13/03/2025
‘My house would never get like that’
Cool story bro. I’m not you. Some people deal with depression, anxiety, or just can’t today. Some days I don’t clean, I don’t cook. The kids eat out. I let things go including myself. So many women pull the ‘I could never I have to clean that’s gross’ well good for you. Some of us can’t. Some of us can’t even get out of bed, and when we do it’s a battle. But we can’t talk about it. Because when we do, there’s judgement. You’re looked down on. Told do better or do more. You have to keep going, that’s what a ‘real’ woman does.
If you come over to my house, and it’s a mess, maybe it’s a bad day, or a bad week. Maybe just ask if I’m okay or if you can help.
Let’s stop judging women, mothers, on what their house looks like. You don’t live there. Why do you care so much? If you’re doing the best you can it’s enough. If those kids are happy and loved, that’s what matters most. The mess will get cleaned up, and the world will keep spinning.
We’re all out here doing the best we can. Let’s support each other 💙
