Two Wolves

23/12/2023

30/11/2023

Happy Thursday! 🤗

24/11/2023

Ornaments 2023 for the tree!
This year has been amazing, full of growth and love ❤️
You will always find what your looking for!
Much love
Ben

17/12/2022

One year.

I’ve thought long and hard about writing this. I’m not one to hold days important, I certainly don’t like focusing on death days. So I will post this today, instead of tomorrow.

I want to say one year ago everything changed, but the reality is every day prior and every day since everything has changed. I’m going to ask this in his memory, please don’t make it a day where you cry out to the heavens about loss of Reed. If you want to honor him, live your best life. Heal yourself. Take care of your mental health. Laugh until you cry. Eat the best food. Say you’re sorry where needed. Put your demons to rest. Reed would not want people weeping at his loss, but rather using it to be and do better.

The children and I have spent the last year healing. Ive watched my children fight hard through the emotions and learn to laugh even harder. I’ve witnessed intense anger, sorrow, and also joy. We’ve learned to love in different ways. We’ve fought to heal from the known and unknown wounds. We’ve moved forward towards our futures, while still honoring his memory. They are thriving even in moments where it’s hard. I refuse to allow the death of their father to be the thing that forever destroys them, in the same sense that I refuse allow the term widow to define me… And to me that’s the ultimate definition of honoring someone’s memory. I think it’s a distinct dishonor to someone’s life, that their death lives on so loudly, their life is forgotten about. We will continue to try to do better, and be better in each day. Please do not make it a day full of tears, seek the joy.

Chelsea

26/11/2022

Another Thanksgiving in the books and I am so grateful for family traditions. Every Friday after Thanksgiving instead of doing the hectic shopping thing the family gets together for leftovers and ornament making. This year is cork animals and I think they all turned out amazing! So much fun to let the creativity flow with the smell of fresh coffee and the warmth of family all around. What is your favorite holiday tradition?

06/07/2022

The kids and I were driving by the Pacheco household the other day and my boy says

“Dad, I miss Reed.”

“I do to son. But tell you what, if we continue with love in our hearts Reed will always be with us.”

By the time we got to the corner store, he was smiles.

Thank you Reed.

Thank you everyone of you.

I love you.

09/04/2022

Where do you feel closest to God in photos. I’ll start. This is at Cougar Mountain Lodge in Cascade, Idaho. This is where I feel the most peace in my life.

Post your pic in the comments.

08/03/2022

I know I’ve been quiet on here… grief, healing and moving forward are complicated. The entire theme of this page was acknowledging the good and bad, our two wolves. Reed had gotten one sleeve finished of the dark wolf, but was never able to get his light… so I’ll carry it with me from here on out. The other side is roses and lungs.

Life is too short friends, seek the good and leave nothing left unsaid. Love you all.

Chelsea

19/01/2022

It’s the hardest time of the year. Days are short and the holidays are over. Because I know myself and what I deal with I have to ask. How are you all doing?? And truthfully I hope you all are doing well. But if you’re not doing ok. Don’t be afraid or ashamed to say something. I keep learning it’s ok to speak up about. It’s ok to have help. It’s ok to be a little “broken”. You’re not alone. And you’re not the only one. If you need a friend I’m here. If you need help ask. Friends can be powerful help and healers. Hope you get through the day and know tomorrow isn’t here yet and it can go what ever way you choose. Just think you are in some way someones hero. Someone’s best friend. Someone’s better half. Heck you can be someone’s pain in the butt if you really want to be. But you are someones someone.

18/01/2022

Perception! God doesn’t give worldly things.

11/01/2022

Make no mistakes about it; YOU are what makes you stronger. I believe in you. You got this. The world can be an ugly place if you allow it. Today is the day that you take back YOUR life. It belongs to you and no one else.

Much love,
Craig

09/01/2022

I have to do better keeping y’all engaged. So, here’s a reality check for most of us. I know for me personally, I can’t see crap! 😂😂

04/01/2022

December 31st: I’m going to the gym EVERY DAY starting Monday.

Today…⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️

01/01/2022

Two Wolves will now be assisting with resumes for 2022. Follow for more tips…😂😂😂

01/01/2022

Here’s to those of us that stayed home last night and woke up feeling great.

To the rest of you - well, good luck today. 😂😂😂

31/12/2021

A little NYE funny for you. Please be safe friends, and have a beautiful and blessed New Years!

29/12/2021

The hunt will continue

28/12/2021

Our local Patriot Guard Riders flying the colors for our brother. Stay tuned for the live feed

28/12/2021

Hi friends,

We believe we will be able to do a Facebook live today for Reed’s celebration of life, wiling internet connections are strong. The live stream with be through Two Wolves. His service will be at 5pm MST 12/28/2021.

For those local service details

CFC Caldwell

301 S. 34th Ave. Caldwell ID 83605

Casual dress, all are welcome.

26/12/2021

In case there’s anyone local who would like to attend. All are welcome 🖤

December 28th at 5pm

CFC Caldwell

301 S. 34th Ave. Caldwell ID 83605

Casual dress, all are welcome.

25/12/2021

Merry Christmas friends! May your day be filled with love, joy and peace. Our family is grateful for everyone single person on this page. We love you all,

Pacheco family

24/12/2021

Our Christmas eve tradition was to wrap presents until early morning, and then wake up exhausted and swear we’d never do that again. Sweet friends came and wrapped everything this year. If you’re up with your loved ones making that last minute magic come true, cherish every moment!!

23/12/2021

I’m not I’m the right mind to get funny memes yet, but Reed would never want this page shrouded in sadness. The whole intent was to hunt the good! So until I can do it on my own, I’m going to steal his old memes from memories and his phone.

This page will not be going anywhere, for those wondering. Reed loved this audience deeply, and was so grateful for the support and interactions. I will be sharing the journey through grief as well, but I promise, not everything will be sad. We will find a balance eventually. Until then friends, love hard, forgive quickly, hunt the good, and be kinder than you need to be. 🖤
Chelsea

21/12/2021

Hi friends,

Today would have been Reed’s 48th birthday. There’s never a “good time” to lose your love, but the week of their birthday and Christmas feels insufferably cruel.

I know Reed is probably yelling at me for spending the day in tears. His entire life goal was to make a difference. He wanted people to feel loved. So I’m going to turn to you. Please do a random act of kindness in memory of Reed today. An extra hug. A cup of coffee. An extra phone call to a loved one. It’s what he would have wanted. Thank you all, we are grateful for you.

12/21/1973- 12/18/2021

20/12/2021

This morning I went to the spot where Reed wrote the bulk of his content and made most of his videos. It was the place where he felt the most calm. I’m sharing this photo to let y’all know that his spirit will be with us forever.

The sun isn’t really out today, but the flare of the lens uncovered what I’m choosing to call “Reed’s light”.

Thank you all for following his journey with such loving hearts. He appreciated each and every one of you.

~Craig

18/12/2021

It is with an absolute broken heart and soul that I announce Reed went to be with Jesus this morning.

He was the love of my life, an amazing husband, father, friend and just man in general. I’m not sure how we will ever live without him.

Service details will be announced as we know.

18/12/2021

I’m sorry I couldn’t update yesterday.

With his teams support, we made the call to bring Reed home yesterday. He’s suffering greatly. Not really much to add at this time….

Please pray for our babies.

UPDATE: on 12/18/2021 at approximately 6:57am MST Reed entered the gates of Heaven, to be greated by his savior. We are broken-hearted.