09/05/2022
"As I began to love myself
I found that anguish and
emotional suffering are only
warning signs that I was living
against my own truth.
Today, I know, this is Authenticity.
As I began to love myself
I understood how much
it can offend somebody
if I try to force my desires on
this person, even though
I knew the time was not right
and the person was not ready
for it, and even though
this person was me.
Today I call this Respect.
As I began to love myself
I stopped craving for a
different life, and I could see
that everything that surrounded
me was inviting me to grow.
Today I call this Maturity.
As I began to love myself
I understood that at any
circumstance, I am in the
right place at the right time,
and everything happens at the
exactly right moment.
So I could be calm.
Today I call this Self-Confidence.
As I began to love myself
I quit stealing my own time,
and I stopped designing huge
projects for the future.
Today, I only do what brings me
joy and happiness,
things I love to do and that
make my heart cheer,
and I do them in my own way
and in my own rhythm.
Today I call this Simplicity.
As I began to love myself
I freed myself of anything
that is no good for my health;
food, people, things, situations,
and everything that drew me
down and away from myself.
At first I called this attitude
a healthy egoism.
Today I know it is Love of Oneself.
As I began to love myself
I quit trying to always be right,
and ever since,
I was wrong less of the time.
Today I discovered that is Modesty.
As I began to love myself
I refused to go on living in
the past and worrying about
the future.
Now, I only live for the moment,
where everything is happening.
Today I live each day,
day by day,
and I call it Fulfillment.
As I began to love myself
I recognized that my mind
can disturb me and it can
make me sick.
But as I connected it to my heart,
my mind became a valuable ally.
Today I call this connection
Wisdom of the Heart.
We no longer need to fear
arguments, confrontations or
any kind of problems
with ourselves or others.
✨
Even stars collide,
and out of their crashing,
new worlds are born.
Today I know, this is Life."
Kim and Alison McMillen,
2001, When I Loved Myself Enough
Artist: Unknown