Life BEING In It

10/12/2024

Two people 🙇🏻🙇🏼‍♂️
Two attitudes🙅🏻‍♂️🤦🏼‍♂️
Two actions🙆🏻🤦🏼‍♂️
The choice is yours…🕺🏻🤦🏼‍♂️

No matter how deep the hole is that you may find yourself. No matter the depth of your depression, disappointment, sadness, loneliness, dissatisfaction, anger, fear or grief…ONE step at a time towards what you do want, leads you to climbing out of your current position, and is your only path to freedom. It’s a solo journey and the choice is yours. Stay where you are and be sad or go within and find a solution that is life saving!
You deserve a wonderful life! Claim it!

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to the life you want.

09/12/2024

In Psychology, especially Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, we are taught to pause before we react to someone’s words, actions and behaviours.
There is not a lot of teaching in relation to people who ‘choose’ to antagonise, disrespect, ignore, put down, dismiss, hate, aggress, poke, laugh at, gossip about, misalign, lie, steal, deceive, and isolate others. Root causes of these behaviours can stem from jealousy or envy, or a need to control others, and because the intention is to make the person suffer, I think it is evil.

How a person reacts to these situations is under scrutiny but not the ‘foul spirit’ of the person who is the persecutor and their ability to choose better for themselves.

For anyone who is a victim, survivor and now possibly a thriver…
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Never stoop to the level of these human beings.
Rise above 👆🏼 walk away, and choose whom you shall BE.

Say what you need to say, or say nothing at all if you know your words will be twisted.

BE a truth teller, hold your head high and sleep peacefully because you are nothing like them.
Forgive yourself if you reacted out of character to what they did to you.

The relationship you have with your Self is the most important one! It’s the one you can never walk away from and so honour your Self by recognising who deserves a seat at your table and respects you for who you are.

08/12/2024

What you’re not changing you’re choosing!
- Laurie Buchanan

Create the life you want - it’s your choice!

04/12/2024

This 🙌🏻❤️🎶 is my message for you today!

Enjoy your day 🤗

03/12/2024

Being a part of a community should inspire you to change and adapt, feel included and part of something special, but it should never strip you of your essence and what makes you, uniquely YOU.

When it comes to working through our patterns of behaviour, for example, the ways we self-sabotage or the type of friend or partner we are, we can only be honest with our Self - in silence. The hard work is in autonomy, seclusion and stilness. We can share with others what is happening in our life and even receive advise, but it is in solitude that you will find all the answers you need.
Ask your Self every question that you need an answer to, and then sit quietly until you get an answer, know what you need to do. You already know the answer, you just have not acknowledged it yet.
If you choose to ignore your own inner knowing you will repeat, repeat and repeat the same situation, over and over, until you do what you know you need to do.
Community should be a celebration of healthy, happy individuals who are prepared to be honest with themselves. Community can be like-minded and supportive. Community is a way to see yourself more clearly through the attributes that you like, or may bother you, when it comes to other human beings. In this way you can change organically as you begin to recognise things about yourself that do not promote your highest Self, or help you to live your best life. It is only in our quiet time we can Self-reflect and where the personal growth ‘magic’ happens on our Self-love and Self-discovery journey.
Your desire to fit in and be accepted, is a certifiable road block to you becoming the best version of your Self. Be aware of your needy-need to fit in.

Instead you could desire to grow through meeting people who think, act and believe differently so you can experience another’s person perspective.
Treat everyone with the respect you want for yourself but know that you do not need to be like them, or act like them or believe the same things to be an amazing person. Your difference is your gift. Ask questions and become interested in why people do what they do. Stand up to those who would bully you or put you down. Do it with respect, integrity and strength of character.
You do not need to bend yourself into someone else’s expectations to be acceptable. It is an extremely high price to pay to ‘belong’ in any community group, work place, or relationship.

You always have the power to choose.

01/12/2024

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What’s on your To Be list? 💙 ~ Nanea

30/11/2024

If only, if only people realised they have the power to choose the life they want. Even though, even though life has been challenging for them. The challenge is yours and only yours to overcome. Your challenges are your life lessons and are your chance to choose rightly for your Self, and live your best life.

But, so many people do not make right choices for themselves. They are making choices based on what others will think of them, or unhealthy behaviour patterns, or many times, self-sacrificing outdated beliefs and attitudes, harmful to your trust in your own Self. The way to a great life is undoing all this and hitting a restart button. A complete overhaul! You have to get reacquainted with your Self. Oh yes-my friend, this is where the journey begins, and it’s a journey you alone are responsible for.

When you see others living life well, happily, and in healthy relationships, understand you can have this also. Recognise where you chose to stay in the wrong job, career, or allowed people to treat you with disrespect, and take you for granted, or where you stayed in a marriage or relationship, that was not healthy for you.
Take responsibility for your current situation and if you are not happy - ASK yourself why. You have all the answers within. Trust your Self! Only you can change your life, and yet so many people are looking for someone else to tell them how to live life well.
Trust your intuition.
- It will guide you to a life of service to others in some way.
- It will align with what you love to do.
- It will not be hard. It will bring you happiness.

Do not look at others with envy or jealousy, judge them unfairly, sabotage, lie, cheat or steal. Covert what they have. With this way of being, you miss out on what is meant for you. Do not fool yourself and wonder why it appears others have it so easy. You do not know the road they’ve been on, or the work they’ve done on themselves, how they’ve been tested or the choices they made to get to where they are.
Don’t measure yourself against another. You are not supposed to BE like them. You ARE supposed to BE like you. Just concentrate on yourself, your betterment and make choices that are aligned with your highest Self. There is no other way!

20/11/2024

People will go to great lengths to avoid doing the inner work to grow and become healthy individuals. They will hold on to relationships that are painful, avoid confrontation and conflicts. Run from their problems rather than face them. It’s not healthy to not be growing and becoming a newer, better version of yourself.
We don’t have to stay the same way we’ve always been. We can change the way we move through life but it only happens when we are able to look at ourselves deeply and see the parts of ourselves we are ignoring.

A person who refuses to face their way of being in the world is a person who is incapable of caring for you, because they don’t care for themselves.

I have more to say about this coming soon!

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13/11/2024

Too beautiful to not share with you today!
Malte Marten ❤️🙌🏻

13/11/2024

Artists are not starving - that ‘lie’ needs to exit any creative persons mind.

Creatives are aligned with their true nature - as creators. They ‘create’ what was not there before, and bring joy to others - not for monetary gain. That’s not the soul purpose for creating - well, it shouldn’t be. Artists create the life they want as they lead and beautify it for others.

Artists are showing the way to happiness.

No-one will ever ‘starve’ when they follow their heart with the purest intentions!

Guess what!! YOU are creating the life you live!

Yes - you!

13/11/2024

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31/10/2024

Came across this post and this was my response!

I hear you … but consider this as you raise your very confused children in this very confused world. Your children will resent you for not teaching them fundamental truths based on faith, facts and science. Feelings are important, YES, but allowing feelings to control one’s life is a SURE failure. Identity should be based on facts, preferences are based on feelings.
We should love and accept others, culture, religion, colour, origin but not to the exclusion of common sense! A good person is a good person regardless of colour, and preferences. The opposite is also true.
Life doesn’t have to be so complicated. But suddenly everyone’s ‘feelings’ and being sure not to ‘hurt’ them has created a generation that cannot laugh….at anything, bordering on miserable. The ability to laugh at one’s self and life is a super power! It will get you through the hard times. Political correctness has everyone staring at their phones, not sure exactly what they are looking for.

The boomers made a lot of mistakes but those of us raised by boomers are resilient, and generational curse breakers - meaning we raised you millennials and gave you everything we NEVER had for ourselves. As we raised you to be go-getters and have the confidence to pursue your life your way, somewhere along the road you became our teachers, paving a new path. This freedom you enjoy is a gift passed down from those boomers who experienced pain, abuse, rejection and injustices- you will never know or understand. Respect your elders and forgive their many mistakes!

That being said - I’ve learnt so much from my millennial children, and I am so thankful.
Every generation learns from the one before. Please respect everyone for their contribution to your life.

I made some mistakes as a parent and being able to say sorry is the best thing any parent can do - take responsibility. This is something the boomers don’t seem to be able to do easily. The X’ers find it easier because we were blamed for the boomers unhappiness.
I hope the millennials will easily apologise to their children for the ‘labels’ and limitations, they so easily place on the little humans they have been blessed to raise.
What keeps my heart at peace, is knowing I loved my children, accepted them for who they are, and gave them everything I could. And I still adore them as adults, now living their own lives and making their own choices. ❤️

Respect every generation before you for their contribution to the life you enjoy. They paved the way for you. Keep your heart grateful.

31/10/2024

It’s honestly never going to make you happy, if you try to put out another’s ‘light’….well, not in the long run. Perhaps you may feel victorious ‘in the moment’ but your relationship with your Self will suffer. You may feel remorse, and suffer from inability to sleep peacefully at night. You WILL BE out of alignment with your higher Self. Your loving Self. To make this more simple - you will not ‘like’ yourself because you KNOW what you did!

Rather than coverting what is someone else’s, understand that it is easy to ‘shine your own light’ by lifting up others around you. Treat people the way you want to be treated, and I promise you, you will never go wrong! Don’t BE afraid to shift your focus to ‘service’ to others in some way. Whatever way is natural to you. This way of BEING, will open a new transformative path that will lead you to an abundant life - and let’s be honest, who does not want that!

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28/10/2024

How beautiful is this ❤️🙌🏻
I just recently added his music to my playlist - so peaceful and joyful 🎁

24/10/2024

What does this picture ‘say’ to you?

24/10/2024

Everyone plays a part in the symphony that is LIFE!
How are you ‘being’ in your life?
What song are you singing?
One of hope or regret? Love or hate? Forgiveness or bitterness? Faith or fear? Truth or lies?

The choice is yours!






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