Do you notice your child relying on reassurance to make it through their day? 🤔
In The Art and Science of Mom, Emily Edlynn, PhD's interview with clinical psychologist and best-selling author Regine Galanti, we learned about the impact of reassurance giving on children with anxiety.
Regine, who specializes in anxiety and OCD in kids and teenagers, explains why reassurance can be problematic and what you can do differently to interrupt the loop and empower your little ones to navigate their fears🌈💪.
To hear more on the topic of parenting anxious kids, tune in to Psychologists Off The Clock on YouTube (link in the comments below 👇) or wherever you listen to your podcasts!
And as always, we invite you to leave any questions or thoughts you have about this episode in the comments 💬
P.S. For even more wisdom and tools from Regine, you can order your copy of her book 'Parenting Anxious Kids: Understanding Anxiety in Children by Age and Stage' via the POTC Bookshop.
#ParentingAnxiousKids #UnderstandingAnxiety #Reassurance #Anxiety #Psychology #ClinicalPsychologist #bestsellingauthor #RegineGalanti #childhoodanxiety #anxietytips #Anxietytools
Do you find yourself spending a considerable amount of time creating strict food rules for yourself, ultimately leading to a self-imposed "food jail" when you fail to follow them?
You become so preoccupied with the amount or type of food you consume that you often fail to enjoy it.
If this resonates with you then you might be missing the opportunity to relish and find the food that best suits your body's needs.
By embracing a more flexible approach to food, you can experience the freedom to fully appreciate and savor each meal and discover the foods that work best for your body.
If you’re curious about changing your relationship with food and your body, tune in for an eye-opening episode where Michael Herold and Dr. Jud Brewer discuss Judson's book, The Hunger Habit: Why We Eat When We're Not Hungry and How to Stop.
#thehungerhabit #eatingbehaviors #eatingtriggers #author #science #psychology #podcast #linkinbio #tunein #newepisode #eatinghealthy #judsonbrewer #wellbeing
Weight loss as a reason for exercising or adopting any behavior we hope to maintain in the long term implies that we are somehow insufficient or defective as we are, and it can make any behavior feel like a burden or a chore.
Why? Because as soon as we turn a behavior into a chore, we engage in a system of rebellion known as reactance theory, which creates tension and resentment towards the very thing we want to achieve. Therefore, we may experience negative emotions before we even start, which can sabotage our efforts to adopt the behavior we desire.
Tune in with Debbie Sorensen and sustainable-change coach Dr. Michelle Segar via the link in the comments to learn how to finally achieve lasting changes in eating and exercise.
348. Sustainable Exercise with Michelle Segar
#sustainableexercise #thejoychoice #exercisemotivation
🎙️ If you want to change jobs but aren't sure how to do it or need help getting to the next step in your career, tune in with Jill Stoddard and 🌏 Paula Brand (Brand Career Management) a global career coach, and author of The Purple Parachute: A Woman’s Guide to Navigating the Winds of Career Change.
One of Paula's takeaways on the core of job changes and career pivots is VALUES. She enlightens us on why staying true to your values is crucial and how misalignments can lead to more than just workplace discomfort.
https://offtheclockpsych.com/job-changes-and-career-pivots-with-paula-brand
#careerchange #values #careercoach #careermanagement #thepurpleparachute
#Tip for practicing self-compassion:
Next time you're feeling anxious, try a body-based self-compassion practice.
Notice where you feel the anxiety in your body.
Bring a gentle exhale and warmth to that spot.
Imagine loosening and softening around that anxious part.
Take a moment to hold space for yourself with kindness and care 💖
For more tips on how you can practice self-compassion and not just momentarily but make it a lasting trait, go check out Michael Herold's interview with Diana Hill, author of the Self-Compassion Daily Journal!
https://offtheclockpsych.com/self-compassion-daily-journal-with-diana-hill/
#selfcompassion #mindfulness #psychology #podcast #compassionfocusedtherapy
Are you interested in writing for personal growth? Why not explore your life experiences, transport yourself back to moments of the past, and delve deep into self-reflection with memoir writing?
Tune in for an inspiring conversation with Debbie Sorensen and guest Maureen Murdock, where they talk about her book, Mythmaking: Self-Discovery and the Timeless Art of Memoir.
Maureen gives her thoughts on how writing can be therapeutic and helps us with healing and growth, the difference between memoir writing and journaling, how mythological themes and archetypes come into play with memoirs, and where to begin with memoir writing.
One of her many pieces of advice for memoir writing is to ask yourself:
1️⃣ What do I know now that I didn't know before?
2️⃣ What were my beliefs, drives, and desires in the past?
3️⃣ What am I willing to confront in my memoir?
You can find the episode link in the comments below 👇
#memoirwriting #selfdiscovery #personalgrowth #selfreflection
How can you scaffold skill development and best show up for your neurodivergent child?
Debbie Reber of Tilt Parenting says it's all about recognizing where you are not really seeing who your kid is.
Once you understand that, then you can get curious about where they are right now. By being deeply connected, and more closely attuned to your child, the better you will be able to capitalize on those learning opportunities.
Listen to our latest podcast episode where The Art and Science of Mom, Emily Edlynn, PhD interviews Debbie Reber, author of the groundbreaking book "Differently Wired: A Parent's Guide to Raising an Atypical Child with Confidence and Hope."
Discover how nurturing understanding with your child can transform challenges into celebrations.
https://offtheclockpsych.com/differently-wired-kids-with-deborah-reber/
#neurodivergent #differentlywired #parenting #parentingtools #parentingtips #atypical #parentingguide
‘Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey’ was penned by Florence Williams following the end of her twenty-five-year marriage.
She sits down with Jill Stoddard to reflect on her recovery from heartbreak, the power of tapping into awe, and how nature immersive experiences can lead to transformation.
They also touch on topics like whether there is a potential link between divorce and diabetes, and the prevalence of Takotsubo syndrome (broken heart syndrome) in postmenopausal women.
Tune in for an episode where science meets self-discovery 💔👩🔬
https://offtheclockpsych.com/heartbreak-with-florence-williams/
How can we create a more supportive and nurturing environment for athletes in today's youth sports culture?
In a conversation with The Art and Science of Mom, Emily Edlynn, PhD and Kirsten Jones author of ‘Raising Empowered Athletes', we hear about how we can navigate the decisions, challenges, and pressures of the competitive world of youth sports while fostering qualities and life skills in our children and empowering them to passionately pursue their goals.
One of many tips Kirsten shares is showing support by having short conversations with your child rather than long ones and allowing them to change their mind and ask questions about their experience. She also advises against being critical of other children or discussing negative aspects of sports activities.
This episode is a hugely valuable resource for those seeking to support young athletes in their journey. Tune in to hear Kirsten's tips for supporting instead of pressuring your athletes, increasing internal motivation, knowing if your child is just participating in sports to please you, and plenty more!
#youthsports #raisingempoweredathletes #youngathletes
In learning self-forgiveness, we hear from Grant Dewar, psychologist and author of The Self-Forgiveness Workbook how skills of compassion are helpful.
"We must allow ourselves to have a compassionate presence with our own experience and allow that suffering to be there without trying to heal it in the first instance or trying to make it go away, just allowing the healing process to occur without forcing it."
If you have been struggling to let go of feelings of guilt, shame, or animosity toward yourself, don't miss out on this transformative episode. Tune in via the link in the comments or wherever you get your podcasts to learn more!
#selfforgiveness #compassion #selfblame #guilt #shame #healing #mindfulness #psychologytips
If you want to create enjoyable, long-lasting sexual connections with your spouse or partner, you’ll want to hear what Emily Nagoski, a sex educator and the author of ‘Come Together’ has to say!
Emily enlightens us on the myths about healthy sexual relationships, how to break those incredibly unhelpful societal and cultural rules, and ways to create a relationship that increases our accelerators and decreases our brakes to enjoy sexual experiences that work for both you and your partner.
This one is a game-changer so go tune in via the link the comments or wherever you get your podcasts 🎧❤️
P.S. Go get your copy of Emily’s book at our Bookshop page - you won’t be disappointed!
#sexualconnections #sexualrelationships #ComeTogether #sexeducation
Body-focused repetitive behaviors such as hair-pulling, nail-biting, and skin-picking can cause a great deal of emotional and physical suffering.
Coauthors of The BFRB Recovery Workbook, and our guests this week, Dr. Marla Deibler The Center for Emotional Health of Greater Philadelphia, LLC and Dr. Renae Reinardy Courage Critters points out that when these behaviors start to greatly impact your life, it is important to recognize that it is more than just a bad habit. They further add that understanding and treating these behaviors requires self-compassion and a deeper level of understanding, and awareness.
If you struggle with BFRBs that are negatively impacting your life, we encourage you to check out the episode to learn strategies and skills to recover (link in the comments below 👇).
#bodyfocusedrepetitivebehaviors #recovery #bfrbawareness
Are you feeling exhausted, detached, and less effective at work? You could be experiencing #burnout.
Join us in a special cohost episode where we explore strategies for recharging, reconnecting, and transforming burnout from Debbie’s new book, ‘ACT for Burnout’.
Let's work together to combat the alarming increase in burnout and create a healthier and more meaningful life!
Discover the ultimate puberty guide for adults with The Art and Science of Mom, Emily Edlynn, PhD and guests Cara Natterson, MD and Vanessa Kroll Bennett, coauthors of ‘This is So Awkward: Modern Puberty Explained’ and co-hosts of The Puberty Podcast.
They answer questions like, What challenges do parents face during puberty? How do the early changes of puberty differ for boys and girls? Why is modern-day puberty different from before? Why should we practice empathy and show a way forward when our kids are at the mercy of their hormones?
They cover a lot more, so tune in wherever you get your podcasts to learn more!
#modernpubertyexplained #thisissoawkward
https://offtheclockpsych.com/puberty-is-awkward-with-cara-natterson-and-vanessa-kroll-bennett/
How can mindfulness be helpful if you feel trapped or are struggling? How can you get out of a constrictive way of living and live more expansively?
Get the answers to these questions and much more by tuning into Debbie's conversation with Sharon Salzberg, a meditation pioneer and world-renowned teacher! You’ll learn new ways to adopt mindfulness principles that go beyond traditional paths, to live more expansively, and to see real change in your life.
If incorporating wellness is on your resolution list this year, this episode is a gold mine of wisdom and inspiration. Here’s to a happy and healthy 2024 😀🎉
Our fabulous foursome, Debbie Sorensen, Michael Herold, Jill Stoddard and The Art and Science of Mom, Emily Edlynn, PhD, gather by the virtual fireside for a heartfelt chat to close out the very last episode of the year.
They reflect on some of the hurdles faced, important lessons learned, and exciting possibilities that await them in the coming year. And, stay tuned until the very end of the conversation for a thrilling speed-round surprise!
Enjoy, and we’ll catch you again in the new year for more psychology insight and inspiration 🎉
https://offtheclockpsych.com/a-cozy-fireside-chat-with-the-potc-cohosts/
Have you ever considered how our sense of safety impacts our health and happiness?
Jill Stoddard speaks with Stephen Porges Polyvagal Institute and Seth Porges about polyvagal theory and how, when we feel safe, our body operates differently than when we feel threatened or traumatized.
This episode is jam-packed with knowledge, covering everything from the effects on our physical and mental well-being of living in a world where threats are all around us to dispelling misconceptions about our freeze response and how you can use breathing to stimulate feelings of safety.
As always, we welcome your comments and questions below 👇
#polyvagaltheory #safety #wellbeing #happiness
Nine out of ten people would forego a significant portion of their lifetime earnings for greater meaning at work.
With a rising trend of people feeling unsatisfied in the workplace, Michelle Penelope King joins Michael Herold to give insight into how we can feel seen, heard, and valued at work through her revelatory book 'How Work Works: The Subtle Science of Getting Ahead Without Losing Yourself'.
You’ll hear:
👉 How the work environment has evolved over the years
👉 Why is the need to fit in inherently problematic, and how is belonging different?
👉 The steps to building an informal network to future-proof your career success
👉 How building meaningful connections and investing in self-awareness can help you get ahead at work without losing your authentic self
We can't wait to hear your thoughts 💭
https://offtheclockpsych.com/how-work-works-with-michelle-p-king/
#careerambitions #howworkworks #psychologypodcast
Middle school can be such a stressful time for kids. The good news is that there are many ways we can help them thrive!
Tune in with The Art and Science of Mom, Emily Edlynn, PhD and returning guest Phyllis Fagell for all the wisdom from her indispensable book, 'Middle School Superpowers: Raising Resilient Tweens in Turbulent Times'.
From managing rejection, friendships, and emotions to academics and setbacks, they cover various common parenting concerns and offer practical solutions.
Click the link in the comments to hear the full episode 👇
Imagine a world free from inequality. A world where every individual is treated with the same level of value and dignity.
Hear more from acclaimed sociologist Michele Lamont in a chat with Debbie Sorensen to discover the power of recognition and how it can help heal a divided world.
Listen and Learn:
👉 Michele explains how certain groups within society are valued and recognized, while others are left feeling devalued and overlooked
👉 The denial of recognition and dignity to marginalized groups and how this negatively impacts their well-being and sense of value within society
👉 How internalized cultural narratives perpetuate and become embedded over time, and what is being done at a cultural level to change them
👉 What is normal universalism and why we should share a desire to have a more inclusive society?
👉 Is there hope for a more inclusive future?
👉 If Michèle could change one narrative related to the concept of worth, what would it be?
#equality #worth #inclusivity #socialchange #recognition