02/10/2023
From our inbox👇
"Good morning naija mom. Am sorry for entering ur dm. Something is seriously bothering me and I need someone to talk to.
I got married to my husband in 2009. I met him through his father because I was dating his father then. His father introduced me to him casually so he got interested in me. I told his father about his move and his dad said he doesn't have any problems with me dating his son, that he will even like it if we marry each other.
I started withdrawing from my sugar daddy to concentrate on the relationship I was building with his son, my fiance. I thought he has called it a quit since he said he will like me to marry his son. His son never knew what was going on between me and his dad.
I didn't talk to him for 6 months but one thing led to another and we starting sleeping together again.
Fast forward to our wedding. He played his role as a father inlaw and made sure all we needed was available.
We continued our affair after the wedding and I got really addicted to him. I enjoy s*x with my father inlaw more than my husband and stuff like that.
When it was time for my husband and I to start trying for babies, I told my father inlaw that we should quit s*x and gave him my reason. He gave me a sarcastic look and said ok.
So hubby and I started trying to get pregnant. We tried for up to two years without success. We saw doctors in between and we were certified ok.
Families started calling meetings here and there to know why I was not pregnant yet, even my father inlaw summoned us, hmm.
One day, that was in 2012, My father inlaw called me to the family house and I went. An action I still regret till today. I got there and we had s*x without a condom for the first time.
I eventually got pregnant from there.
I have 3 kids now and they belong to my father inlaw, he is aware but my husband is not aware.
Late last year my hubby came with DNA talks and I got scared. I told my father inlaw and he said I should allow him to run the test. He did in March and the result shows that the kids have the same DNA as him hence the kids are his. I felt relieved but the guilt is killing me slowly.
What should I do? Should I open up and tell him or I should leave it as it is?
Please I need advice. You can post on your wall too"
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My advice to her is in the comments 👇
