True definition of love

07/12/2025

You don't have to learn things from your own experiences all the time. If you're observant enough, learning from other people's experiences might save you some wasted time and money. Sometimes look at other people's lives and decisions and the consequences of that ,then decide if you will ever make the same decisions. You can learn from everyone,if you pay attention enough.

07/12/2025

You are the cycle breaker the one who said the pain stops with me🦋

07/12/2025

Someone is watching you level up… and they can’t believe you’re still standing🤭

06/12/2025

The truth is this: people will always treat you the way you treat yourself. ✨
And when I say people, I’m talking about everyone your partner ❤️, your friends 👥, your family 👨‍👩‍👧, your colleagues 💼, even strangers. Life has a way of echoing back the energy you give to yourself.

If you don’t take yourself seriously, trust me, they won’t take you seriously either. ❗
If you don’t prioritize yourself, if you constantly put others first while ignoring your own needs, people will gladly put you last because you’ve already shown them that you don’t see yourself as a priority. ⛔️

The relationship you have between you and yourself is the most important relationship you will ever have. 💛
It is the blueprint, the master template, the silent instruction manual that teaches the world how to handle you. 📘

People disrespect you because you’ve taught them that disrespect is allowed. 🚫
Your partner puts you last because they can see you don’t place value on yourself. 💔
Your friends walk over your boundaries because you don’t enforce any. ⚠️

You cannot be asking people to honor what you yourself neglect. 🙅‍♂️
You cannot demand loyalty when you betray yourself daily. 🔁
You cannot expect people to choose you when you don’t choose yourself. ⭐

Start treating yourself like someone worth protecting. 🛡️
Start speaking to yourself with kindness. 🗣️💙
Start setting boundaries that honor your value. 🚧
Start making decisions that reflect self-respect, not desperation. 🎯

The day you start taking yourself seriously is the day the world will adjust. 🌍
Self-respect is not arrogance -it is alignment. ⚖️
Self-love is not selfish — it is survival. ❤️‍🔥

When you rise in how you treat yourself, everything and everyone around you rises to match that standard. ⬆️🌟

05/12/2025

There are so many things I’m thankful for this year, but at the very top of that list is you. Wishing you a wonderful holiday filled with warmth and happiness of the season.

04/12/2025

Dear Gents,

Stop comparing yourselves to guys who had major headstarts in life; the trust funds, connected parents, inherited property, generational cushioning. Stop benchmarking your progress and financial success against thieves, scammers and corrupt government tender-chasers.

Walk your own path. Build at your own pace. And enjoy the process.

Date within your RANGE. Stop targeting women whose lifestyles require budgets you do not have, only to turn around and brand them materialistic, demanding,or gold diggers.You knew exactly who she was when you slid into her DMs. You knew the maintenance cost before you asked her out. Don’t weaponise your financial insecurity into abuse.

Leave bo Samantha alone. She’s not your tax bracket. Be comfortable with Dimakatso or Nontywtyambo, the woman whose lifestyle and expectations align with where you actually are, not where your ego wants the world to think you are.

Laslty. You are not strong. There’s nothing noble about being strong. Allow yourself to be vulnerable. Talk your problems, insecurities and fears through. Talk! 🔥👌

01/12/2025

30/11/2025

PRAYER FOR TODAY

Heavenly Father,
Thank You for the gift of this new day.
This day, I ask for Your guidance, Your peace and Your strength.
Walk with me in every decision I make and let Your wisdom lead my steps.
Lord, calm every fear, steady my heart and fill me with grace for whatever comes my way.
Protect my family, bless my loved ones and cover us with Your mercy.
Let today bring clarity, favor and quiet joy.
And at the end of this day, may I look back and say, "God was with me.”
Amen.🙏🏻

29/11/2025

Once the rain is over, an umbrella becomes a burden to everyone. That's how loyalty ends when benefits stop.

29/11/2025

You can’t keep rescuing people who enjoy drowning. Eventually, you will go down with them.