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29/04/2024

Don't enter into people's lives this will happen.

03/04/2024

The Hardest Part of Marriage You Won't Be Told

Marriage is sweet when you examine it from a far, of those who have successful marriage or the lovey-dovey of newlyweds, but when you enter into, you will discover that what is behind number six is more than number seven.

Many prepare so well for the romantic aspects of marriage, but very few groom themselves for the realities in marriage. Do you know that the hardest part of marriage plays a dominant role in marriage than the romantic moments?

However, what breaks marriage isn't the lack of romance, but the couple's inability to withstand the hardest part of marriage.

There are some hard things about marriage that you are not likely to be told, but I will only share 5 of them with you.

1. Staying faithful

It's easy to abstain from s*x as singles if you have not tasted how sweet s*x is, but it's very difficult to stay faithful in marriage when you are denied s*x for no just reason.

The temptation to commit adultery is greater than the temptation to fornicate as singles.

Because you now know how s*x taste, seduction would come from those who are willing to give you or have a fling with you. In some cases, when your spouse becomes cold on s*x matters, there are several others who want to give you a hot and sizzling s*x.

You need more discipline to stay faithful in marriage to your spouse emotionally, and s*xually especially in this age when cheating has become a norm.

If you have not been faithful to stay s*xually pure now that you are single, it will be very difficult for you to master it when you are married.

Marriage doesn't cure adultery, self control does!

2. Sexual Issues

See, it is wise that you keep yourself s*xually pure till marriage - purity in thoughts, action and word. All those who are deceiving you that who virginity epp only want to destroy you.

One of the hardest part about marriage which many cannot come by is on the issue of s*x. One partner is a novice while the other is an Emeritus professor in lo******ng; one has a high s*xual libido while the other can stay for months without it and still feel sane.

Virginity helps you to be s*xually discipline, it prevents you from undue and ungodly exposure to s*x that could either make you hate it with perfect hatred or make you a maniac in it.

3. Money matters

Since it's said that money answers all things, money also destroys many things. As money can spice up love in marriages, it can also ruin it.

What is your perception about money?

Can you pull your purse together or separately?

As a woman, do you have the warped mentality of my money is my money, but your money is our money?

As a man, are you ready to work and earn a living or you want to live on your wife's income while dictating how the money will be spent without bringing anything to the table?

Can you open up to your partner about your financial life without secretly building an estate in the village while you feed on his or her money like a parasite?

Until you two resolve this before marriage and in marriage, it is hard enough to crack the nut of your marital bliss.

4. Unmet expectations

If you have been dreaming of having her remain a slim shady, but eventually after pregnancy, she became a size 15, how would you cope?

If he had been the romantic and available man, but after marriage, the quest for green pasture took him miles away, can you survive this?

It is wise and better to prepare for the toughest part of marriage so that you can cope with them when they come, surely they will come. As much as you prepare for sunshine, don't forget to prepare for storms when they come before rain falls.

5. Handling differences

Whether you agree or not, handling differences is one of the leading causes of divorce in marriage. Many marriages fail due to irreconcilable differences.

How do you plan to reconcile your differences in marriage should they come?

If he presses the toothpaste from the middle, and she had been raised to be meticulous by pressing it neatly from the base, can you tolerate this?

If she likes the food cold or warm, and you prefer it hot with steaming heat, can you adjust?

These and many others are the toughest part of marriage that you must brace up for. Wedding is just a day or two event but marriage is a lifetime journey.

More than the excitement of the married life, more than the grandeur wedding ceremony, have you been transformed by the renewing of your mind to face any challenge in marriage when they come?

Delay in child bearing, loss of job, relocation, in law issues, financial crisis, trying times or spiritual issues may come; you need to be prepared for whichever one life throws at you so you don't chicken out when they come.

Marriage is haaaard, I'm not scaring you; it's just one of those truths you might not likely be told or you don't want to hear. Finding the right person to marry is hard, but staying married is the hardest in the face of life's realities.

As much as you are preparing for the romantic sides, brew your mind for the hardest part so you can stand having done all when the flood descend, when the rain falls and the wind beats upon your union.

29/11/2023

Chronicles 29:13: "And now we thank you, Our God, and praise your glorious name." Psalm 30:12: "That my glory may sing your praise and not be silent. O Lord my God, I will give thanks to you forever!" Jeremiah 30:19: "Out of them shall come songs of thanksgiving, and the voices of those who celebrate.
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21/03/2023

To the best Thank you for always providing me with hope, encouragement, joy, and support. You are the best, and I hope that your birthday is as unforgettable as you are. Everyday I learn something new from your grace, wonder, and compassionate soul. Here's to another year of invaluable life lessons. Happy birthday, Mom. Love you love you love you

19/02/2023

Why is hell so awful? One, it was created for satan and his demons. Secondly, because people don’t realize that hell is the absence of God.

There’s no air in hell...because God is a breath of life.
There is no peace in hell...because God is the prince of peace. There is no comfort in hell...because God is the comforter.
There is no love in hell...because God is love.
Hell is darkness...because God is the light.

You don't have to go there!

But there is only one way to escape it, and that is through salvation in the name of Jesus Christ.

18/02/2023

Eyaya

14/02/2023

📢 MARRIAGES..👂

Around 2am the Holy Ghost opened my ears as I continued listening. Another discussion was on marriages, "Work hard, destroy and break them apart. I want more divorces", I heard😔
Brethren, if you are not aware of this by now, the kingdom of darkness hates marriages, Kingdom marriages to be precise. You should not by any means stop praying for your marriage, even when everything is beautiful and perfect, the kingdom of darkness lays snares and traps everyday, using people's shortfalls and weakness. Where you think you are standing firm and strong, is where you can trip and fall (1 Cor.10:12📖)...

Legions of demons were released with the sole mission to destroy marriages. There are those " oblivious Christians" that don't believe demons can afflict believers, well if a door is opened through ignorance to scriptures and sin, affliction takes place. I saw men who have issues with lust receiving pictures of naked women on social media. They looked in lust and a door was opened for the enemy to attack their marriages.
If there is too much of confusion, stife, accusations and rejection within your marriage, pray it's a demonic plantation that may lead to seperation if ignored.
Get rid of ponographic materials and don't practice what those actors do on those movies. They are not to "spice up" your s*xual intimacy, they are the property of marine spirits and will give the enemy legality to attack..
Once you start comparing your spouse to your "exes" or desiring someone else apart from the person you are married to, then you are opening a door for attacks, you need to pray..
Don't take unneccessary time away from your spouse, handle your marriage with the outmost wisdom (1Cor.7:5📖).

We know that God does not change and he is the institutor and orchastrator of marriage, and yes he takes no pleasure in divorce according to his word. That has been the ultimate plan of the enemy to go against the divine purpose of God. If you are not sure, if you are not ready don't marry. If you will run to the divorce court over arguements and disagreements, rather wait until the Lord gives you the wisdom to handle such...
God loves you all....

💖

09/02/2023

Could be the reason as to why the Angels could always say fear not when they appear to mankind.

09/02/2023

Prophet Uebert Angel

26/01/2023

Busy commenting on Ben Lombe's page ati my darlings but you can't comment on your pastor's post, bana ba Gomorrah imwe🤥

25/01/2023

Respect my mum just as you Respect yours

"*One Afternoon A Husband Arrived Home With Sad News.

*HUBBY:* Baby, I just received a call: mother is not feeling well. Shall we go to town and get some necessities for the Visit? Please write a list and then we can go.

*WIFE:* A list won't be necessary, we'll just get 2 cabbages and 2 litres of cooking oil.

*HUBBY:* Is it going to be enough really?

*WIFE:* Yes Sweetie, No need to waste money,of course it's gonna be enough.

(They Left For Town & After Getting 2 Cabbages & 2litres Of Cooking Oil, During the purchase The Hubby Asked His Wife Again If that Was All.
She Emphasized the Issue of Not Wasting Money On an impromptu Visit.
They Then Hit The Road Towards The Village & Where The Road Branches To Different Villages, The
Hubby Driving, Took A Turn To His Wife's Home.)

*WIFE:* ( _Shocked_) where are we going honey? I thought you said we're going to visit your mother.

*HUBBY:* Yes, we are. It's your mother(our mother) who is not feeling well.

*WIFE:* ( _Shocked & crying_) But the things we bought are not enough! Let's go back and get some more stuff.

*HUBBY:* No! I asked you over and over if it was all that you
needed & you said *"YES"*. We ain't going back......

*_MORAL OF THE STORY:_*

Do unto others, what you want others to do unto you!".If you like it, Simple as that .

I hope there is at least little sense in this my post ?!

20/01/2023

You are wasting time catching something that will never be yours when you can invest the same, valuable time in something that would pay off. You are generally defying your own importance and your capabilities by not running after more important things.

Time is money and at your young age, it should be a priority for you to save it and spend it on as much essential things and businesses as possible.

Even if you thought that what you had with them was perfect and they were perfect for you, they are not because they chose to part ways.

Even if you thought you had found your soulmate, you now need to realize that they did not think so. And a person who does not think of you like you think of them, how do you expect them to be your soulmate? You don’t.

Let’s assume the person you are begging to stay stays. What then? Do you think the relationship will be as good as it was when they were in it willingly?

The answer is no. The relationship will be hollow without their full consent. You will never have what you want from them and the relationship. Moreover, you won’t be able to trust them because they will feel free to go out with other people since it was you who wanted them to stay and love you. They will shrug, cheat and move on again.

Love yourself enough to love someone else.

To your continuous growth and wellness.

♥️

19/01/2023

Shoprite Chilenje In Water.

(Picture: Kalemba)

19/01/2023

Imwe, 5 reasons why men lose interest in their wives after few years of marriage✍

16/01/2023

THIS HIT ME HARD.

Have you ever noticed how in the scriptures men are always going up into the mountains to commune with the Lord?

Yet in the scriptures we hardly ever
hear of women going to the mountains.
But we know why — right?

Because the women were too busy
keeping life going;
they couldn’t abandon babies,
meals,
homes,
fires,
gardens,
and a thousand responsibilities to make the climb into the mountains!

I was talking to a friend the other day,
saying that as modern woman
I feel like I’m never “free” enough
from my responsibilities,
never in a quiet enough space
I want with God.

Her response floored me,
“That is why God comes to women.
Men have to climb the mountain to meet God, but God comes to women where ever they are.”

I have been pondering on her words for weeks and have searched my scriptures
to see that what she said is true.
God does in deed come to women
where they are,
when they are doing their ordinary,
everyday work.

He meets them at the wells
where they draw water for their families,
in their homes,
in their kitchens,
in their gardens.

He comes to them
as they sit beside sickbeds,
as they give birth,
care for the elderly,
and perform necessary mourning and burial rites.

Even at the empty tomb,
Mary was the first to witness Christ’s resurrection,
She was there because she was doing the womanly chore of properly preparing Christ’s body for burial.

In these seemingly mundane
and ordinary tasks,
these women of the scriptures found themselves face to face with divinity.

So if — like me — you ever start to bemoan the fact that you don’t have as much time to spend in the mountains with God as you would like. Remember, God comes to women. He knows where we are and the burdens we carry. He sees us, and if we open our eyes and our hearts we will see Him, even in the most ordinary places and in the most ordinary things.

He lives. And he’s using a time such as this to speak to women around the world.

-Heather F

16/01/2023

THE GIFT OF GOD IS ETERNAL LIFE

Power Life Embassy
“For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” ‭‭Romans‬ ‭6‬:‭23‬ ‭

Jesus carefully explained that service to him required Believers to become his true followers and serve Him: “Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock:” ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭7‬:‭24‬ ‭

•Through the spirit of Christ we pass from death to eternal life. The natural mind is an “enmity against God.”
•Human nature does not follow God’s law and cannot please God.
•Scripture proclaims “if any man has not the Spirit of Christ, he is none of his.”
•A transformation occurs in Believers through the work of the Holy Spirit.
•To become sons of God we are led by his spirit: “For they that are after the flesh do mind the things of the flesh; but they that are after the Spirit the things of the Spirit.” ‭‭Romans‬ ‭8‬:‭5‬-14

The Spirit helps us pray: “for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.”Rom 8‬:‭26‬ ‭

God provided gifts for us for achieving his spiritual goals. We are advised to desire spiritual gifts. A variety of spiritual gifts derive from the same Spirit: “For to one is given by the Spirit the word of wisdom; to another the word of knowledge by the same Spirit; to another faith by the same Spirit; to another the gifts of healing by the same Spirit; to another the working of miracles; to another prophecy; to another discerning of spirits; to another divers kind of tongues; to another the interpretation of tongues: but all these worketh that one and the selfsame Spirit, dividing to every man severally as he will.” ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭12‬:‭7‬-‭11‬

***To resist Satan we receive spiritual armor and weapons: “Wherefore take unto you the whole armor of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness; and your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace; above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God: praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints…” ‭‭Eph ‭6‬:‭13‬-‭18

14/01/2023

Secret for a fantastic Husband
1. Always show your wife how special she is to you.
2. Avoid being too critical. What you may think of as constructive criticism, she may see as an attack on her.
3. If you want to have a great s*x life, you must keep some romance in your relationship. Continue to date your wife!
4. On the first day of each month, put the following question on your calendar: “What must it be like to be married to me?”
5. Write down your wife’s anniversary, her birthday, and Valentine’s Day, and put them on your calendar. Log yourself a reminder for each December 31 to add these dates to the next year’s calendar.
6. Compliment your wife’s appearance. She knows you are visual. Your compliments are important to her.
7. People tend to be what you say they are. Tell your wife what a great wife, friend, and lover she is. She won’t disappoint you.
8. Remember to talk in her love language.
9. Your wife will need to talk. Take time to be a good listener. Often, she won’t want a solution; she will just want to talk to you. Value her opinion.
10. Put Christ at the center of your life and marriage, and be the spiritual leader of your family. Ask your wife how you can be praying for her
Ladies can I increase the volume.

14/01/2023

Credit situation

13/01/2023

*A GREAT RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN HUSBAND & WIFE TURNS A HOUSE INTO A HOME.*

Every married man & woman should know that a house only becomes a home when people living in it have a good relationship with each other Don't turn your house into a lodge where you only visit to sleep & leave the next day. Be present at home physically & also emotionally. Be available to your spouse & children.

The home should be home for everyone; the husband, wife & the children. It should be comfortable for all, accommodating the personalities of all. None feeling like an outsider .As husband & wife - Try as much as possible not to go to bed angry with each other. Nothing communicates home best like a good night's sleep

Marriage is about serving each other. Serving means helping, meeting each other's needs, lending a hand. The husband should feel as a King, the wife too should feel as a Queen. Be courteous to each other. Use the words "Please", "Thank you", "I am sorry". Kindness makes people feel at home. It also shows respect for your spouse.

Always be consistent in how you treat each other. Don't treat each other well only when there are visitors. And when visitors are to come inform each other so that you prepare to host well. That's how you ought to live. More than anything, love & respect each other as husband & wife.

Thanks and stay bless . By the way I hope there is atleast a little sense in this post ?

©️Martin Boakye Tawiah

13/01/2023

23 Things you will do to Hold husband Under Your Influence

1. Use a kinder form of address for him.

2. Give him the opportunity to practice leading the family.

3. When he is hurt, try not to argue with him.

4. If he becomes enraged, keep quiet. Once he has calmed down a bit, you can go back to him and explain yourself in a way that will not aggravate him further.

5. Whenever you irritate him, hurriedly say, "Please accept my apologies dear," beg for his pardon, and when he gives it, thank him and kiss him.

6. Tell his friends and family how wonderful he is.

7. Pay tribute to his mother

8. Make him buy a gift for his family, as its certain that he will do same for your folks

9. Shock him with his number one dish particularly when he has no current cash and never postpone his food.

10. Try not to permit the house keeper to serve him food when you are at home. Since u might lose him to her.

11. Give him a warm gathering with a hug when he returns, gather his gear and assist with disrobing him.

12. Grin when you take a gander at him and give him infrequent pecks when you are out socially.

13. Acclaim him before your kids now and again.

14. Wash his back while he is in the tub or shower.

15. Put love note in his lunch box or portfolio.

16. Telephone and let him know that you miss him.

17. Dial his number and on hearing "hi" simply let him know I love you.

18. In the event that he is a well known person or a lawmaker, tenderly wake him at the early hours of the morning and sentiment him to the mark of interest. He won't be captivate by whatever other lady that day.

19. Let him know that you are so fortunate to have him as your better half.

20. Convince him.

21. Value God for the Adam of your life.

22. Continuously make sure to appeal to God for him.

23. Implore together and furthermore ask together prior to hitting the sack at night...

May God favor your relationships. Singles may you experience genuine affection today and until the end of time. May non-serious individuals that will burn through your time be disengaged in your life In Jesus.

12/01/2023

SECRET OF HAPPY HOME

1) No man is perfect

2) Men are like children. So be like his mother.

3) Hear quickly; talk slowly.

4) Never compete with a man.

5) Never try to be equal with him.

6) Be fast to apologize when you know you are wrong.

7) Don't be too jealous with him. This is good for your peace of mind.

😎 You may check on his phone if you want, but that isn't necessary.

9) Always be honest as a wife.

10) Never leave your house for a long distance without his permission.

11) Make sure you know the food he likes, and prepare that at least twice a week if money allows.

12) Don't let your husband get in the house with a parcel in his hand.

13) Try to make a budget together.

14) Be his adviser, not a critiser.

15) Don't ever forget that a wife is a helper of husband.

16) Learn good things from your mother.

17) When God blesses you with children, never give more attention to your children and forget your husband.

18) Learn to smile at your husband.

19) When your husband knocks off from work, greet him. If possible, hug him.

20) Don't let your husband leave the house without eating. This may mean "eat" and "eat".

21) When you husband becomes angry, stop talking.

22) Keep the bedroom clean always.

23) Never put cloths on the bed. Some men hate that.

24) Be a clean woman.

25) Look romantic.

26) Always remember to do what a wife should do. You are not his sister.

27) Treat his relatives as you would treat yours.

28) Oftentimes ask how his relatives are doing.

29) Go to church together.

30) Never compare your husband or your house to someone else's.
please guys should i increase the volume 🙄

11/01/2023

When a friend borrows your car for a "small job".🙆‍♂️

11/01/2023

The Story

11/01/2023

I tried to stop two boys from fighting but when I heard their story I left them. How do you borrow a trousers nokuya chefesha🥺

10/01/2023

Do not follow wrong friends

08/01/2023

04/01/2023

There Comes a Time In Life When You Must Make The Difficult & Painful Decisions To Let Certain Things Go: a negative attitude that you know no longer serves you;

A Relationship where you are dying together, rather than growing together; an addiction that you know is destroying you and does not represent your highest good.

It takes courage to face the truth about who you are, the choices that you have been making in your life and to decide;

That is just not me anymore. I can't do this anymore. I have had it.It takes a level of self love, of dedication and determination to live your greatest life.

So, look within. This new year Look at every area of your life and ask yourself these questions: Am I on course? Am I growing mentally, emotionally, financially and spiritually? Is the relationship going to lead to marriage? is it draining you emotionally, financially etc ? you have been in that relationship for long, is time for him or her to define it if not u will still end this year 2023 been a boyfriend or girlfriend, still remaining in a relationship that will lead you both to no where.

Anything that is blocking that, anything that is preventing you from living your greatest life, make the tough decision to let it go now! The year is still very fresh to make that decision!

® James