Polypanvan (2024)

02/07/2024

I’ve actually been working with for awhile but life gets away from me and then I don’t post for awhile. Inciteful is an app/website that you can create an account with, which then allows you to do polls and surveys which earn you tokens. You are then able to turn those tokens in for support sessions. I am one of the coaches providing support sessions! They also have a financial coach and a product management consultant available. So, if you’ve had your eye on me for a while but haven’t been able to afford it, or if you wanted to get a few sessions in before you commit to a package with me, check out inciteful!
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Be well and be love!
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13/05/2024

To whomever is reading this.
It’s okay if you aren’t celebrating.
It’s okay if you feel a whole range of emotions.
I hope you have a day that is full of comfort and peace.
It’s okay to just be and feel however you do.
I’m sending you flowers and love today. 💞

12/05/2024

Got taken to the butterfly pavilion for a Mother’s Day gift! I always wanted to go and it was super nice! Also a picture of the northern lights which we drove 2.5 hours to Cheyenne, Wyoming to see which was soooo worth it. I’m so grateful for living here with my family.

10/05/2024

Was a bridesmaid in and ’s wedding last weekend and wanted to show the progression of the party via selfie throughout the night as well as a selfie from the next day at breakfast. It was a blast and I absolutely love these 2 lovely people together.

25/03/2024

I’m gonna start trying to post more personal stuff here on this account again. We got a new car and decided to take it into the mountains. We went to the rock shop and I found where we signed it when I visited for the first time in June 2022. It made me feel really gay.
I’ve had one of those perpetual colds for the past month and it’s been rough for multiple reasons other than just that. It’s nice to have these days where you are reminded of all you are thankful for.

10/12/2023

Don’t go to work, don’t go to school, don’t buy anything, don’t promote or post on social media.

24/10/2023

We make our own meaning. And it doesn’t actually need to be profound. It just needs to be yours. It’s your life. Make it YOUR life.

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Want a life coach whom specializes in neurodivergence, q***rness, and invisible disability? Want to see if coaching is actually a good fit for you? Check out my website: www.q***rspectrumlifecoaching.com (link in bio). Book a 30 minute free consult and have a conversation with me about what’s on your mind, any questions you have, and whether coaching is right for you.

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24/09/2023

Life update!
The past year and a half have been full of changes.
I moved my partner and a different friend to Colorado sort of at the same time and fell in love with the place, specifically the Denver area.
I realized I wasn’t being honest with myself and took accountability and action to change it as quickly and ethically as possible.
I moved back in with my parents briefly and was reminded that I should only do that if it’s absolutely necessary and got out of there as quick as possible.
I got engaged to my partner and now am a step-parent to 2 cats, 2 dogs, and a bright and beautiful 10 year old.
I moved to Colorado.
I’ve done hallucinogenics a few times and it helped me see myself more clearly. Yes, that’s important to mention and be open about.
I got a corporate job. I kept a corporate job and am good at it. I did that while maintaining house, cleaning, cooking, loving, being a good partner and parent, all with minimal meltdowns, like almost none.
I sold my RV. I realized the dream was adventure, fun, and being able to rely on myself to meet my needs, and there were better ways to do that than owning an RV that cost me around $1,000 a month to maintain and still not be able to live in it.
I’ve done fun things, had road trips and adventures, gone to art shows and performances and family functions, made friends.
I’ve maintained my business with minimal effort or maintenance while doing all the above.
I’ve learned to trust myself. I’ve learned about my needs and boundaries enough to be more functional than ever.
I’ve been healing. I’ve been respecting and loving myself.
I’m content with my life. I find joy daily. I can handle life as it comes. Everything feels worth what I put in. I feel I am what I preach most of the time and that is more than good enough.

Now it’s time to actually do the scary thing. Commit to putting myself out there consistently enough in order to do more than maintain a side hustle as a coach. Be vulnerable enough and transparent enough to show up and build clientele in a way that that shows up for myself, my family, and my clients.

I know I’m an amazing fu***ng coach.
I know I am worth the money I charge.
Try me. 💜💜💜

06/02/2022

A lot has changed in four years. It both astounds me that I got to that point and it astounds me that I’ve gotten so far from it.

For me it is a reason to celebrate. The amount of courage it takes to admit you need help with the stigma we face for being mentally ill, neurodivergent, q***r, disabled, in chronic pain, and whatever else, it can be crushing. We aren’t alone. It takes a community of us to all support each other. We can rid ourselves of the shame our society implies that we should have. We don’t need it. What we do need, is to be there for each other.

I am and I was so privileged. I had insurance and a job that allowed me to self admit without fear of losing it all and knowing I wouldn’t drown in medical debt. I also knew enough about the medical system due to my work as an occupational therapist that I was confident I could keep myself safe. Now isn’t that ridiculous… I admitted because I needed supervision and medical help in order to be safe and stay alive, but I was also only able to do so because I had the confidence that I could protect myself from abuse and mistreatment.

Not every person can get the kind of life saving help that I got because it isn’t safe for them to do so, whether it be mentally, physically, or financially. Which is all the more reason to talk about it and spread awareness. You deserve life, and you deserve to live a life on your terms.

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Want a life coach whom specializes in neurodivergence, q***rness, and invisible illness? Check out my website: www.q***rspectrumlifecoaching.com (link in bio). Book a 30 minute free consult and have a conversation with me about what’s on your mind, any questions you have, and whether coaching is right for you.

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10/11/2021

I will be back on the 14th, although if this doesn’t work maybe I will just leave completely, that is the point. Check out thefblogout.com for details on the demands of users for this consumer strike. Let’s show and we won’t tolerate shadow banning! We won’t tolerate their white supremacy capitalistic bull s**t! Join me! Check out the website. Sign the pledge. ✊

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08/11/2021

Hi guys! I and coming out! I’m enby and genderfluid! I am using she/they pronouns, now. 🌈

I made a giant post about it on Q***r Spectrum Life Coaching]. Please go check it out! I go into detail about my own journey and I how came to the realization about my gender. Give it a follow while you are there! 💜

Remember to be love! ❤️

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23/10/2021

We just got back to Indiana, but we were visiting ’s family in Myrtle Beach for a week and we had a lovely time. We will be going back more, and I will say October is actually the perfect time to go. It’s still warm like the summer but the locals all think it’s too cold and tourists aren’t around. Then when you drive back in the mountains, fall colors are out! But what made the trip extra great was Logan’s lovely family. His grandmother is literally the best cook. I could not have ate enough of it if I tried… and I tried. I was too full but my soul wanted more. Lol. And his mom basically made us grocery shop in her house and was nearly throwing food at us when we left. Is this what they mean by food is love? If so, I feel the love. ❤️🍗🥧

Other Van updates: Our power still isn’t fixed. The one starter battery was dead and we got it replaced but then we had to leave before fully testing everything because we had to get to Gencon. Only to find out we couldn’t get the batteries to work even with the one battery being replaced. The power works just fine hooked up to shore. I still need to try a few things but we likely need to go back for repairs. The good news is I think it may be the inverter, and anything that isn’t a battery is covered by warranty insurance. I am slightly worried the lithiums are dead, but they still blink at me which means they at least are being perceived as existing by the electrical system. 🤷

Even still, I love my little house on wheels. I did an interview for my coaching business on a podcast and will be returning to the same podcast next week. Money is tight, but we are making moves that I am confident in. Fall is my favorite season and so, generally, I am pleased with life. 💜

How is everybody else doing? Remember to be love!

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02/09/2021

RV updates!
We moved into the RV on the 20th of August and new we had to take it in to get worked on. I was 99% certain it was the starter battery, as are lithium’s started charging when I jumped it… I took it in about a week ago (when I took this picture) and the starter battery was fine, so I left it for diagnostics.
They called me this past Tuesday and evidently the hood generator wasn’t working (shipping it back to the manufacturer for fixing) and there was a sliced wire that was connecting the inverter to the lithium’s. Just from install and wear and tear and nothing to do with anything I’ve done… the wire evidently started sparking when they were testing things and that’s how they found it. They can replace it and fix the generator… but they also are shipping my lithium’s out for testing because the split wire could have potentially damaged them. Currently I’m at $900 in repairs and that’s assuming the lithium’s aren’t damaged. This $900 should be covered by my warranty insurance, but they won’t replace batteries… so those thousand dollar lithium batteries may be out of pocket… which I could not afford. So I’m stressed. This all being said everything works when we hook up to shore so living in it is still possible while I save money for new lithiums, if that’s what I need to do. We’ve been staying with my mom while it gets worked on. We didn’t even really fully unpack… lol.
I’ll make a post about it all when it’s said and done.

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18/08/2021

Today is the last night being in the apartment, but it’s also not, because we have no bed in the apartment anymore, so tonight is sort of the first night starting our vanlife. I shaved my hair off, and so did (). Less maintenance, less heavy sensory overwhelming hair that gets in my ears weird when I’m trying to sleep, less need to carry lots of shampoo or conditioner in our tiny space. Also, I think I look good!

Swipe to see our desecrated bedroom floor and then a picture of my car, which will soon not be my car as I am selling it to a used car dealer. These are the markings of a transition period. I am so freaking excited for our first night sleeping in the RV full time. I am excited to be done packing and moving. I am excited for this lifestyle change and to make adventure a true priority in my life. 💜

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24/06/2021

We have been staying at this beautiful KOA for the past few days trying to fix an issue with the chassis battery. I have basically determined that I need to jump my AGM battery, but I don’t exactly know where it is nor do I have the equipment. This being said, the amount of research I have done into how my works has made me feel much more confident about all of it in general and I am 99% certain I can fix this myself with potentially some help from friends.👍

We will be moving into my tiny RV, Polly Pocket, in 5 weeks and 2 days time. After this 2 day and 3 night stay I can say with confidence that I am really freaking excited to move out of my apartment and start my . I have been able to do work on the RV and for my business (***rspectrumlifecoaching) with minimal issue and with minimal distraction. The amount of peace I have being here, I’ve actually used my phone less. My silly phone game that I play for far to long every day… I didn’t touch it for 3 days and I hardly realized it. I went for a walk just because. For this dream to be coming true for me is beyond me. I am relieved, joyful, excited, and now I am only a tiny bit scared, as opposed to the terrified I felt before. We have a lot we need to do the next 5 weeks to move out, but I know we are going to make it happen. 🥰😍💜

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03/06/2021

Hey y’all! Join me this Friday for my official Instagram live launch party for my business! It’s going to be on ***rspectrumlifecoaching’s page, so be sure to follow. I am so excited to meet you and celebrate pride! I will be having a Q&A to answer your questions. Whether it’s about the habits you are struggling to implement in your life, help with goals you want to reach, or simply wanting to shoot the s**t, I am here to see and hear from you! I also want to open the floor to see what kind of content you all want to see from me and what kind of insta lives you want to see in the future. ❤️🏳️‍🌈❤️

If you have any questions, suggestions, or comments you want me to know ahead of time, or if you are unable to make it, please leave a comment on the original post on ***rspectrumlifecoaching. Be sure to check out my website, too, the link is in Q***r Spectrum Life Coaching’s bio. The website is nearly finished, my about me will be up by the end of today! 😄👍👏

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