
09/08/2025
If I could pick only ONE thing to tell you right now..
It would be to prioritize actual data over subjective feelings.
You probably feel like you're doing all the things. You probably feel like you're doing a good job resisting rituals. You probably feel like you're doing a good job ~accepting uncertainty~ and all that.
But.. that's not enough. I need data. Cold, hard facts that can't be argued.
You have to break these vague problems into specific problems because specific problems render specific solutions.
So as long as you're out there, like, ahh I can't stop ruminating, omg what do I do it's all jUsT sOoO ReALLL!!! - that's really hard to solve. Not because a solution doesn't exist, but because it's a vague problem.
Vague problems are hard to solve.
Now.. when you make it SPECIFIC. FACTUAL. AND USE DATA.
Now we're talking. We can solve that.
Now you're probably like, okay, how do I DO all of this? I talk more about it to my students in my digital course, The OCD and Anxiety Recovery Blueprint. I have an entire lesson (more like multiple lol) about this concept, and one lesson in particular where I actually guide you through, step by step, how to make a habit tracker so you can take these very vague problems, make them super factual and specific, and collect data.
Because if you feel like you're doing all the things and you're actually just spinning your wheels, there's no need to be spending all that energy for no return.
And it's time to get some mothereffing return.
DM me or comment the word BLUEPRINT for more.