16/11/2023
Title: Redeemed Fatherhood
Genre: Self-help
Author: Benson Okeyo
Pages: 126
Publisher: Success Edge Publishers
Reviewer: Andréas Otieno
"Redeemed Fatherhood" by Benson Okeyo is a compelling exploration of the vital role fathers play in the lives of their children, particularly sons. The author delves into a myriad of reasons why the concept of fatherhood needs redemption in the eyes of the new generation. Okeyo skillfully weaves together personal anecdotes, research findings, and societal observations to make a compelling case for the importance of fathers in shaping the lives of their male offspring.
The book begins by addressing the changing dynamics of family structures and the diminishing role of fathers in contemporary society. Okeyo argues that the absence of a strong father figure can have profound effects on the development of a male child. He goes on to discuss the societal implications of this trend, emphasizing the need for a renewed understanding of fatherhood.
One of the strengths of "Redeemed Fatherhood" lies in Okeyo's ability to present a vast range of reasons supporting his thesis. He draws on psychological, emotional, and social perspectives to highlight how fathers contribute to the holistic development of their children. As a minister of faith, the author balances biblical teachings with real-life examples, making the book accessible to a wide range of readers.
Throughout the book, Okeyo emphasizes the positive impact of a present and engaged father on the emotional well-being and character development of a male child. He discusses the unique guidance, mentorship, and support that fathers can provide, filling a void that cannot be easily replaced, a void that he says the modern male child is suffering from. He is bold, to some length, when he shares his own struggles with his late father, the surprise learning of the reason why a father he cherished so much changed and grew into a violent father.
The writing style is engaging and accessible, making it suitable for both academic and general audiences. As the founder of the men’s mentorship forum, Men Alive, his passion for the subject matter is evident, and his arguments are backed by the experiences of the men he has encountered in his life.
"Redeemed Fatherhood" is a timely exploration of the importance of fathers in the lives of their children. Benson Okeyo successfully makes a compelling case for the redemption of fatherhood, offering valuable insights into the benefits of having a strong father figure in the upbringing of male children. This book is a must-read for anyone interested in understanding and improving the dynamics of modern family life.
