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08/10/2024

Husk, hvis du har brug for nogle Forever Living produkter, så kan du bestille hos mig:

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23/06/2024

God søndag! Jeg nyder naturens undere.

21/06/2024

Jeg skifter bare telefon engang imellem, så kan jeg stadig være på denne profil. Men det er lidt irriterende.
God weekend ♥️

24/01/2024

I HAVE A NEW LAUNDRY SYSTEM.
(Yes, yes, tell me you’re middle-aged without telling me you’re middle-aged etc etc).
Earlier today, I was reflecting on how much I used to stress about laundry. I have never been particularly good at domestic chores and as a working mum, managing the laundry of four people felt overwhelming, thankless and never ending. So, six months ago, I implemented a new system. And while it’s not fancy - and Marie Condo would roll over in her grave (if she was dead) if she saw it - it has greatly reduced my laundry-related stress while also encouraging my kids to take responsibility for their own stuff, so I thought I’d share it in the event it might help you.
Here is my system:
1) I wash any clothes that arrive in the laundry. I do not collect clothes from bedroom floors or dirty-clothes baskets, and I do not shout at the kids to bring me laundry. If they don’t put it in the laundry I don’t wash it.
2) I drop the clean laundry in the large blue basket pictured.
3) Everyone has their own basket with their name written on it in Sharpie. (Towels, tea towels and sheets have a separate basket, not pictured.) When a child requires clothes, they sift through the blue basket, find what is theirs, put it on, or (ideally) they fill their basket, take it upstairs, bring it back down empty.
The end.
Things to note:
-They don’t fold anything. I don’t care.
- The girls have drawers with stickers on them - un**es. T-shirts. Socks etc so it’s easy for them to toss things in the right place, and then find them later.
-If they have no clean clothes, they have to wear dirty ones. It’s not ideal but I’m a fan of natural consequences.
- they’ve stopped asking me where stuff is. If they are looking for their blue t shirt they know it is on their floor or in the communal basket. If it’s not, their guess is as good as mine.
- my friend Emily is having a panic attack right now at the thought of running her household like I run mine. (Emily never met a hospital corner she didn’t like).

How do you all manage your laundry?

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26/03/2021

Have you heard about Mothering the Mother?

Mothering the Mother

06/03/2021

Helen Hansen917's short video with ♬ Lonely

15/02/2021

Hvordan har du det med barselsgæster?

barselsgæster

09/01/2021

I used to live communally, when I had my kids. It was great to be a mom with small kids. You were never alone, you took turns cooking, cleaning, doing dishes etc. And you could ask if you had questions.

How do we 'build a village' today?

The family structure we’ve held up as the cultural ideal for the past half century has been a catastrophe for many. It’s time to figure out better ways to live together.

08/01/2021

Listen to this podcast, if you want to know a little more about me.