12/11/2024
She is 34 and a mother of 5yrs twin(boy n girl) and am 37 with no kid, her humility, kindness and love for me and my family made me agreed to make her mind.
In a discussion with her mum, it was said the guy ignore them since pregnancy as the abortion failed. That was OK with me, after close to 2yrs of relationship we got married and my parents really love her.
We will be 4years in marriage this December, only for my mother inlaw to visit us to tell me the father of the kids came to apologise with his family and wants to take care of his kids....hmmm, I only told her now that you made me adopt the kids and they are writting my name how is this gonna be? She said they will start writing their dad's name.
I called my wife and she said that was what the guy came to say and his parents forgave him and wants him to take up responsibilities, I only told them the guy should meet me and the family so that whatever he want to give to the kids should be giving to me to be delivered to their mum...I will take the kids to him whenever he wants to come for them or will meet me for the kids welfare but not to have anything do with my wife.....herrrrrrrr my wife got angry saying that won't work since she is their mum..hmmm for over 9 to 10yrs you never heard of him as they said why now you are all welcoming him?
I got home and went to the kids room to see none of them, i ask my wife only to say they went on Weekend vac at their dad's place, I was furious cos at least tell me.
My wife got home last Friday 9pm only to say she went for money for their upkeep leaving the 2kids home alone meanwhile people know their are my kids and they don't lack anything
I invited her parents to take the kids to their dad or adhere to my protocols for the kids discipline and the mum n my wife said they disagree with me, I can't take this to my parents as they were not in support of her with kids but her behaviour made them approved her.
She was hawking doing nails 💅 before I married her n set up that shop for her in the house n she has 4apprentice as well.
Her going out almost every weekends in the name of going to take money or provision when am home or not is hurting, I have regretted marrying her and have lost love and trust and I want to divorce but my parent will mock me is my fear.
Or is there anything I can do to let her know am been hurt for her to stop.????
We don't have a child yet since we married
*NB: PLEASE AM NOT SAYING SINGLE MUMS ARE ALL BAD PLEASE*
