30/08/2026
Save this one. It's the most practical stretch of the episode.
Most anger advice starts and ends with "take a deep breath." Dr. Ryan Martin says back up further and diagram the incident instead.
1. The provocation. What actually happened?
2. The pre-anger state. Tired? Hungry? Already frustrated?
3. The appraisal. Catastrophizing? Overgeneralizing? Labeling someone?
4. The expression. What did you do with it?
Four parts means four places to intervene, and most of them happen long before you'd need a breathing exercise. That's executive function doing its job.
Try it once this week. Pick one incident and diagram it.
Full PreFrontal Ep. 160: Dr. Ryan Martin - Anger
❓️ Which of the four would you struggle to answer honestly?
https://www.fullprefrontal.com/1080614/episodes/9007530
https://youtu.be/v7OPoBakVEM?si=cD52aPKYBF6bTv8f
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