Reculture Media

24/07/2024

New Position is available on our team - see post for details!

Are you good at Public Relations and passionate about healing love, relationships, and community? Well, have we got the job for you!

We are currently seeking a part-time, remote PR professional who can help us bridge the gap between our niche community and the mainstream media. The role would begin immediately and continue until mid-November, with potential for extension.

It would be about 10-20 hours per month and the ideal candidate will have 2+ years of PR or Communications experience, excellent communication skills, and familiarity with tech platforms like Slack, Notion, and Airtable.

Bonus points for you if you have experience in film/digital media or online event production. You would be representing our brand and formatting our messaging for different platform needs such as press releases, articles, podcasts, earned media features, and networking with influencers in our niche focused on healing love, conscious relationships, and regenerative culture.

See more details at the full job posting at the link below and apply by emailing your resume, cover letter, and work samples to [email protected].

Free feel to tag your friends in the PR field who may be interested in this opportunity, as we are seeking someone aligned with the intention behind our project first and foremost!!

https://bit.ly/PRJob-RecultureMedia

16/07/2024

The nuclear family is the norm we were told to want. White picket fence with a mommy and daddy and a few loving siblings... what more could you need?

Well, as it turns out, humans need a lot more than that to thrive. So why is this "American dream" turning into a nightmare for so many of us?

David Brooks wrote an article in The Atlantic titled "The Nuclear Family Was a Mistake," where he outlines the evolution and challenges inherent in the design of this atomized social unity. He argues that the nuclear family—comprising two parents and their children— is often fragile and insufficient to meet people's needs.

Historically, families were large, interconnected networks that provided a strong support system with shared responsibilities, resources, and emotional support, which allowed individuals to thrive. However, the rise of industrialization and urbanization led to the decline of extended families, giving way to the nuclear family model, further reinforced by post-World War II economic prosperity and the rise of suburbia.

Despite its romanticized image, the nuclear family has inherent weaknesses such as its vulnerability to the stresses of modern life because the isolation from community often leads to social and emotional strain. Single-parent families and families with strained relationships often find it challenging to cope and children in unstable nuclear families may suffer from a lack of support, leading to adverse outcomes in education, and mental health.

To address these challenges, Brooks suggests reimagining family structures and moving towards communal living arrangements that provide greater support and stability and emphasize shared responsibilities and collective well-being for everyone involved.

Although we need some elements of the nuclear family structure in our society, it should not be heralded as the ideal or default. To address the needs of individuals and create a more equitable society, we need to make more space in our lives for platonic relationships and community support that can help keep us in balance in our family unit.

Do you believe in the nuclear family? What was missing from your own upbringing that community could have provided?

Read the full article here 👇https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2020/03/the-nuclear-family-was-a-mistake/605536/

24/06/2024

Would you like to win a free spot on this amazing course?
Head over to our recent Instagram post and comment to apply!
https://www.instagram.com/p/C8fH7aoPBzq/?img_index=1

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20/06/2024

Just a week out from the start of our upcoming LIVE edition of our course, we would like to share with you what a few people have been saying about the self-paced version.

We only have 10 spots left for this intimate journey through unlocking the eros in our lives to transform our relationships so claim yours now!

Join us >>> https://thevillageoflovers.com/summer-of-love

19/06/2024

Catch Julia Maryanska live right now with Misha and William of The Bonobo Network!

More details coming soon.

14/06/2024

The story of the Bonobo Apes is familiar to most of the poly-folks out there, but if you haven't heard.. here it is:

Historically, the scientific community has believed that our closest relatives are chimpanzees. Chimpanzees are brutally violent and scientists found their social order is deeply patriarchal and run by violent/aggressive males.

This observation shaped scientists' theories on human nature for many decades and justified the idea that our society requires alpha males to function. However, recent genetic testing has proven that Bonobo apes are our closest living genetic relatives - so what can we learn from them?

Bonobos, otherwise known as "love monkeys" are one of a handful of species on the planet that have s*x for pleasure and not just procreation. The reason they are so loving and gentle is because of the relationship dynamics between the males and females of the species.

Bonobos function in a matriarchal society where the females lead in situations like encountering a rival tribe, and their encounters usually end with love-making between the groups.

In Bonobo culture, the females have a zero-tolerance policy towards aggressive and violent males, often ostracized from the group and denying them an opportunity to mate. If a male is gentle and kind, the females shower them with affection and love, and their genes are passed on.

All this to say - we are hosting a live event featuring the founders of the Bonobo Network who have been building a s*x-positive, polyamorous community in the Bay area for years now. They have taken this inspiring story from nature and used it as a catalyst to promote more connective community-building opportunities for the non-traditional relationship types.

We are very honored to be having Misha and William as guests on our next Re/Culture Live event, taking place on Wednesday next week, June 19th from 12:30 to 1:30 PST.

This event is offered by donation, even if the donation is 0$, we still welcome you to attend and join us to learn more from these human Bonobos.

Sign up by here >> https://reculturenorth.thrivecart.com/reculture-live-misha-and-william/

12/06/2024

Humanity is currently undergoing a rite of passage - out of victim and into freedom and sovereignty of adulthood.. but how does this show up in our lives?

This important transformative moment that so many cultures worldwide have utilized for centuries is, unfortunately, lacking in our Western culture. Therefore, many of us as adults remain trapped by the same attitudes and behaviors we can see in children.

In Western Indigenous cultures, they held Sun or Moon Dances. These were opportunities for men or women to enter a container of growth where they fasted, sweat, and danced in the light of the Sun/Moon to honor the world around them and feel connected to the larger web of life that is where they came from.

The challenge of the experience WAS the medicine that transformed each participant from the child they were when they entered the circle, to the confident and strong adult that exited.

These rituals were decidedly NOT easy - they were designed to push you to your limits, feel out your edges, and make you into the person you are meant to become. When you emerged, you were witnessed by your community and acknowledged in your new identity.

Our search for identity and meaning in life never used to be so hard - we could understand ourselves within the context of a larger ecosystem. The rite of passage we are in now as a civilization is an important step in our growth and continued existence on this planet, and each person is waking up to this in their own way, at their own time.

It's before us now, to welcome new traditions that can function as rites of passage so we can allow ourselves to grow out of limiting belief systems, behaviors, and patterns.

Inspired by this wisdom, we have created our own rite of passage - a course for LOVERS in all walks of life. We welcome you to join us for "Summer of Love" - our LIVE immersive online course starting June 26th with an intimate cohort. Only 14 spots left so register soon before it's full!

Signup at https://thevillageoflovers.com/summer-of-love

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05/06/2024

Our trust in our fellow humans is dwindling as the global machine marches on and technocratic billionaires continue to invest their enormous fortunes into making everyday life more barren and bleak.

However, the protests, boycotts and recent political action that is being taken to resist oppressive and exploitative systems may not be achieving actual long-lasting systemic change - and heres why:

The key to real transformation is not about forcing people to make a different choice, it's about by opening space for conversations and shared discourse.

Currently in our society, there is an increasing polarization and lack of civil discourse that is leading to more resentment building between groups and rising political unrest that could explode into something really ugly.

A promising path to peace was demonstrated at Tamera. There, diverse individuals cooperate actively within a "greenhouse of trust," an environment where people express their true selves without fear, supported by community practices like the Forum. But how can we extend this beyond a small community to the wider world?

The first step is that we need to learn how to talk to each-other with our minds open rather than yelling with our minds closed. The political environment we exist within is a direct reflection of the emotional and relational environment we experience with our friends, families and loved ones.

By providing the tools and resources to overcome these polarizing narratives and get to know our fellow humans from across the political aisle, we will disarm the tension that's been rising around us and encourage a better, brighter, more tolerant future for our society.

The secret sauce for fostering these kinds of connection is LOVE. Love unites all and dissolves the illusion of separation between us.

Learn more about our upcoming live course and how LOVE can transform everything here >> https://www.facebook.com/share/i97L7UrvVRBfmuDa/

29/05/2024

How can we handle the jealously that comes up for us in our relationships in a healthy way?

First step is to recognize that jealousy is inherently natural and totally an okay thing to feel. The REAL reason we get jealous is because we feel that we are suffering in our lives. When someone else is experiencing good fortune, it highlights the parts of us that feel decidedly NOT good... so we desire their happiness for ourselves.

In polyamorous communities, this is a hot button question that comes up a lot for people, especially the newbies. Often, folks strive for "compersion" or finding joy in the joy of others.

So... how can we shift from jealousy to compersion?

We cannot feel compersion if we are not satisfied with what we have since jealousy always comes from a sense of lack.

This shows up in relationships really clearly; even if you had the most responsive and loving partner, if you do not fully trust and believe in their love for you, then you may feel jealous when they spend time with their friends or prioritize something over you. Since you are experiencing lack, you unconsciously latch onto the thing you believe can take away those painful feelings.

Polyamory is hard because most of us are insecure and afraid of uncertainty and seek to receive support and stability from our romantic partnerships. If you can find someone new and fall in love with them, then how do I know you won't choose them over me? How can I be sure that you love me more?

Monogamy isn't free from jealousy though, just watch any movie ever. Humans have a hard time at relationships in general which is why polyamory OR monogamy works BEST in the context of a wider village. If you can feel that safety and support in a wider community, than it isn't the end of the world if your love partnership falls apart or shifts.

We have more space for sharing and letting go of our jealousy when we feel supported, valued and resourced. This is how you get from jealousy to compersion - and ultimately life fulfillment - regardless of your relationship style.

Have you experience compersion or jealousy in your romantic relationships? Share in the comments below.

06/04/2024

Hello friends, we have an announcement!

We are currently looking for a bookkeeper to work remotely with us at Re/Culture Films.

We are seeking someone who can:

- look after monthly reconciliation
- support preparation of annual Financial Statements & tax returns
- help us develop our accounting and financial reporting systems

Experience working with artistic projects and corporations in the USA is an asset. We will meet remotely over Zoom as needed.

Do you know anyone who might be a good fit? Please tag your favorite accountant friends in the comments. To apply email us at [email protected].

The position will be open until filled.

With love,
Ian & John & Julia

01/03/2024

THE INTERPLAY OF EROS & AI: Interview with Joshua Schrei (The Emerald)

Earlier this month for our summit A Cry From the Future, I had the opportunity to speak with Josh Schrei, creator of the wildly popular podcast The Emerald.

Each episode is a polished gem that explores many topics & themes from a mythic lens. The recent So You Want To Be A Sorcerer In The Age of Mythic Powers is a must-listen deep dive into understanding AI from a multi-faceted lens.

In our recent live conversation, unfolding on the day dedicated to FIRE: Harnessing Eros as the Creative Life Force, Josh and I explore the elemental theme of fire as a symbol of creativity, as well as how intact cultures weave & express this energy through & beyond merely s*xual love.

Josh tells the story of the epic battle between Shiva & K**a, and draws parallels between AI and the consequences of birthing non-organic intelligence unbound from the cycles of life and death. He advocates for a more tempered and contained approach to AI development, emphasizing the need for initiation rituals, community dependence, and respect for the primal fire of life to prevent untold destruction and ensure a more balanced and responsible exploration of technological advancements.

Watch the full video interview below
https://ianmack.substack.com/p/the-interplay-of-eros-and-ai-interview

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14/02/2024

Join us for our FINAL day of A Cry From the Future, where we explore ETHER and emerging into our collective destiny. We're speaking with Jamie Wheal, Miki Kashtan, Charles Eisenstein, Author, and Adah Parris.

13/02/2024

Join me live at 11am as I interview Josh Schrei (The Emerald) and then afterward poet and author Kai Cheng Thom. We'll be discussing how to harness the power of Eros.

08/02/2024

NEW ESSAY - LEAVE (THE END OF) THE WORLD BEHIND

I needed to put further into words the how & why we approached The Village of Lovers film.

"Without needing to resort to spiritual cliches such as “where attention goes, energy flows,” it is important to recognize that we are collectively facing a myriad of crises that require significant and sustained attention to avoid existential catastrophe.

Without positive pathways for the flow of Eros, of life energy, we remain stuck, stagnant, depressed, disconnected, and in despair.

Why is it that we are inundated with mainstream tales of apocalypse, but so few examples of imaginal possibility? Why is it that it’s far easier to condemn human nature as shallow, greedy, and violent, and therefore abdicate our responsibility to work towards a better day? In short, why do films like ‘The Village of Lovers’ matter?"

Read the full essay here

Beyond Apocalypse & the Eros of Imaginal Futures.

01/02/2024

Join us for A Cry From The Future - A Visionary Online Gathering Feb 10-14th. Register here http://thevillageoflovers.com/summit

26/01/2024

😍We are very excited that the global release of The Village of Lovers is only 12 days away!

From Feb 7 - Feb 14 the film will be made available for Self-Determined payment ... you can learn more and register here - https://thevillageoflovers.com

Below is the trailer for the film ... let us know what you think 🙏

Global Tour On Now. See screenings https://thevillageoflovers.com/tourA Film By Ian MacKenzie, John Wolfstone & Julia MaryanskaTrailer Editors Jordan Baese &...

25/01/2024

Now that we are launching globally, we would like to take a moment to tell you the story of how we found each other and this project came to be.

The Village of Lovers really began back in 2014, when John Wolfstone was volunteering in the Al Zaatari refugee camp 2014, during the height of the Syrian Civil War. There experiencing first-hand the wreckage of war, John began to read a book of essays from Tamera, given to him while he visited an Israeli-Palestinian Peace project in Jerusalem (which unbeknownst to him was a sister project of Tamera).

In these essays, John encountered a vision of global peace culture being modeled at Tamera, not achieved through protests, legislation, and politics but through exploring how to find peace in the most intimate areas of life, love, s*xuality, money, and power - the same pitfalls which often tear communities and families apart.

When John finally visited Tamera later that year, he encountered something akin to a fairy tale in terms of its beauty. At Tamera, he came upon their founding idea that:

There will be no peace on Earth, as long as there is war in Love.

War in love? Is that true he wondered? However, slowly through his time at Tamera and with other research he, soon joined by co-director Ian Mackenzie, uncovered the truth of this war in love - 6000 years of settler-colonial patriarchy, based on the domination of the feminine and uprooting nearly every indigenous culture on the planet.

Then Ian and John met Julia the next year, working on her film about love, and we recognized the kinship in our worldviews. We then cemented the Tamera Love School in Oakland in the fall of that year. By 2016, Julia was an official member of our team, and we began collectively working to share this transformative approach with the world.

We will be sharing in the coming week more about this project, the vision of humanity that's birthing in us all, and how the summit we are holding A Cry from the Future, seeks to amplify and integrate this message of a path to peace for humanity's future.

Register to watch the film at www.thevillageoflovers.com and become part of the movement by joining The Global Village of Lovers. https://www.facebook.com/groups/globalvillageoflovers/

31/12/2023

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Summit launches Feb 2024

15/12/2023

13/12/2023

Just a little over $1k to go on filmmaker Julia Maryanska's film campaign for Intimate Revolutions, a captivating 13-year odyssey, a personal coming-of-age memoir that traces the diverse chapters of one woman's quest for an emancipated womanhood.

The campaign has had immense success so far, and even received a grant from Mark Duplass via the Patron's Circle at Seed and Spark!!

We invite you to join and support the film today!!

https://seedandspark.com/fund/intimate-revolutions

11/12/2023

5 days left to find Julia Maryanska's new doc Intimate Revolutions. This project developed alongside our collaboration of The Village of Lovers and offers a deeply personal portrait of her journey through various initiations: love, partnership, motherhood, and activism.

Watch the pitch and please contribute if inspired. She's down to the final 25% left to raise!

Rooted in her desire for erotic liberation, for over 13 years, Director Julia Maryanska documents the most intimate areas of her life, challenging cultural norms, and shedding light on the intricate landscapes and multicultural expectations of motherhood, womanhood and s*xuality.

06/12/2023

With a commitment to re-culture taboo topics that have been relegated to the shadows of our overculture, ReCulture Co-Founder Julia Maryanska writes about her recent miscarriage.

"Whenever there is loss, it calls on immense resource to sense-make, and make peace with it.

It’s not lost on me that the miscarriage happened approximately during the time that the cease-fire was called.

The day after the miscarriage, it was like a calm after the storm. I experienced a feeling of aloneness I hadn’t quite felt before. Even with my family nearby, there was a slight sense that it was as if I had begun a journey on a train, and got off before I reached my destination, realizing I was in an unmarked location, bags in hand, not a soul in sight.

The most shocking thing I felt, was relief."

Read the whole article on Medium and support Julia's forthcoming film about womanhood, motherhood and erotic liberation at the link below. Campaign ends in 10 days!