Cherry ADHD

Cherry ADHD I am a mum with ADHD and help raise awareness of how ADHD can impact adults and provide strategies. [email protected] for collaboration requests.

It has nothing to do with laziness or not trying hard enough, and everything to do with how the ADHD brain actually wake...
02/12/2025

It has nothing to do with laziness or not trying hard enough, and everything to do with how the ADHD brain actually wakes up. For a lot of us, our circadian rhythm runs slightly delayed, which means our brain naturally gets its “awake” signals later than everyone else’s. So while the rest of the world feels alert at 7am, we’re still waiting for our system to come online.

On top of that, mornings demand a huge amount of executive function at a time when ADHD brains have the least to give. The moment we open our eyes we’re expected to make decisions, shift gears, start tasks, remember plans, and move quickly from one step to the next — and none of that is easy when dopamine is low and the prefrontal cortex hasn’t fully warmed up yet.

So it’s not that we’re not morning people by choice. It’s that our brain simply wakes up more slowly, and once it does, we function perfectly well - just on a slightly different schedule. If this sounds like you too, you’re definitely not alone.
Sincerely: someone who hits the snooze button mostly one too many times 😴

Christmas time is certainly in full swing here this morning. My girl is taking her elf to school today - she snuck into ...
02/12/2025

Christmas time is certainly in full swing here this morning. My girl is taking her elf to school today - she snuck into her bag 👀
Our elf is kind but silly and gets things wrong at times - she’s always learning but has the best intentions and tries to make her smile whether that’s through kind or funny or helpful actions… what about yours?

Anyone else watching stranger things season 5?? Was planning to only watch episode 1 tonight because we needed an early ...
01/12/2025

Anyone else watching stranger things season 5?? Was planning to only watch episode 1 tonight because we needed an early night but whoooops we’re on episode 2 now! Got some theories already but tbh I probably won’t sleep tonight lol

01/12/2025

8 signs your unexplained mood dips are actually caused by interoception issues aka unmet physical needs 😳
Did you know this is how these things can affect your mood?!?!

Did you know that ADHD often comes with perfectionism? It’s something we tend to develop as a coping mechanism but actua...
01/12/2025

Did you know that ADHD often comes with perfectionism? It’s something we tend to develop as a coping mechanism but actually tends to hinder us more than help us. I’ve been trying to steer away from it and challenge my inner perfectionist more and more. Therefore, today I went for a run with my dog in the rain. Not just in the rain but also in my normal clothes. I only had 10mins before I had to leave to pick up my daughter from school. It was cold and windy and wet and I still went and ran. Because I could. Because why not? Because my dog and I benefit from a bit of intentional movement more than a perfect long walk or a perfect long workout once in a while. And you know what? It sucked. But I felt also so much better for it and Maisie (my dog) was also happy.
I find that I need to challenge my all or nothing thinking too - especially when I’m short on time and things aren’t perfect to be able to do something I need to or want to do.
Allowing myself to do something instead of nothing is always progress. And most importantly: allowing myself to suck. To be really bad at something. And in a weird way that can also be fun
What do you do to steer away from perfectionism?

Update… May I introduce: Rufus and Floofus Rufus (our actual cat) has been part of the family for years but Floofus is a...
01/12/2025

Update… May I introduce: Rufus and Floofus
Rufus (our actual cat) has been part of the family for years but Floofus is a new addition adopted by our 6 year old and named by Mel after I asked for name suggestions when I got it for my daughter 🧡😁😄❤️🥰🎉😍 Floofus is very very much loved and got taken to show and tell at school today already.
Not to brag but I can see a mum of the year award coming my way (given by my daughter but only for the next 10mins until it’s bedtime)

Why does this happen?? Seriously I can’t be the only one right??
01/12/2025

Why does this happen?? Seriously I can’t be the only one right??

You know you are part of an ADHD family when… Meanwhile I had a mini emotional breakdown over the lost and probably thro...
01/12/2025

You know you are part of an ADHD family when…
Meanwhile I had a mini emotional breakdown over the lost and probably thrown away collection of Christmas decorations and ornaments and all th extra money we’ll be having to spend but tbh no one is to blame. These things happen. We either accidentally misplaced them or thrown them away or our in laws did. It could’ve been any of us. I for example once thrown away the charger for our leased electric car that cost us £300+ to replace.
Anyone else who can somewhat relate or just us? 😅😭

30/11/2025

Ways that ADHD may turn up in mums
- this isn’t a diagnostic tool but hopefully makes you feel seen, less alone and helps you understand your brain better and maybe even put a smile on your face. Lots of love!

We got this artificial tree about 7 or 8 years ago. Our 6 year old daughter gets to have it in her room this year given ...
30/11/2025

We got this artificial tree about 7 or 8 years ago. Our 6 year old daughter gets to have it in her room this year given that we’ve got a way too massive real one in the lounge(can you tell we love to spoil her?) and she decorated it tonight all by herself 🥹❤️ She did such a beautiful job 😍 the only help I offered was putting the lights on and lifting her up while she told me where she was going to put things and I’d carry her to them ❤️
Do you have more than one tree? What proud mum moment did you recently have?
Ps: yes I’m back home from my London trip - right back to mum life 🥰

The moment in every ADHDers life when they impulsively got a big tree just to realise they impulsively got a big tree… 🙈...
30/11/2025

The moment in every ADHDers life when they impulsively got a big tree just to realise they impulsively got a big tree… 🙈😂 why does it look like a big tree ate a little tree or like it’s a mummy tree and her child tree? 😅🙈

That there is always one area of my life (minimum!!) where I feel like I’m somewhat falling short or just downright am f...
30/11/2025

That there is always one area of my life (minimum!!) where I feel like I’m somewhat falling short or just downright am failing. For me that’s most of the time life admin. I sometimes even completely forget that there’s such a thing as life admin until it all of a sudden hits me and I realise I haven’t tended to it FOR MONTHS (thanks time blindness).
For us it’s a leased car… a car that should’ve been returned 11 months ago. The worst part is we’re not even using it anymore. It’s cleaned, it’s fixed and theoretically ready to go… if it wasn’t for the MOT being out of date because we forgot to return it so long it’s run out. We’re still paying several hundred pounds per month on it and it literally feels like we’re throwing money into the bin which tbh we’d really need to pay other expenses. And yet it’s still not done…
So I’m going to ask you to hold me accountable… I really don’t have time to get it all sorted but I kind of need to reassess priorities this coming week.. you help me stay accountable ?? 😭

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