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09/12/2024
05/12/2024

Here is the funeral program of my late Mom. Mama Grace Litika who passed away on the 03rd of December 2024 after a brief illness.

- Friday 13th December 2024, Wake keep at her residence in Songe Mensai and all night vigil.

- Saturday the 14th of December 2024,
- 8.00 am, Removal of the mortal remains from the Shisong Hospital Mortuary and conveyance to Mensai.

- 9.00 am, arrival at the residence at Songe in Mensai and laying in state.

- 10.00 am Funeral mass at the Catholic Church Songe in Mensai and burial at the Catholic Church cemetery.

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Adieu mummy 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
04/12/2024

Adieu mummy 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

RESPONSIBILITIES OF A FATHER IN A FAMILY: PRIMARY RESPONSIBILITIES:1. Providing financial support2. Emotional guidance a...
03/12/2024

RESPONSIBILITIES OF A FATHER IN A FAMILY:

PRIMARY RESPONSIBILITIES:

1. Providing financial support
2. Emotional guidance and support
3. Disciplining and setting boundaries
4. Role-modeling values and behavior
5. Protecting and ensuring family safety

EMOTIONAL SUPPORT:

1. Listening and validating feelings
2. Offering comfort and reassurance
3. Encouraging open communication
4. Supporting partner's emotional needs
5. Modeling healthy emotional expression

DISCIPLINE AND GUIDANCE:

1. Setting clear expectations and rules
2. Teaching life skills and values
3. Encouraging responsibility and independence
4. Modeling respectful communication
5. Providing constructive feedback

FINANCIAL PROVISION:

1. Managing household finances
2. Providing for family's basic needs
3. Planning for future financial security
4. Saving for children's education
5. Ensuring family's economic stability

ROLE-MODELING:

1. Demonstrating integrity and honesty
2. Modeling respectful relationships
3. Teaching respect for authority
4. Encouraging physical and mental well-being
5. Embodying values and principles

PARENTING PARTNERSHIP:

1. Co-parenting with mother
2. Sharing childcare responsibilities
3. Collaborating on discipline and guidance
4. Supporting partner's parenting style
5. Maintaining united front in parenting

COMMUNITY INVOLVEMENT:

1. Participating in children's activities
2. Volunteering in community or school
3. Building relationships with neighbors
4. Role-modeling social responsibility
5. Fostering community connections

PERSONAL GROWTH:

1. Pursuing personal interests and hobbies
2. Continuing education and self-improvement
3. Maintaining physical and mental health
4. Setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care
5. Seeking support and resources when needed

INFLUENCING CHILDREN'S DEVELOPMENT:

1. Shaping moral and ethical values
2. Encouraging educational and career goals
3. Modeling healthy relationships
4. Teaching life skills and independence
5. Fostering emotional intelligence.

WHAT MANY PEOPLE DON'T UNDERSTAND ABOUT LOVE:My love...✍🏾1. There will be times I will be so mad at you and cold towards...
03/12/2024

WHAT MANY PEOPLE DON'T UNDERSTAND ABOUT LOVE:

My love...✍🏾

1. There will be times I will be so mad at you and cold towards you. It's not that I hate you. I am just disappointed by what you did, my love hasn't gone any where

2. There will be times I will not spend as much time with you as you wish me to. It's not that I am ignoring you, I am working hard for our future

3. There will be times I will say or do something wrong. It's not that I meant to hurt you, we all fall short sometimes. Forgive me, teach me to love you

4. There will be friends in my life. But never doubt that you are my first priority

5. There will be moments I will not be that conversational, I will not be so fun to talk with. It's not that I find you boring. My mood has changed, I need some minutes to myself, I will come around

6. There will be moments where I want to scream at you and say all that is in my head in anger. It's not that you are my enemy, but sometimes you get on my nerves. I will control my temper and my tongue, you're still the one that I love

7. There will be moments where you want s*x but I will not be up to it. It's not that I don't find you s*xy anymore or I am cheating on you. I am just tired, allow me to rest and I will s*x you good when I am refreshed. I love the s*x in our marriage

8. There will be wonderful people of the opposite gender at work and in public, they dress well and are successful; some of them more successful than you. It doesn't mean I will abandon you and chase after them

9. There will be moments where I will be tough on you. It's not that I am trying to change you or treat you like a baby. I am only challenging you to be better because I know your potential

10. There will be moments where I forget things, special dates or a duty I said I will do. It's not that I am taking you for granted, sometimes in this busy life, the mind forgets

11. There will be days when things between us will get so tough and we might seem like we are falling apart. It's not that I am letting go, it's just a passing storm. Don't ever doubt my love

Life has ups and downs, no day is the same. But love, love is constant

TRUST IS WHEN...1. Your spouse gets close to your phone and you don't get uncomfortable2. Your spouse has friends of the...
03/12/2024

TRUST IS WHEN...

1. Your spouse gets close to your phone and you don't get uncomfortable

2. Your spouse has friends of the opposite gender and you don't become at ease

3. Your spouse networks and you don't become wary that he/she might find someone better than you

4. Your spouse can have friends who are not necessarily your friends but you are aware of who they are

5. Your spouse can bless others without you feeling there is a hidden motive

6. Your spouse can dress and groom well and you won't assume it is because he/she wants to impress someone else

7. Your spouse can succeed in life, make more money and you don't get scared they might leave you for another

8. Your spouse can have fun without you always in the picture. Your spouse’s smile is your priority

9. Your spouse suggests a new s*x style and you don't think "Who taught you that?"

10. Your spouse can have an argument with you and you trust that he/she will not use that as an excuse to get close to someone else

Is S*X the only thing you do as a couple? If yes, that is dangerous and shallow and you are missing out on the potential...
03/12/2024

Is S*X the only thing you do as a couple? If yes, that is dangerous and shallow and you are missing out on the potential of your marriage. Are you a s*xual spouse or an intimate spouse? What is the difference between s*x and intimacy? What is the whole purpose for s*x? What is the psychology and science behind s*x? Why is intimacy more of an experience than a science? Why do we as a society have more of S*X EDUCATION and not so much of INTIMACY EDUCATION and what is the effect? What makes some s*xual experiences more memorable than others?

Why do some people keep chasing after s*x from multiple people, what exactly are they looking for? What is actually behind online s*xual platforms of p**n and adult content, and what exactly are some married people looking for there? Why are there some affairs married couples find themselves in that are difficult to leave? What is the strategy to affair proof your marriage? What is the best strategy when you see your spouse being attracted to someone else and moving away from you? Who is a husband and a wife once you strip down the ego and societal expectations and pressure? How can you both be naked and unashamed? How can you use s*x to better your marriage?

03/12/2024

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03/12/2024

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03/12/2024

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02/12/2024

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THE HARDEST PART OF MARRIAGE YOU WON'T BE TOLDMarriage is sweet when you examine it from a far, of those who have succes...
02/12/2024

THE HARDEST PART OF MARRIAGE YOU WON'T BE TOLD
Marriage is sweet when you examine it from a far, of those who have successful marriage or the lovey-dovey of newlyweds, but when you enter into, you will discover that what is behind number six is more than number seven.

Many prepare so well for the romantic aspects of marriage, but very few groom themselves for the realities in marriage. Do you know that the hardest part of marriage plays a dominant role in marriage than the romantic moments?

However, what breaks marriage isn't the lack of romance, but the couple's inability to withstand the hardest part of marriage.

There are some hard things about marriage that you are not likely to be told, but I will only share 5 of them with you.

1. Staying faithful
It's easy to abstain from s*x as singles if you have not tasted how sweet s*x is, but it's very difficult to stay faithful in marriage when you are denied s*x for no just reason.

The temptation to commit adultery is greater than the temptation to fornicate as singles.

Because you now know how s*x taste, seduction would come from those who are willing to give you or have a fling with you. In some cases, when your spouse becomes cold on s*x matters, there are several others who want to give you a hot and sizzling s*x.

You need more discipline to stay faithful in marriage to your spouse emotionally, and s*xually especially in this age when cheating has become a norm.

If you have not been faithful to stay s*xually pure now that you are single, it will be very difficult for you to master it when you are married.

Marriage doesn't cure adultery, self control does!

2. S*xual Issues
See, it is wise that you keep yourself s*xually pure till marriage - purity in thoughts, action and word. All those who are deceiving you that who virginity epp only want to destroy you.

One of the hardest part about marriage which many cannot come by is on the issue of s*x. One partner is a novice while the other is an Emeritus professor in lo******ng; one has a high s*xual libido while the other can stay for months without it and still feel sane.

Virginity helps you to be s*xually discipline, it prevents you from undue and ungodly exposure to s*x that could either make you hate it with perfect hatred or make you a maniac in it.

3. Money matters
Since it's said that money answers all things, money also destroys many things. As money can spice up love in marriages, it can also ruin it.

What is your perception about money?

Can you pull your purse together or separately?

As a woman, do you have the warped mentality of my money is my money, but your money is our money?

As a man, are you ready to work and earn a living or you want to live on your wife's income while dictating how the money will be spent without bringing anything to the table?

Can you open up to your partner about your financial life without secretly building an estate in the village while you feed on his or her money like a parasite?

Until you two resolve this before marriage and in marriage, it is hard enough to crack the nut of your marital bliss.

4. Unmet expectations
If you have been dreaming of having her remain a slim shady, but eventually after pregnancy, she became a size 15, how would you cope?

If he had been the romantic and available man, but after marriage, the quest for green pasture took him miles away, can you survive this?

It is wise and better to prepare for the toughest part of marriage so that you can cope with them when they come, surely they will come. As much as you prepare for sunshine, don't forget to prepare for storms when they come before rain falls.

5. Handling differences
Whether you agree or not, handling differences is one of the leading causes of divorce in marriage. Many marriages fail due to irreconcilable differences.

How do you plan to reconcile your differences in marriage should they come?

If he presses the toothpaste from the middle, and she had been raised to be meticulous by pressing it neatly from the base, can you tolerate this?

If she likes the food cold or warm, and you prefer it hot with steaming heat, can you adjust?

These and many others are the toughest part of marriage that you must brace up for. Wedding is just a day or two event but marriage is a lifetime journey.

More than the excitement of the married life, more than the grandeur wedding ceremony, have you been transformed by the renewing of your mind to face any challenge in marriage when they come?

Delay in child bearing, loss of job, relocation, in law issues, financial crisis, trying times or spiritual issues may come; you need to be prepared for whichever one life throws at you so you don't chicken out when they come.

Marriage is haaaard, I'm not scaring you; it's just one of those truths you might not likely be told or you don't want to hear. Finding the right person to marry is hard, but staying married is the hardest in the face of life's realities.

As much as you are preparing for the romantic sides, brew your mind for the hardest part so you can stand having done all when the flood descend, when the rain falls and the wind beats upon your union.

15 Reasons Why a Woman with Previous Multiple S*x Partners is a Dangerous Choice for MarriageGentlemen, let’s get real. ...
02/12/2024

15 Reasons Why a Woman with Previous Multiple S*x Partners is a Dangerous Choice for Marriage

Gentlemen, let’s get real. A woman’s history matters. If she’s had a multiple s*x partners, she’s not going to make the stable, loyal wife you need to build a secure future. The truth is harsh, but ignoring it will only lead you to a path of frustration, heartbreak, and even financial ruin. Let me break it down for you, unfiltered and straight to the point. Here are 10 reasons why women with high body counts struggle to maintain stable marriages and are statistically more likely to divorce you.

1. She Will Always Compare You to Other Men

A woman who’s been with many men carries the memory of those experiences. She’ll measure you against every man she’s ever been with—how they made her feel, what they gave her, how they performed in bed. It’s a never-ending comparison game that you’ll never truly win. No matter what you do, she’ll always find a reason to feel dissatisfied because she’s used to variety. This constant comparison erodes the foundation of any relationship.

2. She’s Confused and Struggles to Know What She Wants

When a woman has been with multiple partners, it clouds her sense of direction and priorities. She becomes indecisive, unsure of what she truly values in a man or a relationship. Her past partners have left conflicting imprints on her, leaving her emotionally scattered. She lacks clarity, making it nearly impossible for her to fully commit to one man.

3. She Cannot Be S*xually Satisfied

Let’s face it: someone who has experienced multiple s*xual partners often develops an insatiable appetite for variety. She’s used to new thrills, new sensations, and constant novelty. This makes it difficult for her to settle into a long-term, monogamous relationship. She may begin to resent you for not satisfying her unrealistic expectations, leading to infidelity or divorce.

4. She Is Likely to Have Had Many Abortions

With a high body count comes a higher likelihood of unplanned pregnancies and abortions. This doesn’t just leave physical scars; it creates emotional baggage that she brings into the marriage. Many women don’t openly share this part of their history, but the guilt, shame, or indifference toward life can surface in ways that damage your relationship.

5. She May Still Be Talking to Her Exes

Women with high body counts often maintain connections with their exes—whether out of nostalgia, unresolved feelings, or convenience. These lingering ties create unnecessary drama and mistrust in your relationship. Imagine competing for her attention with the ghost of every man she’s ever been with. It’s exhausting and unhealthy.

6. She Cannot Pair Bond with You

Pair bonding is the emotional connection that develops between partners in a committed relationship. A woman who’s had numerous s*xual partners has weakened her ability to pair bond. Each time she forms and breaks a bond, the next one becomes harder to maintain. This makes it nearly impossible for her to fully attach herself to you, emotionally or otherwise.

7. She Is Broken and Carries Emotional Baggage

Every relationship leaves its mark. A woman with a high body count carries the emotional wounds, disappointments, and traumas of every failed relationship. This baggage weighs heavily on her and, by extension, on you. You’re not just dealing with her; you’re dealing with the emotional debris left by every man she’s been with.

8. She’s Used to Jumping from One Man to Another

Old habits die hard. If she’s spent her 20s bouncing from one relationship to another, she’s unlikely to break that pattern in marriage. The moment things get tough, her default reaction will be to leave and seek validation elsewhere. She’s conditioned herself to believe that men are replaceable, and that mindset doesn’t change overnight.

9. She Thinks She Can Always Replace You

A woman with a high body count often develops a sense of entitlement. She believes there will always be another man willing to take your place. This belief gives her little incentive to work through problems or value the relationship. Instead, she’s constantly looking for the next best thing, making her unreliable and untrustworthy.

10. She’s Ungrateful and Entitled

The more men a woman has been with, the more entitled she becomes. She’s used to being pursued, spoiled, and validated by men, which makes her unappreciative of genuine effort. Instead of valuing what you bring to the table, she’ll always feel like she deserves more. Gratitude is the cornerstone of a healthy marriage, and entitlement is its enemy.

The Bigger Picture

Marriage is one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make, and choosing the wrong partner can cost you your peace, your finances, and your future. A woman’s past doesn’t just disappear—it shapes her character, her mindset, and her behavior. A high body count is not just a number; it’s a reflection of patterns, habits, and values that are incompatible with the stability marriage requires.

The Data Doesn’t Lie

Statistically, women with fewer s*xual partners are more likely to have long-lasting marriages. Studies have shown that women with high body counts have a significantly higher divorce rate compared to those with minimal s*xual history. This isn’t about shaming; it’s about understanding the reality of human behavior and making informed choices.

Final Word to Men

Men, protect yourselves. Vet women ruthlessly. Ask the hard questions and don’t ignore the red flags. Society might tell you to look past a woman’s history, but the truth is, her past is a strong predictor of your future with her. Don’t gamble with your peace, your resources, or your legacy. A woman who’s lived recklessly in her prime years isn’t likely to suddenly become the stable, loyal partner you need.

Stay sharp, choose wisely, and never settle. Marriage is too important to leave to chance.

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Happy birthday mummy Delly Singah Official Age with grace.
02/12/2024

Happy birthday mummy Delly Singah Official
Age with grace.

THE SECRET TO GREAT S*XYou want great s*x in your marriage, you want to be faithful, you want your wife to have incredib...
01/12/2024

THE SECRET TO GREAT S*X

You want great s*x in your marriage, you want to be faithful, you want your wife to have incredible s*x with you when you want her, and you also want her to make s*xual advances towards you.

But are you willing to invest in her to get all that?

Hold up, hold up! Before you start thinking investing in her has anything to do with money, you are wrong.

Investing in her, means investing into her emotions, her heart.

You see, the key to a woman's s*xual treasure is to connect with her emotionally. A lot of husbands think that just because she is the wife, s*x is a guarantee. But when you hurt her emotions or neglect her emotions, you are ruining great s*x for yourself.

Women equate s*xual intimacy to emotional intimacy; in fact, some value emotional intimacy more than s*xual intimacy. When you take care of your woman's emotions, it is almost automatic that she will release herself to you s*xually and even be the one jumping on you to have s*x. Women who feel loved emotionally tend to be very h***y and s*xually assertive.

How do you attend to her emotions? Check how her day has been, pay attention to her feelings, don't belittle what she goes through, compliment her physical beauty but also her inner beauty, be faithful but also don't do things that make her suspect you are cheating, talk to her in a courteous and respectfully manner, find out about her dreams and fears, have intimate conversations with her, don't make her feel lonely, don't ignore her the whole day, make her feel special through your words and deeds, talk to her as someone important not casually or a s*x object, apologize to her when you wrong her, you may not be perfect but show her you are working on treating her better, touch her even when s*x is not the agenda, make her laugh, involve her in your life and decisions, appreciate her for all she does for you and the children... all these do not require money.

When you sow this emotional intimacy with her, what you will reap is the greatest s*x in your marriage. Your emotional care is the greatest aphrodisiac, it makes her wetter than Lake Victoria and adds the intensity to her or***ms.

Do not laugh at a woman with children of diffferent fathers for you don't know the story behind that. Sometimes men can ...
01/12/2024

Do not laugh at a woman with children of diffferent fathers for you don't know the story behind that. Sometimes men can be wicked to kind and good hearted women

Imagine a God fearing lady whose first love was a seemingly God fearing brother in Christ.This man married her with a very powerful and colourful wedding.The man abandoned her for well educated and well to do lady.The man told her off that she was no longer his class.He left her with a child and a pregnancy for the second.Then came a man,healed her wounds and married her.She felt happy again,but her happiness was shortlived after her second husband died in a trafic accident,leaving her with a third child.Then 5 years after the death of her second husband came another man,showered her with some love. Although this man was not well to do,she bought into his charming stories and dated him.The fourth child was born. Years into the relationship this man started showing her his true colours.He was a womaniser,a charmer and a grossly irresponsible man without self respect.
To protect the future of her children and hers,she broke up with that man.

Now tell me,is this woman a weak easy goer or she's just been very unlucky?

Don't laugh at her,you don't know what another woman has been through for her to have children of different fathers.
I stand to be corrected

S*XUAL HEALINGMy Love,I am sick,I am ailing,My heart is broken.It's been a tough day,I have been under a lot of stress.I...
30/11/2024

S*XUAL HEALING

My Love,
I am sick,
I am ailing,
My heart is broken.

It's been a tough day,
I have been under a lot of stress.
I just wanted to run away from the world,
This world has given me blows.

I can't think straight,
I feel tense and on the edge.
I am losing it my Love,
I am not OK.

I can pray, yes.
But there is something else that will soothe,
Something else that will comfort me.
That is your body, your touch.

Darling,
I hope you know the power you have over me.
Your touch makes me forget my worries,
Your body is my hospital.

Treat me my Love,
I am not well.
To your well I come to drink water,
Don't deny me my medicine.

My diagnosis is serious,
Your s*xual healing can save me.
You not only give me pleasure,
You are my treatment.

Inject your care into my veins,
Take me to a place far away from my pain,
Cure me with your kisses,
Your nudity is my Pharmacy.

Overdose me with your prescription,
Knock me out till I sleep like a baby, your Baby.
Tomorrow I will wake up ready to face the day,
After your s*xual healing.

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