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Henryhealing444 K. Henry
Artist | Writer
Curated Collection of Resources for Survivors of Domestic Violence and Workplace Bullying
*Post Traumatic Growth*

I am an author, advocate, essayist with a masters' degree in community psychology, an advanced graduate certification in mental health counseling and a certified Reiki master ~ with a focus on holistic healing via Meaning Theory and a whole lot of cats :)

A few years ago with a research genealogy in our family, we learned that 3 of our ancestors in the 1600's were tried & h...
21/07/2024

A few years ago with a research genealogy in our family, we learned that 3 of our ancestors in the 1600's were tried & hung as witches in Hartford CT (75 years before the Salem witch trials).

Two were hung as witches because they were female & grew gardens, help birth the babies, were middle aged.

One was a man. He was spared.

They have documented proof that not a one was a witch. The insidious pathological gossip fear mongers of the time made up stories, then spread the lies about the two ~ one of those women had a clear witness to the crime she was accused of!

Gossip & lies do so much more damage when crowd sourced willingness to believe anything 'cause it's easier than learning the truth seems like a trend of the human condition.

The 1st time I shared this story a few years ago, 2 of my "friends" who were staunch religious folks (you know the one) started asking ME questions about witchcraft. I know ZERO about it.

I know about history. Psychology of the human condition. Life Coaching & Counseling. I took a class once on the religions of the world but one historical story was all it took for people I'd known for 10 years to say, "Well, you know all about witchcraft" before asking me questions.

Rhetoric & Social responsibility are important these days.

Hey Survivors,If you have people in your lives who tell you to stop talking about your healing journey, kick them to the...
07/07/2024

Hey Survivors,
If you have people in your lives who tell you to stop talking about your healing journey, kick them to the curb.

Should they ever experience the same abusive treatment, trust me on this ... you will be the 1st person that critic turned to. That doesn't mean you have to answer the text or phone.

Were you diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, or maybe depression or bipolar? Did you ever question the diagn...
02/07/2024

Were you diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, or maybe depression or bipolar? Did you ever question the diagnosis? What about the drugs they forced you to take in treatment? It could be that to protect yourself, you were practicing echoism.

You silenced your voice or life to pacify the abusers.

Did it ever occur to you that they were wrong? That you were in fact, someone living with trauma after abuse. Systemic abuse is rampant. 1 in 6 people are narcissistic according to some experts.

Please get a 2nd opinion, even if you have to reach beyond your area. I used to live in a rural area with limiting belief systems & nepotistic experts who were frequently very antiquated (out dated) and dangerous in how they practiced. I'm attaching an article with something recently studied + some other sources.

You deserve to be a whole person, treated with respect and dignity. Survivors in rural areas rarely are, unless they have money, connections and influence. The three things most taken away by abusive relationships.

https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/echoism -it

In celebration of open libraries everywhere Learning is power.
27/06/2024

In celebration of open libraries everywhere
Learning is power.

Open Library is an open, editable library catalog, building towards a web page for every book ever published. Read, borrow, and discover more than 3M books for free.

A little light hearted reminder for a breezy summer's day.
26/06/2024

A little light hearted reminder for a breezy summer's day.

24/06/2024
Far too many public pages that claim to be in the best interest of humanity, also LOVE the rage baiting which gives them...
20/06/2024

Far too many public pages that claim to be in the best interest of humanity, also LOVE the rage baiting which gives them more likes, follows and fans. Ick.

I just disconnected from following the psychology babes .... 500K followers but they don't care about the actual psychology.

Social media gives great ick as long as the keepers of the pages are making money.

No thanks. I'm not into it or them or that way of doing business.

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In today's economy, it's very difficult for a majority of people to just quit their jobs because they are being abused. ...
18/06/2024

In today's economy, it's very difficult for a majority of people to just quit their jobs because they are being abused.

Yet, there are experts out there strongly advocating for you to work in healthy workspaces. Of course, the real change will start in cities, then some day, it'll end up in rural areas.

12/06/2024

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It's hard to get industry buzz words & deep fake mandatory cultural norms out of your brain long enough to be more enlig...
04/06/2024

It's hard to get industry buzz words & deep fake mandatory cultural norms out of your brain long enough to be more enlightened about the what's what

Working or living in an environment that constantly treats you like you are a lesser creature wears you down.

Working on normalizing calling out the buzz words that represent the synthetic environments we all have to navigate on a daily basis.

When they say 'sorry', then do it again, they were never sorry. they were manipulating you.it's one of the 1st red flags
01/06/2024

When they say 'sorry', then do it again, they were never sorry. they were manipulating you.

it's one of the 1st red flags

To the Abuser, I do NOT forgive you."How are you supposed to forgive someone who highjacked your life" ~ Dr. Ramani.How ...
31/05/2024

To the Abuser, I do NOT forgive you.

"How are you supposed to forgive someone who highjacked your life" ~ Dr. Ramani.

How do you forgive them?
Maybe you don't.

Forgiveness hurts the survivors of narc-abuse.

You can become indifferent. You can move past it. You can hope they rot in hell. You do not have to forgive them. This is the healthier choice for survivors of abuse and trauma.

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20/04/2024

Cape Cod is my favorite place. Bessel Van Der Kolk is my favorite researcher on trauma & healing. Sharing is caring.
20/04/2024

Cape Cod is my favorite place. Bessel Van Der Kolk is my favorite researcher on trauma & healing. Sharing is caring.

Recovery requires facing the imprint of trauma on the self as helpless, enraged, betrayed, ashamed, and endangered. Healing involves dealing with the defensive efforts that helped ensure survival but that now keep people stuck. The cultivation of a deep sense of physical safety and physical mastery is a prerequisite for initiating new ways of perceiving reality and promoting new behavior patterns and requires effective ways to deal with the fragmented memories of the past.

Learn more with Dr. van der Kolk in his upcoming course this summer. Register online at www.cape.org

Bessel van der Kolk, MD (The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma Trauma Research Foundation)
Frontiers of Trauma Treatment
July 8-12, 2024
In-Person or Live-Online

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