Joyce in France

05/05/2024

NAVIGATING DIVORCE IN FRANCE

It is possible for a stay-at-home parent in France to get a lawyer for divorce, even if she doesn't have her own income. In France, the court considers various factors when determining child custody, including the best interests of the child, rather than solely focusing on the financial situation of the parents.

Here are some key points to consider:

1.Legal Aid
If you're concerned about affording a lawyer, you can explore legal aid options available in France. Legal aid is designed to provide legal assistance to those who cannot afford it, based on their income and financial situation.

2.Child Custody
When determining child custody arrangements, the court will consider factors such as the relationship between each parent and the child, the child's wishes (if they are old enough to express them), the ability of each parent to provide for the child's needs (financially and emotionally), and any history of abuse or neglect. Being a stay-at-home mother does not automatically disqualify someone from getting custody of their children.

3.Parental Responsibilities:
Even if you don't have your own income, the court may still award you parental responsibilities and rights regarding your children. This could include decisions about their upbringing, education, and healthcare.

4.Legal Representation
Having a lawyer who specializes in family law can help ensure that your rights and interests are protected throughout the divorce process. Your lawyer can advocate on your behalf and help you navigate the complexities of the legal system.

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In France, there are several types of divorce, each with its own legal implications and requirements:

1. Consensual Divorce (Divorce par Consentement Mutuel)
This is the most common type of divorce in France. Both spouses agree to divorce and work together to establish the terms of the divorce, including division of assets, child custody arrangements, and any financial support. This type of divorce typically involves less conflict and can be finalized relatively quickly.

2.Divorce by Mutual Consent with the Assistance of Lawyers (Divorce par Consentement Mutuel avec Avocats)
Similar to consensual divorce, but each spouse has their own lawyer to advise them and ensure their rights are protected throughout the process.

3. Contentious Divorce (Divorce pour Faute) In cases where one spouse is at fault for the breakdown of the marriage, such as infidelity, abuse, or abandonment, the other spouse may file for a contentious divorce. This type of divorce can be more adversarial and typically involves a longer legal process.

4.Divorce for Separation of Bodies (Divorce pour Séparation de Corps)
This type of divorce allows couples to legally separate without officially dissolving their marriage. It can be an option for couples who have religious or personal reasons for not wanting to divorce but still need legal separation.

5.Divorce for Irretrievable Breakdown of Marriage (Divorce pour Altération Définitive du lien Conjugal)
If the marriage has irretrievably broken down and the spouses have been living apart for at least two years, either spouse can file for divorce under this category. Proof of the two years of separation is required.

It's essential to seek legal advice early in the divorce process to understand your rights and options regarding child custody, financial support, and other important matters.

-joyce

04/05/2024

10 SIGNS NA NAGLOLOKO ANG PARTNER MO

1. Kapag ang password ng phone nila ay mas mahirap pa kesa sa trigonometry.

2. May bagong "co-worker" na biglang naging "kasama sa trabaho" sa lahat ng out-of-town trips.

3. Lagi silang "busy" tuwing oras ng bonding ninyo, pero sa social media, updated sa lahat ng ganap.

4. Ang alibi nila ay mas mahaba pa kaysa sa kwento ng Lolo mo.

5. Biglang nagkaroon ng "hobbies" na hindi mo alam na interesado pala sila.

6. Parang nagiging Sherlock Holmes sila sa phone nila, pero pagdating sa inyo, biglang nakakalimutan.

7. Ang "late-night meetings" ay mas frequent pa kaysa sa date nights.

8. Ang pangalan ni "Babe" biglang naging "Boss" or "Bro" sa phone contacts nila.

9. Madalas nilang gamitin ang "delete history" button sa browser nila.

10. Kapag nagtanong ka ng "where are you?" ang sagot nila ay "sa bahay" pero ang background noise, parang club sa Cebu.

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04/05/2024

"FINDING COMFORT IN INSECURITY"

Feeling insecure is tough, but you deserve support. If your partner's reaction makes you feel worse, it's important to address it. Talk calmly about your feelings and set boundaries.

If they continue to yell or curse, consider whether this relationship is healthy for you. Remember, you deserve respect and kindness.

It's okay to seek help from friends, family, or a counselor. Putting your well-being first is not selfish. Trust your instincts and know that you have the strength to make choices that are best for you. You deserve love that uplifts and understands you.

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03/05/2024

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PARENTS

Parents epitomize strength in countless ways. They navigate challenges with unwavering resolve, sacrificing their own comfort for their children's well-being.

Their resilience in the face of adversity, endless love, and ceaseless dedication to nurturing and guiding their children shape them into pillars of strength, shaping the future generation with their wisdom and care.

The gladiolus flower symbolizes strength, moral integrity, and determination. Its tall, sturdy stem and vibrant blossoms convey resilience and inner strength, making it a popular choice in bouquets and floral arrangements for those who need encouragement or support.

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02/05/2024

Finding Strength

" A Journey of Love, Loss, and Resilience"

When I met him, I believed he was the final chapter in my love story, the man who would stand by me till the end. But life had other plans. After three beautiful children, the love we once shared faded into distant memories. Left with almost nothing after our separation, I faced the daunting task of rebuilding my life from scratch. Yet, in the midst of despair, I found an inner strength I never knew existed.

Determined to secure a future for my children and myself, I refused to succumb to defeat. Despite being in a foreign land without immediate family, I sought help from the right channels in France. I refused to tolerate any form of violence, knowing that my children deserved better.

Through the darkest days of separation, I persevered, holding onto hope like a lifeline. The battle was far from over, but with each obstacle I faced, I emerged stronger. Slowly, but surely, I began to rediscover joy and purpose in my new role as a single parent.

Though the journey ahead may be challenging, I face it with a renewed sense of determination and resilience. I am not just surviving; I am thriving, embracing the adventure of single parenthood in France with a smile on my face and love in my heart.

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02/05/2024

5 SIGNS OF AN UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

1. If your partner physically harms you, even if it's not frequent, it's a clear sign of abuse.

2. Constant criticism, belittling, or controlling behavior that undermines your self-worth.

3.Your partner isolates you from friends, family, or support networks, leaving you feeling dependent and alone.

4.Your partner controls your finances, limiting your access to money or forcing you to account for every cent spent.

5.Feeling constantly on edge or afraid of your partner's reactions, whether it's anger, intimidation, or retaliation.












-Joyce

01/05/2024

FIVE ADVICES TO A SINGLE PARENT

1.Make sure to take care of yourself physically and emotionally. Eat healthy foods, get enough rest, and find ways to relax and unwind when you can.

2.Don't be afraid to ask for help from friends, family, or support groups when you need it. You don't have to do everything alone.

3.Try not to worry about things you can't change. Instead, focus on what you can control and take small steps forward each day.

4.Celebrate the little wins each day, like getting through a tough moment or making your child smile. Every small victory counts.

5. Try to stay positive and remember that you're doing the best you can. Give yourself credit for all the hard work you're putting in, and know that things will get better with time.

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01/05/2024

In France, May 1st is like a party for flowers, especially for Lily of the Valley. It's like a flower fiesta! 🌼

French folks think it brings good luck, happiness, and love. It's like a tiny, fragrant lucky charm! They celebrate by giving bunches of Lily of the Valley to friends and family. It's like a flowery hug! 🤗

For a Filipina, stumbling upon this tradition is like discovering a magical floral treasure chest! So, in France, May 1st isn't just a day; it's a bouquet of joy and luck! 🎉

-Joyce

"Hi everyone! 👋 Single Filipina mom navigating life in France. Join me as I embrace the journey of motherhood, culture, and resilience. 🌟 "

01/05/2024

Hey, folks! So, picture this: me, a single mom from the Philippines, tackling life's rollercoaster in sunny France with four kiddos, one of whom is a superhero in his own right, battling severe autism.

Living by the beach sounds like paradise, right? Well, let me tell you, with waves crashing and kids splashing, chaos is our middle name!

But hey, amidst the daily whirlwind, we find laughter in spilled ice cream and sandcastle mishaps. Life's a wild ride, but we're strapped in tight, embracing every twist and turn with a smile and a sprinkle of Filipino resilience. Cheers to the crazy journey!


-Joyce

01/05/2024

"Bonjour! Welcome to my vlog! I'm a proud Filipina single mother living in the beautiful country of France. Join me as I navigate the joys and challenges of raising a family in a foreign land, while embracing the rich cultural tapestry that surrounds us. Let's embark on this journey together!"