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Budding roses of the burning garden…Where ground is molten lavaAnd clouds make acid rainWhere the wind blows the fireOve...
21/03/2025

Budding roses of the burning garden…

Where ground is molten lava
And clouds make acid rain
Where the wind blows the fire
Over nascent floral lanes

There lay the budding roses
Cowering under smoky skies
Whimpering out of fear
With reddened watery eyes

The nests are all empty
The trees are all bare
The withered, burning garden
Tells a haunting tale to scare

Where grass was once blooming
There’s smoke, dirt, and ash
The mourning air is heavy
Reeking blood and burning flesh

Tiny limbs are scattered
Like rotten, brown leaves
One death after the other
The doomed land grieves

Just waiting for their turn
Young survivors behold
This bloodbath will end soon
“have faith”, they are told

Comforting each other
Of prospected heavenly bliss
While wondering deep inside
Could hell be worse than this?

What is wrong with the house-help system in Pakistan?An insight into the most underrated and dysregulated profession acr...
07/11/2024

What is wrong with the house-help system in Pakistan?
An insight into the most underrated and dysregulated profession across the country:

If there is one common feature among every second household in large metropolitans across the country, it is the presence of at least one house help; the terms and conditions vary greatly of course. Even in modest households, a part-time sweeper for sweeping and mopping the floors is a regular thing. Ironically, for a profession that is represented by hundreds of thousands of people, albeit below the poverty line, there is too much that is wrong and needs to be addressed.

a) No formal documentation and contracts:

With few exceptions, hiring a housemaid in Pakistan does not require any documentation or contractual basis that could bind any party. It’s an informal interview conducted by the lady of the house whereby the terms of salary, compensation, timing, resignation, and termination are verbally decided and are often very conveniently violated. It’s an easy come easy go policy where both parties enjoy the freedom and liberty it gives them and hate the same for the other party. As an employer, one would deem it reasonable to have their maid stay longer on tough days or work on weekends if one has guests coming over or even work on festivals and national holidays for paltry compensations. Likewise, maids and servants would love to dump their entire family’s health and education expenses on their employer and mint money whenever possible, effectively playing the misery and poverty card while conveniently taking days off as per their liking and backing out of a commitment at most crucial times. There is no authority to check either side.

b) Undocumented personnel

Surprisingly enough, many people who engage in household help do not even have the most basic identity documents like ID cards and are non-existent officially. Slums and ghettos neighboring posh areas and gated societies make the supply line of such undocumented manpower and there is no number count, no database, and no records to keep track of the personnel or their services. Where official grants and subsidies can’t reach them, since their existence is not documented, it is equally difficult to track them in case they commit a crime and vanish. But apparently, it’s not a matter of concern for most people as long as their household chores are taken care of.

c) No defined JDs

Though adherence to the contractual job description is not strictly observed in many other departments as well in Pakistan, house-help is particularly notorious for not having any limits or boundaries around what you can ask your maid to do for you. From sweeping your toilets to eating your leftover food to rubbing your feet, they do it all.

d) Sheer lack of institutional basis

A few agencies in some provincial capitals have recently started providing house-help services but the stats are very low and a major populace is adamant about doing it the conventional way without involving any third party. Of course, agencies tend to regularize the process and bring it under certain rules and checks which, unfortunately, neither the hiring nor the hired are willing to abide by.

e) Abuse, ill-treatment, disrespect and exploitation

Since the profession is largely devoid of any institutional basis, a natural byproduct is abuse and exploitation on so many levels – and it is both ways. People associated with this profession are mostly looked down upon and are not treated with respect, particularly in the case of minors. In worst cases, they have met inhuman treatment at the hands of their employers ranging from verbal and physical abuse, overburdening, harsh punishments over petty mistakes, and generally degrading practices like making them sit on the floor, allocating separate pots and utensils, treating them like untouchables, taking them to restaurants but not letting them sit alongside the family etcetera. Nevertheless, behaviors like manipulative exploitation, excessive use or abuse of resources, inefficiency, and inadequacy in the performance of tasks are rampant on the part of house-help workers.

f) No rules, regulations, or accountability

Since there is no governing body or regulatory authority involved, the house-help system has no formal rules and regulations and therefore, no accountability. There are no standardized procedures to follow and a lot is decided based on how good a bargaining power one has. It is fairly possible to find two maids serving in two households performing the same chores but one being paid half of the other, and there is no one to intervene. Likewise, there is no one to decide how many clothing articles a person can wash or the number of dishes one can do per day for how much compensation.

g) Forced child labor

Despite all the laws regarding child labor, a large number of minors are working as house helpers in various cities of the country. Some are even forced to do the labor while the parents/custodians conveniently collect the wages from the employers. The lack of regulations and documentation makes it so easy for both parties to impose labor on children. Some employees even consider it a favor by claiming that we are keeping them in far better conditions than their own families. Children as young as ten years old can be seen working as domestic workers and this readiness encourages the likes of their parents to keep making babies undeterred.

h) No criteria

Interestingly, for someone who needs to work closest to you and your family, have access to your valuables, and more than often, is going to handle your kids, there is no well-defined criterion of hiring; at least none that can be verified or proven.

i) Rendering a large populace unfit for proper/formal jobs

The current house-help system and its dynamics might be convenient for some factions of society but unfortunately, it is rendering a big chunk of the population unfit for other jobs. The workforce used to domestic help and its informal procedures does not feel and realize the need for legalities and technicalities and is often rigid towards it, hence mitigating the chances of any reforms in the system or betterment in their own lives. As long as the meager house-help salaries are putting food on their tables, they are not inclined to improve their skill set and seek better opportunities. The hand-to-mouth circle barely leaves funds for decent education for children which ensures a never-ending cycle of poverty and continues an endless supply of domestic helpers in successive generations.

j) Breeding hubs for thieves

Many of the above-listed facts together provide excellent breeding grounds for thieves and criminals. Imagine being deprived, hungry, underprivileged, and frustrated while coming across riches, mostly unsupervised with no reputation, legal status, or social standing at stake. While police are hardly involved in cases of insignificant misplaced items from home, the greatest penalty one can face is losing a job, which is hardly a thing to bother in this profession since there is always another home in need of a domestic worker.

Vacuum for entrepreneurs and governmental agencies to fill:

Where a lot is due on the part of federal and provincial governments to bring these masses on books and take measures for their proper habilitation, there is a clear vacuum and untapped opportunity on the part of entrepreneurs and investors to transform this profession into an organized, regulated and well-paying industry.

• Open a network of agencies providing house help across the country with standardized procedures on the pattern of the international market.
• Hire individuals with basic ID documents through proper contracts.
• Liaise with governmental authorities to reach out to people without official IDs and encourage them to come under the ambit of official documentation by offering jobs in this sector.
• Set and propagate examples of healthy habilitation for others to follow in their footsteps. With every person opting to work through proper channels, there will be one less in the pool of haphazard, unskilled, undocumented workforce.
• Define terms of engagement with the clients whereby securing rights and obligations of both sides.
• Encourage more people to hire through agencies by providing security, efficiency, and commitment that is lacking in the system otherwise.
• Offer multiple short-term and long-term engagement options to clients to cater to their diversified needs.
• Standardize the rates and tasks to avoid exploitation and divide the tasks into categories to ensure the right payment for the right task. Allocate adequate timeslots for the chores. For instance, someone called for a two-hour cleaning session is not obligated to wash a carpet which is a separately charged service.
• Establish a system of feedback and accountability. Reward the efficient employees and vice versa.

Changing narratives about money management in the wake of revolutionized banking:A couple of decades back, bank loans or...
09/10/2024

Changing narratives about money management in the wake of revolutionized banking:

A couple of decades back, bank loans or mortgages had numerous stigmas attached to them, and debt was believed to indicate distress, if not destitute. Credit cards were the earliest forms of debt that met with some degree of acceptance and were considered a tool for the rich rather than the poor. As the banking industry flourished and the user base expanded, credit cards transformed from their primitive forms, offering rewards, privileges, cashback, and unbelievably high credit limits to credible users – certainly not the poor ones. So, the myth of debt as an indicator of poverty has long been burst. The modern world uses the terms ‘good debt’ and ‘bad debt’ to exempt a good chunk of debts from the stigmas, and aptly so.

Good debts and bad debts:

One of the fundamental differences between good and bad debts is that the former increases your net worth in the future, and the latter depletes it. It is certainly bad debt if you take a loan to meet your everyday expenses or buy depreciating assets. However, mortgages, business loans, student loans, or any investment that has the potential to increase in value and generate wealth comes under the realm of good debt.

Is ‘good debt’ mandatory for thriving in the modern world:

The answer to this question depends on your individual goals. With changing times, definitions and meanings of wealth and luxury are also evolving, with modern wealth being viewed as far more than having some spare money at your disposal. In today’s world, the wealthy are those who do not have to sell their time to earn a living. They have multiple income streams and passive income channels and are free to pursue their dreams and passions instead of being trapped in a cycle of living paycheck to paycheck. Unless you are born with infinite riches, attaining this goal is not possible without taking some leverage from ‘good debt.’

‘Good debt’ is leverage, not burden:

As established earlier, gone are the days when all debt was considered a burden to be avoided. Good debt, nowadays, is the leverage that modern man can prudently use to increase his net worth and multiply his assets to generate passive income. Like all new inventions and innovations, wealth-building has evolved, and orthodox means have a great degree of limitation as compared to contemporary ones. Where it took the hard work of three generations in the past to build cherishable wealth for one generation, now it takes the smart work of one generation to build wealth for the subsequent three – thanks to tools like mortgages and soft loans. For good or evil, banks, lending bodies, and financial institutions are at the heart of contemporary finance management, and when effectively used, the results are lucrative and far-reaching. Good debt is here to widen the arena of opportunity manifolds for the modern man and enable him to bring what once belonged to the realm of far-fetched dreams into the realm of attainable reality.

A couple of decades back, bank loans or mortgages had numerous stigmas attached to them, and debt was believed to indicate distress, if not destitute. Credit cards were the earliest forms of debt that met with some degree of acceptance and were considered a tool for the rich rather than the poor.

Everyone owes something to banks one way or other, the millionaires even more. That is how the finance works in the cont...
09/10/2024

Everyone owes something to banks one way or other, the millionaires even more. That is how the finance works in the contemporary world. Be a part of it or be deprived!

Home Mortgage in UAE - Make investments not debt

08/03/2024

Happy women's day to all the uncelebrated, unsung women who are displaying resilience, consistency, courage, strength and kindness in all the roles they are effectively playing in everyday life while the media glorifies the likes of Mariam Nawaz who are a negation to the vigor and valor of thousands of struggling, hardworking women.

12/02/2024

Mafia’s Princess (Story No:4)

Mafia’s Princess ,a cunning and ambitious noblewoman, seized control of the kingdom’s military through a combination of manipulation and deceit. With her charm and wit, she ingratiated herself with the army’s high command, using promises of power and wealth to secure their loyalty.

Once in control, Mafia’s Princess began to use the army to enforce her will upon the kingdom. She levied heavy taxes on the common people, lining her own pockets while leaving the populace impoverished. Dissent was swiftly quashed, with anyone who dared to speak out against her disappearing without a trace.

Under Princess command, the army became feared throughout the land, with tales of their brutality spreading far and wide. Villages were pillaged, innocent lives were lost, all in the name of maintaining Mafia’s grip on power.

Despite her deceitful actions, she remained adept at maintaining a facade of innocence.

Scott Bennett

12/02/2024

Had I been a PML(N) or PPP supporter (God forbid), the thought would have given shudders and haunted me non-stop that what if, WHAT IF, it had been a level playing field...

My unanimous spirit with the mothers of Gaza says…What bad did I do, so bad to pay this hefty cost In less than a month,...
28/10/2023

My unanimous spirit with the mothers of Gaza says…

What bad did I do, so bad to pay this hefty cost
In less than a month, three thousand kids I lost
Mutilated, burnt, bruised; kids that did no harm
While fighting for their lives, some died in my arms

I yelled and cried and whined, but all went in vain
My babies kept dying in excruciating pain
Some were decapitated; they couldn’t even cry
Nothing could save them, I couldn’t even try

The one that died last night was a very naughty chap
He’d tug at my locks, and in excitement he would clap
I’d often say amused; he’s growing up so fast
Nine months he had seen, when he breathed his last

Petrified I pleaded, don’t proclaim him dead
O angel of death, please take me instead!
But take him they did, with so many more
And left me amidst the bloodshed and gore

My eight-year-old, who was gentle and meek
Been mourning his friends and died last week
Was lain before me in a blood-soaked shroud
He’d say he’ll grow up to make me proud

My daughter was a brainy; she was witted and smart
Chatting was her hobby, making friends was her art
Alone she got buried under stones and cracked mud
Fully clad in crimson – it was her own blood

The agony we are facing, I just cannot narrate
Our homes, in an instant, we were told to vacate
Grieving over losses and mourning our deceased
A nasty surprise on the way we received

With mere survival instinct on our mind
In a bid to live on, we left everything behind
A refugee caravan – unarmed and bereaved
Little did we know, there’s more to be grieved

Death we left behind and death faced us ahead
We did migrate to see our more people dead;
They hit us with bombs as their orders we obeyed
To commit war crimes, they are not a bit afraid

Our children were fatigued, they did it for our best
They ended their ordeal, they put them to rest
For missiles to kill us, for our hopes to shatter
It takes a few explosions for our colonies to clatter

They break us every day, they call us human shield
My babies are slaughtered in the vast open field
O martyrs of Gaza, when I look at this spree
I wish I were barren, hadn’t given birth to thee

14/10/2023

It is widely said and believed that luck, intentions and performance of rulers determine the fate of the nations. Impact of their doings trickles down to the lowest level. It may seem irrelevant to many but under Imran Khan, the nation was flourishing on many fronts. PCB as an institution flourished resulting in improved performance by the team and many victories for the nation to cherish. On the other hands, condemned rulers bring ill fate, disrespect and humiliation to the nation. Nature stops favoring you. The jungle withered when Mufasa died!

13/10/2023

Heart-wrenching news and visuals pouring in from Gaza. An ultimatum has been issued by Israeli authorities to vacate Gaza in 24 hours. Over 500 children have been martyred whereas the total death toll has risen above 1500. War crimes are in full display - including the use of white phosphorous which is banned by international law - and the world is watching in silence while the western media is breaking all records of hypocrisy and bias.
If you, even for a moment, allow yourself to feel the agony and let it sink in, I bet you won't be able to sleep at nights. May Allah put this butchery to end 😭

09/10/2023

I just want share my perspective on something I came across a few times. I have seen lately in many posts women using this preamble to build some argument that their bhabhi/bahu comes form a lower middle class background while their family is well off. This thing is often obvious in our society where women very derogatorily talk about the bahus/bhabhis coming from lower socio-economic backgrounds than theirs and it's very unnerving. If we must take pride in abundance, let's take pride in something we built for ourselves and if it's just about extending claim on a man's / guardian's money, a woman is as much entitled to her husband's money as she is to her father's. Allah chose to bless you with resourceful father and her with a resourceful husband. Your share of abundance was in father's home and hers in husband's home. It doesn't make you more entitled to luxury than her. It's all naseeb. I hope we become a little conscious towards the toxicity we keep spilling unconsciously (in some cases). Born rich or married rich, in both cases, it's not something of our own doing. Let's be more humble.

27/05/2023

After witnessing the sequence of events starting from Imran Khan’s arrest to the current plight of PTI, all I can think of is, someone somewhere must have said with a smirk “See, I told…

25/05/2023

Is 9 May the new Pearl Harbour?

After witnessing the sequence of events starting from Imran Khan's arrest to the current plight of PTI, all I can think of is, someone somewhere must have said with a smirk "See, I told you it will work".

A few weeks earlier, despite pending cases against Imran Khan and PDM alliance ruling the country – albeit partially – the air reeked of mistrust on the ruling authorities and military establishment and public sentiment was highly in favor of Imran Khan. Every PTI worker and supporter was waiting for the election day to celebrate their sure shot victory which just seemed a small hedge away. Things clearly seemed to be slowly slipping away from the hands of the ruling elite in the wake of country’s crippling economy, massive price hike, unprecedented inflation and worsening law and order situation. An office less Imran Khan was constantly climbing the ladder of popularity and was emerging as an icon of hope and liberation for the masses. It was widely accepted that Khan and PTI was just ‘elections’ away from power.

However, it took two days to turn the tables. Khan was illegally arrested from Islamabad High Court premises and kept in custody for two days whereby the countrywide protests erupted amidst massive crackdown from state authorities. Landmarks and monuments burnt down by the so called PTI protestors – same protestors that previously could not meddle with containers and blockades during their rallies and marches. Some sensitive targets got attacked – including the ones in the minds of the masses. And there came one of the worst onslaughts by a state on its own people. A dozen killed, many tortured and humiliated and hundreds arrested. PTI was blamed of invoking the wrath of titans and is visibly paying the price with its leaders and workers along with their respective families arrested, snubbed, humiliated, threatened, disarmed and demoralized. Courts’ bails and orders thrown in trash, fair trials denied, access to lawyers restricted, families dragged into mess, businesses ruined, reputations destroyed, properties damaged, open use of backdoor channels is rampant to break the back of PTI manpower and bring it to ashes. Patience and persistence of PTI leaders and workers is being severely tested. People are being subjected to impossible choices before they appear on screen, condemn the happenings of 9th May and announce their resignations from PTI while the PDM alliance vehemently talks about putting a ban on the party. Clearly, no one is asking for immediate elections anymore.

11/05/2023

When boots operate, brains don't!!

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