True definition of love

True definition of love We love because God loved us first. This page promotes Inspiration, Hope, Positivity, Life , Wisdom❤ God created man in His own image
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23/06/2025

The older I get,
the more I understand why some people choose to disappear and live a quiet, private life.

20/06/2025

A life with this woman won’t be a walk in the park... so listen closely before you take that first step. Her past has carved walls around her heart... walls built out of pain, betrayal, and broken promises. These aren't walls of pride or ego... but of survival. She built them to protect what little of her innocence remains... the part that still hopes for something real.

She’s not one to stay silent when something doesn’t feel right. She’s learned to speak up... to defend herself... to challenge anyone who tries to dim her light. Life taught her that silence was mistaken for weakness... so now, she raises her voice not to argue, but to reclaim her power. She overthinks... not because she doesn’t trust you, but because she has trusted before and paid the price. Her mind is always searching for patterns... for signs... for shadows of a storm she’s already weathered too many times.

What she needs is not perfection... but honesty. Raw, unfiltered truth. She’s done playing games. She's done decoding mixed signals or romanticizing red flags. Her heart has been deceived by those who wore masks... so now, she watches closely... and listens even closer. She doesn’t just hear your words... she weighs them against your actions... every single day.

She fights her own battles long before you even see them. There are voices in her mind that whisper she’s not enough... that she’s too much... that she’ll never be truly loved. Some days she won’t have the strength to smile. On those days, she won’t need advice... she’ll just need your presence. Your hand. Your calm. Your patience. Because she’s still learning how to love herself... and sometimes, she forgets how.

Loving her will ask more of you. It will ask for consistency... for compassion... for effort that is shown even when it’s not easy. But if you can meet her there... if you can prove that your love is not a temporary comfort but a lasting shelter... then you will witness something rare. You will experience a kind of love

19/06/2025

We don’t just need anyone
We need someone who knows how to hold our heart
with both strength and softness,
someone whose presence feels like healing,
not just a passing distraction in a loud world.

Someone who recognizes trauma not as a flaw,
but as a map of where we’ve been
and chooses to walk that terrain with understanding, not judgment.
Someone who has the wisdom to soothe the chaos,
and the grace to never use our wounds against us.

We need someone who looks at us daily,
not with passive glances,
but with the kind of gaze that whispers,
"I still choose you, even in your silence."
Someone who remembers the little things
your favorite song on a hard day,
the way your coffee needs just a touch more sweetness,
the stories behind your scars.

We deserve to be prioritized
not kept on hold while others are entertained.
Not treated like a backup plan or convenience.
We need someone brave enough to shut every door that leads away from us,
someone who doesn’t flinch when it’s time to protect our peace,
even if it means shaking the ground beneath those who threaten it.

You deserve someone who wakes up thinking,
“How can I love them better today?”
Someone who never tires of you,
but instead keeps discovering new galaxies in the way you laugh,
the way you love,
the way you survive.

And yes
one day, you’ll find them.
Or maybe, one day, they’ll find you.
But either way, you must hold tightly to the truth
that your time is too sacred to be wasted
on anyone who can’t see the universe within you.

Take my advice...
Don’t settle for breadcrumbs when your soul was made for banquets.
Wait for the one who feeds your spirit,
even when you forget how hungry you were.
And when they come,
you’ll understand why it never worked with anyone else.

17/06/2025

Over the years, I’ve learned that love isn't just about butterflies or shared photos... it's about truth, awareness, and emotional growth. One of the hardest but most freeing lessons? When someone shows you their true colors, believe them. Don’t try to repaint their image with who you hope they are. Trying to fix someone who’s toxic or emotionally damaging isn’t a form of love, it’s a trauma response. It’s you subconsciously trying to heal your own wounds by “saving” someone else. But in doing so, you slowly abandon yourself.

Your relationship doesn’t have to make sense to the outside world. It’s not a group project. But it does need to feel right to your heart, your spirit, and your emotional well-being. Far too often, we give people the benefit of the doubt not because they’ve earned it, but because we’re afraid to accept the truth: that they just might not care the way we do. And the longer we delay facing that truth, the deeper we dig ourselves into heartache we could have avoided. Learning to respect your own boundaries isn’t cold, it’s courageous.

One thing I’ve come to value deeply is communication... not just endless late-night talks, but meaningful, soul-opening conversations. It’s not just about being heard, but about feeling understood. Ask the right questions. Listen to how you feel when you’re with them. If something inside you feels off, unsettled, or like you're constantly compromising your worth... that’s not love. That’s your soul telling you something isn’t aligned. And please, don’t ignore that voice. It knows what your heart tries to deny.

Choose someone who doesn’t just show up when it’s convenient, but someone who remembers the little things.... the time you wake up, how you like your coffee, what calms your spirit, what ignites your joy. Someone whose morals and values you'd trust to raise your future children. Looks fade. Charm fades. But character and consistency stay. If you're going to give your heart to someone, give it to the one!

13/06/2025

If you’re constantly confused about where you stand, that’s not love—it’s emotional turbulence. Real love doesn’t leave you second-guessing, overthinking, or walking on eggshells.
It feels calm. Clear. Safe.
A man who loves you right won’t play with your emotions. He’ll speak with intention. He’ll show up when it matters. He won’t need you to beg for attention—because his consistency will speak louder than words.
And when a woman feels emotionally safe, she doesn’t just love harder—she loves freer. She laughs more. Breathes easier. Grows bolder.
So no, you’re not “asking for too much” when you want clarity, consistency, and emotional presence. You’re just finally ready to stop mistaking chaos for chemistry.

11/06/2025

There’s a difference between nurturing and parenting. Women are naturally loving, but when they constantly have to remind you to communicate, plan, care, or clean up your emotional messes… they don’t feel like a partner anymore. They feel like your mother. And that’s the fastest way to kill attraction. A strong woman desires a strong man—not in dominance, but in emotional maturity. She wants to feel like you’ve got yourself together. Like you’re accountable. Like she can lean into you without collapsing. Because love isn’t just chemistry—it’s competence, too.

09/06/2025

So many men say they miss her softness—her sweetness, her laughter, her emotional openness. But what they don’t realize is… she didn’t lose those things. She protected them. She learned that being soft in an unsafe environment leads to pain. So she armored up. She pulled back. Not because she stopped loving you—but because she stopped feeling safe to be all of her.
You want the version of her that feels safe to be emotional? Then show her emotional steadiness. You want her to trust you again? Be consistent. Predictable. Honest. Present.
Women don’t shut down randomly. They shut down when they’ve been hurt too often in the same way. They stop expressing when they feel like their feelings are a burden.
So if you want her to soften again… build the space where softness feels protected. That’s when she’ll show up fully. That’s when you’ll see the parts of her you’ve been missing.

08/06/2025

You don’t always leave a relationship by walking out the door.
Sometimes you leave by slowly stopping the effort. By numbing out. By no longer caring if they show up late or forget what matters to you.
That’s what quiet quitting in love looks like.
You stop arguing—not because you’re at peace, but because you’ve accepted that your voice won’t be heard.
You stop trying to fix it—not because it’s okay, but because you’re exhausted from being the only one who ever noticed things were broken.
You still cook. Still clean. Still exist in the same space. But emotionally? You’ve clocked out.
And the saddest part? They might not even notice until the warmth is gone. Until your silence becomes the loudest signal that something’s wrong.

Love dies in these moments—not from cheating or screaming matches—but from neglect. From being taken for granted. From one-sided effort that wears the soul thin.

If you love someone… ask yourself: are you truly in this? Or are they carrying the connection while you sit back, thinking love maintains itself?
Because by the time someone starts quiet quitting… they’ve already said goodbye in their heart♥️

07/06/2025

It’s lonely when you’re the one holding the relationship together with duct tape and good intentions.
You plan the date nights. You initiate the talks. You reach for connection when things feel distant. And they respond—barely.
You tell yourself it’s a phase. That maybe they’re just stressed. That if you just love them a little harder, try a little more, they’ll meet you halfway.
But halfway never comes.
And slowly, resentment grows. Not because you stopped loving them—but because you started forgetting yourself.
You became so focused on keeping the relationship alive that you forgot to ask:
“Is this love feeding me… or just draining me?”
One-sided love isn’t love—it’s emotional labor disguised as loyalty.
And the truth? You don’t have to beg to be chosen. You don’t have to keep proving your worth to someone who’s stopped seeing your effort.
You deserve a love that pours back.

A love that says, “I see you. I’m here. Let’s do this together.”
So if you’re the only one trying, it’s okay to pause. To step back. To ask if this is partnership… or performance.
Because love shouldn’t feel like you're auditioning to be kept.

04/06/2025

Young man,

There’s a lot of pressure in your 20s to waste time.

Everyone’s partying, drinking, chasing girls, and trying to show off.
It looks fun, until you wake up at 30 with nothing to show for it.

Here’s the truth:
You can’t party every weekend.
You can’t stay drunk or high all the time.
You can’t live just to impress others.

That lifestyle doesn’t build your future, it destroys it.

If you want to win, do the opposite.
- In your 20s, focus on:
• Learning real skills
• Meeting the right people
• Taking care of your health
• Spending time with your parents

Use your 20s to build, not waste.
Learn or be left behind.

03/06/2025

Start living. The days are flying by. You weren't born to just work, pay bills and die. Enjoy what you can: walks, sunsets, music, laughter and nature. Joy doesn't have to be expensive. You deserve it❤️

03/06/2025

Sometimes people stay with you not because they truly love you, but because they are comfortable. They enjoy the benefits you provide....the stability, the support, the familiarity...and aren’t willing to leave until they find someone else who offers the same or better. It’s not about your worth or what you bring to the relationship; it’s about their fear of change and the ease of what they already have.
Sometimes they stay out of selfishness, unwilling to let anyone else experience the love, kindness, and greatness you offer. They keep you close not because they cherish you, but because they don’t want to lose what makes their life convenient...even if it means leaving you emotionally empty.

It’s a sad and painful reality when they mentally check out, going through the motions while you’re left craving the happiness, love, and security you deserve. You give your heart fully, but they give you only pieces in return. And in the end, you realize that being with someone who is just comfortable isn’t enough. You deserve more than comfort....you deserve a love that is alive, present, and committed to making you feel truly valued every single day.

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