21/11/2025
Girrrl… can we be honest for a second?
Most women don’t ‘lose themselves.’
They just get buried.
Buried under kids’ schedules.
Buried under work deadlines.
Buried under routines that don’t even include them.
Buried under being the one who remembers everything for everyone.
And in that chaos, you start looking in the mirror like,
‘When did I stop feeling like ME?’
‘When did I become the woman in the stained t-shirt hoping nobody notices?’
“When did cute disappear and survival mode take over?”
It’s not because you’re lazy.
It’s not because you don’t care.
It’s because real life does NOT pause so you can “find yourself again.”
Sugarplum..She’s STILL in there.
She didn’t leave — she’s just out of practice.
Out of practice of choosing herself.
Out of practice getting ready because she wants to feel good, not because she “has somewhere to be.”
Out of practice doing ANYTHING that isn’t for someone else.
I don’t coach the polished, perfect girl.
I coach the woman who’s been holding everything together with dry shampoo and caffeine and still wants to feel strong, confident, and connected to her damn self again.
If that’s you…
you’re exactly who I talk to.
Exactly who I build for.
Exactly who I get.
Stick around, mama.
We’re digging her out — without burnout, without pressure, without 2-hour gym days.
Just real routines for real life.