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Hard to swallow, Boitumelong location, Bloemhof (2024)

02/10/2023

I love myself, for all the times when no one loved me‼️

I respect myself, for all the times when no one respected me‼️

I accept myself, for all the times people have judged me‼️

Hugs, for all the hugs I missed‼️

I support myself, for so many hard moments that I spent alone‼️

I stand up, thinking how many times I fell‼️

I applaud myself, how many times I woke up‼️

I smile, for the moments when I cried‼️

But most of all, I forgive myself for thinking that everything I had, I really needed.

Now I know that it is not so, and that in me was that Love, that Respect, that Acceptance, that Hug and that Kiss; that Support that always uplifted me, and that Applause from my own hands, that returned their Smile to me.

Yes, the one I needed the most was always Me and it took me years to realize that‼️

Years that were hard as they passed but that today become easier. Because today I came Home.

Today I’m in me.

02/10/2023

LETTER OF FORGIVENESS TO THE EX COUPLE.

There is nothing to forgive, but understand.
I have to thank you for playing that role of tyrant that I needed to be able to heal my childhood past.

Thanks to you, I was revealing hidden parts of myself that I didn't know about.

There is nothing to forgive because I understand where you are and where I am, understanding that you are my reflection, my dark areas, my weaknesses and my fears.

I thank you for having been my teacher, you took me to places in my soul, to which without you, I would never have gone. You helped me recognize my inner demons.
There is nothing to forgive, in reality the one who asks for forgiveness is me... for having used you as an instrument to show me my unknown parts.
Today I understand that there is nothing to forgive, I free you from this game of victim and victimizer that I created so as not to take responsibility.

Today I decide to free you. I cut the ties of resentment that only damage the soul and do not allow us to move forward.
Thank you for crossing my path, thanks to you I am healing my past that you knew how to project to me so well. Thank you for helping me continue discovering my emotional wounds as a child.

Today I release you to free myself from the arrogance of believing that I must forgive you.

I release you so we can find the peace we deserve.

02/10/2023

When people are rude, offend/attack/hurt you, they have unhealed trauma, they are full of venom and that venom is pouring out.
The important thing is that you don't allow them to poison you too.
Answer evil with good, don't answer evil with evil.
If you get caught up in a conflict, if you offend/attack/hurt the other person, then you can know that you have already allowed another person to contaminate you.
Don't let a man behaving in a toxic way ruin your day.
Do not allow a man full of venom to fill you with venom.
It can't stop a man from spreading his venom, but you can keep that venom from getting inside you. Guard your heart!
No matter how good/generous/polite you are, in life you will have to deal with people who will treat you in a disrespectful/kind-less way, who will hurt you.
And each time you will have a choice between filling yourself with venom, acting unbalanced, making a scandal, offending yourself or responding in a balanced way.
You have a choice between taking the bait or not.
Every time someone offends you, trips you up, attacks you, be aware: "Now I'm being baited. And it's my choice if I bite it or not."
Most people take the bait. And most of the time it's the same bait day after day, year after year, but they keep biting.
Choose your battles wisely.
If you get caught up in any conflict, if you let yourself be challenged by anyone, consuming your energy with things and people that don't matter, you won’t have energy for the battles that really matter.

02/10/2023

CHOOSE SOMEONE WHO WANTS TO EVOLVE BY YOUR SIDE

Choose someone who decides to free their heart or already brings it free. Who wants to heal their wounds instead of embalming them between walls. That you want to expand everything you have inside, learn from life and share your laughter, your joy and your love.

Choose someone who is willing to Love. Loving loyally, with honor and respect. That he can look you straight in the eye as a complement and an extension of his inner temple. May he be kind to all beings and seek harmony in life.

Choose someone who understands that Love is sacred, that when bodies touch souls connect and share their energy in a divine act.

Choose someone who offers you their light and doesn’t make you pay for their shadows. Who wants to create, grow and manifest by your side, that is the purpose of being a couple: to accompany each other.

02/10/2023

Every loving woman is a healing woman. A woman full of strength, who feeds everyone around her with kindness, who looks at life with serene eyes, who is sincere with her identity, who heals with a kiss.
A healer is one full of energy, who infuses and transmits affection, who embraces love with more love, who takes her secrets, who goes deep, who knows forgiveness, who lives in grace, who teaches to know.
A healer is human, understanding, knowledgeable of her power, her inspiration, her permanence, her chaos and order, defender of her life, her needs, her dreams and the baggage of her memories.
The gift of being a female healer
Therefore, a healing woman is one who stays where she goes. She is the one who always collects from the heart, who stands strong, who is aware of what happens around her, who is decisive.
It knows no perfection and no imperfection, it simply IS. And with this power it helps others BE. For this you need a vocation, a fight with your judges, a conflict with the environment.
Because being a healing woman isn’t always easy, there's a lot of struggle. We need to fight against everything that does not allow us to feel what every moment transmits, that tries to change rights, that tries to subdue our dreams, that underestimates our need.
Therefore, being a healer is also knowing how to say enough, not allowing slavery, being one, not needing, but loving without measure and above all. From there, we find the balance that hypnotizes the emotional balance of a woman.
The strength of a woman’s love
There’s nothing stronger than the love of a woman who is committed to her well-being, who accepts herself, who understands her present and minds her past.
Through her experiences and her knowledge, a healer shares the depth of time, the meaning of wishes and the importance of collecting fulfilled dreams.
Every woman has in her soul a warrior that throats, who gives her light, who gives her hope, strength and weapons to fight. It’s that inner warrior that heal.

02/10/2023

Today I say yes to life.
Today I say yes to health.
Today I say yes to my inner child.
Today I say yes to love.
Today I say yes to economic abundance.
Today I say yes to strength.
Today I say yes to peace.
Today I say yes to happiness.
Today I say yes to harmony.
Today I say yes to joy.
Today I say yes to my perfect health.
Today I say yes to my beloved healthy and strong cells.
Today I say yes to life.
Thank you thank you thank you,
I love myself, I accept myself, I respect myself and I honor myself!!
DONE IS DONE IS DONE!🖤✨

18/09/2023

SITUATIONS YOU MUST KEEP SILENT.

1-When you are looking for an answer that can only come from within you. Preserve your energy field.

2- When you're planning a new movement in your life, only speak when it's done. Other people's opinions always contain emotional charges and influential energies that are not compatible with what your heart vibrates.

3- When the other is talking about how he feels. Listen with an open heart.

4- When someone doesn't let you finish what you're saying, they're not really listening to you anyway.

5- When you are in a moment of reflection and analysis about your own actions and behaviors. You must feel what makes sense to you, not common sense.

6- When someone is going through an intense moment of pain or sadness, often loving silence can be more valuable than words.

7- When someone is sharing an opinion that you disagree with, there is never a need to clash.

8- When you are in a moment of meditation or prayer, silence is the portal of connection with your soul and with God.❤️✨