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Irie to Aurora Trini gyal đŸ‡čđŸ‡č| Living free on the open road | đŸ‘©đŸŸâ€đŸ’»Founder .vanlife | Pre-order my book

Irie to Aurora is a documentation of the travels of Noami and Dustin from New Orleans to Alaska in search of Irie.

I never thought I’d say this. Not at 42. But after two years of intentional celibacy, I’ve realized how much of my life ...
16/02/2025

I never thought I’d say this. Not at 42.
But after two years of intentional celibacy, I’ve realized how much of my life was built around someone always being there. A relationship to validate me.

I thought I knew love. What I really knew was attachment—how to chase, how to compromise, how to hold on long past the expiration date.

Most people don’t even know what it feels like to belong to themselves. They mistake inconsistency for passion. They confuse loneliness with longing.

And for a long time—I did too.

Because I wasn’t just seeking love. I was seeking safety. And I never stopped to ask:

Who am I without it?

For the first time, I had to decide if I actually liked who I was—without someone else reflecting me back to myself.

The hardest lesson? Sitting with discomfort instead of looking for an external fix. Understanding that loneliness and longing aren’t the same thing.

I used to believe love was about proving your worth to someone else. That if you loved them the “right” way, they’d finally see your value.

I don’t believe that anymore.

If you don’t treat yourself with respect, you’ll accept people who don’t respect you. If you don’t value your time, you’ll give it to people who waste it. If you don’t set standards, you’ll keep mistaking inconsistency for passion.

Real love meets you where you are whole.

Most people won’t understand how much mental clarity and peace you gain when you stop negotiating your self-worth in the name of love.

Celibacy is just one part of it. Who are you without seeking outside yourself?

I didn’t get it until I sat in my own solitude long enough to feel the shift.

Until I woke up and realized—I wasn’t wondering what someone else was thinking. I wasn’t decoding mixed signals. I wasn’t shrinking myself to be more palatable for someone else’s fears.

People won’t understand until they experience the stillness—
And realize how much of their life was spent filling the silence with things that never truly belonged to them.

Choosing yourself means no longer handing your peace away for free. It’s finally belonging to yourself.

📾: .art

|Desert Girls

Ever outgrow a life you once loved?That was me at 40. A decade on the road, a divorce, and a chapter closing before I wa...
30/01/2025

Ever outgrow a life you once loved?

That was me at 40. A decade on the road, a divorce, and a chapter closing before I was ready.

For nearly ten years, I built my life on movement.

Living in my van, waking up somewhere new, knowing I could leave at any moment.

And for a long time, that was freedom.

Until suddenly, it wasn’t.

By the time my first book, ‘Living the Vanlife’ was published in 2023, everything was shifting at once.

The life that once fit me so perfectly no longer did.

Burnout in my bones. A life that no longer felt like my own.

I had spent so many years moving that I didn’t know what it felt like to stop.

To sit in the discomfort. To ask myself what I actually wanted—without knowing what would come next.

Maybe you know the feeling.

That moment when you realize you can’t keep moving the way you always have.

When the life you built stops feeling like yours.

Because starting over? It forces you to answer questions you spent years avoiding.

Walking away from something you spent years building—without a backup plan? Terrifying.

Rebuilding from scratch, alone, when the world expects you to have it all figured out? That part stings.

But here’s what I know now: starting over wasn’t one big decision—it was a hundred small ones.

Sitting in the stillness when I wanted to run.

Letting the grief catch up to me.

Learning how to move forward before I felt ‘ready.’

So, I did what I’ve always done.

I let go. I leaned in.

And now, I’m here.

Gently rooting into five acres of high desert.

Building a homestead from the ground up.

Learning how to turn this patch of desert into a home.

Redefining what freedom actually means—rooted, intentional, and aligned.

Not just for me—but for anyone who’s ever felt stuck, restless, or in transition.

This space is shifting, too.

And I’m glad you’re here.

Because here’s the truth: we don’t have to settle for a life that no longer fits.

If you’re new here, say hey 👋 and introduce yourself!

And if you’ve been around—what season are you in right now? Movement, stillness, something in between? Drop a word below—I’d love to hear.

|women empowerment

Today, I’m stepping out into nature to clear my head and shut out the noise. When things feel heavy, this is where I com...
06/11/2024

Today, I’m stepping out into nature to clear my head and shut out the noise. When things feel heavy, this is where I come back to myself, where the distractions drop away, and what really matters comes into focus.

Maybe you have your own version of this—a place or ritual that brings you back to your core. Finding that space to check in with yourself, without the world’s opinions, is something we all need.

This is part of my commitment to keep showing up, grounded, and clear, even when everything around me feels uncertain. So take the time, however, that looks for you, to find that quiet.

Sometimes the only answer we get is to keep showing up for ourselves. Let’s keep listening, trusting, and doing what we need to do to stay in this, fully present.

Looks like this year, Amara and I scored the ultimate safe house—our own desert hideaway!đŸ‘» Last Halloween, we were chann...
31/10/2024

Looks like this year, Amara and I scored the ultimate safe house—our own desert hideaway!

đŸ‘» Last Halloween, we were channeling our inner post-apocalyptic survivors, roaming the Mojave as Dr. Robert Neville & pup Sam from I Am Legend, dodging tumbleweeds and scouting for safe houses.

Fast forward to now—same desert but with five acres to call our own. We may not be on the run anymore, but you better believe we’re still ready for anything
 or whatever might come creeping in the dark. 🌌

Have a great Halloween y’all! Don’t forget to vote đŸ—łïž



7 days. 17 strangers. And one hell of an adventure.I thought I was just signing up for a rafting trip. What I got was an...
11/09/2024

7 days. 17 strangers. And one hell of an adventure.

I thought I was just signing up for a rafting trip. What I got was an experience I’ll never forget. Sleeping at the base of rapids, floating down the Colorado River, camping deep in the Grand Canyon—I’m still trying to wrap my head around the sheer scale of it. You think you understand ‘vast’ until you’re staring up at canyon walls carved over millions of years.

I jumped into this with 17 people I’d never met before. By the end, we weren’t strangers anymore. Riding rapids by day, sharing a p*e bucket by night—survival bonds you faster than you’d think.

Going all in without knowing what to expect made this trip everything it was meant to be.

These BTS snaps were caught on my iPhone and GoPro, but the real action is still ahead đŸŽ„â€”rapids, mind-blowing hikes, incredible meals, and a few ‘what did I just get myself into’ moments.

Crossing the Sonoran and Mojave deserts, running rapids, and sleeping under a sky that felt too big to comprehend—this trip reminded me just how small we are and how much is out there to explore.

A huge thank you to for giving me an experience most people only dream about. And to Kelsy, Carlos, and Jeremiah—the guides who went above and beyond, keeping us safe, inspired, and gripping the raft for dear life.

📍Ancestral Land of the Havasupai, Hualapai Peoples

24/07/2024

Why should road travelers consider a cruise? One word: Bliss

After endless miles and campfire coffees, I decided to shake things up with a cruise. And wow, it was a whole new adventure.

Life on the road is an adventure, but the constant hunt for WiFi, water, and campsites can be exhausting. This cruise swapped out my Bronco for a suite with an ocean view. Talk about a much-needed break from campsite chores and endless driving. Gourmet meals, spa-days, non-stop entertainment, and all i had to do was show up. Absolute heaven.

Joining the retreat with added an extra layer of fun and connection to the journey. Instead of planning every detail, I just got to kick back and enjoy the ride. Each day, I could choose between onshore adventures like snorkeling and exploring local culture, or just soaking up the restful luxury on the ship. No meal planning or resource hunting – everything was handled.

If you’re a road traveler like me, craving a break from the usual grind, consider this your sign. This cruise was a chance to ditch the road trip hustle and sink into some serious self-care. It reminded me that sometimes, it’s okay to let someone else do the planning and just enjoy the journey. And trust me, being pampered felt pretty damn good.

Been on a crusie? What did you love most? Comment below đŸ‘‡đŸŸ

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