17/12/2023
Don't take a grown up man as a project thinking you can fix or mend him. Stop being stupid & delusional.
Focus on improving yourself, on improving your health, your fitness, your studies, your finances, your connection with parents, siblings & of course most importantly with Almighty & His religion.
A man is not the reason of your existence, ALMIGHTY is.
Let people who want to come in a PURE way come & those who want to leave, leave...
If someone isn't making an effort to be in your life, don't make an effort to keep them in your life.
If someone isn't trying to make you a priority, don't degrade & belittle yourself by being his eye candy.
If someone is keeping you a secret, don't waste a second discussing him with others or thinking about him.
There are a lot of pious & strong amazing men who will approach your father, who will marry you, who will assist, pamper & spoil you because of their love & fear of Almighty, give you finances, a safe place & your pious progeny.
Don't run behind a boy & expect him to magically change into a knight in shining Armour.
Focus on yourself, do not overlook red flags.
What's meant to be will come to pass.
Life is too short to have takeaways & run behind boys who don't care.
May the Almighty fill our lives with good people & true men who are stable, loyal, honest, God fearing & committed.
Oh Almighty protect our young beautiful daughters & sisters... 🌸