09/08/2024
A Mother's LOVE is ETERNAL
Based on the Social Media Pre-recorded Video (with all its editing) of Carlos Yulo and the Live Press Conference of his mother, Angelica Poquiz Yulo, here is my opinion.
No mother in her right mind will ever wish ill of her children. She may not be expressive, but in her heart she knows and feels what her son also knows and feels. The umbilical cord that binds their physical lives from conception till birth will always remain even after it has been cut. What replaces it is the psychic link that is eternal. The yellow chakra connects us to our family, more so to our mothers. It glows whenever we feel or miss the love of our mothers.
What happened between them is deep-seated, stemming from his formative years until he has been recognized to represent our country.
There would be moments when a mother would not know what to say or do, when her child excels in a world that is strange to her. She would be happy. She would also be afraid of the possible failure if her son does not get what he wants.
A mother would always be protective. She cared for her child in her bosom. The very sight of her baby in her arms brought her immense joy in giving life, in spite of the pain in giving birth. It is pure love.
She saw him grow up. She nurtured her son. She fed him. She clothed him. She could and would have done everything for him, just so she can make her son smile and be happy.
She attended to her son's needs, no matter what. There are mothers who would swallow their pride or fight, just so she can see her children, just so her children or her family would survive. In the process, she may make mistakes, and so would her child. We all do. Nobody should be blamed. It is part of our learning experiences in life.
But her child will not be a child forever. Her son will grow up and will have his own life to live. Some mothers will find it easy to let go, but other mothers will find it very hard.
They will always worry, even in their silent solitary moments. Even in their death beds, they will still think of their children. I saw it and felt it, when i looked at my mother's eyes in her death bed. A tear just fell. She could not express herself well, but deep inside her love remains.
Letting go is very difficult for one who is very close to her children, more so for a mother whose life revolves mainly around her children. There are mothers who work or who leave their children to the care of others. In their busy lives, they may not feel as much pain, but their love remains.
A simple rift between a mother and her child may be fleeting, but a deep-seated one may last a lifetime, particularly when painful words are hurled against each other that tears apart the love between them.
In our culture, a mother may find it very hard to apologize, or may not even apologize at all, because of our value for respecting our elders. They have gone through life longer than we did. They have greater sacrifices than we had. They are presumed to have more wisdom than we do. We cannot force them to change overnight. Nobody should force them. Your experiences are different from hers. Let her heal, in her own time.
In our culture too, a son may find it very hard to apologize, or may not even apologize at all, because of the rashness of youth, the opinions of peers, and the values he sees around him and on media. There is ego too. He may have felt that he was cheated, deceived, or not loved at all, simply because in the midst of anger, his ears heard them, but his mind refused to listen. His heart closes down and opens up easily to the next one in whom he finds comfort.
But comfort in others may be fleeting. Some may mean well, but others may not mean anything at all. We have our own interests in mind. A young son may easily be swayed, especially when he is provided with material stuff that his own parents cannot give him. He fails to see that that is only an illusion.
Carlos may have won the hearts of many. He may have shared his thoughts on air, cajoled by his girlfriend, but his feelings are something that only he can share with his own family, with his own mother. His girlfriend has her own story to tell. She has her own axe to grind. Let's leave her out of this. She is a different story or, perhaps, chapter in his life. She may remain, but who knows what the future holds for them when they grow more mature?
Everyone likes a happy ending.
Whatever happens when the mother, Angelica, and her son, Carlos, meet is their own story. Thay both have their reasons for tearing apart the love that was (and still is) between them. They now will have the choice of how to start all over again.
As a Filipino son (untainted by the ill upbringing of Western cultures or the lack of it), Carlos should initiate the healing process. Humility begets more blessings. He will not lose anything by saying directly to his mother, when they are alone together, that he is sorry for everything that he has said or done in the past. How his mother reacts will depend on her. She may not say anything too, but just the look in her eyes will say everything.
Again, a mother's love is eternal. I have seen it in many of our Spirit Quests. I even did a vlog about one where a mother's soul (who passed away in her eighty years but) refuses to go to the light, because her daughter's soul (who also passed away in her fifties) still had grudges against those who murdered them and attachment to the physical world.
It was a tearful realization that a mother's love transcends space and time.
Whatever decision Carlos makes now is his own. We are in no position to judge him, his mother, or his girlfriend.
He must prepare and plan for his future, now that he is an adult.
He may have been called not only to inspire others, but to also pave the way for improving the state of our country's sports development.
He must not forget to also share his blessings with his own family. They were there from the beginning. As I have repeatedly said, in the realm beyond, he himself has chosen them even before he was born. Even though his parents may not say it or say that they don't need his money, deep inside a son in his right mind should know how to be grateful and become more loving than ever, now that he is given more than he needs. More blessings will come to those who are pure of heart.
Carlos Yulo must remember that you only have ONE MOTHER. Fame does not last. Even the greatest heroes and saints in history become mere pages in history books.
But a MOTHER'S LOVE IS FOREVER.
Light, Love, and Life.
¡ Namaste !
YT
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