Dear White Women podcast

28/08/2024

Look for the helpers. ​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​I always come back to this, when times seem tough, or challenging, or I simply feel alone - and in this vein, I am so happy to have such a community full of them.

One of these amazing humans is Dr. Lynne Maureen Hurdle, who is about to start her next cohort of On The Matter Of Race.

You want to know about this group. Trust us.

Why?

In Dr Hurdle's words:

"Racism has not been resolved by any means and part of the reason is that systemic racism is designed to be invisible to White people until they have a reason to want to learn about it. If you aren't sure what I mean by systemic racism and even if you think you understand what I mean, the On The Matte Of Race program Is for you, is for you."

"This program is a container where White People who truly want to contribute to changing the racist systems in the United States of America are taught to dismantle the psychological structures in their mind to fully open their eyes to the disparity between Blacks and Whites in the world around them."

Check this out for more information: https://theconflictcloser.com/matter-of-race

15/07/2022

So uplifting to hear that something we did was worth sharing!!!! Thank you MindShift LLC!

04/07/2022

It’s the .

How are YOU thinking about independence and freedom today?

11/06/2022

This is a story of these two pictures - and much more.

One picture is of my mother & her father-in-law (my grandfather) on her wedding day. (And if you'll recall, I’ve mentioned he never smiled in photos - but he did, on this day).

The other is of me and my father on my own wedding day.

Both of these weddings, and our subsequent marriages, may have never happened had it not been for a 1967 Supreme Court case called Loving v. Virginia, which ended all race-based legal restrictions on marriage in the United States.

It paved the way not only for our family to exist, but so many other families and generations as a result.

If the Court had decided otherwise, there may be a whole lot of people who aren't here today, including me, my brother, some of my nephews, my own kids, Sara - and that's just off the top of my head. That story is the same for so many of us.

Sometimes the Supreme Court gets things wrong - very wrong - and we should get loud as hell to make sure that we change that. But sometimes the Supreme Court gets things right, and we have to continue to fight like hell to make sure our kids don't have less rights than we do.

And to me, decisions that involve people being seeing as humans first and foremost, and decisions grounded in deep reasoning around equal protection under the law, are ones worth fighting for.

As we look around and see rights being rolled back, we have to realize that we have agency right now to be the changemakers in our own spheres of life.

So as we head into this Sunday, which is the 55th anniversary of this landmark decision, I hope you realize this goes beyond a story of two pictures - it's also the story of family, belonging, human rights, and the ability to just, simply, exist.

And if that's not worth fighting for, at least for our kids, then what is?

03/05/2022

No, it shouldn’t just be for pregnancies as a result of r**e. But yes, this story is powerful and human and important for those against choice to read.

Because basically in zero cases is making the decision to terminate a pregnancy an easy one.

"Our medical assistant came to me, panicked, and handed me a positive test. ... 'Run it again,' I sputtered — to buy some time and gather my wits and hope by some miracle it would produce a different result."

27/12/2021

Condolences in Response to the Death of Archbishop Desmond Tutu

Thekchen Chöling, Dharamsala, HP, India, December 26, 2021 - Immediately on being informed that his “respected elder spiritual brother and good friend” Archbishop Desmond Tutu had passed away, His Holiness the Dalai Lama composed a letter to the Archbishop’s daughter, Rev. Mpho Tutu.

“Please accept my heartfelt condolences,” he wrote, “and convey the same to your mother and other members of your family. I pray for him.

“As you know, over the years, your father and I enjoyed an enduring friendship. I remember the many occasions we spent time together, including the week here at Dharamsala in 2015 when we were able to share our thoughts on how to increase peace and joy in the world. The friendship and the spiritual bond between us was something we cherished.

“Archbishop Desmond Tutu was entirely dedicated to serving his brothers and sisters for the greater common good. He was a true humanitarian and a committed advocate of human rights. His work for the Truth and Reconciliation Commission was an inspiration for others around the world.

“With his passing away, we have lost a great man, who lived a truly meaningful life. He was devoted to the service of others, especially those who are least fortunate. I am convinced the best tribute we can pay him and keep his spirit alive is to do as he did and constantly look to see how we too can be of help to others.”

25/12/2021

Thinking of all who celebrate Christmas today - whether surrounded by others in joy, or whether struggling privately - and wishing you love.

Here’s to an even better 2022!

22/12/2021

So honored to be featured by Krimson Klover as a women owned brand today!

Check out their high quality outdoor gear after you read this. 🥰

Rhonda Swenson is the fearless woman entrepreneur building the bold Krimson Klover brand.

17/12/2021

Totally missed that this great piece from the International Examiner came out! Huge thanks to writer Roxanne for the feature.

White women are caught between patriarchal structures that are enforced by men and racial hierarchies, which they benefit from even when they don’t actively seek to reinforce the oppression of people of color. In this in-between space, white women sometimes find it difficult to address issues of r...

15/12/2021

What a loss….

Acclaimed author and activist bell hooks died on Wednesday. She was 69.

08/12/2021

When Bookshop features your kids book list 🥰

Check out this list on Bookshop

01/12/2021

Today, SCOTUS is hearing arguments in a case that could overturn Roe v Wade.

Jackson Women’s Health Organization is at the center of a Supreme Court case that could overturn Roe v. Wade

21/11/2021

This honestly makes such a good point while 🤣🤣🤣

While taking attendance, inner-city substitute teacher Mr. Garvey has trouble adjusting to a classroom full of middle-class white students.About Key & Peele:...

16/11/2021

Ah, "socialism," the word that we love to villify in this country.
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Yet as the wife of a Canadian, I have learned that the word isn't accurately in many of the casual conversations we have around here.
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Given last week's conversation with Derercka Purnrell about abolition - and its possible alternative, infused with a social safety net and community involvement - we thought it was worth revisiting!

12/11/2021

So deeply grateful to for this feature in the November issue - as two biracial women, it’s so wonderful to be seen and welcomed in the Asian community!

For more: https://issuu.com/asianavemag/docs/november2021/18

07/11/2021

So excited to be featured as part of this issue of Asian Avenue magazine!!!

November 2021: Yelp's 50 Best Small Restaurants in Denver showcase dozens of Asian restaurants!

- Flag-signing event brings together Japanese Americans
- Dear White Women podcast releases first book
- Wines to pair with your Thanksgiving feast
- Havana Business Improvement District adds sweets and treats
- Deborah Yim receives Pro Bono Star Award
- Sip and Paint event raises funds to write and share the stories of South Asian women

See full issue at: https://issuu.com/asianavemag/docs/november2021

22/10/2021

Timely post from given next week’s episode with survivor of Japanese incarceration camps, John Tateishi, and his experiences - including returning to Los Angeles, and leading the fight for reparations with the .

Make sure you follow so you don’t miss this incredible conversation.

21/10/2021

Who is in the Bay Area next week? Palo Alto, Oakland, San Fran…. Come join us IN PERSON!

11/10/2021

Today is Indigenous People's Day!
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Yes, here at the podcast, we think we need to remove Columbus Day from any holiday calendar and pick another day to celebrate Indigenous people, but that's part of the work to advocate for.
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Here are things that YOU can do to change the narratives!

11/10/2021

Our most recent book recommendations for kids and parents on anti-racism is LIVE:

Discover the best books on for kids (and parents) on anti-racism. Sara Blanchard and Misasha Suzuki Graham and other experts share the best books on every topic you can imagine.

27/09/2021

For those in the Silicon Valley area this weekend - check out this film that’ll be screening on REPARATIONS.

About 1min30sec into this preview you’ll get a powerful clip: https://vimeo.com/499399227

Tickets available here:

https://www.tickettailor.com/events/contemporaryasiantheaterscene/575667/

This is "Reparations Trailer" by Jon Osaki on Vimeo, the home for high quality videos and the people who love them.

21/09/2021

Whaaaaatt!? Out of the universe comes our latest podcast patron, Linda Burke.

Linda, thank you SO MUCH for being here, and for offering financial support so we can continue making this weekly podcast and platform!!! We appreciate you deeply.

09/09/2021

We *think* a lot of you will buy the book when it’s released - but just in case you want a chance to WIN it, here’s a Goodreads Giveaway you can enter this week!!

https://www.goodreads.com/giveaway/show/331145-dear-white-women-let-s-get-un-comfortable-talking-about-racism

Enter to win one of 10 free copies available. Giveaway dates from Sep 06-Sep 15, 2021. Enter for a chance to win a free copy of DEAR WHITE WOMEN by Sara ...

08/09/2021

You want to watch some fun movies this weekend?
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Check out these suggestions from this week's guest, Kamala Avila-Salmon, head of inclusive content at Lionsgate!
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More good convos every week.

08/09/2021

We recently found a small Black women owned business that makes BEAUTIFUL crayons that inspire diversify.

I know Crayola has launched their line too - but wouldn’t it feel even better knowing your money is going to support a handmade beeswax crayon line that is made with love??

https://allofuscrayons.com/

Honoring the skin tones of our diverse world.

07/09/2021

Representation has been the underlying theme of late - from the census to movies and more - and you’ll hear a lot in our conversation with Kamala Avila-Salmon, head of inclusive content at Lionsgate.

Fitting to share these points that echo today’s episode:

https://www.businessinsider.com/how-hollywood-needs-change-to-become-more-inclusive-dei-experts-2021-8

Insider asked leading DEI experts working with the entertainment industry how it can become more diverse, equitable, and inclusive.

01/09/2021

Hello and welcome to Fall! What we’re really excited about - besides our book coming out in mid October! - is our fall lineup of episodes. Now that we’re done with our Summer of Action, we’re focused on issues that have not only been in our consciousness, but ones that we’ve been hearing about throughout 2021 and ones that we’d like to highlight for the fall.   In September, we’ll be focusing on current events and topics that you may have heard about in the news - including representation in the media, Qanon, and so much more. October will be devoted to all things voting and our political systems as we look at the practical things we all need to be aware of when we vote this November, or in 2022 - or as we read or listen to the news. Finally, in November, we’ll be talking to people who are working on transformative change in their own spheres of influence, and see how they got involved in doing this impactful work.   And to kick this off - let’s talk about the Census. Because we’ve learned a lot about who we are and our own communities with the news that’s been coming out over these last few weeks. Have questions, comments, or concerns? Email us at [email protected] What to listen for: Our summer recap and what it’s like to have some kids back in school! The overview of our fall lineup Breaking down the latest census information - how the census impacts policies and elections not just for the next ten years, but for potentially the next hundred How lawmakers froze the number of members in the House of Representatives at a max - even though that cap is not mandated in the Constitution And yes, of course, how the demographics appear to be showing a marked decline in the White population of this country - and how that can be both reality and a question of more accurate data   Where to pre-order Dear White Women: Let’s Get (Un)comfortable Talking About Racism: https://thecollectivebook.studio/dear-white-women Like what you hear?  Don’t miss another episode and subscribe! Catch up on more commentary between episodes by following us on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter – and even more opinions and resources if you join our email list.