗡𝗘. Come and join a community of like-minded women who are on the same journey. I invite you to join me for a one-to-one conversation over a cup of tea or coffee, virtual or otherwise, to see if this may be a good fit for you right now; no pressure, just the information you need about how we are changing our lives. Private message me and I’ll send you the link to join our warm and welcoming facebook group of women just like you.

There really is nothing lost by looking!☺

13/01/2025

26/12/2024

𝒀𝑶𝑼 𝑪𝑨𝑵 𝑫𝑶 𝑰𝑻!

What if your life could look completely different one year from now?

Believe me, if I can do it – so can you.

My name is Elaine M Hare and in June 2024, I left my full-time job – trading in 40 hour weeks of unbearable stress and burnout, to build a life of freedom and financial independence. I’ve founded a UK based team called The Freedom Choice where women over 40 can thrive by working together and helping each other.

It’s been 𝑨𝑴𝑨𝒁𝑰𝑵𝑮!

You see, my life completely shifted when I discovered an incredible community of like-minded men & women all of whom collaborate to create success for one and all. And that’s when I decided it was time to duplicate and bring it home for the UK.

It’s not just about the money, nice as that is; it’s also about having the freedom to choose … and after a lifetime stuck behind a desk working for someone else, I was ready to make my own choices.

I got started before I quit the job, too – so no need for big, scary steps if you don’t want it that way; I can show you how to get started in your spare time - whichever way suits you best. Choices already, see!☺

So, are you looking to change your life in 2025, before the changes are forced upon you maybe? We never know what is around the corner – but at least by starting something for yourself now, you are more in control of some aspect of your life!

If you’re ready to learn how to escape the grind with us, just ping me a message and we can chat to see if this is a fit for you. If not, no worries. 📩

26/12/2024

🌟 Hey there, all you lovely ladies! 🌟

Are you feeling like you’re stuck on a never-ending treadmill of burnout, just running and running but not getting anywhere? Trust me - I’ve been there and, believe me ducky, you are not alone. So, it’s time to hit the brakes!🚦

Life after 40 should be about embracing our freedom and finding joy, not just ticking off endless to-do lists, don’t you think? It’s time to reimagine what freedom looks like for you—whether it’s pursuing that hobby you’ve always dreamed about, exploring new adventures, or simply finding time to relax with a good cuppa. ☕️

Look at me - left my job in June this year after 40 years of total burnout and all I want now is to guide you to do the same! 🔥

Let’s ditch the overwhelm and start creating a life that feels right for us—because you deserve it! 💖

Join me on this journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and a sprinkle of fun. It’s so eye-opening to realise the opportunities that are there in front of our noses!

Together, we can swap stories, share tips, and inspire each other to break free from the burnout cycle.

Are you ready to take that first step towards your version of freedom? Let’s chat in the comments!👇

Much love,
Elaine 💕

10/12/2024

𝑯𝒆𝒓𝒆'𝒔 𝒂 𝒒𝒖𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒚𝒐𝒖 ...

What were you doing this time last year?

How much has changed for you since then?

Now … if you do the same thing at this time next year, and nothing has changed, will you be happy with that?

I know I won’t be. I have plans … 𝐁𝐈𝐆 plans!🤩

I’m so excited for 2025, but I’m not waiting for it to hit the calendar. I’ve already started to put my action plan together. I know what I want to achieve. Shall I share? Oh, go on then, here it is:

• I would like to hit 100 members in our team Facebook group – because that means that 100 women and their families have been positively impacted and empowered to change their lives for the better. How amazing will that be!!!!🎉
• I can’t wait to see every member of the team gaining traction in the rankings.🥳
• I intend to reach the giddy heights of 6A – no room for excuses!🤭
• I will be debt free – no more credit card anchor weighing me down.⚓
• I want to have more choices in my life as I work my way towards freedom.🌟

Oh yes, I have so much to look forward to, and I’m so grateful to this business and its’ wonderful, supportive community for all that it offers!🙏🙏🙏

I would love to share this experience with you because, you see, my life was very different just 3 years ago. I remember the feelings of hopelessness, when I truly believed there was nothing I could do to change the circumstances of my life. I felt trapped. But in the end, all I had to do was make the decision, and with trust and faith, I could choose to not live my life that way anymore.

Are you ready to make that decision? Are you ready to change your life in 2025? DM me now - let’s chat about the possibilities for you, over a cuppa. Don’t forget the biscuits too!

Believe me, if I can do it, 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐂𝐀𝐍 𝐃𝐎 𝐈𝐓 too!

04/12/2024

𝙎𝙥𝙤𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙙𝙞𝙛𝙛𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚?

There's a difference between let's see if it works and we're going to make it work.

Success isn't a matter of luck—it's a matter of persistence. It’s easy to say, 'I’ll give it a try' or 'Let’s see if this works.' But the real game-changer comes when you decide ...

"𝙄’𝙢 𝙜𝙤𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙠, 𝙣𝙤 𝙢𝙖𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩".

The difference is in your commitment, your resilience, and your willingness to push through even when the path gets tough.

Remember, every setback is just a setup for a greater comeback.
Take ownership of your journey.

Don’t just wait for things to happen—take action, keep learning, and turn your vision into reality.🌟

31/10/2024

Nobody claims this business is easy, but the question is -

“Is it worth it⁉️”

When we start, usually with no experience or knowledge, we begin with our vision, our goal.

We work towards that goal, but can often falter at the first obstacle as we expect the path to be a smooth one. Of course, anything worth having is going to be challenging.

So, today is quarterly bonus day. A payment (similar to shares) made by Enagic to those who have reached the level of 6A2 in their business. And this is on top of the monthly bonus already received.🎉

In monetary terms, 6A2 means they, and two of their team leaders, have made sales value of almost $1mUSD. This is definitely a high ticket business that doesn’t mess about with low ticket figures!💰💰💰

If you’re looking for a smooth path with no challenges along the way - maybe you should just stick with a 9-5 j o b.

However, if you’re looking for a life with choices, a life where you don’t have to live pay packet to pay packet AND you’re paid generously with no deranking - then maybe THIS could be just what you’re looking for.

Ready to find out?

DM me now for more details. 💬

30/10/2024

Julia Roberts once said:
“When people walk away from you, let them go. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you, and it doesn't mean they are bad people. It just means that their part in your story is over.”

Not everyone in your life is meant to stick around forever, and that’s okay!

People cross our paths for different reasons—to teach, share moments, and support us through certain seasons. When someone moves on, it’s a sign that their chapter in your story is complete, making space for new adventures.

Holding on to what’s meant to leave only slows us down from stepping into what’s next. It’s not about blame or loss—it’s about trusting that your story goes beyond that chapter. Their exit opens up fresh space for deeper connections, bigger dreams, and an even stronger version of you! 🌻

Every encounter shapes us, and every relationship matters. But when someone walks away, it’s life’s way of saying your paths no longer align. They’re not a villain; they just played their part. And letting them go? It’s a power move—creating space for those who’ll walk this journey with you.

Letting go isn’t about giving up; it’s about making room for the best that’s yet to come. Your journey’s still being written, and the next chapter is all yours. ✨

28/10/2024

𝘼𝙡𝙡 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙖𝙧𝙙❗

The right vehicle can take you places – are you ready to ride?

You’ve done this; tried that – but still, you don’t have the life you want.

Here, in our business community, many of us have been there. We’ve experienced the feelings you have – feeling trapped, stuck, unfulfilled, exhausted, unseen, unappreciated … EVERYTHING.

Some might say we were lucky though; we found something so special, so unique, so magical – that many think it’s too good to be true.

And yet, here we are – choosing to live the life of choice. Impacting so many others with lifestyle changes, improved health, increased happiness, friendship and community.

We all want to do different things with our lives – but we’ve chosen the same vehicle to get there.

Could it be the vehicle you need to change direction?🚌

Why not come and look for yourself – you can hop on board at the next station by choosing one of these links – they both arrive at the same destination - but be sure to give my name for access.

For horsey peeps - Horsey Women Creating Financial Independence in the Online Space

Or:

Non horsey peeps - The Wealth Collective

Make sure you’re on the right bus – your future self will thank you❗

20/10/2024

𝗦𝘁𝘂𝗰𝗸 𝗯𝗲𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝗮 𝗱𝗲𝘀𝗸 𝗯𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗲𝗹𝘀𝗲’𝘀 𝗱𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗺?

I was too, for 40 years—until I found a way out.

For decades, I poured all my time and energy into a job that left me drained and unfulfilled - and wondering if this was all life had to offer. Those were supposed to be the best years of my life, or so I thought! 🤔

If you’re feeling the same way, I totally get it. That continuous, repetitive cycle can feel endless.

Do you know what though? It turned out, it doesn’t have to be an endless cycle. ✨

I discovered a path that is leading me to my idea of a balanced lifestyle, and the ability to live life on my own terms.

Now, I’m part of a community of incredible men and women who are stepping off the hamster wheel and building something for themselves. Believe me, it's not a free lunch; there is work to be done and it sometimes puts me right out of my comfort zone, but by heck, it’s fun and having a plan for my future, my way, has changed my outlook on life. I honestly now feel I’m making sure that the rest of my life, is the best of my life.

💡 Just imagine this:
• Waking up excited for your day
• Working on your own schedule
• Building your dream—not someone else’s

If you’re ready to make that shift yourself, you don’t have to do it alone. I’d love for you to join me and our supportive community on this journey to better health, wealth, and happiness.

It's simple: choose one of the links below and I’ll be there on the inside to guide you to our masterclass, to answer your questions and to see if this is something that you want to learn more about. Just be sure to give my name for access.💖

Love your horsey life - Horsey Women Creating Financial Independence in the Online Space

Looking for non horsey adventure - The Wealth Collective

Let’s dream bigger, together! 🌟

18/10/2024

𝓟𝓻𝓸𝓶𝓲𝓼𝓮𝓼

I have one for YOU and here it is -

YOU can do ANYTHING you want to do with your life.

Now, just read that again … and then read it again.

We all have so much going on in our head don’t we? So many stories our mind makes up of what we can’t do and why.

Honestly, I know from personal experience; that noisy, little voice may tell you –

• I’m too old to change now
• I’m not tech savvy
• I’m not pretty enough
• I’m not slim enough
• No-one will want to listen to me
• I don’t do TikTok or reels
• That’s got to be too good to be true

But these things are just that … stories; made up scenarios; just noise.

The truth is - you can do anything you want to do. Absolutely anything.

I can remember, as a kid, wanting to search for that pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. I can still feel that sense of excitement for something special to happen. The problem is, that as we grow into adulthood, we lose that chance to dream and life becomes dull and monotonous for many of us.

But it shouldn’t be that way. We should give ourselves permission to have dreams again because, believe me, dreams CAN become reality.

When I was desperately searching for my dream again, I found the business opportunity that I’m now fully invested in. But I came into this business with no experience, not many friends on my Facebook list and I’d never done Instagram.

My little voice told me that I couldn’t do it. I thought it wasn’t for me. I was certain I couldn’t make videos and reels. I thought I had nothing to say. I was scared of what people would think of me.

And yes, I did think it was too good to be true.

Yet all the above turned out to be lies. They were lies I had told myself for so long, just to keep me safe. But the truth is, safe is boring!

What I came to realize was that I didn’t want “safe” for the rest of my life; what I wanted was to live my life.

After so many years working full-time, I was making a nice, regular income that we were just about managing on; it was safe and reliable, but what I really wanted and was searching for was the “𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞” income!

I found a business where that chance to change my life is perfectly possible so long as I’m willing to make changes to do it.

And the only difference between you and me right now is that I kept telling myself I could do it and I took action with trust and faith, until I truly believed it!

Now it’s your turn to do the same.🌟

17/10/2024

Help. I’m confused. 🤪

I remember at school seeing the standard picture of the solar system. There was the sun and the planets including little old earth, sitting in its position with ONE moon circulating around it.

Do you remember seeing that?

So, can someone with more knowledge on these things than I (eg. Jane Lizzy) please explain why we’ve had different moons this year - like Lions Moon and now Hunters Moon?

Is it actually the same moon with a different name every now and again?

Or was there some sort of conspiracy to hide the truth that there are, in fact, lots of different moons going around the earth?

Please help!

In the meantime - can anyone see the Hunters Moon tonight or is the cloud too thick? Apparently, it should appear 40% bigger than our normal full moon! 🌕

10/10/2024

𝑾𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝒉𝒐𝒑𝒆 𝒇𝒂𝒅𝒆𝒔, 𝒊𝒕 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒇𝒆𝒆𝒍 𝒍𝒊𝒌𝒆...

▪ Constant exhaustion, no matter how much sleep you get 💤

▪ Feeling stuck in a routine that no longer brings joy or purpose

▪ Worrying if things will ever change, but not knowing how

▪ That heavy weight of financial stress, always looming

▪ Losing the spark that once made life exciting ✨

▪ Feeling unseen, unappreciated, and disconnected from your own dreams 💔

𝐈’𝐯𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 - working in an office for 40 years, feeling trapped and unfulfilled. But the moment I found a new path, one where I could regain my sense of purpose, everything changed. 🥳

If you're feeling any of this, I want you to know there’s a way out.

Join me, and a group of like-minded women as part of a global community, on a journey to reclaim your hope, your passion, and your future. 💖

Here's the links to our two groups - both leading to the same destination. Just give my name for access and I'll meet you on the inside. 🎉

🔗 Horsey girls - Horsey Women Creating Financial Independence in the Online Space

🔗 Non horsey girls - The Wealth Collective

06/10/2024

Forty years ago, I started working in the legal sector as a junior secretary.

In June of this year, I left my job – thanks to the life changing experience of creating my own business online three years ago and joining the most incredible community that comes with it. 🥳

I’ve just recorded a 30 minute webinar highlighting the strategies we use and the company we align with, together with my reasons for choosing this path. Just DM if you’d like the link to watch, or comment “choices” below – and I’ll send get it over to you without delay!

At the end of the day, it all comes down to choices. What are you choosing to do with your life?

❗If you’re not changing it, you’re choosing it❗

03/10/2024

Favourite words …

Mine are 𝐇𝐎𝐍𝐄𝐒𝐓𝐘, 𝐈𝐍𝐓𝐄𝐆𝐑𝐈𝐓𝐘 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐅𝐀𝐈𝐑𝐍𝐄𝐒𝐒.

I try to always live by them. 🌟

So, I’m telling you straight and honestly – I’m working flipping hard right now. I’m putting in the extra grind and it feels pretty tough – but I know that what I’m doing is going to provide the key that will unlock the lifestyle that I ultimately want to live.

Every time I feel the heavy weight and the struggle, I have to remind myself of what it is I want – because every extra hour I put in today, is a step towards 𝑴𝒀 goal.

I don’t want to live a life of just getting by anymore.

I don’t want to go to work in the dark and come home in the I dark.

I don’t want to have limited time for the things that are important to me – my family, my pets, my friends – and yes, me.

I want a life where I’m calling the shots, a life where 𝐈’𝐌 in charge.

So, let me ask you a question …

Can you imagine waking up on a Monday morning and just deciding, there and then, to take the day off? No asking anyone; no having to book at least a week in advance; no checking if anyone else is off that day.

Whatever we want to achieve in life takes effort, commitment and dedication. So why do those things for someone else? Why not put all your effort, commitment and dedication into working to create 𝒀𝑶𝑼𝑹 ideal lifestyle?

That is what I am building; that is what I’m putting all my effort into – I want to have 𝑪𝑯𝑶𝑰𝑪𝑬𝑺. And I can help you have choices in your life, too.

So, let me ask another question …

Are you ready to work hard to achieve choices in your life? Are you ready to make sacrifices for a purpose you have chosen – that could free you from a system that tells you how to live, and when to live?

It could be time for you to make the 𝑫𝑬𝑪𝑰𝑺𝑰𝑶𝑵. Just choose the link below (they both lead to the same destination) and I’ll meet you on the inside.

Horsey peeps – Horsey Women Creating Financial Independence in the Online Space
Non horsey peeps – The Wealth Collective

See you in there!✨

02/10/2024

I love this story. It reaffirms that even the smallest gesture of kindness - of which we see many every day - can have a profound impact on someone else. 🩷

A man was hired to paint a boat. With his paint, brushes, and a steady hand, he began coating the boat in a vibrant red, as the owner had requested. As he worked, he noticed a small hole in the hull, barely noticeable to the untrained eye. Without saying a word, he repaired it, considering it part of his job.

Once he finished painting, the owner paid him, and the man left, content with his day's work. The next morning, however, the owner returned, holding a check far more generous than what was owed for the painting.

Surprised, the painter asked, "Sir, you've already paid me for the paint job. What is this for?"

The owner smiled and said, "This isn’t for the painting. It’s for fixing the hole in the boat."

The painter, puzzled, replied, "But that was such a small thing—certainly not worth this amount."

"My friend, you don’t understand," the owner began. "When I asked you to paint the boat, I didn’t even know about the hole myself. After you finished and the paint dried, my children took the boat out on a fishing trip without telling me. I was away, and when I got home, I was horrified to realize they had gone out in a boat with a hole in the hull."

The painter listened intently as the man continued, his voice now thick with emotion.

"I was terrified, thinking they might never return. But when they came back safely, I rushed to check the boat and found that you had repaired the hole. You didn’t just fix a boat—you saved my children’s lives. That’s something I can never fully repay."

The painter stood silent, absorbing the weight of the man’s words.

The owner added softly, "Sometimes, the smallest gestures can have the greatest impact. What seemed insignificant to you meant the world to me."

In life, we may unknowingly fix many “holes” for others—offering help, mending hearts, or simply being there when needed. We often don't realize how much those small actions can mean to someone else.

You never know when your quiet kindness might save a life. Keep helping, keep caring, for the world needs more boat painters.