05/03/2024
I divorced the Rich Man
A woman claimed to have divorced her wealthy husband in Juba, because she can't see him for three months as he has 25 other wives.
When asked what about the money? She said the money aren't the issue at all, but being a husband means being in bed with you when you want him.
She continues saying others wives of her husband are staying because of the money and they ended up sleeping with drivers, helpers and employees of the man, and I don't want that kind of life. I had remained faithful to him till I divorced him and now I am happy with my new man even though we don't have money.
How did you approach him to ask him to let go of you, we asked?
I simply went to meet him in his office and I frankly told him that he is a good man, but not being available for me can turn me into unfaithful woman, so I want a divorce, because you cannot let go with all those wives of yours. I can't demand you to shrink your empire because of me which will.make me a selfish person and I am not. He simply responded that, he understands my feelings and will think about. He told me, you are one of the best wive. Two weeks later, he called and said to me, thank you for being honest with me and I will let you go because I want you to be happy and please keep everything you have, the house, cars and the money you have in your bank account because of my children. I want you to just take good care of them, and I am sure you will do it to my expectations. He said, my lawyer will file all the paperwork and when they are ready, you will sign and then you are not longer my wife, go live a happy life. That is how it went down, and indeed, two weeks later the papers were ready, and I signed them. Then I went to court I acquired my divorce papers, and wow, I am finally free from my nightmare.
Did you take money and any property from him? She answered, as he promised that he'll let me keep the two vehicles, the house and my two shops plus the money in my bank account because of the two children we have in 6 years.
She continues, I should have had more kids if we do meet regularly, but because I don't see him much, that is why I have only two children with him.
Can you tell us how much in your bank account? She declined saying that it is confidential and will remain that way and he doesn't even know.
Do you swear the two kids are his biological kids? She strongly replied, I swear that they are his because I had never seen anyone else since I was his wife. I believe most of the children he has with others wives are not his and for sure my two children are his biological kids.
Was he a good man, we asked?
She firmly answered, yes he is a good and kind man and I only left him because I think we are lying to each other that we are married. She continues had I stayed with him, I will reached the stage where I believe in money and not in love then I will start cheating like most of his wives are doing. I was raised better as my mother said, don't force yourself in something you don't like because you are making yourself suffering if you do. So, I didn't want to suffer because of the money, that si why I left.
Do you allow him to see his children?
Yes , they must keep in touch with their father because I don't want them to blame me with disconnect when they are grown people.
Thank you so much for your time, indeed money isn't everything, there are a lot of things that are way more valuable than money itself and can't be bought using money.