10/08/2025
Today let us speak on relationships. Marriage is 50/50. Marriage is unhealthy when it is a co dependent relationship. In order to make a marriage work, couples have to share the duties of the family. The house up keep inside and out. The pets, if you have any. The children if you have any. Everyone needs time for themselves. When the wife needs a break to go off for a weekend either by herself or with friends.. The same goes for the husband. Sometimes just a motorcycle ride will do it. The key is not to call your spouse 50 times in the weekend. If you have little ones in the house and mama needs a nap. Make sure she gets the nap undisturbed. Share the duties, wash, dry, fold clothes, do the dishes and clean up after.
If thes things are not done in the relationship, oneday someone will snap, and the other person is going to go home to an empty house. The co dependent spouse will be by themselves, not even knowing how to wipe their ass. The other spouse will finally be free from stress, (which is one of the top killers in a person).
So all you co dependent people out there please get some mental help.
The sad part is so many people will read this and say yep this is true and less than 1% will do anything about it.
