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20/10/2024

Does a narcissist set out to destroy you?

Yes, absolutely, from the moment they chose you. No matter how much you want to believe that you chose them, trust me, they chose you. They picked you because they saw something special in you, something that their current partners didn't have or something they took away because of something the narcissist did. They will do everything they can to ruin your relationship with anyone or anything you care about. He forced me to make a choice. And when I chose my family, he acted crazy and insulted me, calling me stupid, dumb, easily manipulated, and saying I believed everything I heard.
These people have no capacity to love anyone, not even themselves. Something went wrong with them at a young age. If you suspect your partner is a narcissist, chances are they are, and my advice is to run away as fast as you can and never look back. Every time they hurt you and convince you to let them back into your life, the next time they hurt you, which they definitely will, it will be worse than before. The disrespect will keep getting worse. Run, and take time to heal because it will take years to recover from the damage they caused.

20/10/2024

Why do narcissist like to cause drama?

On thing I have learned is drama is normal to them. If they are just sitting around the house and everything is going fine. Say they have some free time to make some food and catch up on some shows. They don't do that like a normal person. They will start looking for people to pick fights with, start arguments with, knock down. To them that's what life is and if they aren't doing that? There's something wrong with them and they don't feel normal. They feel dumb or like they're a loser or whatever other bu****it bothers them.

They cant have quiet alone time, they cant respect anyone else's. Their brains are so used to the drama that they release certain substances and hormones that they get used to, so they keep doing it. Even when they know it's wrong and then eventually it just becomes life.

It's super super sad as not arguing and being at peace, enjoying the moment alone or with someone who cares about you? That's amazing. That's when you actually connect and feel that warmth and happiness. They will never care nor want that.

19/10/2024

Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health condition in which people have an unreasonably high sense of their own importance. They need and seek too much attention and want people to admire them. People with this disorder may lack the ability to understand or care about the feelings of others. But behind this mask of extreme confidence, they are not sure of their self-worth and are easily upset by the slightest criticism. If you recognize aspects of your personality that are common to narcissistic personality disorder or you're feeling overwhelmed by atheism, or grandiose evangelical Christianity, please consider reaching out to a trusted health care provider or mental health provider. Getting the right treatment can help make your life more rewarding and enjoyable.

17/10/2024

17/10/2024

Happy Halloween 🎃 💀 👻 narcissists and atheists!🤡👽🍁🍂

06/10/2024

in toxic relationships it is recognized in mental health that a partner is narcissistic always negative toward the positive that would result in a happy relationship. Instead they need narcissistic energy from negative energy directed at the victim for no reason or gain and promises destruction of happiness and peace of mind. The same can be said for atheists who have no purpose and nothing to gain buy devoting much of their time wasted on social media. Read this about narcissists. They are exactly the SAME! - I realized that it also showcases EXACTLY how they abuse, so I’m going to re-post it here:

It’s emotional abuse by minimizing, denying, deflecting, invalidating, making sarcastic or derogatory insinuations about your character, and generally making you feel like your going bat-s**t crazy. The person in my life (who I refer to here as “They”) will make a passive aggressive insult, or say something nasty or rude, (or sometimes even outright insulting , mocking, or disrespectful), but If *I* call them out on it, I get:

“Oh god, here we go again.” Or, I get a look that says I’m dramatic for having to react to “everything” or, “Oh big deal, so what; you don’t have to get all upset about it, other people don’t take everything so personally”. I will be chronically invalidated by being told that I am “Too sensitive,” “Dramatic,” and “Histrionic,” etc. As soon as I start getting angry about the insane invalidation, they’ll start winding their arm around, in a “Here you go again”, kind of a way etc, while “projecting” behavior I’m not even doing yet: “You’re getting all worked up, the day is going to be horrible now; here we go, off to the races, Woo Hoo!” (Holy Mother of God, I would have to walk away and meditate for an hour, or breathe into a paper bag to avoid causing them bodily harm after that one) By the end of this —if I’ve fallen into the trap of explaining my feelings, wanting them to “understand,” and getting royally upset (HUGE mistake; AVOID)— I will be labelled “crazy” and “emotionally” unstable.

Good Times.

Basically, whatever they can do to make you feel like you’re being totally ridiculous and making a big deal out of nothing. It’s so God. Damn. infuriating—I have seriously never had to resist the urge to attack someone in the neck with a fork so much in my Entire. LIFE. (Can you sense the deep well of anger and frustration I have inside me over this crazyiness??? )

It’s not “Classic” Gaslighting per se; i.e., (at least not with this person) they don’t exactly deny doing these things, (though, sometimes they’ll claim an insult was a “joke” and they’ll minimize, minimize, minimize, and deflect, deflect, deflect) but they’ll go on an immediate attack on my character, and then claim they are just “defending themselves.” Uh, OK—because I always attack and insult other people when I’m “just defending myself.” Sigh…

They try to make you feel like you’re over-reacting, weak, pathetic, and ridiculous because you got upset when THEY pushed YOUR buttons. It’s…really twisted and f*cked up. I used to joke with them, “Apparently your insults or rude behavior aren’t the problem….but my reaction to it IS?” Blank Stare. No acknowledgment of their logical fallacy. It’s crazy making.

After many years of this I have had to distance myself physically and emotionally from this person for the sake of my sanity.

That is how they abuse. Proof of God here at my other page Facebook.com/cosmicthebook search "Cosmic Coincidences" on Facebook

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04/10/2024

Does narcissistic abuse cause you to not be who you were?
Yes, narcissistic abuse can cause you to not be who you were. When someone goes through narcissistic abuse, it's like they've been through a storm that changed everything. Imagine you were a tree with strong roots, standing tall and confident. Now, think of the narcissistic abuse as a fierce wind that shakes your branches and tears away some of your leaves.

In a relationship with a narcissist, they often manipulate, criticize, and belittle you. This constant emotional turmoil can make you doubt yourself and erode your self-esteem. It's like the storm slowly changing the landscape of who you are. You start questioning your thoughts, feelings, and even your worth.

The tactics used by narcissists, such as gaslighting and manipulation, can make you feel like you're losing your grip on reality. You second-guess your memories and perceptions, and over time, it becomes harder to trust yourself. This is like losing the clear vision you once had about who you are.

Moreover, narcissistic abuse often involves isolation. The narcissist tries to cut you off from friends and family, leaving you more vulnerable. This isolation can make you feel lonely and disconnected, changing the social aspect of who you were.

The aftermath of narcissistic abuse can leave you feeling like a different person. You struggle with anxiety, depression, or a sense of emptiness. Rebuilding after narcissistic abuse is like planting new seeds. It takes time, care, and support to grow back into a version of yourself that feels authentic and true. The journey to healing involves rediscovering your strengths, rebuilding your self-esteem, and learning to trust your instincts again.

03/10/2024

There's a new Bible for 2020+ I wrote about phony "born again" and televangelists all full of fake persona, All about ego, narcistic traits, and money. Here is the proof of God as I documented in the books and book 3 in process. All my concert stories are in New England. book 3 coming 2025 - John Fogerty Gilford, NH Juneteenth, 19th. Willie Mays died the day before. Here is Fogerty singing "Centerfield" dedicated to Willie Mays and he's even in the lyrics. Next day, MLB first game ever at Rickwood Feild of negro league, in honor of Willie Mays he played there. book 2 - Hall & Oates Gilford, NH Aug 17, 2019 - sing one song and delay due to a storm over 40 minutes then cancelled on the exact 50th anniversary of Woodstock-69 being delayed due to a storm over 4 hours causing Jimi to perform on Aug 18. Aug 18, 2019, the next day, Marilyn Manson charged for spitting and snot mucus on a woman videographer, on the 50th anniversary of Jimi at Woodstock. Pandemic 2020 - I win the Pinball Wizard tournament here at Weirs Beach and win a pair of tix to The Who in Boston May 18 2022. Zak Starky, Ringo's son playing for "Moon." The Who and Fogerty both Woodstock legends. post pandemic - Sept. 18, 2023, , the anniversary of date Jimi Hendrix died, a mile from my apartment, Marily Manson pleads guilty to assault in Laconia Court. HERE"S THE BIG ONE! Aug 16th, 1989, 20th anniversary of Woodstock, 12th anniversary of Elvis died, Kingston Fairgrounds, NH Ringo and, Joe Walsh, Rink Danko, Levon Helm, Dr John, Niles Lofgren, and Clarence Clemons and Billy Preston, and there's a total lunar eclipse happening. Ringo says "Joe told me that at 9:15 there's a total eclipse of the moon. So if anything weird happens don't worry about it"! Later he says "it's the anniversary of Woodstock! Let's hear it for Woodstock! And that was in a field also"! Later Billy Preston says "how's everyone doing?! I'm gonna dedicate this song to the eclipse! That's the way God planned it"! and those audio clips are here for you to hear Facebook.com/cosmicthebook I am an only son with seven sisters like The Pleiades star cluster. There's lots of tragedies in these books along with an assessment of a world without a direction in spirituality. I forgot to mention The Red Sox break an 86 year curse after losing 3 to the Yankees then wining 4, then sweeping the World Series only team to ever do that and as they Red Sox nation celebrated on Oct 27, 2004 the was a total lunar eclipse happening over them! It was added to the end of "Fever Pitch" because the movie was filmed in 2004. coincidence? This is some of my proof of God and my documenting these things weren't a choice. If these things happened to you I would suppose you'd document them also! Also, each of those concerts I won tix on the radio. KISS returns from pandemic on Aug 18, 2021 Mansfield Mass. where I took my son Joe at 3 1/2 years old. Photos in book. On anniversary of Jimi at Woodstock. Ace Freley returns from pandemic Gilford, NH Sept 18, 2021 anniversary of Jimi died. He played Manic Depression also anniversary of all KISS solo albums released. Again, don't call me your typical Christian. I have proof of God in Rock and Roll and I'm working on another book. Read the descriptions on Amason yourself. Visit the Facebook.com/cosmicthebook see the TV news of Hall and Oates cancelled they didn't know about the Woodstock anniversary though. The Age of Aquarius is in these new books! Share the peace and love of Woodstock-1969! God bless you all!

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01/10/2024

How is it beneficial to stay quiet after a smear campaign from a narcissist?
The benefits of remaining quiet during a narc smear campaign smear are huge.

1 Narc has been dropping seeds in the heads of your family and friends for a long time about what a piece of s**t you are without your knowledge of it so remaining quiet after finding out will make narc have to prove their accusations.

2 All narcs are delusional which causes them to use many lies in their quest to destroy your character. Staying silent causes narcs to use even more lies to discredit you and eventually their credibility will erode.

3 Narc is hoping their victim will get fed up with their smear campaign and verbally strike back. If the victim strikes back then they’ve just stepped into narcs trap because you just can’t out argue a narc. Narcs are masters of winning a verbal battle because they will lie and twist everything you say.

4 Lastly, narcs are greatly fueled by a verbal battle and need to know that they can still control you by getting you to engage in their lunacy. By not engaging you’ve just snuffed out narcs fuel and attention they were hoping to acquire. So yeah, in the game of narcissistic smear campaign the one who says nothing wins!

26/09/2024

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Does narcissistic abuse change you forever?
Yes because you will be wary now forever. Also depending on how severe , it has been known to cause PTSD.. Enduring a relationship with a narcissist is an attack on your psychological, emotional, and even physical well-being. So the answer to your question is you will never ever be the same and let’s hope you learn from the first narcissist in your life. Please don’t make it a life long career. Pay attention to the red flags and act accordingly!!! Be kind be well !

23/09/2024

Share this message to help spread awareness about narcissistic abuse.
NNarcissistic and Emotional Abusecan be hard to identify because it often happens gradually and subtly. Many don’t realize the extent of the abuse until the relationship ends. Here are some signs you might be experiencing it:

You often find yourself hoping the narcissist will change into a better person, focusing on their potential instead of their current behavior.
You cling to small acts of kindness from them as proof of change, making everyday gestures feel monumental because you’re starved for affection.
You make excuses for their behaviors, believing it’s due to stress or a troubled past, rather than recognizing their responsibility for their actions.
If they frequently blame bad behavior on alcohol, remember that a "bad drunken personality" shouldn’t excuse continuous poor treatment.
You constantly worry about saying or doing something that might trigger a negative reaction, keeping you in a state of anxiety.
You feel isolated and unable to talk to others about your relationship, often facing blame or aggression when you attempt to share.
You have a persistent feeling that something is off, despite the narcissist’s words of love and commitment not matching their actions.
The relentless demands of a narcissist can leave you exhausted, as you feel responsible for both your needs and theirs.
You often feel you're not good enough due to their criticism or subtle put-downs, making you feel undeserving of love.
You feel like you’re always doing something wrong because the narcissist creates situations in which you can’t win no matter what you do.
The stress of the relationship can lead to various health problems, such as anxiety, weight changes, and insomnia, which may improve once you leave the relationship.
If you recognize these signs, it's essential to understand that narcissistic abuse is real and harmful. Trust your instincts, and remember: “Love doesn’t hurt. Loving the wrong person does.”

Share this message to help spread awareness about narcissistic abuse.

17/09/2024

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14/09/2024

How severe is narcissistic abuse?
Narcissistic abuse is the worst form of abuse because it denies the victim their reality. It often accompanies the other forms of abuse, which are pretty horrible, in and of themselves. But the worst part of those still tends to be the denial and gaslighting about it, if you live to tell.

It is in the mental reliving and retelling that meta injury occurs and creates deep despair in the victim. Nothing worse than being at your lowest and being blamed, shamed and scapegoated. And it continues, no matter your efforts, creating a profound sense of helplessness and lack of safety.

It can fracture a psyche, and that’s the most challenging injury to live with. It separates one from themself and others, which is the exact opposite of what the human existence is to be about. It creates narcissism in a person, which makes them start to hate themselves as much as the narcissist of origin. This is fertile ground for denial and creation of fantasy.

If you think you are a victim of narcissistic abuse, DO NOT try to navigate it on your own or with just the information you get off the internet. It is a VERY serious and confusing condition and requires knowledge, an honest but kind mirror, and a support structure to work through. You will see it everywhere, once you really see it, and then you’ll realize why you need a few people around you who do too. You will learn to set boundaries and select who you let in, with intention and not out of habit.

My heart goes out to all suffering from this! If I could give you back your innocence, I would. But I would not reclaim mine. May I serve, instead.

28/08/2024

sounds kinda harsh? HAPPY HALLOWEEN! -

Lori Green's answer: Narcissists are Demons from Hell. Everyone that is or was with a narcissist knows how evil and insidious those people are. They don't care about love, loyalty, or honesty. All they care about is one thing they need to survive: narcissistic supply. They suck the life out of ...