24/09/2021
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Happy Weekend!
The podcast that explores all the sh*t that goes on in your 30's and beyond
This week (and the next, and the next), we pause.
đCatch up, browse our library of 119 episodes - LIB..
Happy Weekend!
On September 11, 2001, at 9:26 a.m. the FAA shut down its airspace. More than 4,000 planes were forced to land. Flights coming from Europe were grounded in Canada. And so 38 planes containing 6,579 passengers and crew members, 11 dogs, nine cats and two endangered apes were diverted to Gander, Newfoundland.
This small town on an island at the edge of Atlantic (population: 9,651) with a giant heart quickly sprung into action. Suddenly over the course of five days, Ganderâs population exploded. Community buildings were transformed into shelters. The town called on its citizens for help for anything they could do. And they delivered!
Diane Davis was one of the incredible teachers responsible for managing the influx of passengers. Gander at the time, provided food, shelter and helped anyone who was stranded to get what they needed. She also inspired one of the main characters in the extraordinary musical Come From Away.
Diane talks to us about the thousands of people deplaned in Gander and how they made extraordinary connections with the community who shared their hospitality, and taught the world about our capacity to give during times of crisis.
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Itâs episode day!!!! And todayâs is FUN and FULL of good advise.
We have a super funny and fruitful chat with the former CEO of , Kurt Schneider, and former president of TEDMED, Jon Ellenthalo (amung many other things) and hosts of the podcast . Now in their late 50's, Kurt & Jon, reflect on how crucial a good environment is for any company to be truly successful, the power of lightening up the room, how the busyness of life changes as we go through different stages, and they serve up some of the best advise we've heard about what they would tell their younger selves (hint, stop trying to control the narrative, you don't know s**t, and lighten up). This one is not to be missed, it's witty, funny, and PACKED with the kind of advise that you'd love to get from your funny, massively successful uncle over a night of gin martinis.Â
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Awards become corroded. Friends father no dust.
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Itâs episode day!! And itâs a juicy one with just the two of us! Grab yoâ headphones and plug in for Ep.116 Making Big Decisions When Youâre Not Aligned W Your Partner. đĽ´
It's gonna happen, you're after 30 and a proper adult, a BIG decision is bound to show up where you're not immediately and instinctively aligned with your partner - a big job, a big move, a big change in your family dynamic. Que the tension.
Today we debate the good and bad about discussing such major decisions with friends and family, and the emotional (or helpful) roller coaster that can ensue. We chat about how crucial it is to get clarity on what YOU want amongst honouring your collective goals, how much we think identifying your values plays a key role, and we share what's worked for us navigating a crunchy situation like this.
We hope you love it!
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Episode 115 - Lessons in Leadership (When Running Your Own Business) with Phoebe Bell of â¨
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From our latest episode with Phoebe Bell, founder of , Phoebe gets real on her missteps as a leader as she's grown her business form the ground up. And the first place to start!? Boundaries. â
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Phoebes admits that without clarity in those boundaries for herself and them communicating them to others (there are 2 parts there), what may have started as a small boundary crossing can be a little seed of resentment that without looking at it, figuring out what that boundary was and re-setting it, that seed of boundary resentment had the power to grow way bigger than anyone wanted. â
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It can be really really hard to define and create clarity around your boundaries, especially in the early stages of your business when the hustle is at its highest. But maybe this ep will help remind you just how crucial it is for you AND your team. â
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Itâs episode day!!
And weâre talking Leadership Lessons (When Running Your Own Company).
We have Phoebe Bell, the founder of one of Australiaâs most impressive brands , chat about her journey with leadership, starting from the beginning as a founder-led business and not thinking about leadership too much in the first 5 years being "in the trenches" with the team, to seeing when a shift in leadership had to occur when things went wrong.
Phoebe gets vulnerable and shares her missteps in leadership along the way, and how she's navigated keeping a team's morale up in the last 2 years amid the pandemic. Phoebe's approach is so calm, emotionally contained, and solutions focused that even listening to her approach will settle your nerves. Â
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Phoebe Bell started the wildly successful bohemian homewares company 8 years ago and now, thanks to organic growth, following âa lot of intuition and gut instincts about where to go with the businessâ, and surrounding herself with the right people, Phoebe is leading a multimillion-dollar business with products in over 250 retailers around the world.
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Have you caught the latest ep??
If you love what the inside of your home actually looks and feels like and you believe that the vibe of your home impacts your mood, then this ones for you.
We had Gloria Song Foster of talk us through ways to elevate our home, how to NOT clutter your house with stuff (particularly when we want to buy all the things when we travel) and how to create functional yet temporary work spaces at home since a hybrid model may be in your future.
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Itâs episode day!! Link in bio for Season 3, Episode 115 with Gloria Song-Foster, founder of !
We chat about how to integrate home design to help with your mental health, family relationships and creativity, how to maximize small spaces and she gives us tips on how to incorporate a more permanent but flexible home office space.
Hereâs a few hot topics we cover!
4:22 mini experiments
7:34 democratizing design
9:59 After 30 reflections on home and house
10:55 Create your own telephone boothâ¨11:34 The console behind the sofa
19:52 Tips to Elevate Your Home
22:40 defining your colour palette
26:56 Traveling the world and not collecting s**t
31:35 The narrative of decluttering
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On Ep. 113 - Daring to Make an Unconventional Family Decision we chat with Jennifer Fils-Aime, the founder and owner of in Montreal. Jennifer has made some unconventional and daring decisions in her family life like choosing to be the one to leave the home in her marital seperation to not distrust the kids routine, while also looking into IVF with her spouse to continue to grow the family despite the marital arrangement. â
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The thing is - we know intuitively that there is not one RIGHT WAY for a family to be. "Unconventional" modern blended, families that fit no mold are far more acceptable - yet there's still a lot of judgment, second guessing and hesitation when trying to create a family arrangement that looks different from what your community, family, and societal surroundings expect. â
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Jennifer openly shares how she's managed to keep the doubts and judgements at bay in pursuit of her own happiness and how she's intentionally parenting through the unconventional decision. â
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Airplane mode is fkg ON.
Weâre both travelling right now and it goddamn rocks. Are you going somewhere soon? Are you booking plans like mad? Tell us, tell us!
A few weeks ago we had clinical psychologist and author Dr. Carla Marie Manly on the show to discuss âMindset Shift for Dating and Relationshipsâ.
This moment was a good one. Its so simple but rings so so true. Particularly if youâre meeting/dating âlater in lifeâ (like your 30âs pfffff) and if you want to have children the rush can be real. Friendship first can mean time that you might not feel you have. But Dr. Carla basically squashes that and reflects back to us this simple truth. If youâre wanting to have children with that person itâs all THE MORE important for you to be good, true, real friends first and foremost. đ
Link in bio to listen to Episode 109 with !
Celebrating this fabulous human today as she finished her incredibly challenging placement and is now one step closer to graduating!!! Wooot!! So proud of this amazing human!!!
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Have you caught our latest ep about food waste and sustainability? Are you finding yourself more interested/concerned about your carbon footprint and how to create less waaaaste? We are. So we did this ep. have a listen. Let us know wachoo think.
Itâs episode day and itâs a good one! We chat about Upcycling Food Waste & Sustainability with , Co-Founder and CMO of - a Canadian sustainable food tech company that makes beautiful food out of ugly produce. As a former NHL forward, playing with the Colorado Avalanche, San Jose Sharks, and Calgary Flames, TJâs career took an unexpected turn when he had the ability to bring a dehydration technology solution to the food and agriculture industry that would ease food insecurities and lower the carbon footprint of the food supply chain. Heâs quickly become one of the young leaders in food and agriculture with his unique outlook on sustainability, and weâre finding out today how heâs done it, why itâs so needed, and how we can get involved and lower our own carbon footprint. We hope you love the ep!
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Itâs Episode day!!! Ep. 109 - Mindset Shifts for Dating and Relationships with .
đDr. Carla is a clinical psychologist and author who recently released the book Date Smart thatâs a must-read for Millenial daters focusing on how to date strong, fearlessly, and smart. Even if youâre in a committed relationship, this book and what we discuss in todayâs ep highlights the key elements of what constitutes the foundation of strong, healthy relationships. We chat about some of Dr. Carlas 33 mindset shifts (swipe to peep!) how increase your awareness to red flags, and how to foster empowered communication, boundaries, and realistic expectations. Hereâs a few of the standout moments! đđźđđ˝
Talking Points:
5:30 - Why someone who knows themselves is the hottest
9:42 - Mindset shift #1: If you choose not to date youâre not wasting your time
11:33 - Mindset Shift #2: Itâs ok to not know what you want
12:09 - Mindset Shift #3: Friendship is a skill and a way of being
12:46 - Mindset Shift #4: Take red flags seriously
16:29 - How to maintain friendship in your relationship
18:29 - Are you acting like a best friend though?
19:07 - Mindset Shift #6 # 7
22:05 - Ghosting
⨠More about our guest:
Dr. Carla Marie Manly, a practicing clinical psychologist, author, and speaker, uses a mindfulness-based approach that is rooted in neurobiology. Dr. Manly's passion is helping others discover joy, balance, and optimal wellness from the inside out.  Â
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We did a cross-pod with the incredible entrepreneurs Julie and Liz, who host The Afterglow Podcast, and we had SUCH a good time! â Known for their conversations related to lifting women up and breaking out of societal expectations on their podcast , we sit down and chat podcasts, friendship, the pandemic, finding clarity, and sustaining creativity. â
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Julie and Liz know that the best life is happening now and are inspired to create a community of women passionate and committed to a future beyond limits, of passion, self-expression, and fulfillment. With a good dose of fun and laughter, they explore everything from nutrition to career to parenting to relationships. â
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**Be like water** Episode 115 - Lessons in Leadership (When Running Your Own Business) with Phoebe Bell of @sageandclare ⨠Link in bio
Itâs episode day!! Link in bio for Season 3, Episode 115 with Gloria Song-Foster, founder of @whitedahliadesign! We chat about how to integrate home design to help with your mental health, family relationships and creativity, how to maximize small spaces and she gives us tips on how to incorporate a more permanent but flexible home office space. Hereâs a few hot topics we cover! 4:22 mini experiments 7:34 democratizing design 9:59 After 30 reflections on home and house 10:55 Create your own telephone boothâ¨11:34 The console behind the sofa 19:52 Tips to Elevate Your Home 22:40 defining your colour palette 26:56 Traveling the world and not collecting sh*t 31:35 The narrative of decluttering Also! Enjoy 10% off all design packages with code âafter30â at whitedahliadesign.com. LIB to listen!
We did a cross-pod with the incredible entrepreneurs Julie and Liz, who host The Afterglow Podcast, and we had SUCH a good time! â Known for their conversations related to lifting women up and breaking out of societal expectations on their podcast @TheAfterglowPodcastOfficial, we sit down and chat podcasts, friendship, the pandemic, finding clarity, and sustaining creativity. â â Julie and Liz know that the best life is happening now and are inspired to create a community of women passionate and committed to a future beyond limits, of passion, self-expression, and fulfillment. With a good dose of fun and laughter, they explore everything from nutrition to career to parenting to relationships. â â We hope you enjoy the ep!â Link in bio to listen!â â xoxox â â Anis and Tabsâ â â¨Episode Sponsored by @dnapowerinc. Get your DNA Tested to receive lifelong vital information about the keys to your best health and get $50 off with code âAfter 30â at the link in bio!
Have you caught up on our latest ep? Pop it on this weekend while youâre enjoying being OUT!! And also, it might make you feel a bit more seen if your feeling a bit anxious about it. Thank you for your chill vibes and lovely wisdom @ashley__wray!!
Itâs episode day!!! Today, weâre celebrating three exceptional After 30 Dads - Nahid, Sean, and Chris. We interview each of them on how they show up differently for their kids and the challenges they experience as modern fathers. Iâm this clip Sean talks about how being a dad today is so much about carving a new path and not necessarily being able to model how their fathers showed up for them with @thatsogilly. We hope you love it and Happy Father's Day Weekend! Link in bio to listen wherever you get your podcasts!
Itâs episode day!! Dunno 'bout you, but we've found it can be an intimidating exercise to land on our leading values. We've come to believe that knowing them, and then living by them can be one of the greatest things that we can do to make life easier, more graceful, and integrous - particularly when it comes to making tough decisions. In this ep we're joined by leading Success Coach, Sarah Gibbons Co., who on-air coaches us on how to determine them. Sarah works with prominent Creative Executives and Entrepreneurs in the Arts & Entertainment Industry in LA and specialises in helping them thrive at the intersection of creativity and impact, and she's a pro at helping people gain clarity on their values. We chat about how crucial it is to structure and create a life around your leading values, how to make decisions in-line with them, and how to learn to lead from your heart instead of your head. *Grab a pen and paper and a quiet space for yourself for this one** Included in this ep is a guided exercise that can help you too. Link in bio to listen and grab your own copy of the Values Guide. âď¸
Itâs episode day!! Coined from @cbcâs Working Moms, weâre talking about the skin of the vulvar region in todayâs episode 103. Caring For Your Holy Hole. When it comes to the vagina, we know things go in it and come out - beyond that, we donât really talk about it (which is a whole other thing) and we definitely donât spend much time thinking about the skin in that area. Today Dr. Jen Newell @newellnd joins us, Naturopathic Doctor and founder of Connected Health & Skin. We chat about how we donât see the vaginal area as skin in the first place, get into talking about the skin itself, the misconceptions around it, what happens to vaginal skin as we get older, and what we can do to take care of this often not spoken about zone. LIB to listen!
Itâs our 100th episode today!!! Thank you to everyone for your support for the last 2 years!!! đđđđ It. Means. Everything to us. We chat about which guests made us the most nervous (@askgoody @sexwithdrjess @shannonella_ @stevenleeolsen @therebelmama) some of our favourite moments, moments that didnât work, and what we learned (too much to name). Link in bio for the ep thatâs full of reflection, reminiscing, and celebrating. đĽđĽđĽ
Sooooo how we treated our body in our 20âs shows up in our 30âs and 40âs. Sorry friends. Have a listen for some MAJOR info on why your gut is so so so important for your overall health with @naturally_nora. Link in bio for the full episode!
â¨Self sacrifice aint cute. ⨠You âshouldâ know that. Link in bio to listen to the full GOLDEN episode of âWhat You Should and Shouldnât Do in Your 30âs +â.
**We might not like the events that happen but we have choice ALWAYS in how we react, and that choice is our greatest gift when we actually harness itâ. We switch things up a bit this week and talk with Ginette Biro, a Medium, Cosmic Channeler, Educator and Kinesiologist about her personal near death experience and account of going to the other side. She describes in vivid detail what she saw, how it happened, and the kinds of choices she was able to make about her life in the here and now. We discuss why being more comfortable talking about and contemplating death will help us live greater lives now, and how to find your purpose even if you haven't had a transcendent experienced. Interesting, triggering, and/or soothing this is a good one to listen to with curiosity and exploration. LIB to listen!
Skinification : our scalp is an extension of the skin on our face, and the source of all good hair. Listen to the latest ep with @nicolepommehair of @pomme_salon on how we can stop the aging process of our hair, how we can combat things like dreaded postpartum hair loss (that actually works!!!), and what else we need to be doing to take care of our scalp. đđźââď¸đđ˝ââď¸
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Entrepreneurs Tabitha Vallierie and Anis Alibhai discuss all the s**t that goes on in your 30âs (and beyondâŚ) in an honest, relatable, and open way. They want you to laugh, maybe learn, and reflect on your experiences and perspective as it relates to the topic at hand. So grab a drink, get comfy, and saddle up for a good time with friends as they dissect everything from relationships, careers, social behaviour, children, making new friends, and way way more.