22/03/2024
What if we are stuck in a feedback loop? What AI is teaching us is that garbage in = garbage out, maybe that is the key to our joy?
Have you ever stopped to ask WHY you want that thing you think you need to 'make you happy'?
Whether it is being better on your bike, weight concerns, money concerns, relationship..you name it, the WHY is the key. Because these things are all feedback, they are not the goal but the result.
So if you are stuck in thinking that if you could ride better then you'd not have all the negative feelings when you don't make the corner, the rock, the hill, whatever it is. There will always be a harder corner, bigger rock, steeper hill.
WHY is that important? why do you need to be 10pds lighter, a million dollars richer, in the perfect relationship. That WHY is the goal. And when you hit that goal the rest is feedback!
If you can love yourself where you are at now, forgive and be thankful those things actually don't matter, and then just like they say, the moment you are not looking for the perfect man/women, is when they appear. It works for everything.
What would life be like if you were exactly where you need to be right now? How would you feel, behave, what actions would you take? Step into that now and let the feedback roll in.
With Love,
Tash.