Wife to Widow

20/02/2025

I don’t know what the enemy is whispering in your ear today, but let me speak some truth into your heart.

Your mistakes aren’t too messy nor your pain too powerful for His transforming touch.

Broken doesn’t scare Him. Rock-bottom won’t escape Him. Impossible can’t stop Him.

Your story isn’t over. You just need to surrender the pen.

Because every story is His story, rescuing is His business, and redeeming love is His song.

“I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with loving kindness. And I will build you up again…”
Jeremiah 31:4
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29/01/2025

Widows❤️
Stronger. Wiser. Focus. Abiding.

20/01/2025

Understanding Secondary Loss
Grief is a complex and multifaceted experience. While most people are familiar with primary loss, such as the loss of a loved one, pet, job or relationship, they might not be as familiar with the concept of secondary loss.

Secondary loss refers to the subsequent losses that occur as a result of the primary loss. These losses can be just as impactful and are often integral to the grieving process.

What is secondary loss?
Secondary loss is the ripple effect of the primary loss. It is the loss of everything that was tied to the person, pet, job or relationship. For example, the death of a spouse can lead to secondary losses such as financial instability, loss of social connections and a changed identity.

Well-meaning family and friends who want to see their grieving loved ones happy and "getting on with life" after a primary loss can unwittingly deny or disenfranchise feelings of grief that come with secondary losses. Recognizing these additional losses is crucial because they compound the grieving process and often require extra support and coping skills.

Sources: Journal of Family Studies, Journal of Occupational Health Psychology, National Library of Medicine and Human Rights Campaign

12/01/2025

I am sorry. ❤️❤️

20/12/2024

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04/12/2024

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21/10/2024

Remember~

18/10/2024

We are Widow Warriors ❣️

07/10/2024

For the month of October I'll be doing a segment called "All things Widowhood".
🎙️Tune in with us every Sunday at 8pm on Facebook Live. Here's just some things we'll discuss 🎙️.

Let's hear it from the mouths of real people who went through the most after loosing their spouses. I have amazing guests lined up ☺️😇

Looking forward to this.
Please share far and wide 🥰

Much love... Claudine Cornelius - Cece

17/09/2024

What if

…I don’t get a happy ending?
…This pain doesn’t go away?
…He answers my prayers with “No?”
…Life never looks like I hoped?
…I lose again?

I know God can—but what. if. He. doesn’t?

What if???

Faith is so much more than believing He can.
Faith is trading our “what-ifs” with “even ifs.”
Faith is flipping every “if only” to “only God.”
Faith isn't "will you, Lord?;" faith is "your will, Lord."

Even if
..I don’t get a happy ending
…This pain doesn’t go away
…He answers my prayers with “No"
…Life never looks like I hoped
…I lose again

Your will, Lord. Let me not bow to the will of another. Not even my own.

Even if
..He chooses not to rescue me from the fire, He will certainly be with me in it. May my faith be big enough to say "even if."

So that, when I refuse to bow, a watching world can peer into my trial and see Him.
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That the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perisheth, though it be tried with fire, might be found unto praise and honour and glory at the appearing of Jesus Christ (I Peter 1:7)

13/09/2024

31/08/2024

The best place to be!

29/08/2024

❤️❤️❤️

23/08/2024

✨COME OUT OF HIDING!✨

Candice Gallant sharing with us her journey of brokenness, Restoration and a Peace that only comes from God.

Well done on your weight loss journey Candice. You are an inspiration.

Be blessed and encouraged!

18/08/2024

Claudine Cornelius - Cece blessing our week with this beautiful song.

Be encouraged!

16/08/2024

✨COME OUT OF HIDING!✨

Lezelle Scholtz.
Author of Grieving you, Finding me.

A mighty woman of God from Cape Town.

Colossians 1:17 "And He is before all things and in Him all things consist"

Be blessed and encouraged!

11/08/2024

The late Pastor Slingers daughter, Jolene Jacobs blessing us with this beautiful song🙌🏼

Be blessed & encouraged!