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13/09/2025

This story is a powerful reminder of the importance of respect and kindness towards teachers, thank you for your concern for the profession🥰

“The Last Bell”

This morning, a 7-year-old looked me in the eye and said:
“You don’t even know how to do TikTok. My mom says old people like you shouldn’t be teachers.”

There was no malice in his voice. Just flat honesty.
I smiled anyway.
After 36 years in the same first-grade classroom, I’ve learned to let words slide off my back.
But this one stuck.

My name is Mrs. Carter.
And today, I locked my classroom door for the very last time.

When I began teaching in the late ’80s, it felt like a calling.
Parents showed up with plates of cookies and homemade thank-you notes.
Kids made me birthday cards with backwards letters and too much glue.
If a child finally sounded out a whole sentence? That joy carried me for weeks.

But schools don’t feel the same anymore.
Piece by piece, year after year, something shifted.

Now my evenings aren’t spent cutting paper apples for the bulletin board.
They’re spent uploading “incident reports” into apps—so I have proof if a parent threatens to sue.

I’ve been shouted at in front of my students.
Not by kids. By adults.
One mother waved her phone at me and sneered, “You clearly can’t handle a class. I saw the video.”
Her son had filmed me trying to comfort another child mid-meltdown.
No one asked if I was okay.

The children have changed, too.
Not their fault.
The world is loud, frantic, relentless.

They come to school exhausted, anxious, already weighed down by things no six-year-old should carry.
Some lash out.
Some shut down.
And somehow, we’re told to fix it—28 kids, six hours a day, no aide, no budget.

Once, my classroom was a safe little nest.
Morning songs. Story corners. Kindness before arithmetic.
Now it’s all “data points” and “learning outcomes,” as if a child’s worth can be measured in bubble sheets.

And yet… there were still sparks.
A shy boy whispering, “I read it—by myself.”
A crumpled note on my desk: “I feel safe here.”
A child hugging me tight and saying, “You’re like my grandma. Can I live with you?”
Those moments stitched me back together when the rest of the job was tearing me apart.

But this year, something broke for good.
More violence.
More fear.
Chairs hurled. Threats muttered.
Our counselor quit in October.
By November, substitutes stopped coming.
And me? I felt invisible.
Like a relic in a system that no longer believed in what I had to give.

Today, I peeled the last faded drawings off my walls. Some were older than my students’ parents.
In the back of a drawer, I found a card from 1995.
“Thank you for loving me even when I was bad.”
I cried right there, surrounded by empty desks.

There was no farewell assembly.
No gold watch.
Just a hurried handshake from the new principal, eyes on his phone as he called me “Ma’am.”

I left behind my sticker box. My rocking chair. My patience that somehow lasted longer than my paycheck.
But I carried every memory of every child who ever looked at me with trust, wonder, or relief.

I don’t know what comes next.
Maybe I’ll shelve books at the library.
Maybe I’ll plant tomatoes.
Maybe I’ll just sit on my porch, sipping tea, missing a world that felt softer.

Because I do miss it.
I miss when parents and teachers stood shoulder to shoulder.
When “education” meant raising humans, not chasing numbers.

So if you know a teacher—past or present—don’t thank them with apples or mugs.
Thank them with respect. With kindness. With your voice saying, “I see what you’ve carried.”

Because in a world that moved on without them…
They stayed.
They stood.
And they remembered every child this world wanted to forget.

👉 If this story moved you, share it forward. Somewhere, a teacher needs to know their light still matters.

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Look yummy 🤤

My favorite childhood ice cream, I made it vegan 🌱 🩷

Ingredients Ice Cream

(13 oz) silk vegan whipping cream

(11 oz) sweetened condensed coconut milk

1 tablespoon vanilla extract

¼ teaspoon salt

(¼ cup) freeze-dried strawberry powder

Shortcake Crumble

(10-ounce) boxes of “Back To Nature, golden crème sandwich cookies”

1 cup freeze-dried strawberries

2 tablespoons vegan unsalted butter, melted

21/06/2025

They want it but then they don't, crazy

Most Boyfriends Don’t Want Love—They Want Mothering
They say they want a good woman.
But what they mean is:

“Cook for me.
Clean for me.
Listen to my problems…
…but don’t bring me yours.”

1. You Want Her Care—But Not Her Voice
You love when she holds you…
But flinch when she speaks truth.

You say she’s “nagging”
Any time she sets a boundary.

You expect her to soothe your wounds—
But call her “too much” when she asks for healing of her own.

2. You’re Not Building—You’re Draining
She’s the one:
– Texting you to eat
– Reminding you of appointments
– Holding space for your moods

But when she cries?
You say, “What now?”
Or worse—“You’re so dramatic.”

She’s not your mother.
She’s not your therapist.
She’s your partner.

Start acting like it.

3. You Don’t Want Partnership—You Want Parenting
You don’t want to grow.
You want comfort.

You don’t want feedback.
You want praise.

You don’t want equality.
You want emotional babysitting in a woman’s body.

Final Word: You Don’t Need a Girlfriend—You Need to Grow Up
She’s not breaking down because she’s unstable.
She’s breaking down because she’s exhausted.

Stop asking her to love you into maturity.

Grow yourself.
Meet her there.
Or let her go before she forgets how to breathe.

Credit: Liana J.