09/04/2024
Being His Peace:
If a woman makes adding peace and comfort to her man's life a sustained priority, I guarantee you that woman's probability of divorce or abandonment is extremely low. It's not impossible or unheard of, because some foolish and ungrateful men don't know how to appreciate a good thing - but on balance of probability, this is the difference between a woman who stays married 40 years and a woman who can't even manage to stay married for 4.
I am not exaggerating when I say this. I've seen it first hand, plenty of times. Women who don't need to win all the time stay married, whereas women who always need to win do not. In the long run modesty triumphs, and arrogance fails. And a woman with the wisdom to realise this and the restraint to practice it is a marriage quality woman. A quarrelsome woman that doesn't try to keep the peace and doesn't mind upsetting, annoying or angering her man "so she can have her say" is a divorce waiting to happen. Eventually he'll get fed up with her no matter how beautiful she is, and he's going to be out of there purely so he can regain some peace and sanity - concepts he will come to strongly and distinctly associate with distance from her.
Many modern women are sadly toxic drama seekers that try to get their needs met through negative means and thus generate unnecessary stress, but then wonder why they're single when all they do is make the man's life harder without also trying to make it more wholesome, and I think much of this is rather unfortunately driven by distrust and insecurity - things which run rampant amongst women, irrespective of whether you try to create the safety she needs through discipline (boundaries), comfort (trust) or a mixture of the two (what you should be doing).
The correct answer to the rather cringey question "what do you bring to the table?" for a woman is "the peace and comfort of my feminine warmth from which you can take temporary refuge from this wicked world - I'd like to give that to you - if you'd let me." or something along these lines.
Of course most women will never come up with something as elegant or charming as this, because they never actually think about what they can do for men, but only what men can do for them. And that makes sense when they have been taught by a sabotaging feminist culture to view men as the enemy.
Most women can be cute, but generally lack any intentional or directed charm outside of their childishness. Basically, most women have no game, and aside being conspicuously sexual, have no means aside from this of seducing a man. In fact, on the contrary, most women are actively uncharismatic, reliant solely on their physicality for male attention because they are inelegant in temperament. And that's a sad indictment of the times we find ourselves in, because warm and graceful positive femininity is a very powerful thing that a lot of men would give a lot to be around.
