Memo.

03/10/2024

Embracing no contact is a powerful step towards healing; remind yourself that you made a courageous decision to prioritize your well-being.

02/10/2024

Enjoy your waiting season, don't settle for less than you truly deserve 💜

02/10/2024

Girl, don't chase let them chase you, okayyy?

02/10/2024

3 months before Christmas 🎄

02/10/2024

Please, let us win this time. 🤲🏻

01/10/2024

Let them be 💜

01/10/2024

Do not date a Married Man.
— Never Chase Men Again By Bruce Bryan

01/10/2024

October 1st 🍂 Let's make the last 3 months of 2024 more fulfulling. ✨🫶🏻

21/09/2024

In my calm era, I literally just let things be now. You won’t get the chance to ruin my peace. 🍂

12/09/2024

Just a gentle reminder 🩵

21/06/2024

To someone who's single,

Enjoy your season of waiting. Don't settle for less than you truly deserve. You would rather be alone than be in a toxic relationship that will just drain your whole being.
Nothing is wrong with you. It is not just your time yet. Take your time and love yourself even more. Reach your biggest dreams. Travel the world.
Embrace everything about yourself because no one will do it for you. Address your insecurities because it is you alone who can conquer them.
If that someone comes, then good, but if not, then you will have so much time to date yourself.

— Neil Jed Castro

14/05/2024

Your gut is always, always right. Don't take it for granted. 💜

01/05/2024

What's meant for you will always find a way, even when the path ahead seems uncertain. 💓

(ctto)

28/04/2024

You deserve the whole pie, not just a few crumbs. Go for it! 🌸

21/04/2024

14/01/2024

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19/12/2023

When my love is no longer enough...

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At some point, I have to stop making excuses and look at us in a place of love and growth.

When I ask you about "the plan" I am not asking for details. All I am asking you is where do I stand? Where are we? Do you still see me as far as me seeing you like the one I would love to marry?

When you choose to keep silent every time I ask you what's wrong. I know that the silence holds a decision I have to accept—either we go forward or end it here.

When your eyes no longer hold directions and your actions no longer speak of our vision.

When you're living yet, I still see you dying. Dying of the unspoken words, of the things that you wanted to do, but something's holding you back.

I used to see your eyes light up every time you saw me, but now, the truth hides with an empty stare, as if you wanted to run away from me.

It breaks me every time I process what's happening between us.

It breaks me that we have each other, yet, you feel empty, and I feel alone.

It breaks me that I have so much more for you, but it still gives you less.

I guess my love is no longer enough...
This is why I have to leave first before we make monsters out of ourselves and forget that once in our lives—we became each other's heroes.

You saved me then; I am saving you now.

— from the poetry book “to the ones: the letters i‘ve kept nehind my pillow”