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09/06/2024

It’s her sister’s wedding - what she did will shock you

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Kingsley: I will never stop hunting you...

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The Pregnancy is not for my fiancee

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21/10/2023

I'm a 29-year-old woman in a year-long relationship, and I'm grappling with sexual dissatisfaction. Our intimate moments are skewed towards his pleasure, with little regard for mine. Despite my efforts to discuss and rectify this, including explicit conversations and even arguments, there's minimal change. His sporadic attempts at foreplay are clearly unenthusiastic, diminishing my enjoyment further. I've broached the idea of seeking sexual fulfillment elsewhere, met with his reluctance, though he did propose a one-time allowance, seemingly out of resignation rather than a genuine belief in its potential to improve our situation.

I'm conflicted; I don't want to coerce him into unwanted acts, yet I can't quell my own unmet needs. The stark reality that we might simply be sexually incompatible is looming large. I'm open to advice on more effective communication strategies or any other steps I could take beyond talking, to navigate this delicate situation.

27/09/2023

I'm 43F and have been married to a 43M for 12 years. We crossed paths in high school and reconnected on FB in our late 20s. Two years later, we got married.

Just 10 months into our marriage, I found messages on his phone expressing love and longing for another woman. I left briefly, feeling betrayed, but returned because of my commitment to our vows.

However, trust has been elusive since then. Even though I've occasionally checked his phone, he's gotten adept at hiding any evidence. This constant suspicion is draining.

Recently, I've struck up a friendly rapport with someone from a local shop. He's single and while our interactions are casual, there's a subtle hint of flirtation. This has me wondering about the possibilities of a different future, not necessarily with him, but with someone who's genuinely compatible.

Having lived in an unfulfilling marriage for over a decade, I'm contemplating whether it's time to pursue genuine happiness. What do you think?

25/09/2023

My boyfriend (32M) recently called me (24F) a gold digger, yet we're far from wealthy.

We live in a cramped apartment, so tight on space that it feels like everything's on top of each other. I work hard, holding down two jobs – as a bartender at a strip club during the night and a hairdresser by day. He, on the other hand, delivers for Uber, but I'd say he works a mere three hours daily. The rest? He's "investing in crypto." I've taken on the primary role of providing for us, and although I don't mind, I truly am the one bringing home the bacon. When I urge him to work more, he always agrees but never follows through.

Recently, with our rent going up, I needed him to chip in financially for our shared space. But he insists his funds are tied up in "untouchable" investments, hinting at his crypto activities.

I tried being rational, explaining that our immediate needs should come before such investments. In response, he accused me of wanting to drain his assets, labeling me a gold digger. I was stunned. I jokingly asked our imaginary "roommates" - Master Splinter and the ninja roaches - if I'd heard right. I reminded him of my job surroundings; if I really wanted luxury, I wouldn't be here with him, making do in our tiny place. I wouldn't be scrambling to whip up a meal with the most random ingredients. I see men at the club spending generously, while he struggles to pull together even a little change.

He then told me he needed space, but considering our living situation, it's almost laughable. Reflecting on it, I feel even more frustrated. The irony is, even a local who's down on his luck and often lounging around our building thinks my boyfriend's losing touch with reality. It's a sad realization when such a person seems more grounded than your own partner.

What should I do?

14/09/2023

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02/06/2023

Tropical Temptation: I don’t want to be in a relationship with her anymore.
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Well, here's the deal: I find myself in a pretty intense situation. You see, my girlfriend and I have been together for about nine months, and we're about to embark on a month-long adventure in Thailand with her parents. Yeah, I know, it might seem a bit early to plan such a thing, but here we are. The thing is, deep down, I've come to realize that being in a relationship isn't the right path for me right now. I have this strong urge to embrace my youth, explore new experiences, and live life to the fullest while I still can.

Now, the tricky part is that we're going to Thailand together, staying at her parents' place. Breaking up before the trip seems like an almost impossible task. I'm torn because I genuinely care about her and the last thing I want to do is hurt her. It's just that my aspirations and desires for life have taken a different turn. So, my dilemma is: What should I do, and how can I handle this situation delicately?

Your guidance would be greatly appreciated!

25/05/2023

Breaking Free: Help me!

I find myself in a unique situation, one that has tested my patience and resolve over the past few years. You see, I've been married for four years now, and together my husband and I have been blessed with two beautiful children. But lately, things have taken a rather unexpected turn.

Around a year ago, my husband made the decision to leave our home and instead sleep at his parents' house. He claimed it was because they had been telling him that I wanted to separate him from his own people. Financially, he has been incredibly supportive, but socially, he tends to speak ill of me. To make matters worse, it's been an entire year since we last shared any intimacy.

I've come to realize that he fears the judgment of his own family. We live in an extended family setup, where disagreements with his siblings are commonplace, just like in any other family. Eventually, I grew tired of the constant friction and issued him an ultimatum: choose between me and them.

In my moments of despair, I turned to prayer, seeking solace and guidance. I asked God to bless me with a job, and much to my surprise, I was granted a well-paying one. However, when I shared the good news with my husband, his reaction was far from joyful. Suddenly, both he and his family started treating me with kindness and affection.

Yet, despite this apparent change, I find myself at a crossroads. I yearn for a fresh start, away from the suffocating dynamics of this extended family. As I embark on my new job, I contemplate making a clean break, even if it means not explicitly stating my desire to end the marriage. The dilemma arises from the fact that they will not allow me to take my children with me.

In this web of emotions and conflicting choices, I seek guidance and understanding.

05/11/2021

Happy weekend

29/07/2021

Hello, how is it going today?

19/07/2021

How is everything going?

05/07/2021

Hello good people

22/06/2021

Lol 😂

04/06/2021

Hello

17/05/2021

Wishing you a good start for the week

15/05/2021

Hello people

02/05/2021

Happy weekend guys

01/05/2021

Good evening everyone