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Sometimes when you're feeling stuck or doubting your progress, it's helpful to take a step back and reflect on how far y...
01/07/2025

Sometimes when you're feeling stuck or doubting your progress, it's helpful to take a step back and reflect on how far you've come.

Take a look at your life a year or two ago and compare it to where you are now. You'll likely be amazed at the improvements you've made and the accomplishments you've achieved.
Perhaps you just relocated to a new state and you're wondering if made the right move.. Relax and count your blessings, relocation alone is not for the faint hearted, you have done a great thing for yourself.
Paying rent in this economy is a huge achievement.
Having food on the table is an achievement.
Paying off a loan is an achievement.

Sometimes we get so caught up in this rat race that we forget to count our blessings and the many obstacles we have overcome.

Never compare yourself with anyone and beat yourself up especially on social media , we are all on different paths.

Keep pushing forward!

Growth cannot fully happen without forgiveness especially the kind that comes from within.Apologising to yourself is not...
28/06/2025

Growth cannot fully happen without forgiveness especially the kind that comes from within.

Apologising to yourself is not a weakness. It’s a sign of honesty and healing.

Love bombing is not just sweet talk or gifts. It’s a tactic that creates emotional noise. It gives too much too soon, so...
28/06/2025

Love bombing is not just sweet talk or gifts. It’s a tactic that creates emotional noise. It gives too much too soon, so the mind can’t think clearly. It starts with fast affection, long talks, strong praise, and big promises but it’s not steady. That’s the plan.

The goal is not to love. The goal is to pull someone in quickly then shift the ground beneath them.

At first, the attention feels good. Safe. Maybe even healing but then, without warning, the same person becomes distant, cold, or moody and instead of leaving, the other person stays, hoping the sweetness will come back.

Hope becomes the hook. Confusion becomes the chain.

The person starts asking, “Did I do something wrong?” or “Maybe it will be like before again.” But what they don’t see is this: love bombing was never about them. It was about control.

It’s hard to leave what once felt so full. That’s why love bombing is powerful. It mixes care with confusion. It teaches someone to ignore the shift. To chase the feeling that only comes when the other person decides to give it again.

Is it really love if peace depends on someone’s mood?

How can hope survive when the ground keeps shaking?

Real love doesn’t rush to trap. It takes time. It stays steady. It doesn’t leave someone begging for the same attention it once threw at them.

If love comes like a storm and leaves you unsure, it’s not love. It’s emotional control wearing sweet clothes.

Just a little bit of self compassion and you can feel yourself againBe kind to yourself, you are doing just great. It's ...
27/06/2025

Just a little bit of self compassion and you can feel yourself again

Be kind to yourself, you are doing just great. It's really not that bad - if you think about it

You can’t change them - but you can change what you accept. ⁠⁠Maybe this time will be different?⁠⁠We don’t talk about th...
27/06/2025

You can’t change them - but you can change what you accept. ⁠

Maybe this time will be different?⁠

We don’t talk about this enough, but one of the biggest forms of self-sabotage?

Gaslighting yourself. Convincing yourself that they didn’t mean it. That if you just love them harder, they’ll change. That maybe you’re overreacting.⁠

You're not

Asserting boundaries and speaking up for yourself can feel selfish, when you were taught to prioritize everyone else's n...
27/06/2025

Asserting boundaries and speaking up for yourself can feel selfish, when you were taught to prioritize everyone else's needs before your own. Speaking up against toxic behavior can feel like you're "doing too much" or "creating conflict" when you've been used to staying quiet to keep the peace.

What I'm saying is, it's perfectly normal for healthy behavior to feel uncomfortable when you've been used to dysfunction. Start that healthy behaviour anyways. Over time though, your voice will stop shaking, your way of handling your brain will adjust to the new, healthier ways and you will feel more empowered and grateful to yourself for having the courage to pursue another way of being.

Lean into the change and know that it won't feel always feel so uncomfortable to prioritize your peace.

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