NaTasha Aramis: Your Own It Coach

Home
NaTasha Aramis: Your Own It Coach

Helping multi-hyphenated women live, lead & dress like that girl. Fort Worth Carrie Bradshaw • Actress & Realtor
Lifestyle • Fashion • Beauty • Self Care

01/12/2025

Day 28… and today feels big in the best way.

I’m officially diving into the last stretch of my classes and also starting a new professional development course that’s going to elevate my career even more.
It’s giving focus, discipline, and grown-woman follow-through. 📚

But what makes this moment so meaningful is this:

I’m finally finishing what I started.
It took me a while because I chose to raise my family first to be present, to show up, to build, to pour into my kids and our life.
And I don’t regret a second of it.

But now?
It’s my turn.
And it feels good to keep a promise to myself that’s been sitting on my heart for years.

What makes this even sweeter is the timing:
My son graduates college next week.
My daughter graduates high school in May and heads off to college.
So yes — I’m planning to graduate BEFORE her. 😂We love a motivated household.

It feels good to grow as a family…
to elevate together…
to show my kids — and myself — that it’s never too late to complete the things that matter.

Here’s to Day 28…
finishing what I started, honoring the season I’m in, and walking confidently into my next level. 💕💕

29/11/2025

Day 29 🎉🎉

Ready to live out every dream, knock out every goal I’ve set for myself one by one.

What I’m learning in this season is that I don’t have to attack everything all at once. That “strong Black woman do it all in one day” mentality?
Yeah… she’s retired.

I’m finally giving myself permission to break things down, pace myself, and focus on one goal at a time without guilt, without pressure, and without feeling like I’m behind.

Because the truth is:
💕consistency beats chaos
💕progress beats perfection
💕and tackling things one step at a time keeps me from burning out before I even start

Today I’m celebrating discipline.
Celebrating small wins.
Celebrating the version of me that’s committed to the long game.
And celebrating the mindset shift that says:
“You can do it all… just not all at once.”

Here’s to Day 29 focused, intentional, and knocking these goals out like a grown woman with clarity and a plan.

28/11/2025

Day 30 🎉🎉

And today feels like a “quiet build” kind of day.

I’m at a place in my life where I’m not rushing anything anymore not my healing, not my career moves, not my joy, not my elevation.
I’m learning that the best things don’t have to be loud… they just have to be aligned.

So while the world is shouting Black Friday, I’m over here choosing intention. God has been downloading, I’ve been building, and I can feel something powerful shifting in me.

I’m creating something for the woman who’s tired of pouring from an empty cup…

Who wants structure without burnout…

Clarity without chaos…

Elevation without losing herself.

No — it’s not dropping today.
But just know… it’s dropping soon.
And when it does, it’s going to require you to rise.

I’m proud of myself for building in silence until it’s ready. Here’s to alignment, maturity, and stepping into this next decade with purpose. 💋

26/11/2025

Day 32 💕

Soft.
Sensual.
Woman.
Me.

Learning that loving my body, my curves, my softness, and my femininity isn’t something to hide or apologize for.

This era?
Sexy, confident, grown, and fully aligned. 🤍

24/11/2025

Day 34 hit a little differently today 🙏🏾🙏🏾

With everything happening in the world…with people my age getting sick, fighting battles in silence, or passing away way too soon…with life reminding us how fragile and unpredictable all of this really is…

I’m just grateful.

Grateful for the things I have and grateful for the things God blocked me from having.
Grateful for blessings I prayed for,
and the ones God handed me quietly, without explanation.

Grateful for the light bulb moments that made me stop and say, “Alright sis, it’s time to make some adjustments.”
Grateful for the shifts I’m making for the better mentally, emotionally, spiritually, financially.

Grateful for my family the ones who love me, check on me, pray for me, and keep me grounded.
Grateful for my friends the ones who show up, hold space, bring joy, and make life feel lighter.

And yes…

I’m grateful for the people who removed themselves.
And the ones I had to intentionally walk away from.
Every adjustment, every exit, every separation…
it all protected my peace, redirected my energy,
and made room for who and what is truly aligned.

Grateful for breath.
For protection.
For purpose.
For peace.
For the chance to grow into the woman I’m becoming one choice at a time.

Day 34 is simply this:
Thank you, God… for all of it the seen and the unseen. 💕💕

23/11/2025

Day 35🎉🎉 and listen…

I woke up today realizing I’ve been so busy leveling up, healing, growing, unlearning, and being spiritually aligned…that I forgot who I was for a half of a second.

Not the mom.
Not the multifaceted entrepreneur.
Not the therapist’s favorite client 😜
Not the strong friend.
ME.

The woman who loves buying shoes.
The woman who will match a robe to her mood.
The woman who has 19,362 screenshots in her phone.
The woman who gives TEDx energy in regular conversations.
The woman who just wants peace, protein, and paychecks that line up with the life she always dreamed of.

Today I just tapped myself on the shoulder like:
“Ma’am… don’t forget you’re HER.”

So here’s to Day 35 the day I reminded myself I’m still fine asf & aging gracefully, still funny matter fact hilarious, still favored, still growing, and still on track for the soft, spacious, wealthy life I’m building. 💕💕

21/11/2025

Day 37🎉🎉

I am showing me something I didn’t always know how to say out loud:

I can’t pour into the world if I keep abandoning myself.

There’s a version of me that used to run on autopilot

handling every crisis(including the ones that weren’t “my” crisis)
being the dependable one,
the encourager,
the glue,
the strong friend,
the one people called because they knew I’d show up no matter what I was carrying.

But this season is different. This season is revealing the truth:

Strength isn’t in how much I can hold.
It’s in how much I’m finally willing to release.

The more I grow, the more I realize how many pieces of myself I’ve scattered trying to:

💕support everybody
💕be emotionally available for everyone
💕keep the peace
💕stay responsible
💕be the “strong one”
💕and hold things together that were breaking me apart

Day 37 is teaching me to call my energy back.
To reclaim the parts of myself I’ve given away without even realizing it.

Because the woman I’m becoming the woman stepping into 40 with clarity, softness, and intention deserves to be whole, not drained.

And there’s a deeper truth underneath all of this:

Protecting my energy IS protecting my legacy.
The world I’m building for my children, my loved ones, and the generations after me requires a version of me who is present, healthy, and grounded.

So Day 37 is about choosing myself without guilt.
Taking back my peace without apology. And reminding myself that saving me is the most powerful thing I can do for the people I love.

Here’s to Day 37 🎉🎉….calling my energy home so I can walk into 40 full, aligned, and ready.

20/11/2025

Day 38🎉
Learning to put the cape down…
not because I’m weak,
but because I’m finally choosing me.

For years I showed up everywhere, every event, every room, every role…..hoping being seen would mean being recognized.

But I’m unlearning that.
My worth isn’t tied to how much I carry or how many places I show up in.

Real strength?
Knowing when to step back, breathe, and save myself first.

Legacy starts with the woman I’m becoming. 💕💕💕

19/11/2025

Day 39 🎉🎉

Slipped into my robe this morning and instantly knew…“Yep, we’re keeping it cozy today.”

Turmeric + ginger tea. Hydration. Vitamins.
Therapy later.
Work-from-home vibes.
And a whole lot of grace.

40 is teaching me that discipline and softness can exist together.

And honestly?

That’s the era I’m stepping into.

Soft. Styled. Centered. 💕

Address

Website

http://www.ownitownyou.com/

Alerts

Be the first to know and let us send you an email when NaTasha Aramis: Your Own It Coach posts news and promotions. Your email address will not be used for any other purpose, and you can unsubscribe at any time.

Contact The Business

Send a message to NaTasha Aramis: Your Own It Coach:

Shortcuts

Want your business to be the top-listed Media Company?

Country:

City: