Feminessence

Feminessence Feminessence is for the brave few - those who are ready to step forward into the path they pave for t Printed magazines. Best selling books. Stylish apparel.
(4)

We want to honour this feminine energy and the women who personify it in their daily lives. Feminessence will be unveiled piece by piece over the coming years. Memorable retreats. Even stunning Jewelry. Feminessence is the MOVEMENT youโ€™ve been longing for.

06/11/2024

Aaaaaand my
collective is FULL!

(I will honour anyone Iโ€™ve already spoken to though so please DM me)

OMG - you really can make money while you sleep ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ’ค ๐Ÿฆ (check out the time)But do you know whatโ€™s more important for me? ...
05/11/2024

OMG - you really can make money while you sleep ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ’ค ๐Ÿฆ (check out the time)

But do you know whatโ€™s more important for me? Is the reason why this client decided to join my collective.

Gosh I love working with my clients so closely. โ˜บ๏ธ

Pretty sure our doors will close today ๐Ÿšช

When a lunch turns into a 6 hour feast ๐Ÿ˜‚ OMG all you can eat carvery ๐Ÿฅ˜. We gave it a good shake ๐Ÿ˜‚ They say your vibe att...
04/11/2024

When a lunch turns into a 6 hour feast ๐Ÿ˜‚

OMG all you can eat carvery ๐Ÿฅ˜. We gave it a good shake ๐Ÿ˜‚

They say your vibe attracts your tribe and well, I can vouch for that. ๐Ÿ™Œ

Have the BEST week friends. Live every day as if itโ€™s your last as one day it will be.

My week is so exciting!!! ๐Ÿคฉ

Final book designs coming through. 4 more women will join my collective. Finishing my painting project. Dinners planned with friends. Date night with hubby and a night of dancing with friends.

๐Ÿ“• ๐Ÿ’ฐ ๐ŸŽจ ๐Ÿฅ˜ โค๏ธ๐Ÿ’ƒ

You? โฌ‡๏ธ (share your week using emojis)

Guess what? My collective is nearly FULL ๐Ÿ’ฅ ๐Ÿ’ฅ OMG. Shut the front door!!! And we will ๐Ÿ˜ In a few days, there will be 40 w...
01/11/2024

Guess what? My collective is nearly FULL ๐Ÿ’ฅ ๐Ÿ’ฅ

OMG. Shut the front door!!! And we will ๐Ÿ˜

In a few days, there will be 40 women aged from early 30s to mid 70s!

All supporting each other to earn $900 a day.

Itโ€™s so friggin awesome ๐Ÿคฉ watching women that donโ€™t know each other, encouraging their every move. Celebrating their wins every time they make a sale. Troubleshooting issues.

A group full of women like this is the reason why they will succeed. Nothing to do with me really. But itโ€™s to do with all of us lifting each other up.

Iโ€™m excited to see who my last few women are ๐Ÿ‘

(This is my excited scary face ๐Ÿ‘ป ๐Ÿ˜ )

๐Ÿ’ฅ Another client WIN! ๐Ÿ™Œ ๐Ÿฅณ And from someone who wasnโ€™t sure she could do it. Love this even more than my own wins ๐Ÿ˜ She i...
31/10/2024

๐Ÿ’ฅ Another client WIN! ๐Ÿ™Œ ๐Ÿฅณ

And from someone who wasnโ€™t sure she could do it. Love this even more than my own wins ๐Ÿ˜

She is on fire now. Helping other people take control back of their own financial future. Gosh I love this industry.

It literally suits anyone. Even non tech people! Introverts. Extroverts. Any trovert ๐Ÿ˜

Now the question is ๐Ÿค”

Are you going to be one of my last 5 people to receive free mentoring inside my collective???

(Imagine if this dropped into your bank account EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. ๐Ÿฆ ๐Ÿ’ฅ)

25/10/2024

Canโ€™t believe it! Iโ€™m so close to hitting USD$30k in less than 3 months!!!
And I barely work ๐Ÿ˜‚

Quite honestly, she was just rude ๐Ÿ˜ค I mean, if something isnโ€™t for you, can you not simply scroll past. Block me. Leave ...
24/10/2024

Quite honestly, she was just rude ๐Ÿ˜ค

I mean, if something isnโ€™t for you, can you not simply scroll past.
Block me.
Leave the country!

Why on earth would you take the time to post a rude, mean, comment when Iโ€™m simply working hard to help people take control of their lives and finances!!!

So what happened was, yesterday I posted a rant (check it out I really had a soap box moment!) and one woman who will remain unnamed (and blocked) decided to tell me that my post made no sense to her and I should not bother explaining it to her ๐Ÿ˜‚ (trust me I had no plans of explaining it!)

When I looked at her profile, she literally had just shared a meme about walking away from people who put you down โ€ฆ so I took her advice and did!

She was doing exactly what she was telling others not to do.

I mean come onโ€ฆ. Whereโ€™s the sisterhood love!!!!

Can we not say something nice or nothing at all.

Do you know whatโ€™s really funny though?

My inbox lit up with women saying they wanted more info and then signing up ๐Ÿ’ฐ!!!

They didnโ€™t get it either but they were open to finding out and once they saw how incredible this digital business is they jumped all over it!

I used to take this stuff so personally.

Now I block and focus on those that get it.

If you know you know. If you donโ€™t please move aside!!!!

(๐Ÿ˜ก Is it ok to SWEAR ๐Ÿคฌ for a sec?)FFS ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™€๏ธ WHY ON EARTH DO PEOPLE DO THIS!Iโ€™m so annoyed by people dancing around the pr...
23/10/2024

(๐Ÿ˜ก Is it ok to SWEAR ๐Ÿคฌ for a sec?)

FFS ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™€๏ธ WHY ON EARTH DO PEOPLE DO THIS!

Iโ€™m so annoyed by people dancing around the problem and not being courageous enough to do what needs to be done.

Do you honestly think there is a bloody reset button to this life we are in?

I mean come onโ€ฆ itโ€™s not an Xbox game!

We donโ€™t get another shot at this.

Iโ€™m so over people asking for info on a 7.3 TRILLION DOLLAR INSUSTRY (according to Forbes) and then sayingโ€ฆ

โ€˜Oh Iโ€™m not sure I can find 2 hours a day to change my families life and bring in more money than I can ever spendโ€™

Oh. My. God. ๐Ÿซฃ

Are you serious right now?

Emily in Paris can be watched anytime. Itโ€™s recorded people!!!!

If youโ€™re not willing to do what others are, then PLEASE donโ€™t expect that you will have what they have.

And stop commenting on my travel posts telling me how โ€˜luckyโ€™ I am!!!

I seized this opportunity with both hands, feet (and chins letโ€™s be honest here) and gave it my all.

The system is there to follow.

I learnt it over and over and over again and did what it said every step of the way. Itโ€™s why Iโ€™ve generated over $28k USD in a few months. Thatโ€™s not small money people.

But donโ€™t stress, just go back to your shows and couch time and let this opportunity pass you by.
(Can you tell Iโ€™m annoyed ๐Ÿ˜ก)

Why oh why do some people use the same excuses theyโ€™ve used their entire lives, but then ask me about something that will literally change their life and then take NO action!

I just donโ€™t get it.

I saw this opportunity and shouted to the woman to stop talking and SHUT UP AND TAKE MY MONEY.

I didnโ€™t flood her inbox with 4 million messages to then come back and say โ€˜no I just wouldnโ€™t have time for thisโ€™.

(Ok I think my rant is done ๐Ÿ˜‚ that feels better. FB is a place for therapy right ๐Ÿ˜)

And breathe ๐Ÿง˜ Sharโ€ฆ now back to my 32 (about to be 34) women who turned Netflix off, are teachable and open to my (free) mentoring.

As you were peeps. Iโ€™m all good now ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜

You can stand down now ๐Ÿ˜‚

Oh. Happy Wednesday ๐Ÿ’ƒ ๐Ÿ’ƒ

(That actually felt really good to get off my chest. I care so much about people doing it tough, but Iโ€™ve realised in 20 years of business that you canโ€™t care more than they doโ€ฆ next!)

PS. Me at a comedy night with friends the other day. Laughter is a great medicine.

๐Ÿ˜ฏ.   Missed opportunities can suck ๐Ÿ˜ฏ. But sadly we only find out how much it sucks, after the opportunity has passed us ...
21/10/2024

๐Ÿ˜ฏ. Missed opportunities can suck ๐Ÿ˜ฏ.

But sadly we only find out how much it sucks, after the opportunity has passed us by.

At the time it presents itself, we are busy with the life we have created.

We canโ€™t see how on earth we could fit this in.

But we created our own busy. We say yes to all the things that make us busy right?

Have you ever wondered (or is it only me here ๐Ÿค”) that the opportunities you are seeing are actually meant for you?

I mean think about it โ€ฆ

There are literally billions of opportunities there. Or maybe even trillions!!!

Yet you happen to see this post, with this opportunity. ๐Ÿ™Œ

Does it make you wonder if thatโ€™s because THIS particular opportunity is the one that you have been calling in.

I meanโ€ฆ maybe right?

Have you been sitting there on calls with friends telling them you never quite have enough $$$ to pay your bills.

Or you donโ€™t go on enough holidays. ๐Ÿ˜”

Or maybe itโ€™s that you tell them you are over trading time for money coaching every day and are feeling quite exhausted.

The universe (or whoever you believe in) does actually listen!!!

And then you open social media and ๐Ÿ’ฅ you see my post.

Coincidence? ๐Ÿค” maybe not?

Didnโ€™t you just ask for a way to have money coming in while you sleep, work, eat, travel etc?

And then sadly, what many people do is they โ€ฆ scroll on by ๐Ÿ˜ฏ!!!

They donโ€™t connect the dots.

This literally could be the thing that you have been calling in for weeks, months or even years, but you miss it completely.

Maybe because you donโ€™t resonate with the photo. Or there are not enough emojis. Or something else.

But the truth is. (Are you ready for it?)

๐Ÿ’ฅ YOU CALLED ME INTO YOUR LIFE ๐Ÿ’ฅ

Letโ€™s be honest with each other as I know you like it that way too (and itโ€™s the only way I roll)

Take ownership of the fact that you were meant to see my message right now.

Think about itโ€ฆ there are literally millions and millions of posts out there. So why did you see this one? The one that is offering you a proven system in a box for less than a grand!!! One sale gives you your ROI!

You manifested the solution to the problems youโ€™ve been banging on about for months or even years.

So take action ๐Ÿ’ƒ

Donโ€™t scroll past! ๐Ÿ›‘

Comment โ€˜SHAR-ZAMโ€™ now!

(yes thatโ€™s a nickname I was given by my mentoring clients when I used to trade time for money back in the day!!!)

Orโ€ฆ scroll on past. Donโ€™t love heart this post and keep grinding away. I know you donโ€™t want that gorgeous or you wouldnโ€™t still be reading my ramblings would you now?

So. Take action. Mark this date in your calendar as the day YOU said ENOUGH ALREADY!!!

Letโ€™s do this Ladies ๐Ÿ’ƒ

(3 women have signed up with me since Friday and we now only have 9 spots left before I close the ๐Ÿšช to my collective forever)

PS: This is not fake scarcity.
My coffee table book is my focus in 2025 along with semi retirement and loads of travel, dancing and FUNNNN. My collective will close when we hit 40 women (now at 31 as of this mornings new client).

PPS: my hubby and I are living life like someone left the gate open. Simple living packed with fun. This was us at karaoke the other night (he has never done it before but is a way better singer than me. No windows were broken in this activity ๐Ÿ˜‚)

Imagine if this was coming into your inbox ๐Ÿฆ ๐Ÿ™Œ ๐Ÿ›Ž๏ธ I used to hate getting emails, but now I canโ€™t wait ๐Ÿ˜‚ Would a few sale...
19/10/2024

Imagine if this was coming into your inbox ๐Ÿฆ ๐Ÿ™Œ ๐Ÿ›Ž๏ธ

I used to hate getting emails, but now I canโ€™t wait ๐Ÿ˜‚

Would a few sales like this in USD make a difference to your life?

(If you want more info just ask. My collective is closing when I hit 40!)

๐Ÿ’– ALRIGHT FRIENDS.... I'M LOOKING FOR 11 WOMEN WHO ARE SERIOUS ABOUT CHANGING THEIR FINANCIAL FUTURE BY CHRISTMAS. (Yes ...
18/10/2024

๐Ÿ’– ALRIGHT FRIENDS.... I'M LOOKING FOR 11 WOMEN WHO ARE SERIOUS ABOUT CHANGING THEIR FINANCIAL FUTURE BY CHRISTMAS.

(Yes I'm shouting! ๐Ÿ—ฃ)

If you are:

1/ Teachable
2/ Teachable
3/ Teachable
4/ Sick and tired of having no $$$ at Christmas
5/ Wanting to book holidays whenever YOU want
6/ Yearning for a space filled with positive women to help you
7/ Have a spare few hours a day (or can turn netflix off)
8/ Internet and a phone
9/ Teachable
10/ Teachable

Let's not waste anymore time.

Comment 'PICK ME' below NOW. ๐Ÿ’ฅ

(This girl is on a mission to help a total of 40 women ONLY and I never give up. The only way this doesn't work for you, is if YOU give up!)

PS: I've decided to ๐Ÿคœ CLOSE MY DOORS ๐Ÿค› to my private collective when I hit 40 clients (11 more places).

2025 for me is about my coffee table book and semi-retirement and LOT'S AND LOT'S OF TRAVELLLLLLLL ๐Ÿ˜

PPS: My clients know (and may share below) how much support and training I give... ALL FOR FREE! They are teachable and get results because of it.

So, what say you my friend?

(Someone needs to hear this, not sure who ๐Ÿค”)        Our lives are one big canvas. ๐ŸŽจ We all start with a blank one. Somet...
14/10/2024

(Someone needs to hear this, not sure who ๐Ÿค”)

Our lives are one big canvas. ๐ŸŽจ

We all start with a blank one. Sometimes we paint a picture that we donโ€™t like. It happens. The beautiful thing about that is, that we have the choice to paint it white and start again!!!

Itโ€™s our canvas. Nothing is set in stone!

My gosh, Iโ€™ve painted my canvas white many times in my life. Itโ€™s probably a metre thick at this point ๐Ÿ˜‚

It really doesnโ€™t matter! If your life isnโ€™t quite what you like right now, grab the white paint and make it new again.

Start over. Create a new design. And keep doing this until you can stand back and look at your life and go wow, Iโ€™m so happy ๐Ÿ˜€

I painted over mine this yearโ€ฆ. Again!!!

I jumped head first into the digital space as it felt so exciting and fun and I knew I could change lives when I shared this with them.

28 lives so far have changed. Iโ€™m not breaking any records but thatโ€™s not the point.

If I could line up my 28 clients and stare into each of their eyes (in a non creepy way of course) I would see women who crave a life filled with travel, joy and fun. With more money than they can ever spend. My heart is so full knowing I was able to help them create a new design for their life.

By the end of this year my goal is to have helped 40 people (calling in another 12 clients) and then Iโ€™m considering closing my private collective and spending time with these women only to help them paint their canvas of life.

Next year is a massive year for me. My coffee table book project will launch in March and my focus for most of the year will be the launch, marketing and promoting the book because it will be the envy of coffee tables everywhere and itโ€™s my job to ensure that your coffee table doesnโ€™t miss out ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜‚

What does your picture look like for 2025?

Decisions you make in the next few months, will frame your year. Jump in and take chances, as life waits for no one.

Christmas and New Year will be here before we know it and my collective will have 40 clients and close. Possibly forever.

Pick up your paint ๐ŸŽจ brush today and start designing your life. Please donโ€™t wait.

PS: this graphic below speaks so much to how I feel right now. I love it. If you had a graphic what would it look like?

๐ˆ ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐š ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐Ÿ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฆ๐š๐ค๐ž...๐Ÿ˜’It may surprise you actually (it surprised me when I realised I had been doing it for yea...
11/10/2024

๐ˆ ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐š ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐Ÿ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฆ๐š๐ค๐ž...๐Ÿ˜’

It may surprise you actually (it surprised me when I realised I had been doing it for years!)

And it actually made so much sense, and once I knew, I became aware of how draining it was and made changes straight away.

๐’€๐’๐’– ๐’”๐’†๐’†, ๐’‡๐’๐’“ ๐’š๐’†๐’‚๐’“๐’” ๐‘ฐ ๐’˜๐’‚๐’” ๐’‚ ๐’“๐’†๐’”๐’„๐’–๐’†๐’“.

If someone needed help, I would jump in head first and rescue them. Mentor them, support them, do whatever I could to help them get their life and business back on track.

To the point that I would end the day being exhausted. ๐Ÿ™„ Pouring so much of myself into them, that I left nothing for myself.

I realised I was filling a void within myself (I'm sharing my truth here so be gentle with your comments below) and by rescuing them, it made me feel needed and important maybe? Like I was going to be their saviour, but in fact, it didn't serve me or them!

And it had to stop.

I used to attract broken people into my life... all the time.

On the surface they would look confident and full of life, but then as we spent more time together, I realised they were part of the 'fake-book' society (yes that's a real thing!).

It was like a BFO for me (blinding flash of the obvious).

Wow, it hit me!!! They were hooking their hoses up to my positivity tank, filling up and leaving me empty (have you ever felt this?)...

Why on earth had I spent so many years with people that literally took from me and never gave back. OMG... it was time to wake up!

Boundaries were needed pronto!

These people weren't prepared to do the hours I was in business. Or the big projects. Or jump into new business trends, but they sure wanted the life we had (and still have but now in a different country).

It's amazing when you have a realisation that some of your 'friends' were only there for their needs not yours. Friendship MUST be two way, or no way for me now. Give and take. or adios amigos.

I'll always give more than I take however now, if you don't give at all then please make space for someone new in my life.

Is it an age thing?

Not sure it is (open to your thoughts) I guess it could be, as when you click over 50, you realise you are over the half way mark and time becomes a precious commodity more than ever.

Every hour I spend with someone is an hour I won't get back. It has always been that way, however now it means more somehow.

Even in business (and I don't work much anymore thanks to our life by design) however, I am more discerning who I share this digital venture with.

I prefer people who 'learn and earn' don't ask 4,000 questions prior to jumping in (I mean it's less than a grand to invest for a proven system, it's not hundreds of thousands) because the 'jump and build the plane on the way down' people are my kind of tribe.

I mean, who hasn't been burned before by a business deal, partner, MLM etc etc, we all have had a deal/business/relationship go wrong.

So what. That's life. It doesn't mean that this is a scam, or that it's not going to work out this time.

You'll never find out if you are so resistant to this new industry and you could be leaving $$$ on the table.

Not my problem (lol) as I won't be answering a million questions for something with such a low buy in. I don't answer that many questions when I sell our 100k offers!!! (and I'm no longer a rescuer remember).

Some people blame their current reality onto society, environment and other factors. your current reality is a direct reflection of you, your decisions, your energy and your tribe! (ouch, that may be too much truth for some of you however I always call it like I see it and say it with love)

I know my hard times have been a direct reflection of the person I was back then. No one to blame. I didn't blame my mentor or the program I was in. Programs work, people don't. That's the truth.

I've had so many people reach out through my posts and messenger asking for info on my digital business. Some take action straight away, others don't. Either way is fine for me, however for them... not so much. ๐Ÿ’ฅ

Some will have a better Christmas than others. Some will have a better 2025 than the others.

Both are fine as I know my plans for 2025 and the life I will have (do you?).

I can only rescue me (and some days that's a full time job). Not everything I touch turns to gold, sometimes it' turns to ๐Ÿ’ฉ but one thing I know is, when my candle is about to s***f out, there is not much I will regret.

Even these posts, I know many of you read them and follow me, but only some comment. It would be great to see you comment below on how this resonates with you as I'm sure I'm not the only recovering rescuer in a sea of nearly 5,000 friends on here...

So, show yourself!

PS: And my inner circle know there is nothing I won't do for them, because they give as much as they take... and I hang onto these people for life. ๐Ÿ’–

09/10/2024

Who wants to help someone they know? โœ‹

Do you know someone who would benefit from earning extra $$$ leading up to X'mas?

You may have more money than you can spend (love that for you!), but maybe you know someone struggling...

Here's the link She Travels and Profits - it will make you feel good I promise ๐Ÿ˜

08/10/2024

My inbox is filled with people wanting more info about my business!!! Love my life ๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ™

Have you ever felt so grateful for your life that you could just scream??? That's how I feel today. โ˜บ๏ธ Perched up on an ...
08/10/2024

Have you ever felt so grateful for your life that you could just scream???

That's how I feel today. โ˜บ๏ธ Perched up on an island that people come to for holidays, but I get to live here.

Receiving emails saying...

๐Ÿ’ฅ'CONGRATULATIONS, YOU'VE MADE A SALE OF USD$900!!!' all while I'm painting, or swimming or having a cocktail.

I'm no longer chained to my computer, sitting at my desk for hours on end.

And the best part for me, is I'm taking others on the journey so they can receive emails like this Every. Single. Day.

Most days I don't even know what day it is (maybe that's an age thing ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…)

What are you grateful for today??

๐Ÿ™ƒ๐Ÿ™ƒ 5 years ago, my only travel was the few weeks of holidays we would get every year. (๐Ÿ™ƒthat simply WASN'T enough!)Back ...
07/10/2024

๐Ÿ™ƒ๐Ÿ™ƒ 5 years ago, my only travel was the few weeks of holidays we would get every year. (๐Ÿ™ƒthat simply WASN'T enough!)

Back then it was just a dream. Here I am in Positano, about to board a ferry to Amalfi and take some more photos for my brand shoot.

I remember sitting quietly on the ferry and asking myself 'how could I do this whenever I wanted to, rather than just for my annual holiday'.

You see my life back then was hectic. Kids, 3 businesses, travel, events, magazine and book publishing and all the other things that go into raising a family.

Me time was non existent. ( ๐Ÿ™ƒ even on the toilet, am I right parents?)

The end wasn't in sight, in fact, I honestly thought this would be my life for years to come.

I know I'm not alone in saying this, but the events of the last few years made me sit up and ask myself 'what if I could create a new reality and design my life my way?'

And although there were a lot of moving parts, that's what we did.

None of us know when our light is going to go out and I wasn't going to sit around burning myself into the ground and not do the things I wanted to do. I only get one shot at this life!! (and so do you FYI).

Fast forward to now... 18 months travelling the world with most of it spent on a gorgeous island drinking coconuts. (ok and frozen margaritas! โ˜บ๏ธ)

I released my old conditioning and beliefs that I had to be tied to a computer, camera ready doing back to back sales calls (ugh am I right...) and found a new booming industry that was easy to learn, all set up and ready for me to still earn while travelling. (So glad I did as some days I genuinely don't know what day it is, which for a recovering control freak says a lot!)

My hope for you is that you will look carefully at your life as we wind down 2024 in 12 weeks and ask yourself if you are willing to rinse and repeat this year (and probably the past few years or more) and do it all again....

OR... (yes there is another way if you're open)

Ask me to invite you to a webinar explaining this industry and how it could be something for you to consider in the future.

(just comment WEBINAR below, I only have 10 spots โ˜บ๏ธ)

For things to change, we must change. My only wish is that I explored this opportunity much sooner as it was offered to me, but I got turned off by misinformation that it was MLM or salesy or spammy... that's on me and I lost time.

Don't do what I did!

I know someone out there reading this right now, is feeling my words and you judged this space like I did. It's ok, I get it.

But now you know it's potential, take action and make 2025 the year you take control of your finances and happiness. (with my help)

It all starts right here, right now... go for it my friend! ๐Ÿ’–

PS: No I'm not in Positano right now however I will be back soon and you can come with me!!! Comment WEBINAR and let's take control of our lives together.

โ€˜Are you ALWAYS like this Shar?โ€™ she saidโ€ฆ๐Ÿค” I sat with that for a moment, as I wanted to truly understand what she was a...
04/10/2024

โ€˜Are you ALWAYS like this Shar?โ€™ she saidโ€ฆ

๐Ÿค”

I sat with that for a moment, as I wanted to truly understand what she was asking.

It was during a call I had with a woman, who I had a lot of respect for. On โ€˜fake-bookโ€™ she appeared to have it all. I put her on a pedestal that I later realised she had no place beingโ€ฆ

In those few minutes and with one question, she made me doubt myself. ๐Ÿ˜”

I was young in business and my passion, energy and love for my clients was off the charts!!!

She told me to survive in business, I needed to tone down my passion. Tone down my puppy like excitement. And tone the F*** down my child like innocence around ever having clients that you will like enough to travel the world with.

WTF ๐Ÿ˜ณ

Who says that to someone who is bursting with goodness!

Needless to say I never spoke to that woman again. Her business was all but non existent a year later and mine was thriving.

๐Ÿ™Œ Sometimes our mentors teach us what NOT to do and that is also very powerful.

Over the years since then (this was close to 11 years ago) Iโ€™ve had other people hint towards the fact that Iโ€™m over passionate, too positive and full on. I run at opportunities like a bull to a red flag (and yes this new digital business is no different! I mean if you knew what I do, you would be in the ring with me too ๐Ÿ‚ ).

I mean why wouldnโ€™t I love what I do. Iโ€™m travelling the world with my man, helping other people do the same and have so much fun in the process!

Otherwise I may as well sip margaritas all day. If you donโ€™t put your heart and soul into something, why bother am I right? ๐Ÿค”

It was such an important lesson for me to NEVER, I repeat NEVER ๐Ÿ›‘ let anyone dim my light. And you shouldnโ€™t either.

How dare she. ๐Ÿ˜ก

As I matured in business I came to realise that my light and energy threatened her. So sad. There was enough for her and me to go around. 8 billion people on the planet remember.

If youโ€™ve had a moment like this, you may understand how in that split second, I had two choices.

Trust and listen to her and change who I was OR, TURN THE LIGHT UP AND SHINE EVEN BRIGHTER ๐Ÿ’ก๐Ÿคฉ !!!!

Iโ€™m sure you know which one I chose ๐Ÿ˜‚

Has this ever happened to you? ๐Ÿค”

And now everyday I have people asking how they can join my collective and make passive income. They have seen the free trainings (worth thousands) I offer my clients and they want IN. ๐Ÿ™Œ

But hereโ€™s the thingโ€ฆ

I actually donโ€™t accept everyone. Some people ask for info, donโ€™t reply to me, ask more questions then take no action. ๐Ÿ˜  Iโ€™m fiercely protective of my collective as we have 28 women from all over the world who show up every day to learn, support each others wins and answer each others questions. Iโ€™m not going to just let anyone in. Itโ€™s my business after all right.

This digital program is out there. If you look hard enough you can buy it from anyone.

But unfortunately the digital industry is a little like the Wild West at the moment. Not a lot of integrity. I hear it everyday with people buying programs and the moment they have a question, the seller doesnโ€™t respond. So sad. ๐Ÿ˜ž

So as people are hearing about my collective and the support from my team and myself daily (except weekends I mean come on a gal needs some time for her margarita addiction right ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜‹) we are there for our clients.

Free training. No monthly fee to be part of our collective. I donโ€™t know anyone who is offering this. Iโ€™m sure they are out there but I can promise you, they are few and far between.

My clients know Iโ€™m all in with them. Until they start making sales, I will help them.

But the reality is, I also have another company. And my impact coffee table book is about to heat up as we slide further into production, pre-marketing, launch in NYC and post marketing. My travel plans will kick off and I wonโ€™t be able to support too many more people.

So Iโ€™m considering closing the doors to my collective soon. ๐Ÿšช ๐Ÿ›‘

Which means that you wonโ€™t get access to this support, or if you do, there will be a monthly fee to honour my time. All existing clients will remain inside for free of course. Iโ€™m too nice remember ๐Ÿ˜œ

Many of you have been in contact with me for weeks/months researching this opportunity. This is my gentle yet firm nudge that if you want IN, โœ… do it soon.

And please please research the person you buy from and ensure they have an ounce of integrity and will support you once the money hits their account !!

So I would like to thank that lady 11 years ago for solidifying my authentic personality, as it has served my clients well and provided an abundant lifestyle for me and my family. ๐Ÿ˜Š

Never change who you are for anyone.
Seize opportunities as they knock (like this one)
And always be the best version of yourself, then find the people who truly value you and make them your tribe.

Big squishy heartfelt hugs and love to anyone who has read down this far ๐Ÿ˜‚

PS: 12 weeks till Christmas. Comment Santa below if youโ€™d like to earn passive income and be part of my collective โœ…

Address

Gold Coast, QLD

Alerts

Be the first to know and let us send you an email when Feminessence posts news and promotions. Your email address will not be used for any other purpose, and you can unsubscribe at any time.

Contact The Business

Send a message to Feminessence:

Videos

Share

Category

Feminessence is here...

Feminessenceโ€ฆ itโ€™s time to unleash yours

We live in an amazing time.

A time where more women are leaning into their talents.

Where more female entrepreneurs are backing themselves and striking out on their own.