Preppy Francophile (2024)

23/12/2023

“When do we get to see the basement?”
“There’s no basement at the Alamo!”

I have been waiting to say that since 1985.

I realize that many of you were not alive in 1985, but for those of you who were and remember P*e Wee’s Big Adventure, I Hope this makes you smile.

I rewatched the movie for the first time in decades, and I think P*e Wee’s laugh is kinda creepy.

Dress: c/o
Shoes: c/o
Bag: c/o

Bo’s shirt:
Shorts:
Sandals:

Have you visited the Alamo?

20/12/2023

Sharing a few pics from ‘s cookie contest event with Chef Carla Hall from a few weeks ago.

I couldn’t find a plus one for that day, so I got to take home 2 dozen cookies. And, no, I did not eat them all (I gave them to friends), and the cats were not interested.

Outfit details:
Turtleneck:
Dress: (prev season)
Puffer: (prev season)
Booties: vegan from

DM me for links to anything that you like.

Have you or are you baking for the holidays?

19/12/2023

Let’s talk holiday traditions!

My dad’s parents lived in Fort Lauderdale for around 30 years, and we often went to visit at Christmas.

As most of you know, there are not a lot of dining out options for Jewish folks around Christmas because everyone understandably wants to be with family.

One beloved tradition for us was going to in Ft. Lauderdale. We would wait over an house, and my Grandma and Grandpa would eat nasty things like liver, tongue and corned beef.

Fast forward about 40 years, when I found out that a new Wolfies was opening in Sarasota.

I stocked up on noshes for the next two days: a spinach knish, whitefish salad, a pumpernickel bagel, half sour pickles, a cinnamon babka slice and a diet cherry soda.

It made me smile for so many reasons, and it also made me miss my grandparents terribly.

I will be back, hopefully with friends and family, when I am down for the winter.

What is or was one of your favorite family restaurants to visit?

Dress: - previous season
Shoes: - link in stories and I live in them!

18/12/2023

Windy AF this morning, but I couldn’t stop smiling as the sun came out when I was driving into town.

I visited the new Sarasota location of and then got a to go dessert from (order your bûche de noel asap -they have 9 flavors)!!

Being less than 3 miles from St. Armand’s Circle, I naturally had to go there and to Lido Key Beach.

Toes in the water, sand in my hair and ready to come down for the winter in a few weeks.

My dress is last season from , has nothing to do with the holiday season and makes me and everyone else who sees it happy.

Back to MA tomorrow for the flashiest of flashes before the next ✈️.

I cannot wait to visit someplace new and special!

17/12/2023

Time for this birdie to fly South.

Actually, I did today!

I came down to Sarasota for a quick weekend jaunt to get my new (unfurnished) seasonal rental ready for me and the boys.

It was a foul day, but it was still in the low 70’s and this is not a beach vacay anyway.

As I said in my stories the other day, some of this is luck (including a job where I am blessed to be able to work remotely), but most of it is really hard work and sacrifice.

Just keep in mind that while I share a lot of personal things about my life, there is so much that you don’t see.

I get very lonely and the depression hits hard (major SAD, but also the end of the year is always the worst because of the 28), so making Florida my winter destination is basically part of my survival.

2023 has been the year where I proved to myself that I could make my snowbird dream come true, and I have some big dreams in 2024 that I hope to make a reality as well.

Thank you for riding the roller coaster with me, friends.

And seriously, this photo! No filter needed - just a bit of Cape Cod sunset magic!

15/12/2023

Shopping small and shopping local!

TBH, big stores overwhelm me, and I do not enjoy shopping at them. I actually cannot stand to shop at the grocery store, and I don’t enjoy malls that much (can’t we go back to the 80’s and early 90’s when they were SO FUN!).

When I saw that in Harwichhad an exclusive oyster , I beelined over.

I found gifts for myself and for several people, and I fell in love with the store.

Swipe through to see some fabulousness!

My outfit is something old, something new (the pants, from at 60% off), because I think it’s absolutely wasteful and unrealistic to wear a different outfit every day.

Sweater: The Bexley from last year . They have great neutrals in the Bexley this season.
Pants: current season
Faux suede boots: from ages ago.
Tote: last year

Drop a comment on your favorite store or if you need links.

15/12/2023

Wishing a whaley happy last night of Hanukkah to all who celebrate.

This has been a different Hanukkah for most of us than those before.

With all of the Israeli hostages still in captivity and thinking of those families whose lives were destroyed on and after October 7, a part of us wants to light the candles and enjoy the holiday, and a part of us is so heartbroken that it just doesn’t feel like a happy holiday.

I am not going to stop sharing stories, because it just isn’t who I am.

Thank you to those who have engaged, watched my stories and other’s stories and especially to the non-Jewish people and businesses who have supported your Jewish friends.

Swipe left to see my living room in its entirety., including my coastal Christmas tree.

13/12/2023

A simple and stylish outfit for holiday shopping and brunch with friends.

is having a flash cyber sale with everything 50% off, including this lovely faux fur vest that I have worn 3 times since I’ve gotten it.

I’ve linked a bunch of vests and coats that are classics from Talbots, and I have linked my bag from .

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My booties are vegan from . DM me for a link!

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12/12/2023

Cape Cod holiday decor! I love it!!

If you are on the Cape during the holidays, you don’t want to miss visiting .

It is decorated so beautifully, and there are so many fun holiday events happening!

I visited last Sunday for the Cape Cod cookie baking contest, and it was a blast!

I am looking forward to going back for more holiday fun. Will I see you there?!

11/12/2023

holiday is always SO GOOD!

I stopped by the Osterville store to celebrate the holidays with manager Susan, and I tried on a few holiday pieces.

is doing a holiday sale right now, with 20% off of $300, 25% off of $600 and 30% off of $900.

I have linked my outfit and some of my other to top picks.

https://liketk.it/4qhHi

I will always love going to stores in person to see everything (sometimes the colors and textures do not translate online).

Who’s with me?

10/12/2023

Holiday markets: I’m starting to lose track!

My friends who moved to NH told me about a German holiday market, and since European holiday markets are not in my travel plans, I had to come and check it out.

It was really cool, although I ordered the nastiest crepe I’ve ever eaten.

Swipe for some pretty shots.

Who else is hitting holiday markets this weekend?

09/12/2023

Let’s talk Chanukah traditions!

Behind me is my Chanukah hanging pocket from my childhood. I don’t fill it, because that was the parents’ job when we were kids. But I still display it every Chanukah to remind myself of the fun family tradition.

These days, it reminds me of me of a simpler and much happier time, which I would give anything for my niece and nephews and all of us to live in.

After the October 7 massacre in Israel, I bought the larger Star of David necklace from , who was donating all of her sales to . I now wear it every day.

When I went home for Thanksgiving , my mom asked, “since when did you start wearing a Jewish star?” I answered that I ordered this after October 7 because I felt like it has never been more important in my lifetime to show that I am proud to be Jewish.

And when I saw made a Star of David necklace with Nantucket inside the Star, I bought it immediately.

I asked my non-Jewish friends to support last night, on the first night of Chanukah.

I do not have an ask tonight, as it is not up to me to tell you what to wear.

I just wanted to share my story.

If there was something that happened to make you wear something to show your pride in your religion, please feel welcome to comment.

08/12/2023

Happy First Night of Chanukah to those who celebrate!

Chanukah is a celebration of survival, and it is more important than ever for us Jews (and non-Jews) to celebrate and/or acknowledge it during these times.

To my non-Jewish followers and/or friends: I hope that you will participate in , where you place a menorah in your window to show that you support the Jewish community.

It doesn’t have to be a real one. It can be drawn or printed or whatever you’d like to do.

I was asked by a friend to share businesses who are Jewish owned or who support the Jewish community.

I am making a highlight of people and businesses who acknowledge Chanukah and who have donated to support Israel. If you know any or if you are one, please comment or tag someone.

Thank you to those who show that you care. It means everything.

04/12/2023

Strolling under the perfect setup at , followed by some Stroll selfies, because I believe it’s important to not take yourself too seriously!

1st pic: in my Day 1 ootd. Scarf and sweater current from . Coat older from . Skirt older from , Earrings from last year.

2nd pic: Obligatory Brandt Point boat selfie.

3rd pic: Blowout solo lunch at with a lobster miso salad , a delicious cranberry cocktail and two oysters with caviar.

4th pic: Found a new pair of comfy plaid pants at .

5th pic: Sat hangover from party after a few strong drinks with spirits mixed in. Wearing ‘s pjs that come in adults and kids sizes!

6th and 7th pics: Cocktails and light bites at , trying on a pair of her stunning earrings!

If you would like a link to anything, comment and I’ll do my best!

04/12/2023

Nantucket night snaps.

Which one is your favorite? 1-4?

And please vote on whether or not you would like Stroll Vlogs by answering the poll!

03/12/2023

Nantucket Stroll 2023 is in the books for this girl!

This was a special one, because it was my bestie’s first Stroll!

We had a great time, the weather was mild enough that we didn’t need coats the whole time and it was just an overall happy celebration and tradition.

So much more to follow, but I will say one thing: along with my metabolism in my 40’s, my tolerance for the number of alcoholic beverages that I consume has drastically changed for the worse! 😂 Two generous pours at ‘s party last night led to two giggly drunks and a slight hangover that had me moving slow this morning.

Thanks to Alex for getting herself coffee and getting us an egg and cheese sammy and an orange cardamom pastry from !

Party outfit:
Dress: current
Earrings: (last season but similar cute ones currently available)
Bag: current

Stroll outfit:
Sweater (prev season)
Skirt:
Stroll scarves:

30/11/2023

Provincetown at the holidays!

I had a lovely reel to show you, but I have given up after hours of editing for the night.

Cape Cod is just starting to get decked out.

I cannot wait to show you my living room when it’s done!

Have you decorated yet?!

27/11/2023

Me and my bed head are shopping Cuber Monday sales!

These cute and comfy pajamas are from my friends at , and they are limited edition, so hurry!

I MAY have picked up a pair for my 🤠

Are you shopping? Let me know if I can help you find anything!

Highlights have sale links!

27/11/2023

A belated congrats to my friend Michele of on the opening of her popup store in !

Believe it or not, it was warm enough to wear my shirt dress by itself at ribbon cutting on November 18!

Those warm days are gone for the year, so I paired this this sweater over the dress. I love mixing patterns and textures.

also carries some of my friends like , and .

I love supporting small businesses, especially when they become friends.

Be sure to shop small all year! I mix up small businesses with larger ones, and I will not be doing a small business gift guide because I literally support hundreds of small businesses!

Shop online or in !

26/11/2023

Holiday mode: activated!!

I had never actually been to Provincetown at Christmas to see the lobster trap tree.

I found out that the town was doing the tree lighting, and after stopping in Orleans for Winterfest to see my friends and , I headed down to P-town!

I saw Santa (the picture taker failed) and this lobster man.

It was amazing how quickly the town center cleared out after everyone got pictures.

The Cape is gorgeous, although brrrrrrrr right now.

Have you ever seen a lobster trap tree?

23/11/2023

I published a blog post on Black Friday sales!!

It’s a living document, and I will be adding to it, but it’s a start!!

has a huge selection of beautiful pieces in their sale for Black Friday!

Use code BEACH35

My exact dress is not included, but the Carrie dress style is on sale.

My Jane bag is from , a Massachusetts small business owned by my friend Caroline, and it’s vegan and cruelty free. I think it is so beautiful and unique. Stay tuned for a Black Friday code!

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20/11/2023

That Nantucket afternoon light on Main Street in the fall.

IYKYK.

Just savoring every last scrap of fall before the post-Thanksgiving holiday.

Outfit details:
Sweater: last season
Striped zip up:
Shoes:
Bag:

19/11/2023

When exiting the highway coming back from a fun holiday shopping day in Hingham, I saw cotton candy skies.

I drove straight to the beach to catch this.

I hate early sunsets, but I love a beautiful sunset anywhere, any time of year.

How was your day?

18/11/2023

How I feel about the weather the last two days?
The third pic really sums it up!

I don’t know about you, but it was just what I needed!

And these roses on the beach!!

My outfit was a simple one:
pullover
Monogrammed windbreaker (use code JENFJS10 for $10 off off everything- including sale!)
jeans
shoes (AMAZING for comfort and for recovery) Necklaces from and from
Earrings from

If you had lovely weather, how did you enjoy it?

17/11/2023

I am getting Stroll ready, and so is the rest of Nantucket!

is a must stop for me any time of year, but especially at Stroll.

I am kitted out with some of their new arrivals, including this sweater that comes in navy and red, the Stroll scarf (you can see how it reverses to green with white trees) and a Stroll hat.

also has holiday socks, shirts, candles and ornaments, among other things.

And if you like holiday pjs, you need to snap up their holiday pjs asap. They sold out in less than a week last year!

If you cannot make it to Stroll, the good news is that you can order what you want online!

Will I see you at Stroll?!

16/11/2023

Is anyone else going from fall to winter and back again?

It’s still fall, but it’s been feeling like winter!

Here a simple and classic fall and beyond look!

Blazer: c/o
Watson velvet jeans : (love the green color this year)
Shoes:
Mini tote: c/o
Shirt: prev season c/o

Linked everything here: https://liketk.it/4nUPP

Classic prep forever!!

14/11/2023

You can see in my smile how much I love entertaining!

This is actually the first time that I have officially had an actual dinner party in the 1.5 years that I have lived here.

It’s my favorite home that I have owned, and I am still working on making it mine. So I got over the “my house isn’t ready,” self consciousness and invited some friends over.

I shucked a few dozen oysters and made a roasted acorn squash and pomegranate arugula salad with a goat cheese homemade dressing. Jane made an absolutely killer charcuterie board, Susan brought a delicious radish salad. Diane made chicken satay and brought mini brownies. Hazel made a lovely vegetable soup with a kick, accompanied by homemade croutons. And there was wine.

Stay tuned for more entertaining posts, and maybe I’ll finally get out a newsletter with some recipes!

Thank you to my sweet friends for a fun night!

13/11/2023

Sale alerts!!

My blazer from is on sale for 50% off, and the whole collection is at least 50% off!

My cashmere blend sweater from is 40% off, and it would make a great gift. Use code JENFJS10 for $10 off.

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12/11/2023

Veteran’s Day! Have you thanked a veteran for their service today?

Freedom is not free.

Thank you .swayze and all who have served.
I appreciate you every day and what you have done to protect our country.

The first picture is baby Bo when he was in boot camp.

The second two are from my trip to Montana a few weeks ago, with my Marine rocking his Marines jacket.

The last picture is from today. A veteran had this beautiful flag attached to his car. I caught him loading his oysters into his car when we were done and thanked him for his service. He replied, “My pleasure ma’am.”

Veterans deserve far better than they get post service, especially when it comes to healthcare, and specifically mental healthcare. If there is anything I can do to contribute to improvements, I will find a way.

Thank you today and every day, veterans. I appreciate you all.

10/11/2023

This is us.

At least this is us right now.

The weather has been cold and gross, and I struggle to leave the house some days. It is like this every fall/winter.

There is a reason that emotional support letters are written and that pets are designated as emotional support animals.

So, this is us. Me with no makeup, messy hair that needs roots touched up, smile wrinkles, and a long sleeve top and sweats. And two out of three of my cuddly boys, who bring me comfort, happiness and joy every day.

You either get it or you don’t. I have lived as the only person in my home for several years, and I have adapted to that (even though I miss Bo so much!). But I cannot live without my pets, and I don’t ever intend to for the rest of my life.

Do you agree?

09/11/2023

When I was visiting .swayze in Montana, he took me past this gorgeous view.

Looking out onto the vast landscape, I had one of those moments where I ask myself if I am dreaming.

There is no way to capture or to describe how beautiful this was. You had to be there.

Fun fact: these animals are actually statues, made by the man who owns the house on the mountain.

I came back to the Cape to the same temperatures that I left in Montana. So, needless to say, this girl is craving a warmer climate.

But, for now, home improvements, Cape things and getting ready for Thanksgiving.

08/11/2023

Are you looking for a beautiful dress that you can wear to work, on a date, to a fun event and that you can style so many fun ways?This beautiful print from is timeless and classic, which I am always looking for!

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07/11/2023

Accessories!
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I cannot make it a single day without them in cold temperatures!
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sent me their latest gloves (the second year on Oprah’s favorites list!), along with a sweet pink scarf and a grey hat.
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My fun striped fleece jacket is from local brand , and this one I sized up in.
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These two local brands were so fun to bring to Montana.
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I also matched the most fun fair of cowgirl earrings from to complete the outfit.
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Thanks for coming along on my visit to winter wonderland. Most of the snow was gone by the time that I left, but this is just the start!

06/11/2023

Happy residential permit oyster season on Cape Cod to all who celebrate!!

Thanks to my friend Ellie who gave me some oysters after pickleball in case I missed them when I went out after.

There is a limit of 36 per license each week, which I got.

It was the last day that I think we are having above 60 degrees, and it is a perfect first day of the season.

Tonight, I shucked a dozen. This week: oyster and mushroom stew! Who’s coming over?

The ocean is my therapy. I will never get enough of being out there!

03/11/2023

This is what people are talking about when they say how gorgeous Montana is!
swayze found this spot near Townshend, MT, and there is no way to do it justice in photos.

We stopped, had a picnic lunch of tacos and a veggie rice bowl, took in the views, marveled at how lucky we were to be there and to be together.

I am still in Autumn mode, and I am hoping that I do not see snow again until December.

My outfit is a poncho that I got at an artisans market in Cotuit this summer, thrown over a Cobble Hill that matched perfectly. Cold weather travel always means a few Dudleys.

Would you be interested in seeing packing lists, reading blog posts or videos for trips? If so, let me know!

03/11/2023

Only one of the three of us dressed up for Halloween, and it lasted about 4 minutes.

We got Duke a fire fighter’s uniform, with an extinguisher on the back, and he HATED it. He tried to death roll out of it.
swayze and I felt like parents who planned a child’s costume and the child screamed and cried and revolted.😂😂

We did not get a ton of trick or treaters, but those littles who came got chocolate and their parents/guardians were offered individually wrapped Jell-O shots!

My cardi is old from , but my fun earrings and bracelet stack are from . Even though they are Halloween themed, I still plan on wearing them and other Halloween themed jewelry for another month.

Did you dress your pet up this year? If so, tell me what their costume was!

And take the poll to let me know whether you are still about fall or whether you have switched to holiday mode as of 11/1.

01/11/2023

I PROMISE not to spam you with holiday content, and I am not decorating for the holidays until December.

That having been said, there are some things that I want to show you for holiday that are too good not to share ASAP, and this dress is one of them.

This pattern comes in several different styles, and it’s so beautiful on.

I’ve linked some holiday here: https://liketk.it/4mB0U , and there’s more to come, including their fabulous tartan!!

This was taken yesterday on Halloween. The irony! 🎃🌲❄️

31/10/2023

Happy Halloween! Look what I caught!🐳💙🐳

This is actually from Halloween last year on the Cape because someone was not into dressing up this year so someone else didn’t pack a costume!

It’s like Snow-laween here. Kind of funny/way too soon!

I hope all of you Halloween lovers have had the best day. Steal your kids Reese’s cups and give one to me when you see me!

31/10/2023

Not the day before Halloween post that I was planning, but I wanted to share my sorrow at the destruction of the Main Street fountain on Nantucket.

While I realize that this may be insignificant to anyone who has not been to Nantucket, especially compared to the terrible tragedies happening to human beings these days, I wanted to ACKnowledge it for one big reason.

Visiting places and landmarks that are attached to fond memories is one of the things that brings us joy. It’s often how I get through a hard day or a hard time.

I cannot count how many times I have taken a picture of this landmark, how many times I have had my picture taken in front of this fountain or taken pictures of friends and strangers in front of it.

I am sure that the fountain will be rebuilt, and I am glad that no people were hurt, but it’s still sad to me.

Special condolences to , who painstakingly maintains and decorates the fountain.

30/10/2023

One of my favorites this year from Beacon Hill.

I did a very quick swing by on Friday night, and maybe I missed something, but Louisburg Square was very quiet. Did I miss something?

Anyway, I have always loved skeletons and pirates (hello, Goonies!), and this house made my night.

Check out the shirt that one of the skeletons is wearing- YACHT ROCK!!!

I am fascinated with the concept of yacht rock, but I cannot fully understand it. I researched on Wikipedia, and Michael Jackson’s Thriller is considered yacht rock, but Fleetwood Mac’s Rumours is not. What?!?!?

Do you like skeletons? How about yacht rock?

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