26/09/2022
Well we made it to and back from Chicago, and I say that with exasperation because this was a particularly challenging trip 😅 It reminds me of how during my first months as a new mom I’d wonder what I was doing wrong that made me feel like it was impossible to go anywhere together for extended periods of time. I know now that it feels hard because it IS hard, but we do it anyway, getting better with experience at managing expectations, being flexible, and making the best of hard moments- sometimes that’s as simple as laughing off the s**t show you’re in 🙃
We discovered Orion had hand foot and mouth disease, which resulted in staying in for most of our trip, nursing him back to good spirits while nursing my sinus infection, an equally tired dad doing the most to hold his sick family together, and a lot of meltdowns. Orion also got to see his grandparents, great grandparents, aunt uncle and cousins, eat a fresh slice of Lou Malnati’s deep dish pizza, visit the Lincoln Park Zoo, have his first carousel ride which he loved so much it was magic, and spend time in our beloved hometown. Do I want to hibernate for a month, yes, but did we make great memories despite the physical and mental load of family travel, always yes. Would for sure do it again hoping the timing and conditions will be better, but regardless we’ll still be ok 🖤