
07/06/2025
There is a lot to be said about D-Day today as we wake up to the seventh day of June eighty-one years later. My father always hated when my brother or sisters would ask about the grand attack that led to the end of war in Europe. “Dad, did you fight in Normandy?” we’d ask in naive childish energy when we heard the other boys and girls spoke proudly in our classes about what their fathers did on the beaches of Europe on June 6, 1944. A terse and angry “No!” would greet our cheery inquiry.
We soon learned to never ask him again about what he did in the war as the memory of it clearly touched something hurting him deep inside—even little children could see it. After he died, I researched my father’s war. I learned he fought as a sergeant in the infantry—a squad leader in the 81st Infantry Division; a machine gun squad in the 323rd Infantry Regiment that fought in battle on Peleliu from noon October 16, 1944 to November 27, 1944 when the enemy was defeated.
I learned a lot of war heroes did heroic things in battles we don’t hear about. Battles that are not iconic declarations on playgrounds where little boys and girls can recall about their fathers. I learned that not all battles are memorable to the masses even though the same extra human effort is applied by the soldiers in the fight. I learned that was is sh*tty and hard to swallow. I learned about the ambush that killed three soldiers in my dad’s company in the chaos of Army boys taking over the fight from the dessimated Marine Division in the initial assault a month earlier.
The assault is likely the source of his nightmares that woke my mom.
Another thing I learned is about my father’s unique connection to D-Day. He probably didn’t even know about it, or maybe he didn’t know the significance of it. Still, there was a photographer taking photographs for LIFE magazine the day in May, 1944, when he and about eight-hundred Wildcats from the Division were awarded the Expert Infantryman’s Badge. As the group of soldiers in the photo, the photographer yelled, “Smile, boys, you’re gonna be on the cover of LIFE!”—this according to the grandson of one of the soldiers in the photo.
Dad’s Division was supposed to go to Europe. It is clear that Division leaders knew since around January 1944 when everyone came back from Christmas leave that they were headed to a different war than the one fought in Europe. Still, it was closely guarded information that they were headed to the Pacific. An indicator of this is that their photograph ended up on the LIFE cover that was highlighting the D-Day invasion.
LIFE Magazine published a story about D-Day the day before the invasion.
I think that is iconic.
—Beamish