Everything Real.

24/02/2025

The real flex is learning to raise your emotional intelligence so toxic people can't play mind games with you, learning to pause before reacting so manipulators can't disrespect you and blame you for your negative reactions, and learning to say "no" so takers can't take from you.

24/02/2025

What hurts the most is knowing you saw my messages but chose to ignore them, as if I'm not worth the response. It's the silence that cuts deeper than any words ever could.

23/02/2025

people will hurt you and then act like you hurt them

23/02/2025

Limit your time with people who see the downside of every situation.

23/02/2025

"If your partner doesn't add you on Social media, maybe they are cheating on you"-- Top 10 digital red flags to know if your partner is being unfaithful.

A UK mobile phone experts, Compare and Recycle dropped a list of top ten digital red flags that can let you know that your partner is being unfaithful

They did a survey on 2000 adults and the results from that survey led them to draw up these ten digital red flags that may suggest that someone is not being faithful to you.

1. A partner 'secretly' owning two phones
2. Defensive behaviour
3. Deleted message threads
4. Partners who don't let their phone out of their sight
5. A partner who doesn't add you on social media
6. Having a heart emoji next to a contact name
7. Constant phone notifications
8. Password-protected apps
9. Partners who always places their phone face-down
10. A partner who keeps their phone on airplane mode whilst around you

What do you make of this red flags?

23/02/2025

nobody cares about how you feel until you make them feel how they made you feel

23/02/2025

22/02/2025

Some people refuse to support you because your potential is intimidating!

22/02/2025

Never drink water after kissing
Ask me why??

22/02/2025

Anytime I put money away for a rainy day, it’s start raining THAT SAME NIGHT

21/02/2025

Dear Self,

I want to take a moment to appreciate you—the strength you’ve shown, the battles you’ve fought, and the love you continue to give, even on days when you feel empty. You’ve carried so much, yet you still find ways to be kind, to dream, and to hope. I know there have been moments of doubt, times when the weight of the world felt unbearable, but you are still here, still standing, still trying. That is something to be proud of.

I want you to remember that love starts from within. You deserve the same warmth and compassion that you so freely give to others. Be gentle with yourself, celebrate your small victories, and allow yourself grace on the hard days. You are worthy of kindness, of forgiveness, and of joy. You don’t need to prove your worth to anyone because your existence alone is enough. Keep nurturing your heart, keep believing in yourself, and trust that brighter days are always ahead.

Above all, never forget that you are loved—not just by those around you, but by yourself. Love yourself loudly, unapologetically, and with all the tenderness in the world. Speak words of encouragement to your soul, embrace your flaws as part of your beauty, and know that you are constantly growing into the person you are meant to be. The journey is long, but you are never alone. Keep moving forward, with love.

With all my heart,
Me

21/02/2025

honestly, my main priority right now is getting my life on track and becoming a better me. i couldn't care less who stays or who goes, this chapter of my life is for me.

20/02/2025

Observation can be more powerful than conversation. So when you find quiet people who are not conversant, do not assume that they are not in the know. They may be smart people observing and wondering whether the people speaking know what they are talking about and whether they can be trusted.

20/02/2025

1. Did someone betray you?
Stay silent.

2. Is someone causing you pain?
Stay silent.

3. Did someone fail to give you what you deserved, despite all your love?
Stay silent.

4. Did someone insult you greatly?
Stay silent.

5. Did someone deceive you?
Stay silent.

6. Is someone falsely accusing you?
Stay silent.

Become so silent that those people never hear your voice or see your shadow again. Become invisible to them.
Make a promise to yourself that you will never look back. If you keep this promise, you won’t feel pain. This silence may choke you with unspoken cries, but it will leave the other person with regret.

The truth is, we protest with words because we fear losing.
But do you know something?
The ones who never valued you as a person, the ones who made you feel suffocated with grief—they were never truly yours.

So, live for yourself, love yourself.
You have a Creator.
Tell Him all your sorrows, pains, desires, and hopes. He will take care of everything.

20/02/2025

I have a question
Why do we only rest in peace instead of living in peace
Why????

19/02/2025

When borrowing money from someone learn to be peaceful.

You: Thank you so much. I’ll pay back on the 5th of March.

*If you don’t have the money by the 4th.

You: Hello, I understand that I am supposed to pay back tomorrow but I don’t have the money yet. Please, give me sometime.

Communication = Peace❤️

19/02/2025

Have you ever loved someone so much that you lost yourself in the process? Sometimes, love feels heavy—more like carrying a burden than holding a hand. It’s strange how something so beautiful can hurt so deeply. We give, we sacrifice, and we call it love, but in the end, we’re left wondering if we’ve done more harm than good.

Maybe it’s because love isn’t always enough. Without respect, love becomes selfish. Respect means seeing someone as your equal, understanding that their needs and feelings matter just as much as yours. But how often do we forget that? We love too much, too fast, without realizing we’ve overshadowed the very person we claim to care for.

In life, respect will always be kinder than love. It doesn’t take away, it doesn’t demand—it simply lets people be who they are. Yet, isn’t it sad how rare respect has become? We chase love blindly, never realizing that it’s respect that could truly keep us whole.

Life feels lonelier when love is misplaced. It leaves scars you can’t see but feel every day. And maybe that’s the saddest part—not the absence of love, but the absence of the respect that makes love worth it.

19/02/2025

Let Them Go

If someone wants to leave your life, let them go. If someone chooses another person over you despite receiving all your love, let them be. Allow them to live their life as they wish.

If someone creates distance in a beautiful relationship without reason, let them go. Prioritizing someone who never considered you a priority is foolishness. Distance in a relationship is also a form of disrespect.

If someone can go days, months, or even longer without speaking to you, let them be. They never truly realized your importance.

If someone doesn’t miss your presence, if they can live without seeing you, let them stay where they are. Love cannot be one-sided. Holding on to someone who has withdrawn from you only leads to self-humiliation.

At the end of the day, the undeniable truth is: you cannot hold onto anyone forever. Everything in life is temporary.

You were born alone, you have fought your biggest battles alone, and one day, you will leave this world alone. So choose wisely. If someone prioritizes another over you, then to them, you are nothing more than a part of their past.

Holding onto someone who never chose you is self-deception. The past is an illusion—memories are merely experiences and lessons. So, don’t look back. There is nothing left behind. Life is yours alone, and you must walk your path by yourself.