Mammee shamsu ማሜ ሸምሱ

07/03/2026

Early in your career, chase knowledge and skills, not just money—the experience you gain today becomes the foundation for lasting success tomorrow.

07/03/2026

Stop doing this, and watch how fast they shut up.

24/02/2026

24/02/2026

They break you down in private, piece by piece, and cry “victim” as soon as you speak up.

22/02/2026

Narcissists feed off your reactions. And here's what they will do if you react (and why it's so important to stay detached and calm instead):

They play the victim.
The moment you speak up, they flip the roles. Suddenly you’re aggressive, unstable, or “too emotional,” and they’re the wounded one who was “just trying their best.”

They rewrite the story.
Facts disappear. Context is removed. They retell events in a way that makes your reaction look random and unreasonable, while their behavior conveniently fades into the background.

They attack your credibility.
They focus on how you reacted instead of why. Your tone, your words, your emotions become the problem — not what pushed you there.

They provoke you again.
Once they see you cracked, they poke harder. Sarcasm, guilt, silent treatment, anything to trigger another reaction so they can keep pointing at it.

They warn others about you.
Before you can speak, they do. They plant seeds so that if you ever tell the truth, people already doubt you.

That’s why the real power move isn’t reacting louder.
It’s stepping back, staying calm, and letting their pattern expose itself.

22/02/2026

Financial abuse is one of the most effective tools a narcissist uses.
Not because it is loud, but because it is strategic.

They blur boundaries around money early.
Small favors turn into leverage.

They control access while pretending to provide support.
Dependence is disguised as help.

You are encouraged to trust them.
Then slowly stripped of financial autonomy.

Bills are ignored.
Promises are broken.

Your concerns are minimized.
Your stress is dismissed.

They create chaos and then blame you for the consequences.
Debt becomes another way to keep you stuck.

With narcissists, money is not shared.
It is weaponized.

You are left cleaning up damage you did not cause.
While they walk away untouched.

That kind of abuse rewires your sense of safety.
Because survival becomes tied to control.

Healing begins when you name it.
And reclaim your independence one decision at a time.