27/08/2024
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HOW TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR WOMAN'S EMOTIONS
1. Give her eye contact when she is talking to you, it makes her feel important
2. When she is venting, allow her to speak. It is healthy for her not to bottle things inside
3. Touch her. Rub her hand, hold her waist, kiss her. Physical touch is a window to her emotions
4. When she is crying, don't leave the room. Hug her, comfort her, whether she is crying because of you or of another issue
5. Ask her how she is, how she slept, how her day has been. Good morning, good night makes her feel cared for
6. When she is worked up over an issue that you don't find a big deal, don't tell her she is petty. This makes her feel understood
7. Get to know more about the family planning methods she uses. Some of them affect her hormones, her hormones affect her emotions
8. Learn how she behaves during her menstrual cycle. Some women get moody during that time of the month. Study your Queen
9. Love on her publicly and privately. Give her clarity that she is the only one, don't entertain other women. This will make her feel secure
10. Understand when she cries tears of joy. It means alot to her when you touch her heart to the point of tears
11. When she doubts her beauty, remind her of her beautiful and s*xy she is
12. When she complains about something don't take it as an offense, she is actually giving you a tip on how to love her better. Make use of the tip so that she won't have to complain again
13. When she is mad and unsettled, don't join her and become mad and unsettled too. Be that calm and assuring voice that makes her feel less defensive and less edgy
14. Appreciate her, tell her thank you and recognise all she does. Sometimes, this is all a woman needs to feel loved
15. Don't emotionally abuse her by speaking words that hurt. Such words can haunt her for years
16. If she doubts you two will last, give her the reassurance that even though you are going through a tough time, you are not letting her go. That alone wll encourage her to stand with you
17. Pray for her in her presence. Many women long that their man would cover them spiritually
18. Don't demand for s*x when she is hurting. Doing so will only make her feel used and a s*x toy
19. Apologise when you wrong her. Some women's hearts have been broken for years because all they have been waiting for is "I am sorry". Tone down your ego and you will love her emotional
Love is good right
The Love VibeMen are not wired to cheat... ✍️
I hear these phrase all the time that all men are wired to cheat, all men are the same, no man can be committed. Sincerely I used to think that way. But here’s my thought.
NO men are not wired to cheat. The only reason some men cheat is lack of discipline, peer pressure, selfishness, low self esteem and maybe to punish their spouse.
Think about it, a man who knows his worth will not allow himself to get naked with all women. A disciplined man, one who puts his emotions in check will know when to say no and walk away. It is known that men are more prone to succumb to peer pressure. Just because you are in a gathering with your friends and 80% of them are sharing experiences with women other than their wives does not mean you should tag along and disrespect your body and marriage.
If all men were created to cheat, God would have formed more women out of Adam. But He formed one woman and Adam named her and lived with her all the days of his life. One woman from one man not multiples. God would have said go into the world and make yourselves merrier coz the number of women you sleep with the more room is created for you in heaven. And the pathetic part is that some women have come to accept a cheating man as a normal thing. No its not. An unrepentant cheating man needs the attention of a psychiatrist.
A Chinese proverb says, "A man who loves many women, loves none. But a man who loves one woman loves all."
Don’t create excuses why you cannot be faithful to one woman because you are a man. Be responsible and be a man not a toy for any and every woman. When a man counts the number of women he has slept with, he is actually counting the number of women he has been a slave to.
Yes as a man you can be handsome, rich, got swag and still be faithful to your spouse. Coz that’s what a real man is all about.
Nancy Omunuzua
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