SPECIAL NEEDS AWARENESS, EARLY AUTISM DIAGNOSIS ADVOCACY. HEALTHY LIFESTYLE, FAMILY ORIENTED.
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As you start your week, may get that clarity you need. May you find favor in the eyes of men. May you get connections from people that matters. May you enter where you're needed. May you have customers that won't stress you
Your business shall experience an increase
Your career shall experience good recommendation
That promotion you want is yours.
I pray that this week will be smooth for you. Whatever you put your hands to do is blessed.
Have a beautiful week đŠˇ
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As we go into your presence Lord may we worship you in truth and in spirit.
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Happy fatherâs day to all the wonderful and great fathers all over the world.
Moms with teenagers, how is it going?
When your teen gets rebellious and overbearing, how do you handle the situation?
As a parent with a teenager, what advice or important character advice would you share with us.
I understand that handling and understanding a teenager is very tasking, so, I'd like to know, what do you do specially?
Please share
It is weekend, and if you're someone who enjoys cooking, here are some kitchen hacks I thought you should know.
⢠If you don't want to cry while cutting onion, peel the back of the onion, put it in the fridge for 10 minutes and use.
⢠Wrap your unused fresh vegetables inside a paper could be newspaper then keep in the fridge, or wash properly and put in the zip-lock bag. Make it airtight and put in your fridge.
⢠To cut pepper with your hand, apply vegetable oil on your hand and cut the pepper you will not feel the effect.
⢠If you want to prepare moi-moi, soak your beans in hot water for about 10 mins and wash. It comes off easily.
âŞď¸ If you want to enjoy ice fish, don't boil it. Just wash and marinate. When you are ready to fry, slice onions in the oil and fry.
⢠To reuse already use oil, grate few ginger and fry for some seconds it will remove the odour or flavour of what you fried initially and taste fresh.
Which one of these did you know? Which one will you try? Please share your own hack let's learn
Have you ever thought of doing something(especially house chores, laundry or things in your house), but too lazy to do it, then as you trying to motivate yourself, someone comes and asks you to do them, then you don't wanna do it again because they asked you to?
It'll now look like you did something because someone told you to, not because you willingly wanted to?
Yess, that type of behavior is mostly common among autistic and ADHD people.
It is called Pathological Demand Avoidance
As a parent, have you noticed that your autistic child does something when they want to, not because you told them to?
They may be hyperactive this moment, and no matter how much you try to calm them, they still continued?
Sometimes, to understand your autistic or special needs child, you've got to allow them do something at their own pace.
Their mind is telling them something, so let them ease into it
I also understand that this could be difficult to understand at times too, but give them time to make their own decisions.
It'll also help you as a parent
Their brain is functioning differently from yours, so you should try to allow them ease into their own decisions and do them.
Have you ever experienced something like this?
Whatever someone achieves, and decides to celebrate it, itâs not basic.
You donât know their struggles.
Allow people to celebrate their victories.
The Apprenticeship system in 'mostly' igbo markets understands 'PROCESS'
You can never jump process.
Men who are very serious in major markets understand that you must serve under "oga" or "boss" before becoming an "oga" or "boss"
Your 'supposed' boss will ask you to say for some years, learning about the business - after, the "oga" or "boss" will settle him.
This person has understood how the market works and how to gather his own customers.
But these days? Young people want to skip process and jump into the "success"
That's not how life works
YOU CAN NEVER JUMP PROCESS
People in the market understood that, then, why don't you calm down and understand your career or process well?
You don't want to serve under someone. You feel superior to someone who is obviously making money more than you. You can't learn from them because you're older than them. You feel you can figure out everything on your own.
Lol.
Till you invest your time, money, resources, energy, strategies, and patience, you would never get what you're looking for.
See you see running round circles.
Trust your own process. Stop running around
Dear ladies,
Learn to define your relationship with men -(heteros), and stick to it.
Whatever you define your friendship or relationship, that's how it would be.
Nothing should make you change it, unless it's mutually agreed upon.
See eh....
Men knows what they want. They do.
If they want to date you, they'd say it. If they want to marry you, they'd say it. If they want to use you and pass time, it's very very obvious.
Learn to define your relationship with men.
No go give girlfriend, abi wife privilege to a man wey no worth am. Unless you wan dey cook by 3am for boyfriend wey no send your papa.
Define your relationship with men. It will save you from too many heartbreaks
Let me tell you something, having an autistic child isn't a death sentence.
I know it is very difficult to cope with at first, due to how hyperactive and unpredictable your kid(s) might be, but understanding that your child needs you as much you need them will help you through this journey.
That is why I always talk about autism, and also to encourage you that you have someone like me who understands the way you feel.
Don't neglect doctor visits, please.
Do you have a challenge you would like to share? Maybe I can help with some solutions.
I want you to understand that you ain't alone - as a parent. It's not a dĂŤĂŁth sentence, but a beginning of an awesome experience with your kid.
Cherish the moments - whether difficult or smooth
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Dear women,
Do you know that your skin is also part of your body you should pay attention to?
I understand that life can get busy, but taking care of your skin doesn't necessarily require that you must have 10 step routine.
⢠Taken plenty of water is a simple way of taking care of your skin. Try and stay hydrated.
⢠What you eat is another way of making sure that your skin stays clean. Prep your meals to give you important proteins and vegetables.
⢠Moisturize often as you can. Whether you're taking your kids to school early morning or rushing off to work, apply a body cream to your body.
⢠Try and get good sleep too. Being a mother isn't easy. A well rested mum can take care of the family well.
If your skin is already giving you a concern, maybe you should try these simple steps. It will help you maintain your skin tone without doing so much.
Would you try these out?
It is not everyone that notices red flags in a relationship, because relationships has its own dynamics, but still, there are some things person fit see and would consider them as a red flag.
⢠When one partner tries to control the other's actions, decisions, or emotions, then that's some red flag - I'm not talking about accountability.
⢠Any form of abuse, including name-calling, gaslighting, or physical violence, then you should dust your shoes and run
⢠Lying, hiding information, or sneaking around behind the other's back. This is a sign of disloyalty and dishonesty. Flee!
⢠If your partner constantly talks down on you, you should leave that relationship. You don't deserve them
⢠When your partner is consistently being unresponsive, distant, or unengaged, please leave that relationship for your peace of mind. You are not treated as priority there.
⢠Constantly shifting responsibility or avoiding accountability.
I understand that everyone has flaws, and relationships involve growth and learning, but if you notice any of these and it also makes you uncomfortable, please leave that relationship. They won't change
What are your red flags in a relationship?
Last week, someone asked me what the cause of autism was, and I mentioned there's no known cause for it because most of the time, it could be a genetic disorder.
It can happen at any age, but the most common occurrence of autism is in children.
It is believed that children still go through development in growth, and every part of their lives, so while developing, they may develop an autistic trait.
It can happen to anyone. That there's trace of autistic disorder in your family lineage doesn't mean you were cursed or possessed.
The best thing you can do for your child at that moment is to be there for him/her.
Before you conclude on anything, make sure you get a diagnosis on your child, and educate yourself on the best possible way to handle the situation.
I'm not promising that it would be an easy ride, but the rewarding thing about this is that you get to understand your child's behavior and needs well.
Educate yourself as much as you can. Join a community, or you can follow me closely because I do teach about autism on my wall pretty often.
Remember to get diagnosed first before doing anything.
God has a way of directing the right people to our path when we need them. When we are seeking for a solution for a challenge, there's a way God sends people at that point of our need to guide and help us.
May you find your help this week.
May this week be fruitful for you and your business.
The clarity you seek, may you get the answer this week.
May your business experience a new customer or client that will boost sales, and improve your business performance.
May you be met at the point of your needs.
Have a beautiful week đŠˇ
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If you're someone who likes cooking, here are some kitchen hacks I thought you should know.
⢠You can store your moi-moi leaves in freezer for months by putting in a big nylon.You only bring out the quantity you need per time.
⢠If you don't want to cry while cutting onion, peel the back of the onion, put it in the fridge for 10 minutes and use.
⢠Wrap your unused fresh vegetables inside a paper, could be newspaper then keep in the fridge
⢠To cut pepper with your hand, apply vegetable oil on your hand and cut the pepper you will not feel the effect
⢠Soak your beans for moi moi in hot water for about 10 mins and wash. It comes off easily.
âŞď¸ If you want to enjoy ice fish, don't boil it. Just wash and marinate. When you are ready to fry, slice onions in the oil and fry.
⢠To reuse already use oil, grate few ginger and fry for some seconds it will remove the odour or flavour of what you fried initially and taste fresh.
Which one of these did you know? Which one will you try? You can share your own hack too
You can be a mom and still take care of yourself
Being a mom isn't easy, especially if you're a first time mom. There's a lot you are still trying to figure out and taking care of yourself might be the last on the menu.
As a mom, prioritizing how I look made me to be more self confident.
If you don't have the time to moisturize, try taking water, smoothie or juice as a daily thing.
Get supplements too. There are couple of them that can do specific things for your body - depending on your want. Get them. Try to be judicious in taking them.
Take your shower early, probably before you start waking your kids, and also taking a shower at night.
Finally, don't let anyone talk you down. You are a super woman, and you should try to trust your own process.
Don't pressure yourself too much. It won't be easy, but the moment you start, you won't stop.
Dear mom, it's weekend, prioritize yourself today.
I have spoken about autism in kids quite often, and you must be wondering how you can detect if your child has autism, and here are few symptoms that shows your child might have autism:
1. Not responding to their name
2. avoiding eye contact
3. not smiling when you smile at them
4. getting very upset if they do not like a certain taste, smell or sound
5. repetitive movements, such as flapping their hands, flicking their fingers or rocking their body, being hyperactive.
6. not talking as much as other children
7. repeating the same phrases
When your child exhibits at least, 5 of these symptoms, then you should take them to the hospital for proper checkup.
I want also tell you that autism isn't the end of the world. You just have to pay more close attention to your child than you often do.
If you ain't watching them, they may hurt themselves.
I am always rooting for you
Just because someone carries it well doesnât mean it isnât heavy.
They have learnt how to manage it.
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