22/12/2025
God Understands - A Christmas Message
“And she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them.” Luke 2:7 (NIV)
Mary was not a careless or unloving mother for placing her newborn, the precious Messiah, in a manger - an unhygienic feeding trough for animals in a draught stable in the strength of winter. She simply had no alternative.
God did not judge her harshly for this. In fact, He had foreseen it and spoken of it long before. As in, from millenia past. He did not condemn Joseph and Mary for not welcoming the Saviour in a palace. God does not need palaces for this most special of His works. If he did, The One Who raised Moses in the Palace of the Pharaoh can make a palace of any place, or have any earthly palace He wished.
This Christmas, my heart is inditing a good matter. The Lord wants me to tell us that what matters most is not what was done, but why.
The ‘because’ is often where true blame or justification lies. Unfortunately, it is often the last thing humans look for, often because we have no way of finding it or we're too disinclined to look for it. We're usually too besotted with the deed itself to have time for the imperatives that confront the person.
What is striking is how deliberately Scripture explains why the Messiah was born that way. God did not leave history to speculate or posterity to accuse. He recorded the reason Himself and, in doing so, shielded the holy family from judgment for all time.
They did their best under difficult circumstances, God acknowledges that - and that is all He has ever required of us humans. This is the nature of God. He understands our contexts and He weighs human capacity. Heaven will be full of surprise because He is not impressed by our earthly appearances, but the verdict of eternity.
He does not demand what is beyond us:
“For if the willingness is there, the gift is acceptable according to what one has, not according to what one does not have.” 2 Corinthians 8:12
Christ carried this same divine empathy into His earthly life. He did not remain distant from human limitation.
“Forasmuch then as the children are partakers of flesh and blood, He also himself likewise took part of the same; that through death He might destroy him that had the power of death, that is, the devil.” Hebrews 2:14
And again:
“For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin.”
Hebrews 4:15
This does not mean God excuses sin or celebrates willful failure. It means He distinguishes between rebellion and limitation, between negligence and necessity, between unwillingness and inability - even impossibility.
This is therefore the message this Christmas:
God understands -
He understands your peculiar situation.
He understands the weight you are carrying.
He understands the obstacles before you.
He understands your weaknesses.
He understands your limitations.
And He understands the things you cannot change, right now or forever.
He's understood from the beginning of the genesis.
He's understood from the very first moment He stepped physically into human history. And He still does.
This Christmas therefore, be ye followers of Christ.
Extend God’s empathy to your neighbours, those around you. Not just those who look like you, think like you, worship like you or agree with you - but also the inconvenient neighbour, the struggling neighbour, and even the misunderstood neighbour.
Then, of course, there's the one who fell by the roadside in life - bruised by circumstance and left behind by others. Also, the stranger, the poor, the wounded and the rejected.
Christ was clear in His teaching that a neighbour is not defined by proximity or preference, but by need, and by our willingness to respond to it.
This Christmas, come let's be Christlike. Show more understanding, less judgment and greater forgiveness where it is called for. Christ came to seek and to save the lost. How about you make this Christmas even more special and do the same, beginning the search in the depths of your own heart, where some are unfairly imprisoned, where empathy is born and grace is learned.
It is above all, where love becomes Godly action -
“And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because He has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with His love.” Romans 5:5